With today being the first day of October, it feels like fall is actually here and I’m declaring it the end of my initial post-partum (pp) season. I say my initial season becuase pp comes in many stages and seasons, but the really intense initial season I am declaring as over. Is that real? No clue, but it’s what I feel so I’m going with it. So here is a little recap of the last month-ish in outfits, books, products I loved, and things I want to share with you all.

What I Wore:

Outfit links can be found here on my ShopMy!

Here is a little video round-up of most of my outfits from the month with some of my favorites pictured below. I thought this may be a better route than posting 20 photos :)

My favorite items I have worn on repeat this month are these White Mountain clogs, the softest wide leg denim, and my favorite jeans at the moment: Abercrombie Barrel.

What I Read:

Two recent 5 star reads: The Bright Years and The Nightingale

I love both of these books so deeply!

The Bright Years was written so beautifully, I found myself wanting to re-read passages over and over. It follows a family over many years and beautifully tells their stories as individuals and as a unit and I just really can’t recommend it enough.

This was my second read of the Nightingale, but it had been about 10 years so it felt like reading it for the first time, and was just as heartbreaking and beautiful as I remembered.

The 3.5 star fun reads: Love Hypothesis and Mean Moms

I read the Love Hypothesis (coming out as a movie) and listened to Mean Moms on audio. Both fun and lighthearted reads - exactly what I needed in between the far more intense 5 star reads above.

What I Recommend:

I have found the greatest “natural” deodorant of all time!!!! THIS IS NOT A DRILL. I have been using various natural deodorants for….10 years now? And they either suck or break me out and I can report this one does neither!!!! It’s been at least a month of using Fussy, closer to 2 probably, so I think I am in the clear of potential break outs. Cannot recommend enough!!!!

All for now! I hope you all have a great weekend :)

-KH

Very chill week from us over here! H started school, just 3 days a week until I go back to work, and it was really wonderful for us all. He was hesitant at first but then was so happy and genuinely sad each day we picked him up because he “wasn’t done playing yet”, so that is truly a dream.

I did listen to SUCH A GOOD EPISODE of shameless and how the convenience of everyday life, specifically with the introduction of AI and tech has affected us and our difficultly coping with inconvenience. Whatever your thoughts on AI are I really strongly recommend you take a listen - it’s only 30 minutes. I’m really trying to incorporate some of these questions, thoughts and ideas into my classroom at the beginning of this next school year as some thought exercises and hear my students’ perspectives.

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What I Wore

All of the available links are in my ShopMy page by outfit. Im trying out linking that way instead of each individual item. This way will also let you see past outfits and links, but let me know if that’s annoying!

Cute Things I’ve Seen From Old Navy

Gap and Old Navy are doing a 50% off promotion this weekend so I thought I would share some cute items!

• Denim Mini Dress - cute for the summer and into fall with a pair of boots

• Honorable mention for my favorite button ups in new color ways!

• Super cute Barn Jacket if you didn’t hop on the wagon last year! Although I will say, you can find great vintage/used ones as well.

• Jean shirt jacket. I think this darker denim is going to be a very popular look for fall and winter.

Cute Things I’ve Seen From Gap

• This is a great work dress

• These jeans could be worn casually or easily dressed-up for work

• Are you kidding me with this toddler chore jacket?

• Baby Barrel jeans?! These may be in Rose’s future…

-KH

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As some of you have seen, I started a TikTok and Instagram account to go with my Substack! Thank you so much to those of you who now follow me on three separate platforms - MVPs.

This was definitely out of my comfort zone, but just as it was when I started this account, I knew that with time I would get more comfortable putting myself out there, and be once again reminded that its important to do things that make you a little bit scared. I’ve thought a lot about this feeling and how this is something that can easily stop happening as you get older - you get into your routines and your career and surround yourself with your people, and if you wanted to, could live most of your life without the challenge of trying new things. Up until your 30’s I swear all we’re forced to do is try new things: a new teacher and class every year, new sports teams, new schools, different jobs, and often moving to different places, and then once you “settle” it can all just stop if you want it to. I mean, I live next to my parents next to the house I grew up in, a half mile away from the high school I went to, and work at a job I’ve been at for 7 years with one of my best friends of 15 years (love you, Laurel!). I could so easily just be done trying new things and honestly be happy with that - I love my life! - but I also want to keep growing.

I’m constantly inspired and motivated by my students and watching a new batch of them every year struggle with their senior year and all of the major life decisions they’re faced with leaves me with such a mixed bag of feelings: elated I am past that incredibly intense phase of life, but also so freaking excited for them and nostalgic in a sense for all of the ways I know those huge decisions and changes will transform their lives. Starting new social media accounts sounds incredibly minuscule in comparison to moving half way across the country to a new school where you know no one, but in my own small way it is still a way of moving somewhere else where you know no one and have no idea what is going to happen: will people like you? how will people judge and perceive you? will you find your people? will you like it?!

