I totally get it-I have two boys (4 & 8). I don’t want their sticky hands on my nicer pieces, and the reality is if I am at home hanging with them, I don’t want to be in jeans, but here is the differentiator: I also don’t want to be in workout clothes, and I definitely don’t want to be in my pajamas. Hanging out all day in an oversized tee & basketball shorts- doesn’t tell me we’re having a productive day- it tells me we are hanging around the house and we are vegging on the couch.

There is a happy medium though, and that’s what we are breaking down. These are the staples I’d start out with if you want to stay comfortable and active but also feel good, and if you run into someone you aren’t mortified.

1. Matching Sets- get them; they are the easiest way to have a complete outfit.

2. Elastic Waist pants - you’re actually in luck because for some reason - there is a surge of elastic pants this season! I’m personally lusting over this pair from Reformation; I'm not sure I'd buy them to crawl around the floor, but you get the idea. I also own a ton of Halara pants, as I think they do a great job and the cuts are fun.

   

3. Sneakers- no, not your running shoes, and please retire the all-white chunky sneaker. I’m talking about a pair you can wear with your jeans, your elastic pants, your matching sets. It levels up the overall look instead of reading just comfy cozy.

2. Tee-shirts- you should have 2 categories-

   1. Whatever tee: the older, the more stained, the better. You work out in these, garden in these, crafts in these, sweaty day at the playground- you don’t care if they get ruined.

   2. Elevated Tees- these are tees we’re investing in. It doesn’t mean they have to cost a crazy amount, but if you spilled a little something on them, you would be annoyed. The cut is better, the quality is better, and they can be worn on their own, and the outfit would still feel put together. You could even swap some of these for your blouses if you wanted and wear with trousers, under a blazer.

I uploaded a ton of links for all these…browse them here

See how all of these can create easy looks: All 3 of these outfits are also ONE

Outfit Formula-

Elastic waist pants that are slightly wide-leg or barrel

Tee shirt- you pick the cut-(cropped, fitted)

Layering piece if needed

That’s how easy this is- all of these outfits are technically just as easy as the sweats and a tee or leggings and a tee, but all three of these outfits feel better.

Again, everything and more is linked below in one SAHM / WFH category

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Definitely comment if this post resonated with you and if you’ve felt stuck in that rut of wearing pajamas for days!

I mean, let’s talk about the number one trend this Fall: “Animal Print,” that’s like saying florals in Spring- no sh*t it’s trending; it’s also just a staple, and I’m here for it! Animal print is neutral, but so much more interesting- truly any color can pair back to it.

The color of the year might have been Cloud Dancer, which is almost an off-white, but the colors we’re seeing a huge rise in are purple, chartreuse, and cherry red, to name a few. Again, love it; none of these colors would be outdated next season. To make it even more interesting, think about more interesting color combos- we’re seeing cherry red with a softer pink everywhere, and it’s absolutely gorgeous, or chartreuse with purple.

1. Reformation 2. Adidas 3. & Other Stories 4. Baum Und Pferdgarten 5. Thread & Supply 6. Daze 7. Avec Les Filles

1. Boden 2. Reformation 3. Reformation 4. Adidas 5. Boden 6. La Ligne

Dark denim shades are also trending- what do you mean dark denim is trending in Fall??? Again, more of a moment but you’d be completely fine to take out your dark denim jeans next Fall or the Fall after.

1. Favorite Daughter 2. Good American 3. Dynamite 4. Lauren Ralph Lauren 5. Joe’s Jeans

The one trend- that maybe could feel a little tired in a few seasons is the rise of the funnel neck, but even that is a hard MAYBE. If you find a piece you’re loving, I would go for it.

1. Oak & Fort 2. Dissh 3. Ramy Brook 4. Aritizia 5. Altar’d State 6. Lulu Lemon 7. Asos

These were just some of the Fall trends; could really go on. From chocolate brown suede as the shoe color to invest in, like these boots (which btw are the look for less with Khaite boots), to rugby polos everywhere. The point is with trending- usually, if it’s a mainstream trend, it just means having a moment, and it’s the classic story of what goes around comes around.

So dust off some pieces in your wardrobe and style for 2026 versus how you used to wear it- and if you buy into some of the trends, absolutely- go for it!

For longevity reasons, purchase into the trends that are really speaking to you and think about pieces that, in two or three seasons, would it still feel relevant and would you still be excited to wear it.

And if you do have a bunch of pieces hanging in your closet that you know could be restyled to feel more modern- book a discovery call- virtual and in-person services- and let’s have a conversation about it!

This client, for instance, came to us recently, and it was the case that she had the same exact wardrobe from her college days, but now she’s married, entering her 30s, has a PHD and is starting her career. She’s giving lectures yet still showing up in these oversized mock-neck turtlenecks and skinny jeans.

There wasn’t anything about her style that showed her level of accomplishment- her level of expertise and, quite frankly, the years she spent earning the PHD; she looked like she was still in her sophomore-in-college era.

It’s the classic case of- she evolved with life and new chapters, but her style was still stuck in university campus life.

You’re seeing the point, because this is common and happens at so many different stages of life. So, let’s get back to this client- she came to us clearly stuck in the college era, and we needed to revamp, but the point of a revamp is still to keep your true style DNA.

Through our closet edit, we could tell that she really liked color, a little whimsy, not so serious- and that’s fine- yes, even for someone with a PDH and an insanely accomplished career! So knowing all of that about her style, we just needed to elevate it, and that’s what we did.

Through our R.E.S.E.T Styling Method, we reflected on her style and goals and edited out all the pieces that felt more like a doorroom rather than giving lectures. We created a full style direction plan with her Style Archetype, which we coined as “Whimsical Academia” for her.

