Back then I had ten minutes of internet a week…

Ten minutes.

Not a figure of speech.

That was the free time left before my computing course, and I used every second to download as much content as I could and carry it home, to the white computer my parents bought from an aunt.

The rest of the week I was alone with it. No searching, no asking, no way to check anything.

So I did the only thing I could. I wrote down my questions and waited.

Monday a question showed up. Wednesday another one. And somewhere in the middle, with no internet at all, I ended up solving half of them by myself, trial and error, testing the code until it worked. By the time the ten minutes finally came, most of the list had already died on its own.

It was a terrible method. Slow, frustrating, full of dead ends.

And it was, by far, the most effective way I have ever studied.

The study that graded how we study

I only understood why much later, reading about learning and falling into a paper that became a landmark in the field.

In 2013, John Dunlosky, Katherine Rawson, Elizabeth Marsh, Mitchell Nathan and Daniel Willingham published a large review of study techniques in Psychological Science in the Public Interest.

They took ten common techniques, the kind anyone can use alone, without a teacher and without special material, and tested each one against decades of experimental evidence. In the end they gave each one a utility rating: high, moderate, or low.

Two came out high. Three moderate. And five, five out of ten, came out low.

The uncomfortable part is which five.

Low utility: summarization, highlighting and underlining, the keyword mnemonic, forming mental images while reading, and rereading.

Moderate utility: elaborative interrogation (asking yourself why something is true), self-explanation (explaining to yourself the step you just took), and interleaved practice (mixing different topics in one session instead of doing blocks).

High utility: retrieval practice, which is testing yourself by trying to recall without looking, and distributed practice, which is spreading study over time instead of piling it all up at once.

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Look at the low-utility list again. Highlighting. Rereading. Summarizing. That is basically the complete manual for how everyone studies.

One honest warning before I walk down the list. The study sorts into three bands, it does not rank the techniques inside each band.

So the order from 10 to 1 below is mine, not theirs. Inside each band I ranked by the gap between how much a technique is used and how much it delivers. The more loved and the less useful, the deeper it falls.

10. The keyword mnemonic

That trick of linking a new word to a similar-sounding word in your own language and gluing a mental image onto both. Used mostly for foreign-language vocabulary.

The evidence is weak for three reasons. It needs real training to be used well, it works for very little material (try it on an abstract management concept and watch what happens), and, most uncomfortable of all, there are signs of faster forgetting. People who learn through the image tend to lose it faster later.

So you pay a lot up front and memory still hands you the wrong change.

9. Mental imagery while reading

Reading while trying to picture what is being described.

It works in narrow conditions, basically with text that lends itself to an image. If the material is conceptual, there is nothing to picture. And once the test moves from simple recall of facts to comprehension, the gain disappears.

It is a technique that harms no one. It just does not do much good either.

8. Highlighting and underlining

This is where it starts to hurt.

Highlighting is, by a wide margin, the most universal thing in adult study. Yellow marker, pen, a finger dragging across the Kindle. And the measured benefit is minimal.

Worse. There is evidence that highlighting can get in the way. People who highlight a lot start treating the text as a string of loose important bits and lose the ability to draw inferences, to connect one idea to another. The highlight cuts out the paragraph and throws away the stitching.

And there is a timing problem nobody mentions. We highlight on the first read, which is exactly the moment we do not yet know what matters. You decide what is essential before you understand the argument.

My Kindle has thousands of highlights. If I am honest, a large part of them I never opened again.

7. Rereading

Reading it again, from the top. The favorite technique of anyone with an exam tomorrow.

The gain is real, but small and stuck in the very short term. It fades on the delayed test, which is exactly the test that matters in real life.

And it carries the worst side effect on the list, one I will develop further down because it deserves its own section: rereading works beautifully at one single thing, making the text feel familiar.

Familiar is not known. But the brain makes that wrong calculation with impressive ease.

6. Summarization

Summarizing in your own words what you just read.

The authors are careful here, and their caution is worth repeating. Summarization is not really one technique, it is a whole family of them, which makes it hard to conclude anything general. Training improves the result, but the training required is long. And summarizing should not be confused with copying, which is what most of us do without noticing.

This is the one that bothered me most, and I will explain why. When I finish a book, and I have done this for about fifteen years, I go back through my notes and highlights and write a short summary, just for me, of the general idea. I thought it was my great reader’s habit.

By the table, low utility.

I chewed on that for a few days. And I think the difference sits in an almost silly detail. If the summary is written with the book open beside me, copying the highlights, it is summarization and worth little. If it is written with the book closed, pulling from my head what stayed, it stopped being a summary and became something else (the number 1 technique on this list, spoiler).

It is literally the same gesture with the hand in a different place. I have done plenty of both, and I need no research to know which one hurts more.

5. Elaborative interrogation

Here we climb into the moderate band.

The technique is simple to the point of sounding silly: when you read a claim, stop and ask yourself why it is true. Not memorize that it is so, but force an explanation.

It works well with factual material and depends on prior knowledge. Someone who knows nothing about the subject cannot elaborate anything, and just stares at the sentence the way a calf stares at a new gate.

But for anyone with some base already, it is one of the cheapest things to do. It costs a question.

4. Self-explanation

Close to the last one, with a difference in aim. Instead of asking why something is true, you explain to yourself the step you just took and how the new information connects to what you already knew.

It shows up well across many kinds of task, including problem solving. What holds the rating back is the cost. It takes time, and there is still less research in real classroom conditions than for the two big ones up top.

I have used this one without knowing its name forever, by writing. Writing about an idea is self-explanation with a witness.

3. Interleaved practice

Mixing subjects or problem types in one session instead of doing separate blocks.

The evidence is good in mathematics and motor skill, and thinner outside that, which is why it sits in the moderate band.

The interesting part is psychological. During interleaved practice, performance gets worse. You make more mistakes, you move slower, you leave the session with the clear feeling that it is not working. And the result on the later test is better.

Hold on to that sentence, because it is the heart of everything that comes next.

2. Distributed practice

High utility. Spreading study over time instead of piling it all into one session.

This is one of the oldest and most stubborn findings in psychology. Hermann Ebbinghaus was already documenting the spacing effect in 1885, memorizing nonsense syllables on himself, alone, with a patience that today would get a diagnosis. A hundred and forty years have passed and the conclusion has not moved.

Same total number of hours. Spread out, they yield more. Always.

And here comes the kid with ten minutes of internet a week. I was not distributing my practice out of wisdom, I was distributing it out of lack of bandwidth. Monday’s question could only be answered on Friday. The forced gap, the one I hated, was the medicine.

1. Retrieval practice

The other high rating, and the one I put first on my own, because the study does not choose between the two.

Retrieval practice is trying to remember without looking. Closing the material and pulling from memory. A flashcard, a low-stakes test, or simply the dry question “what was this chapter arguing again?” before opening the page once more.

It works across ages, across kinds of material, across short and long horizons, and it survives outside the lab. Few things in behavioral science are that robust.

In 2021, Gregory Donoghue and John Hattie published a meta-analysis in Frontiers in Education on the same ten techniques. It covers 242 studies, 1,619 effects, 169,179 participants, with an overall mean of 0.56. The two most effective were still distributed practice and retrieval practice. The two worst, underlining and summarizing.

Eight years later, with another method and another ruler, the top and the bottom of the list stayed in the same places.

The bad ones feel wonderful

Here is the part that got me.

Rereading works beautifully at one thing. Making the text feel familiar.

On the second pass everything slides smoothly, nothing surprises you, every paragraph looks obvious. And the brain does the wrong math. It confuses the ease of reading with owning the material.

Robert Bjork calls this a desirable difficulty, the idea that the conditions making study easier in the moment are often the ones leaving memory weaker later. The reverse holds too. The effort that bothers you now is what sticks.

Except nobody enjoys feeling dumb on a Tuesday night.

Trying to recall with the book closed is uncomfortable because it exposes the hole. You sit down, close the book, try to pull the argument back, and out comes a fragment, a stray word, an awkward silence.

