<script data-pm-proxy="intercept"></script><?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[BRAVE MATERIAL]]></title><description><![CDATA[A publication for brave brands and artists. For those with the guts to create the work that matters.]]></description><link>https://bravematerial.substack.com</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vaQ0!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fd8a96372-c325-4e58-847c-fd18b982ea3d_474x474.png</url><title>BRAVE MATERIAL</title><link>https://bravematerial.substack.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2026 08:50:19 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="/__u/bravematerial.substack.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Connie Hollyer]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[bravematerial@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[bravematerial@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Connie Hollyer]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Connie Hollyer]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[bravematerial@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[bravematerial@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Connie Hollyer]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[The Violent Genius of Ariana Grande’s New Music Video]]></title><description><![CDATA['Petal' has sparked a tonne of controversy - but public commentary confirms we're still missing the point]]></description><link>https://bravematerial.substack.com/p/the-violent-genius-of-ariana-grandes</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bravematerial.substack.com/p/the-violent-genius-of-ariana-grandes</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Connie Hollyer]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 09 Aug 2026 17:29:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Z8XE!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3ace97b4-f0f8-4363-b307-74feeffa8122_1456x774.webp" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ariana Grande soaked in blood isn&#8217;t what we were expecting in 2026, but boy is it powerful. <br><br>It&#8217;s been a week since her controversial music video &#8216;<em>Petal</em>&#8217; was released, and while the majority of the internet seems to be commenting on her body - I believe we&#8217;re missing something huge. &#8216;Petal&#8217; is a masterclass in taking a creative risk, embodying a deep-rooted truth rarely spoken about at the level of A-list fame: women are still treated as commodities for public consumption.<br></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" 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those who haven&#8217;t seen the video, Ariana takes on the role of &#8220;Pepper&#8221; - a woman auditioning for &#8220;FAME&#8221; in the hopes of becoming the next signed artist. Throughout the video, she performs multiple roles, each time embodying a different persona, only to be consistently critiqued, rejected, and labeled &#8220;not good enough&#8221; by her executives.<br></p><p>It&#8217;s a stunning film directed by Christian Breslauer, gorgeously shot on VistaVision. It&#8217;s cinematic, rich and beautiful&#8230; with an unexpected twist: her decapitating her critics with a chainsaw. </p><div><hr></div><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!ae5K!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F9c7ca0a2-8a66-423d-a63a-5f3d98fbe7f4_1456x776.webp" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!ae5K!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_424, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F9c7ca0a2-8a66-423d-a63a-5f3d98fbe7f4_1456x776.webp 424w, /__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!ae5K!, 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Think about it - women have been taught to be polite and agreeable from birth, a reality grossly exacerbated by fame. Even in 2026, society has created a suffocatingly small box where women can exist peacefully: Be confident, but not loud. Don&#8217;t be too fat, but don&#8217;t be too thin either. Age gracefully, but don&#8217;t look old. Get Botox and lip fillers, but don&#8217;t look fake.</p><p>The film depicts that brutality beautifully. The women auditioning feel creepily close to an industrial assembly line as they move in unison - hair neat, clothes pressed, completely mouldable. Ariana takes a ticket again and again as the tension builds, signalling a relentless pressure to perform - never leaving enough room to process the last critique before the next rejection hits.</p><div><hr></div><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!iFa4!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F87f4cdf8-2e5e-4d12-95f6-14c09b9bf9a7_1456x718.webp" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!iFa4!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_424, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, 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/__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_auto, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F87f4cdf8-2e5e-4d12-95f6-14c09b9bf9a7_1456x718.webp 1272w, /__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!iFa4!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_1456, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_auto, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F87f4cdf8-2e5e-4d12-95f6-14c09b9bf9a7_1456x718.webp 1456w" sizes="100vw" loading="lazy"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg aria-hidden="true" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" 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y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>When she finally opens the floodgates of her rage and kills her critics, the once-palatable women erupt in triumphant unity as she emerges from the audition room blood-soaked. It is a breathtaking metaphor for the collective rage so many carry, yet rarely feel safe enough to release.