<script data-pm-proxy="intercept"></script><?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[The Heart is Open for Business]]></title><description><![CDATA[A Queer Middle-Aged Author Looking for Love, Meaning, and a Path Through Self-Publishing. Writing updates + personal musings and inspirations.]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!7q8Z!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa4527edc-4e7f-4622-970c-4a8bfde339c6_738x743.jpeg</url><title>The Heart is Open for Business</title><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2026 17:12:44 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="/__u/bonniesolomon.substack.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[bonniesolomon@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[bonniesolomon@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[bonniesolomon@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[bonniesolomon@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[My Odyssey with The Odyssey]]></title><description><![CDATA[What Nolan&#8217;s Wounded Hero Understands About Change]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/my-odyssey-with-the-odyssey</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/my-odyssey-with-the-odyssey</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2026 18:20:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!bzDg!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc79f9da4-6792-4a47-a386-d59d90af367a_3000x4000.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Spoilers ahead.</strong></p><p>Of course I wanted to see <em>The Odyssey</em>. I write fantasy novels, spent years working as a studio executive, and now coach writers through their own versions of the hero&#8217;s journey. Homer&#8217;s <em>Odyssey</em> is arguably the most famous of them all.</p><p>As a progressive, bisexual, spiritually minded, anti-war feminist, I was also curious to see what Christopher Nolan would do with a 2,800-year-old epic built around war, masculinity, power, fidelity, and homecoming&#8212;one that, like most of us, I hadn&#8217;t read since high school.</p><p>I avoided trailers and reviews so I could go in fresh. I was aware of the casting controversy but dismissed it as culture-war nonsense (I was thrilled to see the casting of Lupita Nyong&#8217;o and Elliot Page). And because the movie felt like an event, I corralled a group of friends for the adventure. Fun friends. Friends willing to dress like ancient Greeks.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!bzDg!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc79f9da4-6792-4a47-a386-d59d90af367a_3000x4000.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!bzDg!, /__u/bonniesolomon.substack.com/w_424, /__u/bonniesolomon.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bonniesolomon.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bonniesolomon.substack.com/q_auto:good, /__u/bonniesolomon.substack.com/fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc79f9da4-6792-4a47-a386-d59d90af367a_3000x4000.jpeg 424w, /__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!bzDg!, /__u/bonniesolomon.substack.com/w_848, /__u/bonniesolomon.substack.com/c_limit, 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The historic theater where we were supposed to see it&#8212;one co-owned by Nolan&#8212;had an air-conditioning failure two hours before showtime, so we were rerouted to another theater and arrived just in time.</p><p>Fortunately, none of the ticket-takers were cannibalistic Cyclopes.</p><p>Once we finally settled into our seats and made sure we had emptied our bladders (it&#8217;s a looooong movie), the film quickly shifted the idea of an &#8220;odyssey&#8221; from an adventurous journey into something darker: a story about what desperate people become on the way home. One of the film&#8217;s recurring questions, raised by Penelope at the beginning, is whether the mysterious, marauding &#8220;people from the sea&#8221; will reach Ithaca and contribute to the collapse of the Bronze Age world.</p><p>Ultimately, those people turn out to be Odysseus and his crew&#8212;men making destructive, immoral choices in their desperate quest to return home. After ten years of fighting at Troy, they abandon <em>xenia</em>, the sacred obligation to offer protection and dignity to strangers and guests. Nolan broadens that ancient principle into something like a moral compact. Treat others with the compassion and respect you would hope to receive yourself.</p><p>Odysseus, the great trickster, helps lead the way into moral catastrophe. In Nolan&#8217;s telling, it&#8217;s his idea to turn a supposed offering&#8212;the Trojan horse&#8212;into an instrument of war. The plan is &#8220;successful,&#8221; assuming you consider winning a war and killing a shitload of people in the process a success.</p><p>For an interesting analysis of Odysseus as a trickster, and what that archetype might say about our current moment, I recommend <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=livIbni7x7o">Ezra Klein&#8217;s discussion here</a>.</p><p>The shame and guilt Odysseus carries afterward form the heart of Nolan&#8217;s story, although Homer and Nolan depict their hero somewhat differently. For the record, I don&#8217;t need a film adaptation to be wholly faithful to its source. New interpretations of classic works can reveal as much about the era adapting them as the era that created them. I once read a description of Homer&#8217;s Odysseus as &#8220;a prick who reluctantly learns humility.