So here’s to challenging myself to keep trying new things. To avoid living entirely in the comfort zone of my very comfortable life, and maybe encouraging you to think about ways you too can chase that.

What I Wore

I found these jeans at Marshall’s for $25 and was so stoked. They’re one of my favorite styles of denim - the Levi’s Wedgie straight jean - but my old pair definitely doesn’t fit me, but I’m not quite ready to reinvest in denim yet, so finding them for this price and in a bigger more comfortable size was very exciting.

Here is a still shot from one of my videos and it feels very blogger photo circa 2015.

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Cute Things I’ve Seen

• Cute dress on major sale.

• These look soooo comfy.

• Ordered these pants from the Nordstrom Anniversary sale - very intrigued!

• Also ordered these. I have a pair of trousers from this brand and really like them, so I’m hopeful. They have a thick stretchy material that is super comfy.

-KH

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Little to report after a chill Fourth of July weekend spent with cousins and a bit of rain which I was honestly not mad about!

I think each week is getting a little easier to get dressed as I adjust and learn more and more how to comfortably dress and fit this ever-changing body, but we’re so thankful for her! She’s continuing to keep my baby girl alive and growing and I will never be mad about that.

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What I Wore -

A lot of brown apparently!

Pool day fit ft the most comfortable item of clothing I own: this romper. I also got the black “dupe” version from Amazon, which I really like too. I like the material of the FP one better, but actually think the fit of the Amazon one is a liiiittle better - it’s a little longer and the V isn’t quite as deep. You can see the Amazon version a few outfits below.

Here are my two Fourth of July fits - the only Red item of clothing I own is a Red dress that was not going to work for a rainy morning parade or an evening Fireworks show, so Red nail polish for the win!

This was the coldest fourth of July I can remember pretty much ever having, but honestly, I kind of loved it.

This outfit felt pretty put together and structured, but each item is so soft and comfortable - win win.

Cute Things I’ve Seen

• Oversized Raincoat - just ordered this!

• Comments say these are comparable to Kyte Baby for half the price.

• Plaid + Ruffle Hem boxer shorts. Someone I follow worn these in red for Fourth of July and they looked very cute and similar to my Sonderhaus ones for much cheaper.

• This cute poster hanger I got for our playroom.

-KH

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I am thoroughly enjoying this maternity leave/summer break situation and trying to soak it all in, because somehow it is already halfway over - HOW?! I love my job and I know when the time comes I will be excited to start a new school year, but right now that sounds a bit overwhelming to leave the babies.

This postpartum experience has been so much different than it was with H -mostly because there are two now - but instead of being sad that it isn’t just 1:1 time with Rose, I think I am enjoying it more because there isn’t the boredom trap that I got into when it was just me and H. Don’t get me wrong, I looooove a good day of nothing but newborn snuggles, but months of that is a bit much. I am proud of us all for continuing to adapt, adjust, and continuing living our lives just with a squishy little Rose in tow. We’re spending our days going to the library, picking strawberries, watering the flowers, doing puzzles, going on walks (walking with a 4 year old will definitely give you a lesson on patience), and doing lots of “projects” as seen below. We also survived a 20 hour roadtrip to Montana last week - champions!

Check back in August 1st when I’m begging for routine and structure - such is life!

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What I Wore

Absolute A+ outfit on the comfort scale. No notes. Truly each item in a 10/10.

I found a new button up style to contend with my favorite Gap Boyfriend ones. I think this style wins for the flowy summer fit and I stand by the Gap version for cooler seasons.

What I’m Consuming

• Season 2 of The Buccaneers - why do more people not watch this show?! If you have Apple TV, love a period piece, and are a fan of Bridgerton but want something…not “better” but like…maybe better?! just please watch this show.

• Liberty Lost Podcast. If you want to be a little depressed and find more reasons to be sad at the overturning of Roe v Wade and the Pro-life movement, this podcast is for you! In all seriousness, this is a powerful perspective of the trauma, nuance, and complexity and harm of the “Adoption is a great alternative to abortions” argument. If tells the story of a few women’s experiences at a Maternity Home at Liberty University in 2008.

• There are Rivers in the Sky. This was our last month’s book club read and it was a 5 star read for me! A beautiful historical fiction (based on real events) novel; think Kristen Hannah but with more sophistication - thank you, Alison, for that analogy.

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  Cute Things I’ve Seen

  • These Reef Sandals - currently on sale for under $40

  • This cotton pajama set

  • Muslin bathrobe

  • Athletic shorts - I bought these and love them! Very soft belly friendly

-KH

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Since those early nail painting days, the options - for better or worse - have drastically grown. So that is my goal for you here, to give you some advice and lead you toward my tried and true DIY nail polish favorites. Buckle up!

Nail Tools

• Olive & June Cuticle Remover - about to purchase my second tube.

• Cuticle Pusher

• Favorite Non-drying Polish Remover and I have tried A LOT of them.

• Glass nail file.