From there, she clearly saw that she could keep the whimsy, especially on weekends and while lecturing; she could still show her personality, just in a more polished way. Continuing our method and a full direction in motion, we then utilized our support step with a shopping experience to fill the gaps in her wardrobe and brought new outfits to life.

And to round her out, we showed her exactly how to style every single new piece back to what she already owned, for a truly cohesive wardrobe. She now has such a clear sense of her style and of why the pieces work for her that she’s able to complete the RESET Method with the final step: trusting her style.

If she’s confused in any way, she has a full lookbook of the outfits, styling notes, and a blueprint of body shape, what to look for and avoid, so she’s fully armed with all the information she needs for a long-term transformation.

A little sneak of some of the lookbook and Style Blueprint

If so, always welcome you to chat with me; let’s get on Zoom and see where your wardrobe currently is and how we would go about revamping it.

You can always fill out your inquiry form and book here.

The reality is, most of us live a pretty casual lifestyle. As for me, my uniform is just jeans and a T-shirt; I look for comfort. There’s this misconception that there is some mythical secret sauce of how some women can wear jeans and a T-shirt and they still look so chic, and then others wear it, and they look like Humpty Dumpty. The secret is really just in details. I’ve gone ahead and made your monthly resource guide strictly about this, the details to elevate your basic outfit.

The jewelry stacking or the layering of a button-down and I broke it down in the guide below. Specifically for warmer -weather styling, because we have plenty of 90 degree days left. If you’re already a paid subscriber-enjoy! This is your monthly resource. Xx

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With the idea of transitional dressing, these were just a few skirts that I lovedddd.

1. Mango 2. Levi’s 3. Ruti 4. Gap 5. J.Crew 6. Gap

And then if you only own white sneakers-please, think about a pair that’s in a different color and try not to overthink “does it match”; instead, think about if there’s a color story to the outfit. I promise, just some of the choices below are going to make the outfit feel so much better, more elevated.

1. J.crew Ballet Sneakers 2. Converse 3. Adidas 4. Adidas 5. Alohas 6. Converse

Since I did mention sales above! Me&em is one of my favorite brands, and their sale is good! They have plenty of pieces that you can wear into the Fall that are worth looking at, for instance, a staple leather skirt under $400. These were my favorites from the sale.

ME & EM SALE

And then last non-clothing related, I recently was gifted a membership to Vivrelle and have to say, I have absolutely been loving it! I personally have zero interest in buying a new designer handbag, but with that said, this has been a way to test some bags, explore options maybe I would not have gone for, and truly enjoyed wearing.

CODE: JAMIELEWIS will give you a month for a free membership- highly suggest you atleast try for a month!

This was the beauty I rented last month:

As always, if you’d like to check out all of the shopping links, you can always go to my ShopMy

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So why do you still stand in front of it most mornings and reach for the same three outfits?

You’re not missing pieces; you’re missing a system/formula. You don’t know which of your pieces are pulling their weight and which ones are just taking up hanger space. You don’t know if that blazer works with three things you own or one. You don’t know if you’re supposed to tuck it, belt it, layer it, or leave it alone, so you default to the easiest combination instead of the best one.

You don’t have a shopping problem. You have a nobody-ever-taught-you-the-formula problem. And no amount of scrolling Pinterest boards or buying “one more piece” is going to solve it, because you already have the ingredients. You’re missing the recipe.

This is exactly what I work through with clients in a single 45-minute 1:1 call. In that call, we:

• Go through your closet (yes, over video) and identify which pieces are actually working for you and which ones are dead weight

• Build 3–5 outfit formulas using what you already own, so you have a repeatable system instead of one-off outfits

• Pinpoint the specific styling decisions that have been tripping you up. Is it fit, proportion, or styling details? So you stop guessing.

That call alone changes how you get dressed. But it’s one conversation, and your closet, your body, your life- none of that stays static. That’s why I built Inside The Dressing Room: so you have somewhere to go every time a new “wait, does this work?” moment comes up, instead of starting from zero again.

Inside, you get:

• Direct access to ask me styling questions in real time: should I buy this, what’s missing here, how do I update this outfit

• Monthly styling resources (guides, seasonal edits, fit breakdowns)

• Weekly shopping links curated around what the group actually needs, with the option to text me before you buy

• Monthly events

• Styling challenges for more hands-on support

And if you join, I’m adding this bonus of a 45-minute 1:1, so you’re not walking in cold. You’re walking in with a plan.

If you're ready to stop guessing and start getting dressed with actual confidence, join below. Not sure it's the right fit? Reply to this email, and we'll set up a call to talk it through!

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1. Matching hangers-they really are that important and so simple; just grab these and these for bottom hangers. I don't think I can stress this one enough. For me, it’s not even about aesthetics, although it does look visually pleasing. It’s more about your closet won’t feel so chaotic (aka overwhelming), which lends to a calmer time picking out your clothing, aka less wardrobe rage in your life.

2. Alterations- I understand it’s annoying, I understand it’s an added cost, but it’s one area where I don’t care how much you are investing on the piece; if you’re going to spend, take the extra step to make sure it also fits. On that note, similar category: a cobbler as well! If you’re investing in a gorgeous pair of new shoes, your first stop should be adding a rubber sole with your cobbler to ensure that they last and stay looking gorgeous.

3. Signature Jewelry- ok, this one is specific to you! Ideally, you have a piece or two that you wear just about every single day. For instance, I wear this necklace stack just about daily. Not only does it eliminate all confusion of which jewelry to wear- it becomes part of your signature look, your personal style. I can’t stress this one enough, and bonus points if there is a meaning behind the pieces- for instance, my pendant is the birthstones of my kids and myself.