&#8221; Nolan&#8217;s version feels more like a fundamentally decent man being forced to take responsibility for the devastation he has helped cause.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!K5sD!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc108b536-9e66-4940-9281-7228ce98162e_3024x4032.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!K5sD!, /__u/bonniesolomon.substack.com/w_424, /__u/bonniesolomon.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bonniesolomon.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bonniesolomon.substack.com/q_auto:good, 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film makes other significant changes as well. Homer&#8217;s Circe is a dangerous and seductive sorceress who transforms Odysseus&#8217;s men and later becomes his lover and host. Nolan reimagines her as an assault survivor with a very different agenda. Homer&#8217;s Calypso rescues Odysseus but also detains him for years despite his longing to return home. In the film, she functions less as a captor and more as someone helping him confront and process his trauma. Athena, meanwhile, becomes a personification of Odysseus&#8217;s conscience, appearing with the face of a young priestess slaughtered by his men during the fall of Troy. Personally, I liked these choices.</p><p>As a storyteller, I&#8217;m drawn to Big Ideas. Some authors begin a novel with a character, a world, or a plot twist they can&#8217;t stop thinking about. I usually begin with a theme or a question: Why do human beings behave as we do? Why is existence structured this way? And can any of it be changed?</p><p>Nolan asks similarly expansive questions here. What makes a civilization worth saving? How can a world on the brink of collapse change course? What kind of hero does that world need? Those are potent questions for a society that once again feels terrifyingly close to the edge. Anything that persuades a mass audience to wrestle with them earns a thumbs-up from me.</p><p>But the moment that resonated most deeply with my own writing concerned trust&#8212;and the terrifying necessity of letting go. Odysseus spends much of the story trying to force his way home through cunning, intellect, deceit, and sheer will. Yet it is only when he finally surrenders control, trusts the gods, builds a raft, and throws himself into the ocean that he finds his way back to Ithaca. To be clear, I&#8217;m not religious. But I do believe there&#8217;s something profoundly spiritual about having the courage to stop forcing an outcome and allow something larger to move through you.</p><p>Sometimes effort is necessary, sometimes persistence is heroic, and sometimes our determination to control everything becomes the very thing keeping us lost.</p><p>Did I have quibbles with the film? Of course. It felt unnecessarily long in places, and there were a few scenes I could have done without. The lessons Odysseus learns also felt somewhat less potent after watching him slaughter all the suitors at the end. But I suppose there was only so much Nolan could&#8212;or wanted to&#8212;change about Homer.</p><p>I did appreciate that Odysseus doesn&#8217;t just reclaim his throne upon returning home, as he does in the poem. Instead, he&#8217;s forced into exile with Penelope, while Telemachus becomes king. The old hero can&#8217;t just pick up his former life. Change has consequences.</p><p>One of my own writing mentors used to say that all great stories are about wounded heroes who learn to change. That&#8217;s certainly true of many of my favorite stories, and of the stories I want to tell. I love that Nolan&#8217;s film is creating renewed interest in Homer and inspiring people to discuss these juicy, uncomfortable questions about what it means to be human. For me, there&#8217;s no greater honor than hearing that something I wrote moved someone, made them think, or even pissed them off.</p><p>Great.</p><p>Stories are meant to entertain us, but also to move us, unsettle us, and&#8212;occasionally&#8212;help us imagine that people and civilizations can choose differently. Nolan&#8217;s <em>Odyssey</em> did that for me. 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url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!2LvZ!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb77178ac-2771-4490-90c4-31160320c512_1350x1688.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s hard to believe the day has finally arrived, but <em>The Midnight Croissant </em>has officially been released into the world, and I couldn&#8217;t be more excited! If you&#8217;d like to support me and the book, <strong>I&#8217;d be ever-so-grateful if you&#8217;d consider grabbing the ebook on Amazon <a href="https://books2read.com/midnightcroissant">HERE</a></strong>.</p><p><strong>It&#8217;s only $0.99</strong> - my special launch price today through April 7th - in an effort to&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[What It Feels Like To Birth A Book Baby]]></title><description><![CDATA[And updates on my latest one, now LIVE on Kickstarter!]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/what-it-feels-like-to-birth-a-book</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/what-it-feels-like-to-birth-a-book</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2026 18:00:27 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!U9-t!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fe3deb905-375a-42fe-9f4a-aa5593385e64_3000x2000.