Non-Gel Polish

• O.P.I Infinite Shine Polishes & Top Coat

  • Long Lasting and they actually stay shiny. Few things bother me more than a dull looking polish two days after you do them, and these really do live up to their name! By far my favorite classic nail polish line.

    1. Funny Bunny - Creamy white-ish

    2. Knock em Red - A perfect Orangey-red combo.

• Olive & June

  • Great color options. I don’t find these to last asssss long as the OPI, but it’s a solid second.

• Manucurist

  • I’ve shared this brand before and I really love it. My favorite product is their “Active Glow” and S.O.S Base Coat. If you hate waiting for your nails to dry and aren’t the most experienced at doing your nails, this polish is for you. It gives a very subtle pink shine that simultaneously nourishes your nails. This is my favorite for when I don’t have time to redo my nails, but I want them to look polished. Also for traveling since it’s super easy to just add another coat over the top when it starts to fade or chip.

    

Traditional Gel Polish

• Gelaze

  • This is China Glaze’s line of Gel polishes and was my tried and true brand when I was consistently (like for 10 straight years every 7-10 days) doing gel manicures at home. I specifically like that it comes with a built in base coat so it speeds up the process. They also have a really large selection of colors. I still use these gels, but I take breaks in between to maintain healthier nails.

“Gel Polish” look a likes

• Polish Pops UV Press Ons - you do need a UV light, but these are very easy to use if you don’t like the actual painting part of doing your nails.

• Dazzle Dry

  • You are committing to a whole “nail system” here, but this is a really great option for a longer lasting, but non-damaging, nail system. I highly recommend starting with a mini-kit. Even though I use these products often, I only buy the “Mini” polishes, because the biggest con to theses products are that they do get thick and globby quicker than most polishes. Their system comes with a “Revive” product that is essentially a paint thinner when this does occur, but I still think it’s best to get mini’s.

    My favorite color is their orange-red: “Red Hot Chili”

    

• Manucurist

  • Their LED green flash polish system claims to be a hybrid between traditional polish and gel polish that maintains the health of your nails and is easily removable. Full disclosure, I haven’t actually tried this system as I chose the Dazzle Dry route, but with how much I love their Active Glow line, I would be willing to bet this system is great as well.

    

A Note on Press Ons and Builder Gels:

These are two DIY areas that I don’t feel I have tried enough of to give you a proper recommendation. Or, in the case of press ons, didn’t really find too much of a difference is the ones I did try. So, although these are both viable DIY options, I am leaving these blank. I will however say, builder grade is the most difficult of any of the options I have mentioned, and quite honestly, I wouldn’t recommend doing yourself unless you’re willing to take on a pretty big learning curve and chunk of time.

Happy nail painting!

-KH

I am officially 6 weeks postpartum and although many days I am not even wearing a shirt, since they all get barfed on, but rather a combination of these pajama shorts (1000% recommend) and one of these sports bras, I have in fact gotten dressed on a few occasions over the last 6 weeks and documented some of them - go me! I also got a haircut, an eyebrow wax, and a manicure this week so your girl is coming back to life!!!

My first pregnancy was in the thick of Covid, so this time around it has felt like figuring out my pregnancy and postpartum style for the first time. I’m trying to enjoy the process and “invest” in simple, but affordable pieces, that I can comfortably wear but not be devastated if they don’t fit next summer - although I think a lot of them will as they’re purposefully oversized.

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What I Wore

This was for one of my first solo outings, and I feel like you can see in those eyes I was in the deep trenches of very little sleep. My all time favorite pants and button up I have shared and worn many times.

This is not a practical postpartum outfit, but I just really wanted to wear a pair of jeans again and was thankful I bought this pair in a couple sizes bigger to have postpartum.

I wore this dress for family photos and appreciate how flowey it is and how easily I can breastfeed in it!

These striped shorts are so good and only $10! I got them in the light blue as well. They’re super lightweight with a nice elastic waistband. Peep Rose in the background.

Button tops are my preferred breastfeeding style so I got this tank in both black and white.

This button up, which I have in black and white, has been a real MVP through my pregnancy and postpartum - I’m wearing size L. Looks like it’s mostly sold out, but hopefully they will restock it! Same Aerie shorts from above but in the blue color.

I’ve been using this canvas tote as my diaper bag this time around and I love it! Perfect size and right amount of compartments for me to throw in my separate pouches for snacks and diaper changing supplies.

I fully understand and expect for like 90% of people to hate these shoes, but I love them and they are so comfortable!

And lastly, a very casual, comfortable, and colorful (for me) outfit to go get a manicure in. I love these feminine boxer style shorts paired with a more masculine style tee.

Postpartum Wins Not Pictured:

• This robe. This was a gift when H was born four years and it’s still perfect - thanks, Laurel!

• These reusable nursing pads for leaking

• These underwear for a little extra coverage & support.

• This nursing bra

• These electrolytes

• These burp cloths - so soft!

All for now. Hopefully this is helpful for someone!