   

4. Belts- yes, buy yourself the standard black leather and tan, but also this is an easy way to make a pretty simple outfit interesting. So challenge yourself to think about alternatives like chain belts, fabric, interesting colors, vintage- go outside the typical.

   These are some of my favorites:

   

   1.Dehanche 2. B-low The Belt 3. Aureum 4. Same 5. Madewell 6. Farm Rio 7. Wolf & Badger

5. Work Bag- obviously this is only for the women going into the office. Your bag is part of your look though, so if you're giving 10/10 with the outfit and the bag is a stained-old backpack, there’s a disconnect. While backpacks aren’t my favorite (personally speaking) if you’re going down that route, look for something streamlined, not so bulky, like this Cuyana one,

6. Pair of jeans that fit to perfection: and guess what? They might need alterations too! If you’re petite, definitely check out Pistola; they’ve nailed the petite cut- this one particular: adding to cart.

7. Interesting Statement Piece- I’m talking about a piece that you can wear with just about anything, but it instantly makes such a simple outfit SO good. For instance, this little jacket from THE GREAT, put this over jeans and tee, and now it’s a look; or throw it over a little slip skirt and tee, it’s a whole look. You might try something and think, well it’s too specific, but it’s not- that’s your interesting piece- wear it as often as you can!

8. Bras- do I really need to explain this? But good, quality bras and take it a step further- when was the last time you had a true fitting? I personally send my clients to the smaller boutiques, The Town Shop in NYC is my personal favorite. I want someone who has been looking at the girls for the past 30 years to tell my clients what size to buy; you’ll be surprised too! Guaranteed you’re probably in the wrong size.

   If you’re looking for a bra to wear around the house, though, and running around, I swear by these for comfort and holding its shape underwire-free: Eby bras

9. Elevated Tees- this category is a little niche. I like to think of T-shirts in two separate categories: your around the house doesn’t matter if you spill something and then your elevated ones- you can wear on their own, and it’s a great top or under a blazer. These are almost in replacement to a silk blouse. My favorite brand is Shop Nation LA; I own several, and truly, top-notch quality. This one is my go-to for happy hour.

10. Go-to flats: Honestly, if you can do the Chanel ballet flats, go for it! They genuinely are worth the investment, but if you can’t (which most of us can’t), I’m really into these! A chic pair you can pull out year after year.

Use this as a jumping-off point, and if you would like more inspo, you can always shop/ browse my shopping links:

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It’s funny because clients always ask about accessorizing their outfits and how to go about it. I tell every single styling client the same thing: have a signature piece. Something you reach for without thinking, that feels like you, that eliminates the whole question of how to accessorize because you just have it. I had one for years.

This is the story of why I don't anymore. When my first son was born, it was push present time, and I only wanted one thing: the bangle. This was also the time when, if you lived in NYC, you remember, these bangles were everywhere! Honestly, as if Cartier was giving them away, but the trend at the time was to have a stack on your arm, the more the better. Huge eye roll now thinking about it.

My ex-husband, I’ll give credit where it was due; if that's what I wanted, no problem, let's do it. He was good at gifts.

At the time, I was working at SAKS- specifically in designer ready-to-wear so I was surrounded by nothing but ultimate luxury, and my mindset was simple: if it's new and it's a must-have, it needs to be mine. Whatever the trending piece was, I was essentially a sheep in the herd and listened to everyone else rather than my gut instincts about what would work for me.

Since the bangle was such a piece, the arm stacks, the status of it- ofcourse, perfect push present- from the time we purchased it, about 8ish years ago, I never took it off, the way it's designed to be worn.

Then my life changed. I left my marriage, and everything shifted, including what I wanted to look like. As my styling business grew and my personal values did a complete 180, I cared less and less about what was new and more about transformation.

How pieces should feel, what’s uniquely ours. I always understood how to style women- proportions, how to mix different combinations but for the first time in my life, I no longer felt like that sheep in the herd. My whole perspective turned over. And through all of that, the bangle stayed on my arm, getting harder to look at. I didn't love it anymore.

Truthfully, I'm not sure I ever loved it. I wanted it because everyone was buying it, and push presents, as tacky as that phrase sounds, is just something people did! To top it off, the dupes of the bangle had gotten so good that owning the real one stopped meaning anything at all. But it was expensive. The idea of it just sitting in a drawer felt worse than wearing something I resented.

I was talking to my friend Piper Gore, the most talented jewelry designer I know, and she gave me the push I needed to sell it, let it go. We're taught to keep things because of what we paid for them, not because of what they mean to us now. Sound familiar? I’m talking to you if you’re holding onto a few pieces of clothing that might have cost more than you’d like to admit, but deep down you know they aren’t right.

If a piece reminds you of a version of yourself you've outgrown, the price tag isn't a reason to keep it. You’re just going to be irritated wearing it, or it’s hanging just collecting dust. So, I listened to Piper and my own advice, sold the bangle along with a few other pieces sitting in that jewelry box.

All of it says something true about where I am now instead of where I used to be. If there's something in your jewelry box or hanging in your closet that you’re keeping because of what it cost and not because of what it means, that's worth a second look. You're allowed to sell the thing that was once a “must-have” and purchase something you’re smiling ear to ear wearing and really resonates with you!

So now, my “signature jewelry” is me, not chasing the trend. My full stack is a combination of symbolic jewelry- a few pieces because I loved them and few sentimental, my grandmother’s pinky ring. My stack is uniquely mine, and it’s my signature.

This doesn’t mean I’m against manifesting or striving for more- I love that. But what I love more is living in the present, not abandoning this stage of life while setting intentional steps towards the future. In reality, who really knows what the future version of yourself will even look like? We plan, but then life has a way of, well, throwing curveballs.