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Update: I wrote the following post a few days ago, before the world exploded (again). I just want to say that while it feels a little awkward to talk about my book when there&#8217;s so much happening that we need to pay attention to, ultimately I decided to do so because my intention is always to write the kind of world I want to live into, and <em>The Midnight &#8230;</em></p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Taking Back Hope: A Sexy Start to 2026]]></title><description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve always considered myself an optimistic person in general - not in a bury-your-sand-in-the-sand, rainbows and unicorns kind of way (though I do appreciate a good unicorn).]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/taking-back-hope-a-sexy-start-to</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/taking-back-hope-a-sexy-start-to</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2026 16:50:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!-mO0!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F71adb05c-2ab0-4422-b681-1e3abe0b939c_1485x2304.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve always considered myself an optimistic person in general - not in a bury-your-sand-in-the-sand, rainbows and unicorns kind of way (though I do appreciate a good unicorn). More in a glass-half-full way. Even when the world throws a curveball like 2025, I tend to take the attitude of &#8220;accept what is, find the good you can do, and focus on that.&#8221;</p><p>Meanw&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Three Years, One Color-Coded Plan]]></title><description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been doing a lot of thinking lately about what it means to build a sustainable creative life&#8212;not just a book, not just a launch, not just a year&#8212;but a career. Because that&#8217;s the dream: to have a sustainable career as an author.]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/three-years-one-color-coded-plan</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/three-years-one-color-coded-plan</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2025 21:00:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!rOuw!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F777fef12-0b20-45db-8dc9-3669cca8ddf9_1620x2025.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been doing a lot of thinking lately about what it means to build a sustainable creative life&#8212;not just a book, not just a launch, not just a year&#8212;but a <em>career.</em> Because that&#8217;s the dream: to have a sustainable career as an author. Accordingly, I&#8217;ve spent a lot of time researching, consulting, writing, querying, publishing, marketing, fundraising, buil&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Lessons from the City of Love]]></title><description><![CDATA[Croissants, Burlesque, and a Fresh Perspective]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/lessons-from-the-city-of-love</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/lessons-from-the-city-of-love</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2025 02:54:47 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!P2Sq!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2eb1fa08-0690-45ae-9bbb-f1b275719780_3000x4000.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve just returned from my first - and if all goes well, not my last - trip to Paris. Eight days of mother-daughter bonding, cultural exploration, and book research to boot (for those who don&#8217;t know, my second novel, <em>Pearly Gates and the Midnight Croissant</em>, is set in Paris and will be released in May). For eight glorious days, I didn&#8217;t think about adver&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Indie Book Publishing Part 2]]></title><description><![CDATA[A recording from Bonnie Solomon and Amy Gabrielle's live video]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/indie-book-publishing-part-2</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/indie-book-publishing-part-2</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2025 00:54:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/170803878/0b8e5ab4fb13d7fa79635e9bd985452c.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi everyone! Here&#8217;s the recording of our latest Substack Live, in which Amy and I discuss the aftermath of publishing my first novel, <em>Pearly Gates</em>. <br><br>Topics include: finding the balance between writing what you love and writing for the market, advertising options for indie authors and what works best when you only have one book vs. one or more series, how different social media platforms are useful for different kinds of advertising, how views and followers doesn&#8217;t necessarily translate into sales, why I&#8217;m changing my book cover for <em>Pearly Gates and the Midnight Croissant</em>, the value of patience while building an author platform, and how to keep the dream alive when it all seems like a lot.<br><br>It was a great conversation. Thanks, Amy! &#10084;&#65039;</p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">The Heart is Open for Business is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p></p><div class="install-substack-app-embed install-substack-app-embed-web" data-component-name="InstallSubstackAppToDOM"><img class="install-substack-app-embed-img" src="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!7q8Z!