We’re off to Montana this week so wish us luck on a 10 hour road trip with two children…hahaha…haha…ha…

-KH

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Happy Sunday!

Coming to you from a very short pregnant lady who is officially out of sharing room with this little girl. Looking at the pretty spring images above to make me feel better and remind me that one day I will indeed get access to my wardrobe back.

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H’s face when his aunt told him he could have a piece of candy after the photo:

Recent Things I’ve Found and Loved

• These suede sandals. Also a similar alternative but in black.

• This cute set

• These bronzing face drops. I got the lotion too and really like them both! You can also try a travel size duo if you don’t want to commit to the full sizes.

• These Sorel platform sandals. Also really like these ones!

Less Aesthetic Items I’ve found and loved:

• These Laundry Detergent sheets - I know, a bit random, but I LOVE THEM. Effective, eco-friendly, and fragrance free. I’ve used these for over a year, and had a back stock from my subscription, but just resumed it as I’m running low.

• This episode of Revisionist History on RFK’s questionable beliefs - specifically regarding vaccines.

• This SPF stick for H and this setting spray for me. I plan on using this as a SPF touchup over makeup.

All for now! Fingers crossed I’m posting less over the next weeks as I’m busy snuggling my baby.

-KH

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I have very little to say, but a lot of spring outfits to show! These are over the last couple weeks as at least half of my outfits are just repetitive outfits I’ve already shared in some variety of stretchy black fabrics :)

All in all, I am doing well and trying not to be too impatient for this baby to come, but dang I’m so excited to meet her!!!!!

What I Wore

I really loved this top and am considering trying it when I’m not pregnant although it is maternity. It was such a beautiful color and a very soft linen. I would not typically pair a linen top with athletic material pants, but if you ask me, there are no rules for third trimester dressing. These pants and my Beyond Yoga pants are the only ones that feel comfortable anymore, so see you next fall, denim!

I don’t think I’ve ever worn pastel purple in my life, but I loved this dress so much! It felt like the perfect little cupcake celebration dress for a small family baby shower brunch.

Bring on the tent vibes! This dress is a M so if it currently fits me, you know it’s very oversized. I also think this dress in the Lilac color is very cute! I guess i’m into lilac now?

Recent Items I’ve Found and Loved

1. After being very impressed by the strappy white block heels, I want to try these kitten-heel sandals.

2. I love this pajama set - I got the “mama” version and will be getting a smaller set post baby.

Have a great weekend!

-KH

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I am happy to report we did complete the nursery! At least enough to not make me feel stressed about it, so I call that a win.

What I Wore

Really embraced three days of SUN and WARMTH and then it was back to matching sets and layers for windy not so warm days - boooooo. H and I had a really chill but great break together. A lot of little dates and a lot of watching power rangers in my bed.

And now for three sets I have shared multiple times because I wear them at least once a week. This week it was for errands, a trip to the coffee shop and library with H, and a windy day at the park:

Recent Items I’ve Found and Loved

1. Another winner from my March Allure Beauty Box - super affordable and very lengthening mascara.

2. This dress is on my postpartum wish list - I love it so much.

3. These bras are incredibly comfortable, simple, and extremely cheap. 10/10 would recommend, pregnant or not, as a lounge/low support option.

4. This isn’t a super new find, but one I don’t think I’ve shared. This OPI nail repair is great for post-gel nails that feel weak or are peeling. I apply this at least twice in between every time I do my nails (gel or not).

Have a great weekend!

-KH

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Operation “Get this Nursery Ready” is on our agenda this weekend and I’m pretty happy about it. I have had very little “nesting” energy, but we’re going to power through!

My Perfect Dinner

Last weekend my sister and 4 of my closest friends met up for a sweet little igloo dinner to celebrate me and baby girl - it was perfection. I am so incredibly lucky and thankful to have this group of women surrounding me, and the fact that my closest friends from childhood to college somehow all ended up living in the same place is a miracle!!!!!

What I Wore

Recent Items I’ve Found and Loved

1. The whole line of charms from Gorjana

2. This lip product I’ve been putting on every morning and night. I discovered this product in my recent Allure Beauty Box - I’ve tried this subsription service the last two months and have found some products I really like and it’s super affordable especially considering the retail price of each individual product you get.

3. These very comfortable and lightweight pajamas.

4. These sandals I’m very excited to wear when it stops snowing.

Recent Things I’ve Read/Listened to and Loved

1. This post was so inspiring to me! There are truly few things that bring me more joy than seeing older women (online or in-person) continuing to embrace style and creativity in their clothing. I see a lot, probably due to where I’m at in life, of posts and commentary on finding your style in motherhood and I think that’s also super important, but in a world that continues to value “looking” young and societally pushing “older” people (especially women) in the background, I LOVE seeing women like this. No rules, No BS, just genuine joy in their clothing and who they are.