</p><div><hr></div><p>I can&#8217;t even begin to fathom how it must feel to live this way in the spotlight, and I&#8217;m obsessed that she&#8217;s created a music video on it. To put something so controversial out at her level of fame - where she&#8217;s expected to do the expected - is incredibly brave.</p><p>Ariana spoke of having a habit of editing her lyrics to make them more palatable, but this time, she allowed herself to be raw and unfiltered, holding zero fucks back.</p><div><hr></div><blockquote><p><em>&#8220;I usually am too shy to tap into that.&#8221; </em>she told Apple Music.<em> <br>&#8220;This time, I didn&#8217;t filter as much as I usually do. I usually do a lot of rewrites and make things a little kinder. This time, I didn&#8217;t.&#8221;</em></p></blockquote><div><hr></div><p>The result is a stunning representation of how it feels to be constantly provoked, prodded, and judged. While a risky choice, it paid off artistically - even if the public wasn&#8217;t ready for it.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!2h93!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F98056917-c070-4e8b-b350-cf207062db4f_3006x1614.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!2h93!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_424, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F98056917-c070-4e8b-b350-cf207062db4f_3006x1614.png 424w, /__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!2h93!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_848, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F98056917-c070-4e8b-b350-cf207062db4f_3006x1614.png 848w, /__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!2h93!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_1272, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F98056917-c070-4e8b-b350-cf207062db4f_3006x1614.png 1272w, /__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!2h93!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_1456, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F98056917-c070-4e8b-b350-cf207062db4f_3006x1614.png 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!2h93!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F98056917-c070-4e8b-b350-cf207062db4f_3006x1614.png" width="1456" height="782" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/98056917-c070-4e8b-b350-cf207062db4f_3006x1614.png&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:782,&quot;width&quot;:1456,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:4741030,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;Ariana Grande as Pepper in the Petal music video directed by Christian Breslauer&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/png&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:true,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https://conniehollyer.substack.com/i/209956592?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F98056917-c070-4e8b-b350-cf207062db4f_3006x1614.png&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="Ariana Grande as Pepper in the Petal music video directed by Christian Breslauer" title="Ariana Grande as Pepper in the Petal music video directed by Christian Breslauer" srcset="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!2h93!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_424, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_auto, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, 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8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><div><hr></div><p><span>Some have called the video crazy, with many others hyper-focusing on her weight.</span> Whether these comments are said from a place of concern or care isn&#8217;t the point. We don&#8217;t own the right to police an artist or diagnose a human being. </p><p>The irony is that the public reaction actually completes her artistic statement: no matter how loudly a woman speaks, people will still focus on how she looks saying it.</p><p>Outside of the commentary, &#8216;Petal&#8217; stands on its own as a disruptive, violent, and shockingly brilliant piece of art.<br></p><p><em>Watch Petal and view credits <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=afSgBNwmZrQ&amp;list=RDafSgBNwmZrQ&amp;start_radio=1">here</a> <br>Stills: YouTube</em></p><p></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://bravematerial.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">CONNIE HOLLYER is a reader-supported publication for now. To receive new posts and support this Substack, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><div><hr></div><p><strong>About The Author </strong></p><p><em><span>Connie Hollyer is a Creative Advisor with 13+ years experience leading creative direction and strategy for some of the world&#8217;s most respected brands across luxury fashion, lifestyle, publishing, music and art.<br><br>She creates brand worlds under her practice, </span><a href="http://www.conniehollyer.studio"><span>CONNIE HOLLYER STUDIO</span></a><span>, and is the writer of Book 13: A Portrait of Identity Death and Rebirth, releasing September 2026.