It is the same feeling as leaving the house and not remembering whether you locked the door.

Rereading is the opposite. Rereading is that little comfort. You run the yellow marker across the page, the paragraph looks pretty, you close the book feeling like you did your homework and you sleep in peace.

A great feeling. And almost useless.

I am not writing this from a comfortable place.

My Calibre library has 7,782 titles, all with clean metadata, good-quality covers, work nobody sees that I do only for myself. My Kindle is full of highlights that export straight to Readwise. Thousands of them. Yellow marks stacked up across books on management, history, philosophy.

The highlight, in the moment I make it, feels like a decision. It feels like I separated what matters. What I actually did was outsource the remembering to an app and move on with a clean conscience.

(And yes, the Calibre page count says it would take me well more than one lifetime to read everything sitting there. But that is a talk for another day.)

Nobody is going to give you an exam

There is an extra problem for those of us already out of school, and I think it is the whole point.

Dunlosky’s review was built for students. A student has an exam marked on the calendar. The exam is retrieval practice, handed over on a plate, with a date and a time, whether they want it or not.

An adult reading a management book at eleven at night has no exam. Nobody will ask. Nobody will check. You can finish three hundred books without ever needing to remember a single paragraph, and life goes on exactly the same.

So the test has to be built by you. And that is where almost everyone quits, because building your own exam is boring and there is no grade at the end.

What I have been doing, with no pretty system at all, is roughly this. Close the book at the end of the chapter and try to say out loud what it argued. Write the note from memory first, check it after. Leave one question open for the following week instead of resolving everything in the same session. Explain the idea to someone who did not read it, which is a disguised and cruel way to find out whether you understood at all.

None of this is pretty. None of it gives you that good feeling of productivity.

But it is basically what I did with ten minutes of internet a week, without knowing it had a name, without knowing there was research behind it, only because there was no other way.

The strange thing is that everything got easier since then. Infinite access, instant answers, a ready summary of any book in twenty seconds. And what the evidence says is that a good part of what got easier also got more useless.

Maybe scarcity was the teacher, and nobody told us.

And you, when was the last time you closed the book and tried to remember before looking?

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In this episode I talk about three things that shape that first week. The first is listening before you show up. Wanting to prove your value right away is natural, but nobody expects you to fix anything on day one. What they expect is that you learn how things work in there, and that includes noticing the gap between the way the company says it works and the way it actually works.

The second is that relationships come before skill. In those first days nobody has seen you work yet, so what sticks is how you treat people. Learning names, treating the person who seems less important well, accepting a coffee. That builds more than any deliverable, and it is exactly what saves you when you need help a month from now.

The third is the fine line between confidence and arrogance. Arriving confident is good, arriving ready to teach everyone is the fastest way to get rejected. Every company has a reason for doing things its way, even when it looks wrong. Humility here is not shrinking yourself, it is recognizing that you don't have the full map yet.

If you are starting somewhere new, or you lead someone who is, this episode is about what really matters in those first days. No data, no studies, just the basics almost everyone forgets.

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Most agile literature treats agility as something a team does. In Agile IT Organization Design, Sriram Narayan makes a different and more demanding claim:

Agility is something an organization is designed for, or against, long before a team writes its first user story.

A team can run every ceremony correctly and still deliver slowly, because the structure around it, the funding model, the reporting lines, the way accountability is assigned, was built for a different kind of work.

I read a lot of books on delivery, and most of them are variations on the same theme, run the ceremonies better. This one is not. It spends its pages above the team level, on the decisions a project manager usually inherits rather than makes, which is exactly why it stayed with me.

Of course, this is focused on IT/Software business, so Narayan’s starting point is a distinction that reframes everything downstream of it.

Software delivery is not a production process. It is a design process. Production rewards predictability and repeatability. Design rewards learning under uncertainty.

Most IT organizations are still funded, staffed, and governed as if they were factories, which is precisely why teams that adopt agile practices correctly often fail to become more responsive.

Organizational structure, not methodology, is the primary lever for IT agility.

Scrum, Kanban, and SAFe are practices a team can adopt. Whether those practices produce real responsiveness depends on decisions made far outside the team: how work is funded, how teams are composed, who owns outcomes, and how success is measured.

3 governing shifts the book argues for

• Govern for value over predictability: Success is measured by outcomes delivered, not adherence to a plan made before the work began.

• Organize for responsiveness over cost efficiency: Speed comes from reducing handoffs between specialized teams, even when that looks less efficient on paper.

• Design for intrinsic motivation over extrinsic control: Autonomy, mastery, and purpose, drawn from Daniel Pink’s research, produce the unscripted collaboration that agility actually depends on.

Core structural concepts introduced in the book

• Capability team: A permanent, cross-functional team that owns a business capability end to end, replacing the temporary project team.

• Outcome owner: A single, named individual with both authority and accountability for a result, introduced as the fix for diffused, unclear ownership.

• Decision record: A written trail of what was decided, by whom, and why, used to prevent decisions from being silently relitigated.

• Professor-entrepreneur model: A structure where function leads advise on craft without controlling budget or headcount, and outcome owners run their capability with founder-level accountability.

• Alignment map: A tool that connects a stated business priority directly to the technical work a team is doing, closing the gap between strategy and delivery.

• Capacity-based funding: Budgeting a team’s ongoing capacity rather than approving individual projects, which removes the disruptive cycle of standing teams up and disbanding them.

• T-shaped staffing: Hiring and developing people for depth in one skill and range across several, replacing narrow, role-based hiring.

• Portfolio-level WIP limits: Deliberately constraining how many initiatives run at once, on the argument that finishing fewer things properly outperforms progressing many things partially.

What follows takes each of these ideas further, and turns them into a working understanding of what the book is actually asking an organization to do differently.

Where I disagree with Narayan, or where I think he underestimates the friction of applying something, I say so.

Lesson 1: Treat Software Delivery as a Design Process, Not a Production Process

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Last week, I wrote about a Portuguese word, perrengue, the small hardship you never plan for but somehow keep retelling for years, the delayed flight, the project that fell apart in your hands.

This week I want to turn the coin over. Because there is a kind of person I understand very well, since I think I am one of them: the optimizer.

The one who reads about productivity, tunes the calendar, automates the boring parts, finds the shortest route through everything. I have done this for years. I love a clean system. I love friction removed.

And lately a quiet question keeps following me around.

What actually happens to the person who succeeds at removing all of it?

Not most of it. All of it.

We live inside a culture that treats friction as an enemy. Every app promises to save you a step. Every service delivers the thing before you finish wanting it. The whole machine is built to smooth the road so completely that you never feel the terrain under the wheels.

And most of it is good. I am not going to pretend I want my flights delayed or my groceries lost. Nobody does.

But here is the thing I keep circling back to.

The perrengue, the friction, the rough patch, that is exactly the raw material that becomes baggage later.

It is the thing that pays the memory dividend down the line.

So a life engineered to have zero perrengue is also, quietly, a life engineered to have zero baggage.

Think about the gym for a second. You go there precisely to fight resistance. If you kept taking the weight off the bar until lifting felt effortless, you would have a very pleasant workout and absolutely no muscle.

The whole point is the load.

The curious thing is that we understand this perfectly at the gym, and then we walk out and spend the rest of the day trying to take the weight off every other bar in our life.

Nassim Taleb has a word for the thing I am fumbling toward here. In his book Antifragile he describes systems that do not just survive stress, they actually improve because of it.

Your muscles. Your immune system. Certain skills. Remove the stressor entirely and they do not stay strong. They weaken.

A frictionless life is fragile in exactly this way.

Not dramatically. Not all at once.

It just slowly loses the capacity to handle anything that was not scheduled and optimized in advance.

You get very good at the smooth road and strangely helpless the moment the road is not smooth.

And I think leaders should sit with this one longer than most.

Because we do this to the people we lead, with the best intentions. We clear every obstacle out of their path. We answer the question before they have struggled with it. We hand them the process so they never have to build one.

It feels like generosity. It looks like good management. (I have done it, more than once, thinking I was helping.)