Only thinking about “how would the future you dress” is a way of telling yourself to abandon the life you're actually living in favor of one that doesn't exist yet. It’s fantasy dressing, which is one of the worst ways to build out a wardrobe that’s wearable.

Buy the blazer for the job you'll have in two years. Buy that gorgeous dress and the events will roll in. I get why it's appealing, and I’m not saying there isn’t a place for that thinking in theory, but in reality, to love your style, revamp your style, and fall in love with your outfits, you need to focus on the present and the pieces you will be living in.

Nobody really wants to admit their actual life tends to be kinda boring. I get it more than most- I’m a hermit. My life consists of working and errands/playground with my boys. Sure, I sprinkle in a night out with girlfriends here and there or a date, but the daily life isn’t really glamorous- but that’s fine! I wouldn’t trade it; I’ve built a life I’m really proud of. Now imagine, though, if my wardrobe only consisted of sexier clothing for date night- because that, in theory, would bring more men through the doors.

Great, but then what am I wearing to the playground, to a client's fitting, to a coffee shop with my laptop? Do you see where I’m going with this? You need to build for the life you have and absolutely sprinkle in your fantasy pieces, but those should be sprinkled in, and not the base, and not even what you’re striving for.

Having a wardrobe that’s entirely split into two piles: the real one, worn into the ground, a little tired, a little wrong for who you are now, and the aspirational one, hanging untouched, waiting for a life that hasn't arrived. You end up settling in your day-to-day, which actually hurts you more in the long run. That’s what will hurt your daily confidence, because then 9 out of 10 times when you’re getting dressed, you’re in something mediocre that you don’t even really love rather than investing in finding the pieces that you can wear daily- that would light you up and build that confidence for today. Which, might I add, has a compounding effect and will build that self-esteem much faster than having a bunch of aspirational pieces that you realistically aren’t pulling out to wear.

That means looking honestly at your Tuesday. Your commute, your job, your body, your budget, this year, not some hypothetical rebrand. It means asking what you wear most and building around that, and then making sure you have the absolute best version of it. If your life is casual, let’s make sure you have the best denim collection, elevated T-shirts that can stand alone. Sneakers that aren’t meant for the gym. These are the switches with the highest impact because this is what you’re living in, and again, these are the pieces that, daily, you’re getting dressed in but not settling because you know these are the absolute best pieces for your style and your life.

Like I’ve mentioned, I understand the mantra of “dressing for your future self,” but do yourself the service of looking at the present. This is exactly what we do for our clients: take their everyday lives into our thought process and make sure it’s the best pieces for that.

If you’re feeling like this hit a little bit of a nerve and you’re looking at your current wardrobe and it’s feeling a little stale. I always offer discovery calls, we can discuss what’s happening right now and what would make sense for you!

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1.Damson Madder Lyra Midi Dress 2. Farm Rio 3. GAP Denim Seamed Halter 4. Alex Mill Flora Dress 5. Cos Gathered Jersey Midi 6. Me+Em Twist Front Maxi 7. Rails Genevieve Dress

1. & Other Stories 2. Moon River Pleated Midi 3. Splendid Madelyn Striped Midi 4. Rowe Midi Dress 5. Moon River Self Belt Midi Denim 6. 4th & Reckless Lucy Dress 7. Madewell Embroidered Deep V-Neck Midi

1. Cara Cara Shelter Island Dress 2. Abercrombie & Fitch 3. Proenza Schouler Loren Dress 4. Rails Marciana Dress 5. Ulla Johnson Jeune Cotton Dress 6. Alexia Burnt Choc Cotton Midi 7. Rails Breeze Dress

1. Pistola Blythe Shirt Dress 2. Dissh Arabella Mini Dress 3. Staud Lucca Mini Dress 4. Dissh Annabel Sleeveless V-Neck 5. Simon Miller 6. Doen 7. Doen Aubrey Polka Dot 8. Staud Brio Dress 9. Faithfull Solana Linen Mini Dress

1. A New Day Button-Up Midi 2. J.Crew Linen Mini Dress 3. Madewell Boatneck Shirred Mini Dress 4. & Other Stories Handkerchief Hem Mini Dress 5. Mango Denim Dress 6. Rhone Cotton+ Dress 7. A New Day Lace Trim Mini Dress

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I mean, the drama of this top but also super wearable! Styled with wide-leg jeans for more casual or more elevated with a slip skirt. Cult Gaia did such a good job with this one!

The Jacket

The Great has easily become one of my go-to brands for clients. This jacket though- worn over a tank top inside, layered in the Fall with a knit- it’s absolutely perfect, and the embroidery in person is so beautiful. I also love a pattern play moment and would pair with this skirt below.

The Skirt

You guys- in person! The colors!!! Look how good my client looks in this piece, and I love it because you can wear it with Birkenstocks now and in the Fall- knee-high boots- any color, but what about an espresso brown or even a python for more texture.

The Gel

OK, this one is random, but I’ve noticed my eyebrows thinning, and I don’t want to microblade again, at least not right now. Only about 6 weeks using this gem, and I can definitely see growth and will always recommend now. I did not take a before/ after picture just purchased it randomly and wish I did photograph!!

The Wedge

Back to fashion- these wedges! They’re colorful but wearable- if that makes sense. I would wear as a neautral and it’s just more interesting. Also notice ankle strap placement- this placement is perfect to make sure it’s not cutting your leg at an awkward place.

The Bag

New bag that I didn’t know I needed! Also comes in this gorgeous olive green! It’s just enough interest with the hardware but nothing trendy.

The Belt

This belt is an investment, but an investment well spent because it’s jaw-dropping gorgeous and truly elevates the most basic outfit. Yes, plenty of other colors are made, but this emerald green!!!