</span><br></em><br></p><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Projector, Balaclava and The Tate Modern at 1am]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why working for DIESEL made me fall in love with disruptive creative work - and how you can create yours]]></description><link>https://bravematerial.substack.com/p/a-projector-balaclava-and-the-tate</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bravematerial.substack.com/p/a-projector-balaclava-and-the-tate</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Connie Hollyer]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2026 16:14:05 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!xQwW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fdb56d08f-20f1-4cb6-8b91-7edd35db78aa_960x720.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s late at night in London. My colleague and I are lugging around a giant industrial projector on wheels through the streets, all dressed in black, trying our best to look stealth. We&#8217;ve been tasked with the midnight mission of projecting controversial imagery onto the Tate Modern for the new DIESEL Reboot campaign. We have no permit. It&#8217;s a complete adrenaline rush. And I remember thinking to myself &#8220;<em>now this is fucking marketing</em>&#8221;.</p><div><hr></div><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!xQwW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fdb56d08f-20f1-4cb6-8b91-7edd35db78aa_960x720.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!xQwW!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_424, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fdb56d08f-20f1-4cb6-8b91-7edd35db78aa_960x720.jpeg 424w, /__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!xQwW!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_848, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fdb56d08f-20f1-4cb6-8b91-7edd35db78aa_960x720.jpeg 848w, /__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!xQwW!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_1272, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fdb56d08f-20f1-4cb6-8b91-7edd35db78aa_960x720.jpeg 1272w, /__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!xQwW!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_1456, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fdb56d08f-20f1-4cb6-8b91-7edd35db78aa_960x720.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!xQwW!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fdb56d08f-20f1-4cb6-8b91-7edd35db78aa_960x720.jpeg" width="622" height="466.5" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/db56d08f-20f1-4cb6-8b91-7edd35db78aa_960x720.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:720,&quot;width&quot;:960,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:622,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;Introducing #DieselReboot from Nicola Formichetti - 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And today, as DIESEL experiences a massive cultural resurgence,  their audacity feels more relevant than ever. </p><div><hr></div><p>Most creative work - brands, writing, art, music -  in 2026 is safe. Not bad, just profoundly, predictably safe. There&#8217;s a club most of us have joined that we don&#8217;t even know we&#8217;re a part of:</p><p><strong>Post X amount of times a day and you&#8217;ll become visible.<br>Find a customer problem, and advertise the solution in 60 days or less.<br>Or if you&#8217;re an artist - slap on the trending audio or &#8220;reveal&#8221; your work. </strong></p><p>Somewhere along the rise of AI and algorithmic optimisation, we&#8217;ve forgotten how to be rebellious. Forgotten <em>we&#8217;re</em> rebellious. We&#8217;ve found ourselves trading our raw truth for metric goalposts that never stop moving.  </p><div><hr></div><p>But DIESEL was never built to play it safe. Like a lot of us, it&#8217;s simply not in their DNA. </p><p>Another campaign they became known for ran in 1995, when they created an Ad photographed by David LaChapelle fronted by two male sailors kissing. The ad dropped shortly after the U.S. military&#8217;s &#8220;Don&#8217;t Ask, Don&#8217;t Tell&#8221; policy - which actively banned openly LGBTQ+ individuals from serving in the military. </p><div><hr></div><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!o5J5!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F1f877349-5a3e-4dfd-8a48-71c2d82f5b02_599x380.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!o5J5!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_424, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, 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Not only should we &#8216;allow them&#8217; in, we should fucking thank them. That&#8217;s what Diesel did and allowed me to do.&#8221; - David LaChapelle </strong></h3></blockquote><div><hr></div><p>This is the part where I could say DIESEL didn&#8217;t make millions by playing it safe, but that would be missing the point entirely. The point, as LaChapelle put it so eloquently, isn&#8217;t about manipulating an outcome. It&#8217;s about having the courage to create something far beyond our comfort zone, simply because we believe in something greater. So many of us&#8212;as artists, writers, brand founders&#8212;are sitting on this kind of creative fire, yet we constantly suffocate it.</p><p><strong>We worry we&#8217;ll be labelled too much. <br>That people won&#8217;t &#8220;get it&#8221;.<br>Or even worse - it will be met with crickets (cue the invisibility wound).</strong><br><br>But work that shifts culture rarely arrives fully formed, understood, or accepted at first. 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height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><div><hr></div><p>The safe work - on some level - guarantees a small predictable drip of algorithmic validation and steady sales. The unsafe work however, guarantees nothing. We could put our heart and soul into something, only for people to wake up the next morning and not give a shit.