But you cannot outsource someone’s perrengue and then wonder why they never grew.

The struggle you remove from your team is the struggle you also remove from their future. You are not protecting them. You are quietly disinheriting them.

So where does this leave the optimizer?

Not with a call to go make life hard, please. That would be its own kind of stupid, the person who books the worst flight on purpose so they will have a story. Manufactured hardship pays nothing, same as I said last week.

A perrengue only becomes baggage when it was real.

Maybe the honest answer is that optimization is a tool, not a religion.

Smooth the roads that only waste you, the meaningless friction, the ten minutes lost to a bad form. Keep the friction that is actually shaping you. Know the difference.

I do not think the goal is a frictionless life. I think the goal is enough friction to stay awake to your own life. To still be someone things can happen to. To leave a few bars in the gym with the weight still on.

Because the smoothest life I can imagine is also, when I really picture it, the emptiest one. Nothing pushes back. Nothing costs anything. Nothing gets stored in the account for later.

And a life where nothing ever pushes back is not really a life optimized.

It is a life on mute.

So the question I am leaving myself with, and you too, is smaller and harder than it sounds.

Which of your frictions are you supposed to remove, and which ones were you supposed to keep?

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Most reading lists for executives are the same forty books everyone has already half-read. This is not that.

This is a complete architecture, the professional library that teaches you how to run things, and underneath it the human library that decides whether you are worth following while you do.

CEO here is not a job title. It is a way of carrying responsibility.

If you lead a team of four or a company of four thousand, or you intend to one day, this was built for you.

Why the reading you have done is not enough

You have read the strategy books. Maybe the good ones.

And you have noticed the thing nobody says out loud, that the people who read the most business books are rarely the best leaders. The frameworks stack up and the judgment does not.

The reason is simple once you see it. Business books teach the craft, how to price, how to compete, how to organize a team. They do not teach the thing underneath the craft, how power actually behaves, what people do under pressure, how to decide when the data runs out and you are alone with the call. That part was written down a long time ago, by people who watched empires rise and fall, and it does not appear in the business section.

So you end up with half an education. Competent and hollow.

A technician who will make one catastrophic decision the first time a real crisis arrives, because real crisis is not in the management books, it is in Thucydides.

The Philosopher CEO is the other half, put in order and connected to the first. Two libraries, one system, read in the sequence that actually builds a person.

The system, in numbers

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The Executive Path. 156 books. The professional formation, how an enterprise is actually run, across five tracks:

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• The Terrain (26 books). The world the executive plays on. Geopolitics, macroeconomics, political economy, the forces moving under every market.

• The Edge and the Voice (9 books). Where decision becomes ethics and word. Executive communication, applied ethics, the law and governance that set the rules of the game.

The Complete Canon. 697 books. The human formation behind the executive, the civilizational library that forms judgment itself, built in five layers:

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The Executive Path, where it begins

The first eighteen books of the professional formation, in reading order. Notice that the sequence braids the tracks on purpose, a decision book, then a book on character, then a strategy book.

You build the craft and the person at the same time. The track each book belongs to is tagged so you can see the architecture forming.

1. Thinking, Fast and Slow — Daniel Kahneman The Craft

• The two systems running your judgment, the fast one that jumps and the slow one that checks.

• Where your decisions get hijacked, anchoring, availability, overconfidence, named so you can catch them.

• Why your gut is right in some domains and dangerous in others, and how to tell which is which.

2. The Effective Executive — Peter Drucker The Craft

• Effectiveness as a habit you build, not a talent you have.

• Managing your time by measuring where it actually goes, not where you think it goes.

• Deciding by starting from what is right, not from what is acceptable to everyone.

• Building on strengths, yours and your team’s, instead of fixing weaknesses.

3. Meditations — Marcus Aurelius The Foundation

• Governing yourself before you govern anyone else, written by the most powerful man alive.

• What is in your control and what is not, the most practical line ever drawn.

• Composure under pressure practiced as a daily discipline, not summoned in the moment.

4. The Prince — Machiavelli The Foundation

• Power described as it is, not as it should be, so you stop being surprised by it.

• When being feared serves you and when being loved does, and why pretending the question away is fatal.

• How much of any outcome is skill and how much is fortune, and where to spend your effort.

5. The Art of War — Sun Tzu The Foundation

• Winning before the fight by shaping the position, not by fighting harder.

• Knowing yourself and the other side as the whole of strategy.

• The cost of prolonged conflict, and why the best move is often not to engage.

6. Competitive Strategy — Michael Porter The Craft

• The five forces that decide whether an industry is worth being in at all.

• Where profit actually comes from, and why most competition destroys it.

• Choosing a position you can defend instead of trying to be good at everything.

7. Good Strategy, Bad Strategy — Richard Rumelt The Craft

• The test that separates real strategy from a list of goals with a deadline.

• The kernel, diagnosis, guiding policy, coherent action, usable on Monday.

• Why most corporate strategy is fluff, and how to spot the fluff in your own.

8. Nicomachean Ethics — Aristotle The Foundation

• Character as a habit you build through repetition, the most useful idea in the book.

• The mean between extremes as a decision rule, courage between cowardice and recklessness.

• Practical wisdom, the judgment that reads what this specific situation requires.

9. The Intelligent Investor — Benjamin Graham The Craft

• Margin of safety, deciding so that being wrong still leaves you standing.

• Price versus value, and why the market’s mood is not the same as the truth.

• Temperament over intelligence as the real edge in any high-stakes call.

10. Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion — Robert Cialdini The Craft

• The six levers that move people, reciprocity, commitment, social proof, authority, liking, scarcity.

• How you are being persuaded, so you can decide instead of react.

• Using the levers honestly, and recognizing when they are being used on you.

11. High Output Management — Andrew Grove The Craft

• Managerial output measured as the output of your whole team, not your own busywork.

• The meeting, the one-on-one, and the review treated as the real tools of the job.

• Leverage, spending your time where it multiplies instead of where it merely fills.

12. History of the Peloponnesian War — Thucydides The Foundation

• Leadership in crisis and collapse, written better here than anywhere after.

• Power without illusion, what the strong do and the weak endure when it counts.

• How fear, honor, and interest actually drive decisions, in nations and in people.

13. The Innovator’s Dilemma — Clayton Christensen The Craft

• Why great companies fail by doing everything right, the trap of listening only to your best customers.

• Disruption from below, the cheap and worse product that eats you from the bottom.

• When to protect the core and when to cannibalize it before someone else does.

14. Atomic Habits — James Clear The Operator

• Systems over goals, you do not rise to your targets, you fall to your routines.

• The small margin compounded, one percent better as a strategy, not a slogan.

• Designing the environment so the right action is the easy action.

15. How to Win Friends and Influence People — Dale Carnegie The Operator

• The oldest reliable manual on making people want to work with you.

• Genuine interest in others as the most underrated professional skill.

• Winning cooperation without winning arguments, and why the argument was never the point.

16. Man’s Search for Meaning — Viktor Frankl The Foundation

• Meaning as the thing that survives when everything else is taken, tested in the worst place on earth.

• The last human freedom, choosing your response when you cannot choose your circumstance.

• Purpose as fuel, why people with a why endure almost any how.

17. The Pyramid Principle — Barbara Minto The Edge and the Voice

• Leading with the answer, structuring communication so the point comes first.

• Grouping ideas so an executive audience follows you without effort.

• Thinking clearly on paper as a proxy for thinking clearly at all.

18. Organizational Culture and Leadership — Edgar Schein The Craft

• Culture as the invisible operating system, the assumptions nobody states but everyone obeys.

• Why change fails when it fights the culture instead of working through it.

• The leader’s real job, shaping the assumptions, not just the org chart.

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The Complete Canon, where it begins

The other half, the human formation. This is Layer I, the forty-two essentials, the oldest arguments humanity ever had about power, character, decision, and what a life is for. Read these and you carry the ground everything else stands on.

The Ancient and Classical World

Iliad — Homer

• What rage does to a leader, and what it costs the people who follow him.