The Belt

And with the above being an investment, this one is your steal. Just a fun way to add interest to your look. Over a tee shirt dress, denim cut offs- think of a casual outfit, throw this over and now it’s interesting.

The Pants

I finally found a pair of lace pants that work, and priced as a steal so can’t go wrong. I don’t feel overdressed in them, and they fit so well! Style it with an oversized tee that covers the bum, or there's a longer sweater vest below- that I own and highly recommend together!

The Clutch

Honestly, this is just fun! White tank, denim cutoffs and this bag= great outfit that you didn’t even have to remotely think about. Also, you can’t really tell in the picture, but the clutch is beaded, which makes me love it more!

The Camisole

This is the most underrated camisole on the market. If you have a shorter or regular-length torso, thank me later! It’s slightly cropped so it’s the perfect length for you to wear solo or in Fall under blazers. Comes in a few colors and truly one of my favorite staples.

The Pants

Why not add fringe? The cool part about these pants is slingback flats in the office to heels at night- you really can style them with the vibe you want, and no matter what, you know you’re going to be stopped and complimented on them.

The Top

Another underrated staple. I LOVE this knit and have it. It’s great because it does cover my bum, so I wear it with any transparent bottom and still feel sexy but covered. The back detail is also gorgeous!

The Skirt

Honestly, just obsessed with this for the color. That’s all, and yes, investment piece, but if this color makes you stop and you can think of multiple ways to wear it, then it’s a smart investment. An investment skirt does not have to be black or navy; it can be a brighter color if that’s your vibe!

The Pants

These culottes are insanely gorgeous and truly you can pull them out 10 years from now and still wear them. Style for dinner, a cocktail party, or honestly, a simple white tank and flat sandals. You can get super creative here. Elastic waist too-if you’re in between sizes!

Instead of a long necklace, think about a skinny scarf. Same concept, different look! Love this one as an option.

The Scarf

Those weren’t all of my top picks! I compiled all my June obsessions below- take a look and lmk what you think!!!

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We’re about to be in July, so let’s talk about summer shoes. These are a few that I’ve either added to my personal closet or have been sending off to clients. I also linked plenty more in my ShopMy. Let’s get into them!

Beaded jewelery, handbags, and shoes are trending this Summer, which just means they’re having an extra big moment, but there is nothing about this pair of sandals that I would say would look dated in a year or two. They also look insanely more expensive in person, which is part of the reason why I do love Steve Madden- he honestly does a great job at making a pair of shoes look more $$ than they are!

Which is exactly why I NEED these in my life. If you’re familiar with the Saint Laurent loafer slide, this Steve Madden pair is essentially the dupe, but I am not mad at it. Funny enough, I actually prefer this pair! I like that there is no logo like Saint Laurent, and some great color choices.

Moving onto heels- I own these and can not rave about them enough! I need a comfortable heel, and I am not wearing anything past 3 inches. Something about the padding in these- genuinely the most comfortable heels I’ve owned- personally love the python as well, as it’s an instant texture to the outfit. I’ve linked other versions too- don’t forget I do have a discount code for Inez, JamieL15.

OK- this one is a little sexier but still such a manageable heel height, and that’s why I love it. Plus, adding leopard print to your outfit is a yes. I loved these for my clients to wear with the obvious little dresses and skirts, but also their jeans and fitted tank when going to dinner.

The flip-flop heel has taken over this Summer as well. I will be the first to admit this is a trend; with that said, I’m into it. It’s an easy trend that doesn’t feel costume-y at all. There is a chance these will look dated in a few Summers, but buy the right pair and live in them. Again, with Steve Madden coming through with this pair, and yes, I’ve also added these to my wardrobe and love them.

I’m just obsessed with this marigold color, it's luxe and really matches with everything. Especially love this pair, though, because of the satin. On Summer nights, sometimes you don’t want to wear heels, so these feel chic for a dinner date without hurting your feet.

These were just some of my finds! Below you can browse the full assortment.

The Full Assortment

Brands Below:

Aligne

Aligne is having a moment! Designed by a small, women-run team, the brand is known for clean cuts and sharp tailoring. Their aesthetic leans minimalist, but with strong interest. When you think of Aligne pieces, denim dresses, blazers, and linen sets, but not generic looking, which is why they are really becoming so popular. Every item is crafted from at least 50% conscious materials, including recycled fabrics and organic cotton, which also separates them; they’re able to keep their prices reasonable while still providing great fabric choices.

What they’re known for: Clean cuts, considered tailoring, and the kind of elevated basics, perfectly-proportioned blazers, nipped-in waistcoats, all consciously made.

Price range: ~$130-$300, insanely well priced for the quality

SHOP ALIGNE SELECTION & OTHERS

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Modern Citizen

Modern Citizen is all mostly under $200. Almost like an elevated Zara, in the best way possible. This is where you go when you want pieces that work on camera, in the office, and at dinner without changing.

What they’re known for: The kind of pieces that transition from desk to dinner without a wardrobe change. Their organic cotton separates, ribbed knits, and structured dresses are go-tos that look 10/10 but aren’t fussy at all!

Price range: mostly under $110, some pieces stretching to around $175-$250.

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The Fold

The Fold was built specifically for professional women, designed in London, fabrics sourced from European mills, and every piece engineered for the reality of a long work day. The collection is built around mix-and-match dressing: core pieces that work in endless combinations so you're not reinventing the wheel. If your dress code leans formal and you want something that reads polished, this is the brand.

What they’re known for: Tailored and versatile designs. Sophisticated and professional clothing that transitions from office to social occasions.