<br><br>But what we often forget is that the safe route ultimately <em>is</em> the riskiest of all, because it guarantees something far worse: that we will die never knowing what we were capable of. <br><br>We need to ask ourselves one thing and one thing only:</p><h2><strong>Is powerful art ever safe art?</strong></h2><p><br>Maybe it&#8217;s time we stop waiting for the permit. <br></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://bravematerial.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Subscribe to Connie Hollyer if you&#8217;re ready to create the work that changes you, and changes culture.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p></p><div><hr></div><p><strong><span>About The Author:</span></strong><span><br></span><em><span>Connie Hollyer is an Artist, Writer + Creative Advisor with 13+ years experience leading some of the world&#8217;s most respected brands in the creative industries - from luxury fashion, lifestyle and publishing to music and art.<br><br>Explore </span><a href="https://www.conniehollyer.studio/the-residency"><span>The Residency,</span></a><span> a private 8-week creative journey for brave creatives, artists and Founders.</span></em><br><br></p><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Your Art Is Medicine And People Are Dying For It]]></title><description><![CDATA[Your work isn't a product to be sold. It's an antidote to be shared.]]></description><link>https://bravematerial.substack.com/p/your-art-is-medicine-and-people-are</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bravematerial.substack.com/p/your-art-is-medicine-and-people-are</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Connie Hollyer]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2026 18:25:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/ad7137af-ca48-4b76-96c4-aefc7c3a67b0_1104x704.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Over my career, I&#8217;ve sat across from hundreds of creatives - from designers and art directors to founders and brand owners. An exhausting fear runs through almost all of them: a suffocating pressure to create something people will like. </p><p>Something that will <em>sell</em>.</p><div><hr></div><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!9JHY!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff6b23a5a-6a41-4190-9da1-3341ecd22d29_1094x982.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!9JHY!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_424, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff6b23a5a-6a41-4190-9da1-3341ecd22d29_1094x982.png 424w, 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A suppressed desire to drop the mask, to stop pretending to fit in. Or a burrowing anger over how things are in their industry or the world.</p><p>My response?</p><div><hr></div><h1><strong>&#8220;Your art is medicine. <br>And people are dying for it.&#8221;</strong></h1><div><hr></div><p>Because if they&#8217;re feeling this way - on some level, everyone else is too. People are waiting for an artist, musician, writer, brand owner - whoever - to step forward so they can follow them.<br><br>It takes guts. 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4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://bravematerial.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">This Substack is reader-supported. Subscribe for free below.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p>Take the music industry - in a lot of clubs people are filming more than they dance - yet buried beneath the mounting social conditioning is a feral urge within all of us to dance like no-one&#8217;s watching. To experience real and raw human connection again where we don&#8217;t give a fuck about posting the moment, because we&#8217;re simply living it. If this is the suppressed desire, a DJ or promoter brave enough to launch a night banning phones is the antidote. </p><div><hr></div><p>Or think about an artist known for using flowers as their medium. Florals are packaged as feminine and delicate, but there&#8217;s a building movement of men starting to embrace their own beauty and vunerability. An artist ready to embody this could create a signature series that combined male portraiture, poems on masculinity with delicate florals.</p><p>Like any medicine, there are side effects. A club with no organic reach could disappear quickly. A controversial art campaign could feel confronting to those who don&#8217;t &#8220;get it&#8221;.</p><div><hr></div><p>But the biggest risk isn&#8217;t rejection or low sales - it&#8217;s staying suppressed because of our own fear. We can always recover from a commercial &#8220;failure,&#8221; but overcoming our repressed shadows and desires is where real creative fulfilment lives.</p><p>When we drop the need for validation and embrace the risk of genuine self-expression, disruptive art becomes the natural byproduct. </p><p><em>&#8220;What do people want?</em>&#8221; becomes <strong>&#8220;</strong><em>What is the medicine my art offers?&#8221;</em></p><p>The only question left is: are you brave enough to prescribe it?<br></p><div><hr></div><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://bravematerial.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading this Substack. Subscribe to Connie Hollyer for more.