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa4527edc-4e7f-4622-970c-4a8bfde339c6_738x743.jpeg"><div class="install-substack-app-embed-text"><div class="install-substack-app-header">Get more from Bonnie Solomon in the Substack app</div><div class="install-substack-app-text">Available for iOS and Android</div></div><a href="/__u/substack.com/app/app-store-redirect?utm_campaign=app-marketing&amp;utm_content=author-post-insert&amp;utm_source=bonniesolomon" target="_blank" class="install-substack-app-embed-link"><button class="install-substack-app-embed-btn button primary">Get the app</button></a></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[I Wrote a Whole-Ass Book: Now What?]]></title><description><![CDATA[A sneak peek of Pearly Gates in Paris...]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/i-wrote-a-whole-ass-book-now-what</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/i-wrote-a-whole-ass-book-now-what</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2025 16:29:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/a93419cf-2932-4829-8146-0d4aa5fc20ea_1080x751.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So&#8230;I published a novel (<a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0DZ4HRH4G?ref_=dbs_m_mng_rwt_calw_tkin_0&amp;storeType=ebooks&amp;qid=1753632582&amp;sr=8-1">Pearly Gates</a>) in May. Most of you know this. I&#8217;m very proud of it. The story reflects a lot of themes that are important to me, and it&#8217;s gotten great reviews and even won an award. </p><p>In order to make it happen, I crammed everything I could learn about indie publishing into three months, and I did all within my power to get the book&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Amy Gabrielle and Bonnie Solomon on Indie Publishing...Live and In Person!]]></title><description><![CDATA[A recording from Bonnie Solomon and Amy Gabrielle's live video]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/amy-gabrielle-and-bonnie-solomon</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/amy-gabrielle-and-bonnie-solomon</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2025 21:18:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/164114408/9d9e82d7860ecd7cf7fc34cb792ac1ca.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you to everyone who tuned into my first Substack Live, and thanks especially to Amy for being such a great host. If you&#8217;re an indie author curious about the ins/outs and process of self-publishing, or if you just like me and Amy and want to see us shoot the shit, you might want to check this one out. &#10084;&#65039;</p><div class="install-substack-app-embed install-substack-app-embed-web" data-component-name="InstallSubstackAppToDOM"><img class="install-substack-app-embed-img" src="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!7q8Z!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa4527edc-4e7f-4622-970c-4a8bfde339c6_738x743.jpeg"><div class="install-substack-app-embed-text"><div class="install-substack-app-header">Get more from Bonnie Solomon in the Substack app</div><div class="install-substack-app-text">Available for iOS and Android</div></div><a href="/__u/substack.com/app/app-store-redirect?utm_campaign=app-marketing&amp;utm_content=author-post-insert&amp;utm_source=bonniesolomon" target="_blank" class="install-substack-app-embed-link"><button class="install-substack-app-embed-btn button primary">Get the app</button></a></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[💖 You Have My Heart for $0.99]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why your tiny purchase and quick review mean everything to this indie debut]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/you-have-my-heart-for-099</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/you-have-my-heart-for-099</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2025 14:32:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!NzKW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2d841384-5591-4c0c-9e23-39ba2ec27b06_4000x3000.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey friends,</p><p>Most of you know my debut novel, <em>Pearly Gates</em>, is about to launch. I&#8217;ll share more about the twenty year journey it took to get here in my next post, but I wanted to take some today today to pull back the curtain and get really-real about the life of an indie author. The reality is, the average self-published author only sells 250 books. Thi&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[It's Unboxing Day!]]></title><description><![CDATA[Click to watch the big reveal...]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/its-unboxing-day</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/its-unboxing-day</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2025 22:04:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/099d78b8-cacb-4993-8662-446829ad40b1_1080x1395.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the most exciting days in a new author&#8217;s career is the one where that first shipment of books arrives. Well, folks, today is that day, and I wanted to share it with you! These particular copies are for Kickstarter backers, but the book releases on Amazon (e-book, print, and audiobook) on June 1st! </p><p>I&#8217;m hoping to get as many people as possible to <strong>b&#8230;</strong></p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why I Wrote about a Drag Queen]]></title><description><![CDATA[And other updates on Pearly Gates]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/why-i-wrote-about-a-drag-queen</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/why-i-wrote-about-a-drag-queen</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 05 Apr 2025 15:12:55 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!kcim!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8e35a543-17b8-4bd1-8f59-77aa3c0c432b_1080x819.