1) My name is Adelusi Bisola Ayomide. A quick translation of my names: Bisola means “born into wealth,” while Ayomide means “my joy has come.” But my mom calls me Bibi as a nickname.

2) My favorite food is bread. Yess, I know you’re probably wondering, “Why bread?” 😭 Bread is so versatile. You can eat it with stew, sardine, groundnuts, coconut, eggs, beans, moi moi, akara……you can even toast it. But ew, I definitely don’t recommend dipping it in your tea lol. Soo yeah, out of all of them, my favorite has to be bread and akara….I also love plantain and beans too

3)I recently just started playing sudoku and honestly I'm enjoying every bit of it

4)I also started learning Spanish I've posted something about it ...I'm on my 19th day streak on Duolingo

5)I loveeeeeee music ....music is more than just sounds or lyrics too me music is literally my therapy it lifts my mood up when I'm down recently I've been listening to Billie eilish, tyla,Gigi perez, Ed Sheeran e.t.c…… I highly recommend sailor song by Gigi perez

6) I love taking walks too it something I recently just got into and honestly it's a great way to start your day

7) Yess I'm an introvert too I wrote an article on it you should check it out...I love my own space I like to be on my own I like my own silence some may call it boredom but I'll call it solitude I've learned to enjoy my own company and tbh it's a really good thing

8) Yess my favorite app i use mostly Pinterest, Spotify , YouTube and substack and my note app too

9) I'm proudly from ekiti but I was born and brought up in lagos

10) I'm the third born of six children

11)I lovee drumming and as a girl it is a huge flex for mee being able to drum

12) I won't say I love to draw it's something I do once in a blue moon but I draw sometimes

13) I love watching vlogs, and I honestly can’t wait to start making my own too! 🥹

14)I’m 6ft tall, and I’m honestly proud of my height because it’s pretty rare. I definitely stand out in a crowd, and I get compliments about my height almost every time I go out.

15) I’m Yoruba, and I’m from Ekiti.

16)My favorite colors are black, dark grey and burgundy. I've always loved darker colors.

17) One song I'll never get tired of is Sailor Song by Gigi Perez. There's just something about that song. It sounds new every time I play it, like I've never heard it before.

18) My biggest pet peeve is when someone leaves me unread, then posts on their status and tells me they were busy.

19) I enjoy watching shows, especially seasonal ones. I honestly like following the characters and seeing what happens to them. I don't really watch movies that much.

20) Something I've always wanted to learn is how to play the guitar. I honestly wish I could play at least 5 instruments well, but I will someday. It's on my bucket list. I can play the drum set now, though, so that's 1 out of 5 checked. 😭

21) One place I really want to visit is somewhere with a beautiful view of the sunrise and sunset. I feel like it would be so mind-blowing to see.

22)Something that instantly makes me happy is being around people who understand the way I work or just people who get me sha. I don't keep a lot of friends.

23) I'm weirdly obsessed with music because why nottt.

24)A goal I'm currently working on is becoming a better version of myself.

MY OPINIONS NOBODY ASKED FOR

25)Being religious or going to church every day doesn't automatically mean you're a good person. I think the way you treat people matters more than how often you go to church.

26)Love is proved by actions, not just words.

27)Judging other people when you're not any better is insane.

28)Love shouldn't be forced. You can't make someone love you or make yourself love someone.

29) I don't think it's good to make people the centre of your life. If you can't enjoy yourself or do anything interesting without having people around, then that's something you should work on. It's okay to enjoy your own company too.

30) Life is a race, but we're all running at our own pace. Just because you started the same thing with someone and they made it first doesn't mean you're unlucky or doing something wrong. Maybe it's just not your time yet.

And that's 30 things about meee! 😂 I hope you enjoyed reading this as much as I enjoyed putting it together. 🫶🏽

Whenever people hear the word introvert, they automatically assume you're shy, antisocial, or lonely. I honestly don't know why that's always the first conclusion. Being an introvert doesn't mean I hate people. It doesn't mean I don't enjoy spending time with others. It simply means I enjoy my own company, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Yes, I'm an introvert.

I enjoy being alone. Not because I have nobody, but because I genuinely find peace in it. I don't always need to be surrounded by people to feel happy. Sometimes all I need is my music, a good movie, something to write about, or complete silence. Those moments allow me to breathe, think, and just exist without feeling like I have to impress anyone.

I'm the type of person who observes more than I speak. I like listening. I notice little things people usually ignore—the way someone suddenly becomes quiet, the excitement in someone's voice when they're talking about something they love, or the fake smiles people force just to seem okay. Before I say anything, I think about it first. If I don't have anything meaningful to add, I'd rather stay quiet than speak just because everyone else is.

One thing people don't understand is that being quiet doesn't mean I have nothing to say. Sometimes I just don't feel the need to say everything that's on my mind. I've never believed that the loudest person in the room is always the wisest. Silence has never made me uncomfortable. If anything, it's where I feel the most at peace.

I won't lie though—I overthink... a lot. Sometimes it's exhausting. I'll replay conversations in my head, wondering if I said the wrong thing or if I could have handled a situation differently. I think deeply about things most people would probably forget after five minutes. It's one of my flaws, but it's also part of who I am. Overthinking has made me more careful with my words and more understanding of other people's feelings.

I know a lot of people, but I only have a few people I can genuinely call my friends. And honestly, I'm okay with that. I'd rather have people who truly understand me than have a hundred friendships that don't mean anything. I've never been interested in collecting people just for the sake of saying I know everyone.

When people see me alone, they sometimes assume I'm lonely. But there's a huge difference between loneliness and solitude. Loneliness feels empty. Solitude feels peaceful. I don't call it loneliness—I call it choosing myself for a while. There's something comforting about enjoying your own company without feeling like something is missing.

Being an introvert has also taught me something important: not everyone has to understand you, and that's okay. Some people will always think you're too quiet, too reserved, or too distant. Others might mistake your silence for pride or think you're unfriendly simply because you don't talk much. But I've realized that I don't have to explain my personality to everyone I meet. The people who truly get me never ask me to become someone else.

For a long time, I wondered if I needed to be more outgoing just to fit in. I thought maybe I had to be louder, more social, or more talkative because that's what the world seems to celebrate. But the older I get, the more I realize I don't have to change myself just because someone else expects me to. There's nothing wrong with being quiet. There's nothing wrong with enjoying your own company. There's nothing wrong with finding comfort in silence.

So yes, I'm an introvert.

And if you ask me, I'd rather stay true to who I am than pretend to be someone else just to make other people comfortable. Being an introvert isn't a weakness, and it's definitely not something I need to outgrow. It's simply a part of me. And honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way.

You said love was eternity, and that lust would eventually fade away. I believed you. I put all my trust in you. I thought you would never leave because you said it was love, not lust.

Then our walls started crumbling.

I tried fixing it. I kept asking myself why it couldn’t work out. A million questions ran through my mind. I told myself that every relationship has its ups and downs, because what is a relationship without challenges?

I knew we would face difficulties, and I thought I was prepared for them. But I never realized it was one-sided all along.

Love takes two people to build something real. A divided kingdom cannot stand, and a divided ship cannot float — eventually, it sinks.

I tried patching us back together, but it didn’t work. The ship had been built on lust instead of love. It was only attraction, not something meant to last.

It was the kind that fades away unexpectedly.

And maybe that was the saddest part of all.

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