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><div><hr></div><p><strong><span data-color="#1a0304" style="color: rgb(26, 3, 4);">About the author:</span></strong><span data-color="#1a0304" style="color: rgb(26, 3, 4);"><br></span><em><span data-color="#1a0304" style="color: rgb(26, 3, 4);">Connie Hollyer is an Artist, Writer + Creative Advisor with 13+ years experience leading some of the world&#8217;s most respected brands in the creative industries - from luxury fashion, lifestyle and publishing to music and art.<br><br>Explore </span><a href="https://www.conniehollyer.studio/the-residency"><span data-color="#1a0304" style="color: rgb(26, 3, 4);">The Residency,</span></a><span data-color="#1a0304" style="color: rgb(26, 3, 4);"> a private 8-week creative journey for disruptive creatives, artists and brand owners. </span></em></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA["Either I Got The Job, Or He Thinks I'm A Psychopath"]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why exorcising your inner freak could be the key to your next creative breakthrough]]></description><link>https://bravematerial.substack.com/p/either-i-got-the-job-or-he-thinks</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bravematerial.substack.com/p/either-i-got-the-job-or-he-thinks</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Connie Hollyer]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2026 08:51:37 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/youtube/w_728,c_limit/NoMqvniiEkk" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Picture this: A woman in an emerald green evening gown slips out of a luxury corporate event for some fresh air. Suddenly, she starts convulsing as if completely possessed. Do you remember this advert? It's possibly the strangest perfume commercial ever made starring Margaret Qualley. Spike Jonze directed it for luxury fashion brand Kenzo in 2016, and it&#8217;s a masterclass in making creative work people still talk about a decade later.</p><div id="youtube2-NoMqvniiEkk" class="youtube-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;videoId&quot;:&quot;NoMqvniiEkk&quot;,&quot;startTime&quot;:null,&quot;endTime&quot;:null}" data-component-name="Youtube2ToDOM"><div class="youtube-inner"><iframe src="https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/NoMqvniiEkk?rel=0&amp;autoplay=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;enablejsapi=0" frameborder="0" loading="lazy" gesture="media" allow="autoplay; fullscreen" allowautoplay="true" allowfullscreen="true" width="728" height="409"></iframe></div></div><p>Consider this - a standard perfume ad even in 2026 is polished, glossy and often cheesy. And honestly? Completely forgettable. Spike Jonze didn&#8217;t just challenge classic perfume ads, he completely subverted them. To this day, Kenzo World still holds its place as a defiant example of creative rebellion.<strong><br><br>Instead of classic choreography, we got fingers shooting laser beams.<br>Instead of a polished model, we got a feral woman.<br>Instead of 30 seconds, the ad ran for 3.5 minutes.</strong></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!2Xtg!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8588f6ef-b5e4-4a7b-916a-e760a545469b_2084x1156.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!2Xtg!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_424, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, 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The way Margaret Qualley moves in this film feels like a physical exorcism of the modern female experience. We are taught from birth to be polished, polite and digestible, constantly masking how we feel to make others feel comfortable. <strong>This ad is the antidote. </strong>It&#8217;s a gorgeous, violent release of the wildness, weirdness, and absolute aliveness we&#8217;ve been conditioned to suppress. It&#8217;s a perfect representation of what happens when we stop trying to be a 'good girl' and just let ourselves be feral. </p><p>And boy does it pay off.</p><p><strong>Because being normal didn&#8217;t get Qualley the part. <br>And being normal doesn&#8217;t make great art.</strong><br><br>When auditioning for Spike Jonze, Qualley dropped her socially acceptable mask and went full-on exorcism, later admitting in <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dvNN_MeOah4">this</a> behind-the-scenes clip: </p><h1><strong>&#8220;I either got the job, or he&#8217;s going to think I&#8217;m a psychopath.&#8221;</strong></h1><p><br>The risk of looking completely insane landed her the lead role for one of the world&#8217;s biggest luxury brands in one of the most iconic ads ever made.</p><p><strong>But surely the world responded with second-hand embarrassment?<br></strong><br>Quite the opposite. </p><p>The video received critical acclaim, and even Taylor Swift&#8217;s &#8220;Delicate&#8221; Music Video was criticised by the media for allegedly copying the film just two years later. </p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!noB9!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F475d48c8-d5eb-4655-bd92-3dd73b4e2d46_2006x982.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="/__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!noB9!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_424, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/c_limit, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/f_webp, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/q_auto:good, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F475d48c8-d5eb-4655-bd92-3dd73b4e2d46_2006x982.png 424w, /__u/substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!noB9!, /__u/bravematerial.substack.com/w_848, 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4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>Kenzo, Jonze and Qualley took the risk. The commercial world followed - because secretly, even if the masses don&#8217;t want to admit it, we&#8217;re all waiting for permission to be strange.