2. Pretty much anything Natalie shares I am all on board with:

   “Over time, I’ve realized that style is about so much more than just putting together a killer outfit. It’s about confidence, self-discovery, and learning to express who you are. It’s about effortlessness — not in a lazy way, but in a way that feels natural, aligned and authentic.”

   In continuation with point 1, I am very over hearing about fashion or style “rules” WEAR WHAT YOU WANT.

3. This podcast episode of Inherited with Michelle Andrews (host of the Shameless podcast I’m obsessed with) was BEAUTIFUL. Emotional and honest and definitely made me tear up.

Have a great weekend!

-KH

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Daylight Savings week - we doing ok? Maybe because I’m pregnant and just constantly tired, this week just feels like the rest of the world has succumb to my level - welcome!

My “Baby” is Four!

This felt like the first birthday of H’s that indicated a real passage of time; he is so obviously NOT a baby anymore in a very new way that I haven’t felt on past year’s birthdays. In the past few months I feel like I have a full fledged independent human being living and hanging out in my house sharing ideas, chatting about his day, and just like hanging out with us? These new characteristics are coming at a pretty convenient time with the arrival of a new baby, but also blowing my mind a little bit, and I think will serve as a great reminder to soak in (or at least try to) allllll of the baby-ness of our new baby, ya know?

I very strongly believe there is no “right” or “perfect” age gap between kids, but I feel so incredibly confident in and grateful for this particular one for our family. It’s been a bit of a hell-ish process to get to this stage of welcoming our second baby, but it feels pretty perfect now that it’s finally happening. I’m hesitant to say that since few things were less helpful to me in times of grief and struggle than someone saying “everything happens for a reason”, but here I am - not feeling “thankful” for the hellish journey necessarily, I still would have gladly skipped all of that if given a choice, but feeling very thankful for where we are now.

On a lighter note…

What I Wore

My new spring style formula: Ribbed dresses and blazers.

It’s comfortable, affordable, and polished - win win win! Or a ribbed dress and sweater - the takeaway is ribbed dresses that feel like pajamas are saving my work-wear life at the moment. I’m also very ready to have more of my shoe options back as the weather gets warmer (although I’m sure we still have one more snow storm to get through).

10/10 recommend every item in this photo! I re-rented the vest in jeans from Nuuly because I wore them so much the first time. The vest I got in a different color and the jeans I got in a bigger size - this is the beauty of renting! This black shirt is technically maternity, but is so soft and flow-y I think it’s great regardless of pregnancy.

Side note: If you use this link you can try Nuuly for $30 off your first month if you’re interested! I sound like a real influencer now, don’t I?

And my weekend Spring Style Formula - a bodysuit and a flow-y button up:

Have a great weekend!

-KH

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We survived February - the longest shortest month of the year - congrats!

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This bump is BUMPIN’. I’ve started to get the sympathetic “Oh wow” responses I remember getting my last pregnancy when people ask “how much longer?”, “when are you due”, or “how close are you?” the last one really gets the shock and awe when I say “2 months to go!”. This is the reality of 5 feet tall and pregnant, but we’re doing it!!!

The above sweater is the first time I’ve tried one of Gap’s “CashSoft” line, and I get the hype. I am VERY sensitive to any sweater that is remotely itchy and usually stick to cotton or if it has some wool I just know I absolutely have to wear a long sleeve underneath, but I was miraculously able to wear this all day without a shirt under it. It’s not all “natural” fibers, but also “natural fibers” often itch so…

I love this bomber-style down coat. It’s the perfect weight to wear as an added layer without feeling too bulky to wear in the car - a pet peeve I have with winter coats. I sized up to a M in the fall and loved the fit then, and can still zip it over my belly now which is quite impressive.

Here is my endorsement for the maternity jumpsuit! I was hesitant, but once I tried it on, I understood it. No seems digging into your hips and stomach - God bless. I will say the sizing on this brand was a bit bizarre - I got an XS in the jumpsuit, and a L in these flared leggings - which I highly recommend!!! I tried on the S as well, and they definitely fit, I just wanted them a bit looser. The waist on the flared leggings can also be folded down, so I will 100% be wearing these postpartum and beyond.

A Trip to The Beach

Tay and I went to Gold Beach for a long weekend and stayed at the TuTu Tun Lodge - super beautiful! Was the Southern Oregon beach worth a 6 hour drive? Debatable, but we did have a very relaxing time in a very beautiful setting. These first two photos below were taken outside of our “Glass Cabin” which was completely reflective from the outside with clear windows from the inside.

Have a great week!

-KH

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Happy Weekend!

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What I Wore

This week’s theme (not unlike most) is neutrals. I know I wear a lot of neutrals, but then I have a week like this one when I see my outfits documented out to really show me, girl you love your neutrals. I also have a pretty limited closet at the moment so that’s probably playing a significant role. Would recommend documenting your outfits for a couple of weeks to see what you really actually wear!

I call this look, “Tony Stark meets Soccer Mom”. Shout out to the $20 XXL sweatshirt that came through when even Taylor’s sweatshirts became no longer big enough. It’s actually a very nice lightweight base sweatshirt.