Price range: Trousers typically run $280–$325, blouses around $295–$450, and dresses $445–$535 at retail. It's a higher-end investment with this roundup, but the cost-per-wear on a Fold piece you wear three days a week makes the math work.

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Massimo Dutti

Massimo Dutti leans into clean lines, neutral palettes, structured silhouettes, and fabrics that actually hold up. It's the brand I recommend when someone wants to look quietly expensive without paying quietly high prices, and it ships to the US. It reminds me of a cost-effective Toteme aesthetic.

What they’re known for: Their blazers, tailored trousers, and leather goods are the consistent standouts. The tailoring is clean and well-cut, the color palette is professional and neautral, and the quality holds up to daily wear.

Price range: $200–$350 Ships to the US directly

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These are just four brands that I stand by; leave a comment if you’d like more alternative brands than the obvious ones we see in every mall!

Inez discount code JAMIE15

When I tell you these are the most comfortable heels I’ve ever worn, I am not lying!! I hate heels and truly never wear them, but it’s something about the cushion in this, with the way the straps hit the arch of my foot, that I became instantly obsessed with, and yes, I do own them now.

Sock Candy socks

Sometimes you just need a touch of whimsy. I love that these are the socks you can wear with your loafers and with heels. It’s fun finishing touch at a minimal investment.

The Inspo:

Chan Luu Patchwork top

The top is jaw-droppingly gorgeous. It’s 100% silk and the patches are hand-sewn, just truly gorgeous!!

L’agence Vest

Love it! I also find that so many vests are too low-cut, and you have to layer them; it never looks right. This has a high closure, so it’s appropriate at the office and just insanely chic! Pair with trousers but also all of your midi skirts.

Rag & bone sunglasses

The color is the perfect year-round neautral, more interesting than another black pair of shades and just such an interesting shape.

Simone Miller Clutch

This should be your go-to going-out bag all Summer long, works with every single color and it’s an instant fun conversation piece. Ofcourse, it reminds me Miu Miu, but a fraction of the price point.

The Miu Miu for comparison at $2550:

Teva Sandals

Teva gets a bad name, but in all honesty, they are lightweight, perfect for daily wear, and this color is just a fun neutral! I want to be comfortable, so these are just an immediate yes.

Gap Wedge Sandals

We’re seeing the thong wedge have an insanely big comeback this Summer. Like, I’ve said I want to be comfortable so I am not against this trend at all!

If you see something you like, LMK! If you want to browse other pieces check you can take a look at my ShopMy

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The answer is yes and no. I don’t think you need to buy a Dior tee-shirt to have a beautiful tee-shirt that is made of gorgeous cotton, but I do know there is a difference between a tee-shirt that is flimsy and one that has weight to it.

Don’t get me wrong, Old Navy is actually where I go to buy my tank tops. I have yet to find one better than this, and the price point- you can’t beat it.

I’m breaking down some of the brands below that I go to for basics that are more elevated. Some are heavier in investment but worth it, and some are budget-friendly, and I’m surprised they aren’t charging more!

GAP- this is a great tee because it’s 95% cotton, 5% spandex. So that means around the neck and sleeves have a nice stretch. One like this is going to be super form-fitting, similar to a body suit.

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Cos stores- around the same price as Madewell, but they always have really interesting cuts for their basics. Remember, a basic is not just a T-shirt. It’s a foundation piece that you can build multiple outfits with.

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Buck Mason, the brand as a whole obsessed for basics, they pay attention to their fabrics and always great quality. If you’re looking for a good cropped heavier cotton tee, this is it! Perfect for all your higher wasted pieces and a casual vibe. Outside of their tees, their button-downs are elite, always a 100% cotton.

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I style A LOT with Nation Los Angeles. Less for their actual tee-shirts and more for their basics that have an interesting cut, I wear them solo with jeans and it’s an instantly chic outfit without the fuss. This one has been a long-standing favorite and personally own it.

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Flore Flore is a newer brand that is gaining a cult following. All their tees are made from organic cotton, but there is something about them that makes them hold their shape absolutely perfectly.

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Ofcourse, onmy Shopmy there are more foundation pieces and weekly finds. You can always browse!

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I can see, though, how it’s a little overwhelming- so I’m breaking down some of the things I look for because I have scored BIG over there! I’m not even really talking about designer pieces, although I’ve found plenty at unreasonably good price points, but their contemporary is where it’s at for me. It doesn’t really hold resale value, so the prices you really just can’t beat if you know what to look for.

So before I show you what I loved this week overthere, let me give you the way I actually shop it.

How to shop The RealReal without losing your mind.

Search by brand, not by category- Start with the brands you already know and love, or brands you’ve always wanted to try at a lower entry point. The RealReal’s brand pages are cleaner and faster to navigate. I like to keep a notification for specific brands that I like to watch

Filter for condition first- The RealReal grades every item: I rarely shop below “Very Good” condition. You also need to know your measurements when shopping because items are always mislabeled. The description “Medium” can mean many things for TRR, so measurements matter, AND if the measurements are wrong when it’s shipped, you can tell customer service and avoid shipping fees to return.

Add to your obsession page- I like to curate my own little sample sale over on the TRR. Instead of impulse buying, I just heart the pieces I love as an active scroller. I still get a little surge of dopamine, but fortunately, my wallet stays safe. I like to go back to those pieces; sometimes they are actually marked down, and I scored even more, or they’ve sold, and I missed out and bummed, OR they sold, and I don’t care, which means it would have just been an impulse and not a good purchase.

Editor’s Picks- Will always be some of the best pieces but never the best deals. You have to remember these are the pieces that are separated because they are finds, and a lot of times they are actually fairly overpriced.

Shop Off Season- If you see a beautiful cashmere sweater in the Summer, it might be the wrong season, but you’ll find the best deal! Obviously, do this strategically make sure it’s something you’ll actually want in the Fall.