• Honor and reputation as forces that move armies, older than any theory of motivation.

• The permanent tension between one man’s glory and the group’s survival.

Odyssey — Homer

• Intelligence as survival, the leader who wins by cunning when force runs out.

• The long road home as a model for endurance and the discipline of return.

• Reading people and rooms before acting, the origin of situational judgment.

Theogony and Works and Days — Hesiod

• Where order comes from, how a world gets built out of chaos.

• The dignity of work and the moral weight of doing your part.

• Justice as something maintained, not assumed.

The Theban Plays — Sophocles

• The limits of control, how a capable person destroys himself by what he cannot see.

• Antigone against Creon, the permanent conflict between law and conscience.

• Pride and blindness as the failure modes of powerful people.

The Oresteia — Aeschylus

• How a society moves from private revenge to public justice.

• Consequences that outlive the decision, the chain no single actor controls.

• The cost of leadership paid across generations.

The Histories — Herodotus

• The first attempt to explain events by evidence instead of myth.

• Why empires overreach, the pattern of power reaching past its limit.

• Cultures understood on their own terms before being judged.

History of the Peloponnesian War — Thucydides

• Leadership in crisis and collapse, the permanent reference.

• Power without illusion, the Melian dialogue on the strong and the weak.

• How fear, honor, and interest drive nations and people.

The Republic — Plato

• What justice is, and whether the just life is actually the better one.

• The philosopher who governs, the origin of this entire project.

• A soul and a state structured the same way, reason over spirit over appetite.

The Symposium and Phaedo — Plato

• What love is and what it is for, treated as a serious question.

• Facing death with composure, Socrates dying without fear.

• Dialogue as a way of thinking, testing an idea by letting it be attacked.

Nicomachean Ethics — Aristotle

• The best book on character ever written, virtue as a built habit.

• The mean between extremes as a working decision rule.

• Practical wisdom, the judgment that knows what the moment requires.

Politics — Aristotle

• How power is organized, and why every government decays into its worse form.

• The human being as a political animal, made for organized life.

• The middle as the stabilizer of any order, an argument still running.

On the Nature of Things — Lucretius

• A view of reality that strips fear out of the universe.

• Freedom from superstition as a foundation for clear thinking.

• The courage to see the world without comforting stories.

On the Republic and On the Laws — Cicero

• Duty and public service as the center of a serious life.

• Natural law, the standard of justice above any ruler’s decree.

• The statesman who holds a republic together by character.

The Aeneid — Virgil

• Duty over desire, the leader who sacrifices what he wants for what he owes.

• The cost of building something lasting, and who pays it.

• Founding as a burden carried, not a prize won.

Meditations — Marcus Aurelius

• Governing yourself before governing others, by the most powerful man alive.

• What is in your control and what is not, the most practical distinction there is.

• Composure practiced every morning, not summoned in the moment.

Parallel Lives — Plutarch

• Character revealed through action, how great men behaved when it counted.

• The small decisions that show who someone is under the title.

• Leadership taught by example and counter-example, the first case method.

Scripture and the Biblical World

Genesis, Exodus, Job, Psalms, Proverbs

• The root of the Western moral imagination, covenant, law, human dignity.

• Job on suffering without explanation, the problem leadership never solves.

• Proverbs, practical wisdom compressed into single lines.

Isaiah, Jeremiah, Amos

• The prophetic voice, truth spoken to power at personal cost.

• Justice as a demand, not a preference, the moral spine of a civilization.

• What it means to say the unwelcome thing because it is true.

Gospel of John, Gospel of Luke, Acts of the Apostles

• The figure who reorganized Western history, from two angles.

• Leadership through service and sacrifice, an inversion of the ancient model.

• How a small movement becomes an institution.

Epistle to the Romans, Epistle to the Galatians — Paul

• The mind that turned a message into a system built to last.

• Freedom, law, and grace, arguments still shaping how the West thinks about rules.

• Persuasion at civilizational scale, written under pressure.

The Patristic and Medieval World

Confessions — Augustine

• The first real autobiography, a mind examining itself without flinching.

• Memory, time, and desire treated as serious problems.

• How a person actually changes, told from the inside.

The City of God — Augustine

• Two loyalties in tension, a framework for any divided allegiance.

• History given direction and meaning, a philosophy of the long arc.

• How an order survives the collapse of the order around it.

Summa Theologica (selection) — Thomas Aquinas

• The most rigorous thinking system ever built, objection, response, resolution.

• Faith and reason integrated rather than set against each other.

• Natural law and the virtues laid out with an engineer’s precision.

The Divine Comedy — Dante Alighieri

• A complete moral universe, every failure and virtue given its exact weight.

• The journey from confusion to clarity as the shape of a serious life.

• Justice imagined so precisely the punishment always fits the choice.

Political and Philosophical Modernity

The Prince — Machiavelli

• Power described as it is, the founding act of realism.

• The gap between private morality and the demands of holding things together.

• Fortune and skill, how much of an outcome you actually control.

Essays — Montaigne

• The birth of the honest first person, a mind watching itself.

• Judgment held loosely, the wisdom of “what do I know” against false certainty.

• How to think about yourself without lying to yourself.

Leviathan — Hobbes

• Why order exists at all, the argument from the war of all against all.

• The social contract, what people trade away to be governed.

• Authority built from first principles, cold and complete.

Two Treatises of Government — Locke

• Consent as the basis of legitimate power, the root of modern democracy.

• Property, rights, and the limits of authority.

• The right to remove a government that breaks its trust.

The Social Contract and Discourse on Inequality — Rousseau

• Where inequality comes from, and whether it is natural or built.

• The general will, freedom through belonging rather than against it.

• The other half of the modern political argument.

Critique of Pure Reason — Kant

• The limits of what the mind can know, the hardest turn in philosophy.

• How the mind shapes experience instead of passively receiving it.

• Why some questions cannot be answered, and the discipline of admitting it.

Groundwork of the Metaphysics of Morals — Kant

• Duty as the ground of ethics, acting on principles you could will for all.

• Treating people as ends, never only as means, a hard test for any decision about others.

• Moral reasoning stripped to its structure.

The Wealth of Nations — Adam Smith

• How markets coordinate without a coordinator.

• The division of labor and where productivity actually comes from.

• Self-interest and the common good, subtler than the slogans.

Phenomenology of Spirit — Hegel

• How consciousness and history develop through conflict.

• The master and the slave, the origin of every argument about recognition.

• Progress as something that moves through contradiction, not around it.

Literary and Existential Modernity

Don Quixote — Cervantes

• The first modern novel, idealism colliding with an uncooperative world.

• The gap between the story we tell about ourselves and what we are.

• Comedy and tragedy in the same figure, which is most people.

Hamlet — Shakespeare

• The cost of thinking too well, decision paralyzed by intelligence.

• Action, delay, and consequence on a mind that sees every angle.

• The most examined interior life in literature.

King Lear — Shakespeare

• Power given away and the catastrophe that follows, succession done wrong.

• Flattery against honest love, and a leader who could not tell them apart.

• What is left of a person when the title is gone.

Faust — Goethe

• The bargain of endless striving, what a person trades for more.

• Ambition without limit and the price of never being satisfied.

• Knowledge, desire, and the restlessness that drives achievement and ruin alike.

Crime and Punishment — Dostoevsky

• The mind that talks itself into a terrible act, and cannot live with it.

• Conscience as something that cannot be reasoned away.

• The theory of the exceptional man, tested to destruction.

The Brothers Karamazov — Dostoevsky

• Faith, doubt, and freedom argued at the highest level fiction ever reached.

• The Grand Inquisitor on why people trade freedom for security, essential for anyone who leads.

• Every serious answer to how a person should live, given a fair hearing.

War and Peace — Tolstoy

• How history actually moves, and how little the men at the top control it.

• Individual lives inside vast events, the limits of any single decision.

• A whole society rendered so completely you understand how the world works.

Thus Spoke Zarathustra — Nietzsche

• Creating your own values after the old certainties fall.