This Quince Cardigan has also been a maternity staple + old H&M Maternity pants and these thrifted red leather boots I got for THREE dollars.

And a moment for my second thrifted leather boots I got last weekend - $4

These are the same Old Navy jeans I shared last week, but I got them in a darker wash. Really hope these work post-partum too because I really love them!

Small Brands I’m Loving

Most I’ve shared before and some are new! I listed some of my favorite items from them as well.

Le Bon Shoppe - I’ve shared this brand many times and once my favorite sweatpants were no longer comfortable I bought some in size L from Casa de Stella in Bend - I think they’re the only place locally that carries this brand.

• The Balloon Pant - my gateway to this drug

• Breezy Wide Leg Pants - the next pair I want

• Basketball Shorts - the thing I plan on living in this summer.

• Literally ANY of their T-shirts or Sweatshirts.

• Their socks are also a cult favorite, but I somehow haven’t tried them yet.

You Swim Swimsuits - A genuine one (technically two) size fits all swimsuit brand. I bought a one piece and a two piece and feel so happy knowing whatever my postpartum body looks like this summer, I will have two swimsuits I can feel comfortable and confident in. Currently most are on sale, and poshmark is a great place to look for lightly used ones as well.

• Two Piece & One Piece

Things Between - They carry a great variety of pieces that feel trendy but not too trendy if that makes sense? I have a couple of their sweaters, their dresses, and one of their suede bags and love them all! Generally I have felt like the quality is pretty fair for what you pay.

• Sweater

• Classic Dress - most of my dresses from them are older so no longer available, but I love the simplicity and flowy-ness of most of their styles - usually all I want in the summer.

Sonderhaus - very fun takes on simple designs and styles. Definitely a “slow fashion” vibe with minimal drops and options made from mostly 100% cotton.

• Their cult favorites: Perfect Pant & their newer Ruffle boxer pant

• Boxer shorts - restocking soon!

• Persephone Dress - not sure if this will be restocking, but I purchased it for postpartum this summer and think it will be HEAVY in my outfit rotation.

Etsy - Ok I know everyone on planet earth knows Etsy, but these specific shops I have either bought from or would like to in the future.

• Moon & Folk - VERY small batch up-cycling of used textiles. I am waiting for the quilted vest in the photos to come in the mail!

• Indian Artisan Designs - very fun and beautiful block print bags

• MyAnAtelierVN - a variety of simple and beautiful linen pieces

• Growkrati - 100% cotton dresses and she will adjust sizing for you!

Have a great weekend!

-KH

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Happy Long Weekend!

I hope you all had a love-filled Valentine’s day! This v-day marked 10 years since mine and Taylor’s first date - WILD. Naturally, we put our energy into spoiling H and hanging as a family vs a date night. We usually much prefer going out the weekend before or after, so maybe next weekend we will celebrate with just us.

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What I Wore

The outfits below are a combo of past photos I haven’t shared yet and a lot of snowy, beanie-filled, winter looks from this week as it’s been FREEZING and snowy and icy all week. I try and link all I can, but please let me know in the comments if I miss anything you want the link for.

Enjoy the background moving decor of the above photos - moving is the freaking worst, but this Marshall’s clearance jacket is great.

I have shared the above sweater a few times and also have it in grey - it is truly the best. So warm, a bit of stretch to it, and perfectly oversized. It is a bit itchy for me due to the wool, so I always wear it with my favorite long sleeve underneath it. I have also been impressed with most of the maternity items I’ve gotten from H&M - would recommend!

I have been very impressed with these jeans! They’re non-maternity so I just sized up and hold them up with a rubber band and a tight tank top - glamorous. I do think I want to get them in a smaller size though for postpartum because they’re really freaking good, especially for the price.

These black pants are also an Old Navy purchase, but a different style - slightly baggier with a softer denim. I’ve also worn this green vest a ton and will likely get the cream version in my next Nuuly rental.

These photos really show you the power of angles :) I’m officially in my third trimester, and it really shows.

Also shout out to the Ember mug - my favorite Christmas gift of the year.

Thoughts on “Shopping for the Future”

I reread this quote I had shared on my notes months ago and I couldn’t believe how true it is for me in this current stage of unknowns that come with pregnancy and wanting to hold on to some semblance of control:

“Shopping for the future is tempting because it feels like you’re investing in a version of life you can control. You imagine those perfect fall moments—cozy in a new sweater, strolling through leaves in fresh boots—and you shop for that vision. It’s like shaping a future that feels more certain. But the reality doesn’t always match the picture you had in mind when you bought that outfit. You’re buying for a fantasy, not the life that actually unfolds.” - Totally Recommend.

This quote was also very validating and allowed me to feel a little more grace towards myself as I have been making purchases for the summer and asking myself, “why am I doing this, I can’t even accurately try these on to know if they will fit?” well, I think a semblance of control is exactly why.