TRR Updates Twice A Day-new listings go live 10 am and 7 pm EST. You don’t necessarily have to pay attention to this, but if you’re serious about looking at the new pieces, it’s nice to know

The more you scroll over there, the more comfortable you’ll be with the app and realize it’s not so overwhelming!

These are just a few pieces I was loving this week over there:

Ulla Johnson Midi Skirt w/ Tags: $195 (Est. Retail $580)

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Veronica Beard Silk Long Dress $210

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Mary Katrantzou Floral Print Midi Skirt $240

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If you don’t know Mary Katrantzou, she is the reason “print” became a design category worth taking seriously. Her pieces are bold, precise, and unmistakably hers. Graphic print work that retails in the $980+ range and holds its value on resale because the design is genuinely distinctive.

Me & Em Skirt $238

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I have a bunch of others linked below!

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I have been recommending Janessa Leone hats to clients for years, and I will never stop.

Here’s why this one specifically. It’s a wide-brimmed bucket hat in raffia, packable, which means it survives a suitcase without becoming a disaster, and wire-infused, which means you can actually shape the brim to your face instead of wearing it exactly as it arrived. UPF 35+ protection built in.

Cost-per-wear on a hat like this is genuinely excellent. It goes with everything you’re already reaching for this summer, it travels, and it lasts. So, I’d much rather go for this one knowing I won’t need to replace it next Summer or the one afterwards.

I stopped purchasing designer sunglasses a long time ago. I can’t be trusted.

They all scratch the same, and it’s just as easy to lose the expensive pair as the inexpensive one. So if you see a great pair from Target, grab them. This pair is calling my name, has a fun vintage feel, and if by chance I do end up losing them this summer, I won’t feel horribly guilty!

While in the mood of getting ready for Summer. I can’t get enough of Nation Los Angeles clothing. Simply because great cotton, breathes well and easy tops to wear at night, but you won’t be sweating in them. This is the perfect tank, wear with jeans for Happy Hour.

But honestly, one is better than the next. I own the below, and see they just restocked it. Highly suggest for when you don’t know what to wear- grab this tank, jeans and you’re good!

This round-up was super small and concise, just a few pieces on my mind. If you’d like, below are the rest of the pieces on my ShopMy.

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So, these are some brands I show my clients who are looking for pieces to wear to work. Quality is impeccable, and the price point is fair! What a concept 🧐 I also love that they aren’t so mainstream that you will find them everywhere.

Brands Below:

Argent

The vibe: Power dressing, but make it actually wearable.

Argent was founded by Sali Christeson after a decade in finance and tech, so she understands what women actually need. She got tired of workwear that felt stiff, boring, and frankly, designed by people who’d never actually worked in her industry. The brand is known for bold suiting, functional details (we’re talking real pockets, like, phone-sized pockets), and colors that aren’t navy or black. Cadet blue. Fuchsia. Structured pieces that feel confident without trying too hard.

Their customer list includes Hillary Clinton, Katie Couric, and Huma Abedin, which tells you everything you need to know about who this brand dresses and the energy it carries.

What they’re known for: Blazers, suits, and dresses built for professional women who want to look good AND move through the world comfortably.

Price range: ~$165 – $695. Not cheap, but these are the pieces you keep for years.

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Filippa K

The vibe: Swedish minimalism meets wardrobe investment.

Founded in Stockholm in 1993, Filippa K has been doing quiet luxury before it was a hashtag. The whole brand is built on the idea that you should buy less and wear more, and you know I personally am a fan of cost-per-wear, and with these garments, that’ll be easy to do! It’s clean silhouettes, exceptional fabrics, and tailoring. Think structured blazers in neutral tones, perfectly cut trousers, and knits that actually hold their shape after a year of wear.

This is the brand you pull out when you want to look effortless, like you just put this together without even thinking, yet it also looks so intentional and chic. The aesthetic is restrained in the best possible way. Nothing is loud. Everything is considered.

What they’re known for: Minimalist suiting, elevated basics, and the kind of fabric quality that makes other brands at this price point embarrassing. The blazers and wool trousers are their standouts.

Price range: ~$100 – $300.

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Soeur

The vibe: Parisian androgyny with a feminine soul.

Soeur was founded by two sisters, Domitille and Angélique Brion, in Paris in 2008, and it has almost zero presence in the US market. Which is exactly why I’m telling you about it. The brand draws inspiration from masculine tailoring, French New Wave cinema, and 1950s Scandinavian design. Their pieces feel fluid but also a little architectural, and completely undone in the most polished way.

Their shirts are the entry point, oversized, beautifully cut, in cotton poplin or washed silk. But the trousers are where it gets serious. Think: cigarette pants and wide-leg silhouettes that fall exactly right.

What they’re known for: Refined tailoring with an androgynous edge. Silk blouses, structured coats, and perfectly cut separates that look expensive without screaming it.

Price range: ~$100 – $250. Ships to the US from their site.

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Rue Sophie

The vibe: Quiet luxury, LA-born, built for the woman who moves.

Rue Sophie is an LA-based brand that’s been quietly gaining a cult following. The creative director, Sabina Vilusic, is originally from Croatia and pulls inspiration from European restraint, her design philosophy is literally “permanence over trend.” The brand uses fabrics like wool, cashmere, silk, cupro, and lambskin, and the color palette stays tight: neutrals, structure, a few artful moments.

You’ve probably seen it on Revolve or Saks and didn’t know what you were looking at. Now you do. The outerwear is exceptional, structured coats with menswear-inspired tailoring that are going to outlive every trend cycle. And the dresses are the kind that travel. Wear them to the office on Tuesday, a dinner on Saturday, and you’re done.