• Self-overcoming, becoming who you are instead of who you were told to be.

• The confrontation with meaning when nothing hands it to you.

Beyond Good and Evil — Nietzsche

• The suspicion turned on morality itself, who benefits from these rules.

• Will to power as a lens on human motivation, uncomfortable and clarifying.

• Thinking past the categories you inherited.

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I’ve been reflecting a bit about a term that I keep coming back to, and another reflection means... New article! Let’s talk about memory dividend, a term that I learned from Bill Perkins, and the idea is simple, almost too simple:

An experience is not only worth the joy it gives you in the moment. It keeps paying you back for years, every time you remember it.

Perkins lays this out in his book Die With Zero, and he makes it sound like a savings account.

You spend once, and the memory compounds quietly in the background of your life, throwing off small returns for decades.

I love this idea. I do.

But something about it kept nagging me, and it took me a while to name what.

Perkins talks mostly about the good ones. The big trip. The birthday party. The peak experiences, the ones you plan and pay for and photograph. And he is right that those pay dividends.

Nobody argues with the memory of a great vacation.

The curious thing is what happens when I actually look back at my own life and ask which memories still pay me something today.

Because it was not only the good days… Let me walk a bit in this text to make my point.

We have a word in Portuguese… perrengue.

It means a small hardship, a rough patch, the moment when everything goes wrong and you just have to get through it. The flight delayed for eight hours. The presentation you were not ready for.

The project that fell apart in your hands while everyone watched.

Nobody buys a perrengue on purpose. You would never plan one. And yet, years later, those are often the stories you tell with the most life in your voice.

Think about it for a second. When friends get together and someone says “remember that time everything went wrong”, the room lights up. Not because the thing was pleasant. It was awful.

But it pays a dividend anyway, and sometimes a bigger one than the perfect day that went exactly to plan.

So maybe Perkins was only counting half the account.

The good experiences pay dividends, yes. But the hard ones pay too. The failures, the scary decisions, the days you almost gave up.

They compound quietly, in the same background account, and they build something the good days alone never could.

They build baggage. Real baggage, the kind you carry.

Here is what I think happens, and I include myself fully in this, no hypocrisy.

A good memory tends to stay the same shape over the years. You remember the trip was wonderful, and it stays wonderful. Lovely, but static.

A hard memory changes shape. It grows.

The night that felt like the end of the world at twenty five becomes, at forty, the thing that taught you how much you could carry. You did not enjoy it then. You would not repeat it. But you would not trade it either, because you are partly made of it now.

That is the strange math of a perrengue.

In the moment it costs you everything.
In the memory it slowly becomes an asset.

Perkins says invest in experiences because you retire on your memories, not on your bank balance. Fair. But if that is true, then the account is richer than he lets on. It holds the victories and the disasters, side by side, and a lot of the interest comes from the disasters.

There is a risk in taking this too far, and I want to be honest about it.

Nobody should go looking for suffering to fatten the memory account.

Pain for its own sake pays nothing.

A perrengue only becomes baggage when you get through it, when there is a far side to reach. The ones that just break you do not compound. They only cost.

So the point is not to chase hardship. The point is to stop editing it out.

Most of us try to remember only the highlight reel. We keep the good photos, we tell the clean stories, we quietly file the rough parts away as if they were losses on the balance sheet.

Maybe they were never losses.

Maybe the value of a life is not the sum of its good moments, but the sum of everything you lived through and came out the other side of.

The wins and the losses. The trips and the delays. The talks that went beautifully and the ones where your voice shook the whole time.

So when I read Perkins now, I add one line in my head. Invest in experiences, yes. Start early, yes.

But do not only invest in the ones designed to feel good. Invest in the ones that will mean something later, and trust that some of those will hurt on the way in.

Because in the end, the richest people I know are not the ones with the smoothest stories.

They are the ones with the heaviest bags.

And what is in yours?

In the first theme, a study of more than 50 million job posts across 28 European countries shows that the remote version of a job lists, on average, 25% more skills than the same job in person. It's not a different job, it's the same role with a higher bar, and the reason isn't distrust of remote work, it's the perceived cost of training someone from a distance. The result is a higher entry barrier at the exact moment the market most needs to develop new talent.

In the second theme, contradicting data on AI's effect on jobs puts a cut of 23,000 US jobs side by side with a study of more than 21,000 companies showing headcount growth among the heaviest AI adopters. Neither side is wrong, and neither proves what it claims to prove. The question left standing isn't who's right, it's what you're measuring in your own routine while you wait for proof that may never come.

Both themes connect through one question, what are you measuring, and what are you deciding based on what you don't measure. By the end of the episode, two concrete places to act, without waiting for your company to fix it first.

Sources:Harvard Business Review, Aug 7 2026, research by Liao, Zhang and WangFortune, Aug 8 2026, report by Sebastian HerreraRamp Economics Lab with Revelio Labs, Jun 30 2026California Policy Lab, CAIT tracker, Jun 2026

Someone typed your name into a search bar. Someone else read the three lines you wrote to confirm the time. A third person noticed you took four days to answer an email.

None of that felt like an interview… But it was already your recruitment process in progress.

Here is the strange thing about how we are trained. A person spends fifteen or twenty years learning how to do the work. Courses, certifications, the project that failed, the project that worked, the good manager, the bad one. That becomes real skill, the kind nobody can fake.

And then one day all of it has to fit into forty five minutes with a stranger.

That gap is the whole problem. We train our entire lives to do, and almost never to explain what we do. Then we call it nerves, when most of the time it is something else. It is not having the words for your own story.

This guide has three parts and a bonus.

Before, which happens while you are not even in the room.

During, which everyone confuses with the whole interview.

After, which almost nobody treats as part of the process. And at the end, one small thing about the face that surprised me more than I expected when I went looking for the research.

A ResumeBuilder survey from June 2023, run with 1,013 American managers involved in hiring decisions, gives the size of this.

73% of them use social media to evaluate candidates. Of those who do, 85% have rejected someone because of something they found online.

68% use social media to find answers to questions they are not allowed to ask you. Age. Marital status. Religion. Political views. Asking those out loud would be illegal in most places. Looking them up is not.

Not pretty. Still the field where the game is played. The easy conclusion here would be to delete everything and become a ghost. That is the wrong move. A locked profile communicates something too, and disappearing has its own cost.

What is being evaluated is simpler and more uncomfortable than that.

The person searching for you is comparing two people.

The one on the screen and the one who signed that resume.

When they match, nobody notices, and that is the best possible outcome. When there is a big distance between them, the hiring manager rarely thinks “this person is bad”.

They think something worse.

They think “this person is performing”.

And nobody hires someone who is already performing at the stage where they should be most honest.

For the candidate, this changes what preparation means. Preparation here has little to do with building a better version of you. It has to do with shrinking the distance between what you show and who you are.

What you can do before anyone looks you in the eye

• Search your own name on Google, in a private window, and read the first two pages the way a stranger would, without explaining anything to yourself.

• Read your last twenty public posts asking one question only. Does this match the professional I say I am?

• Before the conversation, try to say in one sentence what the company sells, to whom, and what problem your role exists to solve. If you cannot, you are not ready to talk yet.

• Answer every email in the process the way you would answer an important client.

What this fixes is real. You can audit your online presence in one afternoon and stop worrying about it.

What it does not fix is that you do not control what the other person concludes from what they find. Coherence does not work as an interview technique. It comes out of how you live the rest of the time, and there is no shortcut for that.

If someone searched for you today, without telling you, would they find the same person who is going to walk into that room?

What you heard about body language is wrong

Then the day arrives. And the first thing almost everyone has heard about that day is wrong information.

You have heard that most of communication is not what you say. And you probably heard a number attached to it.

The famous number is 7, 38 and 55.

Seven percent words, thirty eight percent tone of voice, fifty five percent face and body. It came from two studies by Albert Mehrabian published in 1967, and it became a rule repeated in corporate training everywhere, in consulting slides, in public speaking courses, in career advice online.