</p><p>We can take so many lessons from this short film. But the most powerful one of all?<br><br><strong>Great art is vulnerable art. And sometimes vulnerability isn&#8217;t sharing our tears or trauma, but the part of us that&#8217;s frickin&#8217; weird. </strong><br><br><strong>Perhaps we all need to release our inner freaks sometimes - our most unforgettable work might just require it. </strong><br></p><h6>For full list of  Kenzo World credits  <a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6018502/fullcredits/?ref_=tt_cst_sm">here</a></h6><p></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://bravematerial.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Subscribe for free to Connie Hollyer&#8217;s substack for conversations on identity death, rebirth and rebellious art </p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://bravematerial.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="/__u/bravematerial.substack.com/subscribe"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Chasing Validation Keeps Us Feeling Invisible.]]></title><description><![CDATA[The need for likes, fame and recognition masks a deeper, more honest desire - to feel seen and held.]]></description><link>https://bravematerial.substack.com/p/chasing-validation-keeps-us-invisible</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://bravematerial.substack.com/p/chasing-validation-keeps-us-invisible</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Connie Hollyer]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2026 14:43:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/d0f89fe2-298a-4bbb-97eb-1ad1c25b31ec_2004x1136.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>The moment we&#8217;re impressed by someone else&#8217;s status, we&#8217;ve already lost. As long as we see success as </strong><em><strong>over there</strong></em><strong> - and something we </strong><em><strong>need</strong></em><strong> to feel on par - we simply reinforce the fact we&#8217;re not enough as we are. </strong></p><p>We see the followers, money, lifestyle, or recognition and feel it&#8217;s something we must attain to reach fulfilment. But it&#8217;s rarely our honest desire. What we&#8217;re actually searching for is what success represents - the feeling of finally being seen, held and visible. A feeling we haven&#8217;t quite been able to sit with, or face with full integrity.<br></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://bravematerial.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">To receive new posts on identity death and rebirth, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" 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the likes, the followers, the home, the car - whatever it is - to prove it. And since life can change at any moment, we make ourselves powerless to our circumstances.</p><p>Money in = we&#8217;re successful.<br>Money out = we&#8217;re a failure. <br><br>Likes go up, we feel good.<br>Likes go down, we feel like shit.</p><p>We can see this play out in real time, with the hiding of the like counter on Instagram - but only on posts that get lower engagement. By doing this we are literally saying our voice, our content, our work is only valuable if our audience validates it first. 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and into all human connection around us. We feel inferior when we&#8217;re not stacking up against the definition of success that only exists within our mind. To fix this problem that doesn&#8217;t <em>actually</em> exist, we subconsciously create an impossible version of ourselves to live up to. We reject our own humanity, our imperfections, and our &#8220;failures&#8221;. We become accidentally inauthentic - only showing one side of ourselves to the world - which paradoxically stops real connection from forming. <strong>Because true connection isn&#8217;t built through power - it&#8217;s created through vulnerability. </strong></h4><p>This isn&#8217;t just dangerous to us as human beings. It&#8217;s dangerous to art itself. The world&#8217;s most life-changing art is often the most messy, raw and real. </p><h4><strong>If success requires an audience, we will always be performing. That&#8217;s an exhausting existence to maintain.</strong></h4><p><br>Which leads us to the question - is the &#8220;success&#8221; we want fame, or is it actually connection? Is it really the followers we want, or is it someone who sees us for who we really are, and leans in closer to the parts of us we ourselves deny?<br><br><span>What if success was seeing ourselves, and not abandoning ourselves for validation?<br>What if it was not hiding the like counter? <br>What if it was sharing the art that felt most authentic regardless of how it was received?</span><br><br>When we no longer need the fame, the likes or the recognition to feel seen - we stop feeling invisible. We confirm our right to exist, exactly as we are.<br><br><br></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://bravematerial.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption"><strong>Subscribe to Connie Hollyer&#8217;s Substack  </strong><span>Raw conversations on identity death and rebirth. A community for creative women ready to back themselves fully and create the work that makes them say &#8220;holy f, I did that&#8221;. </span></p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p><span><br>By Artist + Writer Connie Hollyer</span></p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>