So there are my current outfits and shopping thoughts of the week, have a great weekend!

-KH

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If you’re wondering why I have been wildly MIA the past few months, I have been growing a human, moving houses, working, napping, and hanging out with a 3 year old. ALL FUN THINGS, but also all a lot of work and I quite honestly had no capacity for anything “extra”. I still don’t know that I really do, but I did miss this space and sharing the important things that fill my brain like my new favorite $30 skin care routine (cleanser + moisturizer), the clothing rental that has saved my pregnant self from wearing only leggings everyday, and (speaking of leggings) the only maternity clothing item I practically force every pregnant person I know to buy. Like I said, the really important things that are not that important in the scheme of life, but that bring me joy and fun and a bit of distraction from the less-than-ideal news cycle.

Baby girl should be here late April/May, so I have no clue how consistent I will be over the next few months…or year? But I will be here when I feel like I can, and take breaks when I need to.

For now, here are some photos from the past few months of my early pregnancy - get ready to scroll!

Some links worth noting:

• The sneakers I wear 1x/week

• My favorite work pants - they come in regular and maternity!

• This slouchy suede bag I love

• The vest with the cutest hem

• The maternity set I have been able to wear the whole time, and hopefully after

• A very dreamy soft sweater

If you want any other specific links, let me know!

-KH

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Happy Friday!

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I have no other reason for "skipping" last week other than, well, I just didn't want to. So, this week you get a hodge-pode of work outfits from the last two weeks and some TV recommendations as I have really been embracing the fall TV content.

What I Wore

What I’m Reading

• The Husbands by Holly Gramazio. I am listening to this on audio waiting for my next Audible credit to come in so I can finally read (listen) to The Wedding People

What I’m Consuming

• Nobody Wants This on Netflix. I am not alone in being obsessed with this show and the birth of Seth Cohen 2.0

• The Perfect Couple was very Meh for me. I was mostly bored and hated everyone.

• Heartstopper - the way I was WRECKED by this season. So beautiful. So good.

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Work Wear

Last week’s casual Friday look ft. my favorite denim I’ve shared 100 times. I also have this sweater in this dark brown and the light grey. It looks like the brown is mostly sold out, but they do restock!

The thing I miss wearing the most in Summer is my coats, I love coats, and this was one of my favorites last year from Old Navy. I will say the quality isn’t the best, it pills very easily and it isn’t lined, but for the price and the fit, it was one of my most worn to and from School all last year. I mean, it’s even called the “Car Coat” so it isn’t designed to be for extreme temps.

This outfit was a real boho cowgirl vibe, two adjectives I would very much not put into my general styling vocabulary, but hey, ya gotta mix it up every now and again. I also had said I was trying to find more ways to wear my summer dresses into fall and I very much did that with this outfit.

Weekend Wear

It’s officially sweatsuit seaaasooooon! I love this one from Lebon, but it is a bit pricey. Gap has some more affordable matching sweat sets in their “Vintage Soft” line and you can chose from a variety of cuts and colors for the tops and pants. I do however, highly anticipate me to have and wear this set for years.

What I’m Reading

• I’m almost done listening to Here One Moment by Lianne Moriarty and I have to say, I am a bit disappointed. It’s entertaining enough and I am definitely going to finish it, but she just usually has a more compelling storyline than this, so I had higher hopes. I also think I would have been quite bored if I was reading it vs listening to it.

• Cozy backyard pizza party for our latest book club read, A Psalm for the Wild Built -3.4/5 star average from the group. Very cute and sweet and short. I would say, give it a read! Next up for BC is The Women by Kristin Hannah.

  

What I’m Consuming

• Finished Emily in Paris this week. What a ride. Was there a plot? Kind of maybe. Was there compelling dialogue? Absolutely not. Were the outfits unhinged? Completely. Will I be watching season 5? Most definitely.

• Also watching the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and I would say a very similar sentiment goes for that show as Emily in Paris.

• On a completely different level of entertainment, we’re almost done with Gentleman in Moscow (which I know I have already shared) but it is so wonderful. The dialogue is perfection, the acting is wonderful, and Tay and I have thoroughly enjoyed it.

Have a great weekend!

-KH

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Wasn’t it just September 1st? Bizarre.

Last weekend was great; we spent it at Black Butte and it felt like a great summer send off with one last weekend swimming and applying sunscreen on a toddler.

This week itself was a bit bleh at the start and I full-heartedly blame that on the fact that it was quite literally raining ash in Bend all week. Few things make me feel more claustrophobic than not being able to open the windows in my house and get fresh air - definitely something I take for granted when its gone. BUT it did clear up a lot after heavy rain on Wednesday, and I did like my outfits this week, so there’s my wins.

What I Wore

I’m trying to wear my dresses to work as much as I can before it gets too cold! I want to be better at wearing them throughout the seasons with tights and sweaters, but I just know myself and I tend to completely neglect dresses past September. In classic September Central Oregon fashion, this week spanned from 90 degree days to 60 degree days with raining.