The problem is what those studies actually measured. They measured people judging feelings from a single spoken word, with tone and expression manipulated on purpose so they would not match.

A laboratory setup, built to create contradiction. Nothing close to a forty five minute conversation about your career.

Actually, Mehrabian himself spent decades trying to correct this in public.

His position, stated on his own site, is that those equations came from experiments about communicating feelings and attitudes, and outside that context they do not apply.

So no, 93% of your interview is not body language. If it were, nobody could ever be hired over the phone. And people have been hired over the phone for decades.

But something useful survives in that research, and it is better than the myth.

What those experiments show is what happens when the words and the signal contradict each other. When that happens, the listener believes the signal. The contradiction speaks louder than either side alone.

This changes the whole task.

You are no longer trying to perform good posture. You are trying not to say one thing while feeling another.

Someone who prepares to act creates contradiction without noticing. The mouth says “I would love this role” while the rest of the body says “I want to leave”. The interviewer does not need training to catch that. They only need to be human.

The same ruler applies on the other side. An interviewer who says the process is transparent and then does not answer emails is sending two signals that do not match, and the candidate reads it immediately.

Four things that help more than any posture trick:

• Answer the question that was asked, not the question you rehearsed. It is remarkable how rare this is.

• Support each answer with a concrete example. The context, what you did, and what happened afterwards. Without the last part the story stays half told.

• When you do not know, say you do not know, and say how you would find out. That is much better information about you than any memorized answer.

• Walk in with at least two questions of your own. A person who only answers is being evaluated. A person who also asks is evaluating too.

What this fixes is your time. You can stop studying body language tricks and spend those hours preparing real examples.

What it does not fix is the nerves. Of course… Nerves do not come from missing technique. They come from wanting it. No posture saves an empty answer, and no good answer is destroyed by a restless hand.

Last time you were interviewed, were you answering or performing?

The interview keeps working after the call ends

For most people the interview ends when the call ends. That is exactly where it stops working in their favor. The most cited research on this comes from CareerBuilder, run with 2,878 American hiring managers between February 21 and March 10 of 2011, released that April.

In it, 22% of managers said they are less likely to hire someone who does not send a thank you message after the interview.

Among those, 86% read the silence as a lack of follow through, and 56% read it as a sign the person was not really interested. The same survey found that 89% consider email perfectly fine for this, and half prefer it that way.

The data is from 2011. It is old, it is American, and the market has changed a lot since then. Even so, it remains the most named and most checkable primary source on the whole subject, which already tells you something about the quality of what gets repeated out there with no source at all.

Now you expect me to say the thank you note wins you the job.

It does not.

It almost never changes the result at the extremes. If you were clearly the best, nobody notices it missing. If you were wrong for the role, no email fixes that. The thank you note is a tiebreaker, and tiebreakers only matter when there is a tie, which happens far more often than it looks from outside.

But there is something after the interview that is key, at least it has been for me.

It is your own review of what just happened.

I am talking about learning from every interview, including the ones you lost. Especially those.

There is a structured way to do this and it is not my invention. It is Graham Gibbs’ reflective cycle, from 1988, built for teaching and training, and it fits this situation almost perfectly.

Adapted for our case, it works like this.

• Describe what happened, with no judgment and no interpretation. Only what was said and what was asked. This part is boring and it is the most important one.

• Record what you felt, during and after. This is the data that evaporates fastest, and it is exactly what helps with the nerves next time.

• Evaluate what was good and what was bad in that conversation. No drama, no self punishment.

• Analyze why it went that way. This is where you try to understand instead of complain.

• Conclude what you would do differently and what you will practice before the next one.

Ten lines. Written the same day, while the memory is still warm.

People who do this turn every lost interview into information. People who do not repeat the same mistake for years without ever finding out what the mistake is. It is like driving the same wrong route every day because nobody ever looked at the map after arriving late.

For leaders, the same logic applies to the whole process. A company that interviews dozens of people and never reviews how it interviews is making expensive decisions in the dark, over and over, and calling it a hiring process.

The practical path for the “after”

• Send the thank you within 24 hours. Short, mentioning one specific thing that was discussed, and nothing more.

• The same day, write your ten lines.

• If you heard nothing within the deadline they gave you, wait a few days past it and send one message. No pressure, no deadline of your own.

• After five interviews, reread the ten lines from each one. The pattern you cannot see in one shows up by itself in five.

What this fixes is your dependency on the company for feedback. You start producing your own. What it does not fix is the silence.

Most of the time you will never know the real reason behind their choice, and you will have to move on with that gap open.

The interview you lose is the only one that teaches you anything, as long as you write it down before you forget.

Smiling has a timing

There is something many people forget completely in an interview. Smiling.

Is something I always say to my friends when they are going to a job interview... "hej, don't forget to smile!"

And the reason they forget is the effort of trying to look perfect.

There is a direct study on this, published in the Journal of Social Psychology in 2015 by Mollie Ruben, Judith Hall and Marianne Schmid Mast, with a title that gives away the finding, “Smiling in a Job Interview: When Less Is More”.

Two experiments. In the first, participants were randomly assigned to play candidate or interviewer for a newspaper reporting job. Then observers rated the same videos.

The result was counterintuitive. For roles associated with a more serious demeanor, smiling more was linked to a worse evaluation, not a better one.

The most interesting finding was about timing. Hiring was maximized when the candidate smiled less in the middle of the interview and more at the start and at the end.

So the advice is not to smile more.
It is not to smile less either.

A smile works as rhythm, and it carries a different meaning depending on when it shows up. At the start and the end it says you are open and interested. In the middle, when the subject is the actual work, it can say you are not taking it seriously.

And here is the point I wanted to make from the beginning. The problem was never the quantity. The problem is the smile that comes from nowhere.

None of this exists to turn you into a robot counting facial expressions per minute.

That would be a terrible reading of the research and the opposite of what it says. The point is to remember that you are there, present, being a person.

People who freeze in interviews almost never freeze from lack of technique. They freeze from trying not to make a mistake. And someone trying not to make a mistake does not smile, because smiling is what a comfortable person does, and nobody is comfortable while watching themselves that closely.

What this fixes is that you can stop rehearsing facial expressions in front of the mirror. What it does not fix is the discomfort of being evaluated. That one is real and it does not go away.

You do not need to smile more. You need to be in a state where smiling happens on its own.

Preparation does not guarantee the job. It guarantees that if you lose it, the reason was not lack of preparation.

Which is less than we would like and more than most people bring into the room.

If you were interviewed tomorrow, what could you not explain about your own career?

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Most of us read conflict wrong…

Two people talking over each other in a meeting. A project plan getting quietly ignored. Someone going cold after a decision they disagreed with.

It all gets filed under the same label. Something is broken. Smooth it over, get the room calm again, move on.

Job done, right? Wrong.

Conflict is not the failure.
It is the readout.

Something closer to a dashboard light than a crash. Spend your energy turning off the light instead of reading what it says, and the problem it was warning you about keeps running underneath, quieter, until it cannot be ignored anymore.

And, honestly… I know! The default is to fix the person in front of you, right? Is the human balance.

Someone snaps in a review, someone stops contributing in standups, and the instinct is a conversation about their behavior.

But behavior is downstream.

People are remarkably good at narrating a reason for how they feel that sounds true and is not quite the real one.

Someone says a missed meeting invite ruined their week. What is actually happening, more often, is that their role feels like it is shrinking, and the meeting was just where they first felt it.

Chase the story and you fix the wrong thing. You apologize for the invite and never touch the fear underneath it.

The quieter risk: no conflict at all

A team that never disagrees is not necessarily a healthy one.

Sometimes it is… the opposite.

People nod, meetings end in polite agreement, everyone seems aligned, and underneath, nobody is actually saying what they think.

That kind of peace is fragile in the way Nassim Taleb uses the word.

It looks fine right up until the pressure hits, and then it breaks all at once, because nothing in the system was ever tested. What you actually want is something closer to a bridge built to sway a little in the wind.

Disagreement that stays inside the structure without taking the whole thing down.