What they’re known for: Elevated essentials in premium fabrics. Especially the trench coats, midi dresses, and tailored skirts. The kind of brand that makes people stop and ask where you got it.

Price range: ~$88 – $498 (most pieces land between $150 – $300).

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These are just four brands that I stand by, leave a comment if you’d like more alternative brands than the obvious ones we see in every mall!

This is one of my go-to formulas, specifically for wearing to work in the Spring/Summer. In my Shopmy, you’ll find all of these links, plus more.

Outfit Formula:

Midi skirt- pointed toe flat or kitten heel- tucked in tee- blazer/ jacket (make sure the proportions work all together with your figure, this is where understanding which cuts to look for comes in)

1. I’ll always be a fan of a midi skirt; it’s the universal length. With the warmer months ahead, it’s surprisingly hard to find one that you can wear to work- not prairie style, not overly casual or stuffy, and the fabric won’t suffocate you.

1. Lioness skirt 2. Alex Mill 3. Boden 4. Tuckernuck 5. Aligne 6. Argent

Remember, an outfit formula is looking at the outfit as a whole and realizing the cuts of the individual pieces can be mixed and matched as long as you follow the formula- it’s genuinely just like following a cooking recipe you love, if you’re following the actual recipe, it won’t come out wrong.

The next step of this formula is an elevated tee. I like to think of it as your blouse alternative. You don’t always want to wear a silk blouse to work, especially when it’s 90 degrees out, but if you have a tee shirt in a great cut, styled with something structured (midi skirts above) or a pair of trousers you can absolutely wear to work, and you’ll be more comfortable throughout the day. Below are some of my favorite options that are more structured and would pair perfectly with skirts or trousers.

The jacket is your 3rd layer; it’s not completely necessary if it’s too warm, but nice to have for the air conditioning and does make the overall outfit feel more complete. Opt for either oversized or a bit cropped. You don’t want it to feel too shrunken on you, it will make the proportions feel off.

1. Frame 2. Alex Mill 3. Lioness 4. Ruti 5. Ba&sh 6. Cinq A Sept

Last for today- if you like this formula. These are some of the shoes I would pair with the midi skirt that are not super high heels.

1. Inez Discount Code: Jamie15 2. Tony Bianco 3. Tony Bianco 4. Rag & Bone 5. Marc Fisher 6. Anne Klein

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But during the day? I'm choosing me. I’m not sure what I’ll end up doing, maybe I’ll watch T.V all day, or maybe I’ll venture out and go thrifting. Not sure, but it’ll be what I want to do.

I love my boys; they’re my entire world, but the last thing after parenting solo all week, working, is honestly being “on” during Mother’s Day. Isn’t that supposed to be our day?

Nobody would look twice at a dad who spent Father's Day on the golf course. I'm taking the same energy. And I want to talk to the moms who are reading this while mentally running through everyone else's needs and 200 open tabs in their brain of sh*t they need to get done. I see you, and we’re tired!

Take the damn day and do something you truly want to do. Either as a family or solo, it’s what you want to do.

And with that energy of spending the day, the way you actually want, stop also waiting for the gift. You know the one. The thing you actually want but would never put on the list because it feels like too much, or not practical enough, or somehow selfish to ask for. The blazer you keep walking past. The facial you've been meaning to book since January.

Here's the truth: the gift you're waiting for is one only you can give yourself. And most of us have been waiting a long time. I'm a single mom. I know what it is to do the math before I spend anything on myself. Rent solo, my boys’ list of activities, the fruit that somehow is $6 for strawberries, I get it, it’s never-ending.

But I also know what happens when you put yourself at the bottom of the list for too long. Your wardrobe starts to reflect it. Your mornings start to reflect it. The way you carry yourself starts to reflect it.

Because here's what nobody talks about: your clothes are working whether you're thinking about them or not. Every morning when you get dressed, before you've said a single word to anyone, you're sending yourself a message about how much you matter. Psychologists call it enclothed cognition; what you wear measurably affects your confidence, your performance, and your willingness to take up space. This isn't vanity.

So when you're grabbing whatever's at the top of the pile every morning, the functional, the fine, the good enough, you're not just getting dressed. You're telling yourself mediocre is fine, my needs aren’t as important.

I rebuilt my wardrobe slowly, on a budget, after my divorce. I wasn't shopping to impress anyone. I was editing out the version of myself I'd outgrown and making room for the woman I was becoming. And I watched the same shift happen in clients going through divorces, career changes, and kids leaving home. It's never really about the clothes. It's about finally deciding you're worth showing up for. The guilt is real, I know that too.

I have so many discovery calls with women who want to invest in my services. They know it would help them with their confidence, with their growth, with their overall well-being, but many of them hesitate because they think well IS this really necessary? Should I invest in this, knowing it’s just for me and not my family as a whole?

She'll spend on the house, the kids, and the family vacation without blinking. We've been taught that spending on ourselves is vanity. That it can wait. That there will be a better time, after the kids are older, after things settle down, after. There is no after. There's just now, and the choice you make in it.

So this Mother's Day, I want to ask you something honestly: when was the last time you got dressed for you? Bought something for you? Took a day, or even just a morning, that was entirely, unapologetically for you?

You don't have to wait for someone to permit you. You don't have to wait for a gift card to a place you wouldn't have chosen. You don't have to wait for the kids to grow up or the budget to loosen or the right moment to appear.

You can choose yourself today. The way I'm choosing myself on Sunday. Not because you've earned it. Not because you've checked everything off the list. But because you are a person, not just a role.

So, this Mother’s Day, if you don’t want to “parent” don’t! They’ll be fine- spend time doing what YOU want.