Work Wear

These two outfits were ones I tried on one morning while deciding what to wear: they have a similar theme and elements (wide leg pants, white loafers, and a white tee), just different color schemes. I actually ended up wearing the black and gray instead of the brown, but I loved them both so I’m sharing both!

I just got this sweater and I looooove it! I got it in petite, so the wider arms don’t totally drown me. It’s also a really beautiful chocolate brown color. It’s pretty thick though so I thought it might be too warm.

What I’m Reading

• I’ve been listening to Part of Your World by Abby Jimenez. It’s a fun rom-com read very similar to her other books that follow pretty predictable but lovable tropes. Unfortunately though, I have to wait 16 more days until my listening time starts over on Spotify to finish the 1.5 hours left I have - obnoxious!!!

What I’m Consuming

• This eyebrow gel by Benefit. I have finally found it!!!! The perfect amount of hold without being too glue-like. I started with the mini version of this one and this one so I could compare the two and ended up liking the Benefit one better. I found that although the Anastasia one does have a stronger hold, it kind of clumped in a weird way. I think this could be partially user error and I may have just used too much product. Either way, they’re both great options for a clear & strong brow gel.

• Jennifer Garner’s AD Open Door Tour. Her house is beautiful and she is so wholesome - like the definition of a wholesome and pure soul.

  I love these tours so much! The Shameless newsletter discussed this tour and also equated the Open Door series to a classier version of MTV’s Cribs of the early 2000’s and wow they’re right; Cribs walked so Open Door could run.

In My Cart

• This striped sweater vest is so cute and would be a great work piece.

• This oversized sweater looks very dreamy (available in black and chocolate brown as well). Quince’s cashmere is by far the most affordable I have ever seen.

• Comfy and very affordable wide-leg sweats available is tall and petite sizes.

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Ahhhhh September, the almost best month of the year, but not quite. It really shines as arguably the most confusing month of the year to get dressed - do I need a down coat or a skirt? Both? Yes, probably depending on the hour of the day. Is it fall? Not really. Is it summer? Uhm also no, but a little yes? However, I do kind of love September - it feels more like “A New Start” than January ever does.

Speaking of new starts,

I took some more senior photos last weekend; I have been taking a lot more photos lately and it has been so fun! I even finally made somewhat of a website for it (here!) so that people could actually see some of my photos before booking with me. It was a good process for me to reflect and look at all of the different photos I have taken over the years, for others or just for my family, that people have trusted me with. Similarly to the process of starting this Substack, photography has always been something I have loved and done for myself and only recently have I stepped into the confidence to finally share it with others - like people are actually paying me, what?! All of that to say, 20-year-old Katie would be very proud of me.

In less exciting news, I preordered a pair of Gola sneakers from Antrhopologie in early July, and I finally received them last Friday, and you know what I got? ONE SNEAKER. Yes, yes that’s right, they only shipped one of the sneakers and they are sold out again and apparently not restocking, so there’s my woe of the week. Seriously though, how bizarre it that? The only part that makes me less sad is that I need a bigger size so I would have had to return them anyways, but still it’s insane.

WHAT I WORE

Work Wear

With a shorter work week, there is less outfits this week, but here we are!

Weekend Wear

We went to the Hozier concert Wednesday night and it was so freaking good!!! One of my all time favorite songs: Cherry Wine.

We took H to his first movie, Inside Out 2, and it was so fun and cute! He loved the popcorn and the snacks, and thankfully we sat next to the railing so he got to climb on that towards the end when he got a bit restless. Also note the mismatched crocs - style icon.

What I’m Reading

• A Psalm for The Wild Built - our book club read of the month! I feel like i’m in a bit of a reading lull at the moment, so that’s really all!

What I’m Consuming

• A Gentleman in Moscow on Amazon Prime. I haven’t read the book, but our book club read the Lincoln Highway by the same author and I loved it!.

• I just re-watched Queen Charolette - it is so good! By far the best of all of the Bridgerton stories if I do say so myself.

• Love on the Spectrum - what a joy!

• Glass podcast. This is the most beautiful 3-part essay series from Michelle of the Shameless podcast on fertility, infertility, generational birth and fertility trauma, and just all things womanhood. It was so honest, and artistically written and shared, and just all around so well done. Trigger warning for basically all of things that could ever happen on the absolute shit storm of a journey that can be bringing a child into this world.

In My Cart

1. I love this style of Mary Janes and the very neutral version of this brown/taupe color.

2. I have different versions of this Gap top and it’s one of my go-to for casual but good quality tops at a very affordable price (especially on sale). I often wear them to work on their own or under sweaters. I love the longer sleeve length on this one, so I just ordered it in black and in white.

3. I tried this top on in-store and it’s a very fun cut and take on a waffle shirt.

4. Someone with a baby between the ago of 6-24 months buy this coat!!! Are you kidding me? There is a floral one as well and it’s only $30.

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