When a team is either fighting constantly or suspiciously calm, the useful question is not who is difficult. It is where the design is off. Who owns what, and whether two people are quietly stepping on the same ground without knowing it. Who gets heard in the room, because status is rarely written down anywhere, you just feel it in who gets interrupted and whose idea only lands once someone senior repeats it. What gets rewarded, because a team can smile through a review and still be playing five solo games on one field. Whether people can say the hard thing out loud without paying for it later. And whether there is any real mechanism, a retro, an honest after-action conversation, built to catch the drift before it becomes a pattern.

None of these are people problems. They are design problems wearing a person’s face.

Maybe leadership was never about people only, but about managing the space people react to.

The rules, the roles, the rhythm, who gets the floor. A coach on a football pitch does not run beside every player shouting instructions. The lines are already drawn. The players know where the edges are. That is what lets the good plays happen without someone standing over every decision.

It is much easier to have one more conversation about someone’s tone than to sit with the harder question of whether the system in place is quietly asking for that tone.

So here is where this lands, more confession than conclusion.

If a team fights all the time, the system is probably confused or unfair somewhere, not full of difficult people.

If a team never fights, the system is probably teaching silence, and that is worse.

Real leadership is not the absence of friction. It is building something sturdy enough to hold friction without cracking.

And when someone pushes back and stays in the room afterward instead of going quiet, that is not a threat to what was built.

That is proof it is working.

What does the loudest signal in your team right now, the fighting or the silence, actually seem to be pointing at?

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It happens the same way every time.

A company buys a serious piece of technology. Good vendor, real capability, a budget line that took months to approve. Twelve months later somebody asks where the return went, and the room turns to look at the tool.

The tool is fine. The tool was fine the whole time.

What broke was the order.

Speed became the strategy

Deloitte published the 2026 Global Human Capital Trends report, produced with Oxford Economics. It is one of the widest annual pictures of work that exists right now, built on more than 9,000 business and HR leaders across 89 countries.

The background number sets the scene. Seven in ten leaders say the most important competitive strategy for the next three years is a single thing, being faster and more agile at what they already do.

That is fair. It is what the market is asking for.

Then comes the part that costs money. In Deloitte’s survey of senior leadership, 59% go to the technology first. They buy the tool, then they think about how it will land inside the company.

Speed stopped being a goal. It became the method.

That would be the comfortable explanation. The models need another year, the vendors oversold, wait for version four.

Wrong.

Organizations that go to the technology first are almost twice as likely to miss the expected return on that technology, compared with the ones that design around the business and the people first.

Read what that number is actually saying. Same tool. Same contract. Same vendor in both groups. The only difference is the order in which it enters the house.

It is a bit like buying the dishwasher before checking where the water outlet sits. The machine is excellent. It is also standing in the middle of your kitchen, and now every conversation is about the machine when the real subject was the kitchen.

Swap the words artificial intelligence for ERP implementation and you have the same article from fifteen years ago. Swap it for digital transformation and you have the one from ten. Go back further and it is factory robotics. Go back much further and it is industrialization itself.

The problem keeps changing its face. The current face is AI.

The mistake underneath never changes. Buying the answer before being able to describe the question. If you do not know where your productivity sits today, and you do not know where it needs to be, no tool fills that gap. You do not even know which gap you are filling.

So you start running in every direction at once.

There is a failure mode worse than wasted budget, and it is the one that gets missed.

Without a clear definition of what productivity means inside that specific business, technology delivers a fake version of it. Numbers go up. Dashboard looks great. Business result stays exactly where it was.

Software is the easiest place to see it. Point AI at producing more features, more code, more output, and you will get more features, more code, more output. Work that took five days takes a morning.

More code is not more value for the customer. Sometimes quality drops, because the focus moved and nobody decided to move it.

You hit the metric. You missed the target.

The concrete move here is not sophisticated. It is boring, and boring is different from difficult.

Design the work before plugging in the tool. Which decision does this AI touch. Who reviews what it produces. Where it is allowed to run alone and where it stops and calls a human. What changes in the daily flow of the people already doing that job.

Quality standards, clear policy, guardrails. Including the boundaries of what you do not want the technology to solve, because that part is your culture and you want it working the way it works. That last one almost never gets written down.

The opening question changes too. The question is no longer which tool to buy. It is how the human and the machine will work together on this specific piece of work.

And now the honest part. Designing the work is slower. It looks worse in a board meeting than a signed contract with a well known vendor. The pressure for speed will not go away just because you are holding a Deloitte report. That tension stays with you even when you are right.

Think about the last tool your company adopted. Did anyone design the work around it, or did they switch it on and wait for the gain to show up?

The human layer disappears first

If the human design around the technology is what makes it pay off, the next question follows on its own. Which human layer does a company cut first when it wants to move fast?

Almost always the same one. The middle manager.

There is a flattening wave running right now, and it is not irrational. Companies remove layers to communicate faster, and use the saved cost to fund AI investment. The story that supports it is that AI now handles much of what the middle manager used to do, the follow ups, the status chasing, the translation between levels.

This is not only a forecast. Manager headcount already fell 6% between May 2022 and May 2025, according to Live Data Technologies, in data reported by the Wall Street Journal. That part already happened.

The most quoted projection comes from Gartner. In October 2024 it predicted that by 2026 one in five organizations would use AI to flatten their structure and eliminate more than half of middle management roles.

2026 arrived. So this stopped being a forecast and became something to check against your own org chart.

Flattening and widening cycles are normal, by the way. Look decade by decade over the last century and you will find structures shrinking and expanding several times over. Anyone who understands the cycle knows it is part of the game and positions accordingly. That is not the part that bothers me.

The interesting tension comes from two independent pieces of research, run by different people, that reached the same conclusion about where loyalty actually lives inside a team.

PwC surveyed almost 50,000 workers across 48 countries. People who build trust with their direct manager come out 72% more motivated and engaged than people who sit at a distance. PwC is careful to separate the layers, showing trust as lower with leaders at the top and higher with the immediate manager. That is proximity doing the work, not charisma.

Randstad surveyed 27,000 workers across 35 markets in its Workmonitor. Over the same period, trust in senior leadership dropped considerably, while the strong bond with the direct manager rose.

These are two different measurements. It is not the same number repeated by two sources, and I want to be clear about that, because stacking research as if it were proof has become a habit. Still, both readings point at the same place.

When a company shakes, the person holding an employee in place is the one who approves their vacation. Not the name at the top of the chart.

Here is the calculation the restructuring deck leaves out.

You had two managers, ten people each. You cut one. The survivor now has twenty. Cut again and it becomes forty.

His attention cannot possibly be the same. The real one to one, the conversation where somebody actually says what is going on with them, becomes a fifteen minute slot every couple of months. The proximity that produced those 72% is the first casualty of the span of control math.

The company aims at cost and hits the bond.

For the organization doing the flattening, the concrete move is to split what has been sitting inside one job title.

On one side, the administrative work. Reports, calendars, trackers, follow ups, status chasing, project reporting. Repetitive, bureaucratic, and honestly the part most managers enjoy least. AI handles it well. Better than most of us do.

On the other side, the human bond. The one to one, the negotiation, the motivation, knowing the quality sitting inside your team and placing each person where they are strongest. That is leadership, and it is where the gears turn.

AI removes the first part painlessly. The second one, once it leaves, does not come back on next year’s budget.

For anyone managing a team today, the reading is almost absurdly direct. You have more influence over the motivation and retention of your people than the CEO of the entire company does. The trust that keeps talent is built at your level, in your Tuesday conversation, not on the stage of the all hands.

If that trust is low, no beautifully produced communication from the top compensates for it. If it is high, it is the most underrated asset you have at work.

Now the honesty missing from most writing on this topic.

Not every middle manager is that anchor. Some layers turned into message relays and spreadsheet tracking, work that an automation does faster and without complaining. In those cases the cut is natural, and sometimes it is fair.