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last night, I watched a powerful episode of <em>RuPaul&#8217;s Drag Race</em>. It was the annual &#8220;makeover&#8221; episode, and in this one, the final five contestants were surprised with visits from one of their parents, who they would be putting in drag for the first time. The gesture was a public show of support from the parents, and it was incredibly moving &#8211; especially &#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[God, RuPaul, and F**king UPS]]></title><description><![CDATA[In which I attempt to interpret the wiles of the universe...]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/god-rupaul-and-fking-ups</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/god-rupaul-and-fking-ups</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 21 Mar 2025 22:23:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!q_wE!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F62f8f4ff-7d05-4310-9049-d16d7ab9319d_2545x3184.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fate? Coincidence? I sure as hell don&#8217;t know. I&#8217;ll just tell you the story and leave it up to you to decide.</p><p>Most of you know that I wrote a novel. Some of you know the protagonist is a drag queen spirit guide, and that my biggest inspiration was RuPaul. When I initially learned that Ru was doing a book tour for his (great) memoir, &#8220;The House of Hidden M&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[PEARLY GATES Kickstarter is Live!]]></title><description><![CDATA[And a drumroll for my cover reveal...]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/pearly-gates-kickstarter-is-live</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/pearly-gates-kickstarter-is-live</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2025 17:03:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!m9YH!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fe2207dba-c465-4d79-a177-a410bc8d316b_1600x2560.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Substack friends! Today&#8217;s the day &#8211; my <strong>Kickstarter campaign for </strong><em><strong>Pearly Gates</strong></em> <strong>is officially live!</strong>  As I continue to ride the edge between excitement and anxiety, preparing myself for everything that comes with sharing my baby with the world, I am bolstered by the loving support I&#8217;ve received from this community, and I know I&#8217;m in good hands. &#10084;&#65039;</p><p>So&#8230;I&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[June 3rd Book Launch!]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Inside Scoop on my Change of Heart + Sneak Peek of the Book]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/june-3rd-book-launch</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/june-3rd-book-launch</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 12 Feb 2025 17:43:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4-Wr!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3278857f-971f-46d5-a70d-da884df6f627_959x1178.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s amazing how quickly my perspective can shift when I stop trying to force-feed the way I think it should go.</p><p>For years, I was resistant to the idea of being an indie author &#8211; mostly because I&#8217;d heard stories from people who had bad experiences with &#8220;hybrid&#8221; publishers, or who only sold a handful of books. I wanted a Big Five Publisher with deep pocke&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[You Cannot Kill My Joy]]></title><description><![CDATA[A Writer's Manifesto]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/you-cannot-kill-my-joy</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/you-cannot-kill-my-joy</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jan 2025 17:31:07 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!R588!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F87759b6c-d8ca-4b33-8b67-b9dffa43ec1c_2048x2048.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank god I finally committed to a regular meditation practice because DAMN &#8211; as if the wildfires aren&#8217;t enough, yesterday it came out that the new administration will only recognize two genders and is more or less planning to roll back all legislation promoting diversity, inclusivity, and safety for marginalized people.</p><p>It&#8217;s not like I&#8217;m surprised &#8211; we &#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Love Letter to Los Angeles]]></title><description><![CDATA[I imagine that everyone who reads this blog knows I live in Los Angeles (many of you do, too).]]></description><link>https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/love-letter-to-los-angeles</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bonniesolomon.substack.com/p/love-letter-to-los-angeles</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bonnie Solomon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Jan 2025 20:58:16 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Xu00!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff84bcac5-affb-4378-8683-85871dd6845d_4000x3000.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I imagine that everyone who reads this blog knows I live in Los Angeles (many of you do, too). Which means you probably know something about what my week has been like. Here is what I posted on Facebook yesterday:</p><p><em>Waking up each morning to see what else has burned is heartbreaking. Grateful to be safe and supported, and to be able to offer shelter to tho&#8230;</em></p>
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