If you sit in one of those seats, the question turns inward. Where is your value. If you hold the position mainly because you track things well, almost a human robot, that deserves a careful look and probably a repositioning. If your real talent is connecting people and making a team worth more than the sum of its parts, this is your moment. AI is about to remove exactly the work that kept getting in the way of that.

Telling one case from the other, person by person, is human work that no report delivers finished. It stays with whoever decides.

The same story told twice

Put the two together and the shape shows up.

The company wants speed. It sacrifices the human layer. The human layer was what had been producing the result.

In the first case that layer is the work design around the AI. In the second it is the direct manager holding the team. The label changed. The mistake did not.

What both leave open is also the same. The pressure for speed is real, it is not going away, and choosing the human layer costs more in the short term. Nobody settles that bill for you.

The technical shortcut is always more visible than the human layer. That is why the human layer gets cut first, and why it is the thing everyone misses six months later.

Where, in your own work, is speed making you skip the human step that was making the whole thing work?

Sources

• Deloitte, 2026 Global Human Capital Trends, with Oxford Economics: https://www.deloitte.com/us/en/insights/topics/talent/human-capital-trends.html

• Deloitte, full report PDF: https://www.deloitte.com/content/dam/insights/articles/2026/us188555_ghct2026_introduction/pdf/DI_2026-Global-Human-Capital-Trends.pdf

• 6% decline in manager headcount between May 2022 and May 2025, Live Data Technologies, reported by the Wall Street Journal

• Gartner projection from October 2024 on AI driven flattening, cited in: https://www.forbes.com/sites/cindyrodriguezconstable/2026/06/30/management-cuts-today-are-shaping-a-leadership-shortage/

• PwC, Global Workforce Hopes and Fears 2025: https://www.pwc.com/gx/en/issues/workforce/hopes-and-fears.html

• Randstad, Workmonitor 2026: https://www.randstad.com/workmonitor/

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There is a pattern that repeats with almost boring regularity inside large organizations.

A company approves a serious piece of technology. Known vendor, real capability, a budget line that took months to clear. Twelve months later somebody asks where the return went, and the whole room turns to look at the tool.

The tool was right the entire time.

What broke was the order.

What the largest workforce study of the year is saying

Deloitte published the 2026 Global Human Capital Trends report, produced with Oxford Economics. It is one of the widest annual pictures of work available today, built on more than 9,000 business and HR leaders across 89 countries.

The background already explains a lot. Seven in ten leaders say the single most important competitive strategy for the next three years is being faster and more agile at what the company already does.

Reasonable enough. That is the pressure arriving from every direction.

Then comes the number that costs money. In Deloitte’s survey of senior leadership, 59% go to the technology first. They buy the tool, then they think about how it will be integrated into the business.

Speed stopped being the goal and became the method. And a method without a design is a guess in a hurry.

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In the first, Deloitte shows, through one of the largest yearly studies of work, more than 9,000 leaders across 89 countries, that companies installing AI first and thinking about the process later are nearly twice as likely to miss the expected return. It is not the technology that fails, it is the order in which it is installed.

In the second, the math many companies are doing right now, cutting the middle manager to gain speed, runs into two independent surveys, PwC and Randstad, that point to the same place. The one who keeps the best people on a team is the direct manager, not the name at the top of the org chart. The company cuts the very person who was holding the team together.

In the end, the two themes meet in the same question. Where is speed making you skip the human step that was, deep down, the one delivering the result?

Sources:

• Deloitte, 2026 Global Human Capital Trends, with Oxford Economics, more than 9,000 leaders across 89 countries. https://www.deloitte.com/us/en/insights/topics/talent/human-capital-trends.html

• PwC, Global Workforce Hopes and Fears Survey 2025, almost 50,000 workers across 48 countries. https://www.pwc.com/gx/en/issues/workforce/hopes-and-fears.html

• Randstad, Workmonitor 2026, 27,000 workers across 35 markets. https://www.randstad.com/workmonitor/

• Gartner, October 2024 projection on flattening and middle management.

• Live Data Technologies, manager decline reported by the Wall Street Journal.

Friday came.

The project closed. The meeting got canceled. The week gave back more than it asked, and now you are staring at an entire afternoon with nothing on it. No agenda, no task, nobody asking you for anything.

This is the exact thing you spent the whole week waiting for.

So what happens?

For a lot of us, the honest answer is: not much good. The phone becomes the fastest exit. The next episode starts on its own. The couch quietly solves the next hour for you. And by the time the evening shows up, there is this strange feeling that the day happened, but it did not go anywhere.

Work is easier to enjoy than rest, and that should bother you

Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, the psychologist behind the concept of flow, noticed something that does not sit comfortably once you stop and think about it. Work, for most people, is easier to enjoy than free time [VERIFY exact citation].

Not because work is better. Because work comes with structure already built in.

It has goals. It has feedback. It has deadlines and rules and some way of knowing if you did it well. Work tells you what it wants from you, so the moment you step into it, you already know what you are doing and why. That is exactly the condition flow needs, the point where the task and the person meet and the effort disappears, leaving only the concentration behind.

Free time does not come with any of that. It shows up loose, with no instructions and no finish line. You have to build, from nothing, what you are going to do, how you are going to do it, and why it will be worth the hour. And that construction work is invisible.

Nobody asks you to do it. Nobody claps when you do it well.

Nobody actually trained us for this

Think about it for a second. Someone has been organizing your time since you were five. School had a schedule. Family had a routine. Work has a calendar.

We spend decades learning how to respond to structures that arrive ready-made, and almost no time learning how to build structure on our own, for ourselves, with no one watching.

Then the weekend comes, or the vacation, or retirement, and suddenly the question is: what do you want to do? And we realize we are not very good at answering it.

It is not laziness. It is not a lack of will.

It is that nobody ever taught us leisure also needs intention.

We treat free time like it fills itself. Like real rest will naturally happen once the obligations get out of the way. Sometimes it does. But most of the time, what fills the space is not rest. It is numbness.

Rest and numbness are not the same thing

This distinction is worth naming.

Rest is when the system recovers energy. You wake up sharper than you were. The mind comes back. The body comes back. Whatever you did, it put something back.

Numbness is when the system simply stops. You are not more tired, but you are not getting anywhere either. The hours pass, but the energy stays exactly where it was, or a little lower.

Too many episodes in a row turn into numbness. Endless scrolling is almost always numbness.

Not because the content is bad, but because the format asks nothing of you, and when nothing is asked, nothing grows.

Flow, the state where we learn the most and feel the most alive, only shows up when there is a challenge calibrated to the person’s ability.

Too easy, and it is boredom. Too hard, and it is anxiety.

Somewhere in the middle is where the magic happens (yes, I borrowed that line, but it holds up).

Work stumbles into that calibration without trying. Free time rarely hits it by accident.

The hobbies that actually work look a little bit like work

Hobbies that stick are, almost without exception, hobbies that borrow some structure.

Not obligation. Structure. A learning curve. Some way to measure progress. A result you can compare to the last one. Cooking something new. Learning a chord. Finishing a woodworking project. Running a distance that used to feel impossible. The satisfaction comes precisely from the fact that there was difficulty, and the difficulty got beaten.

This is close to what Csikszentmihalyi meant when he argued that internal discipline, personal goals, and genuine interest are what turn leisure into what it was supposed to be in the first place, a real chance at recreation [VERIFY exact citation]. Not recreation as distraction. Recreation in the literal sense, re-creating something that had gone flat.

The problem is that these hobbies demand a high upfront cost. You have to get through the part where you are still bad at it, where the effort does not seem to pay off yet. The phone will never ask for that kind of investment. The phone will always be easier.

So, by contrast, it almost always wins.

Maybe the real issue is that we overestimated free time and underestimated what it actually asks of us.

We assumed pleasure comes with the empty space itself, when pleasure comes from what you put inside that space.

And that takes a skill nobody teaches directly: building intention where no obligation exists.

Creating your own structure, your own criteria, your own next step, with no one watching and no one keeping score.

That might be one of the hardest things to do. And it happens to be exactly what flow in free time depends on.

So the question is not really “what do you do when you have free time.”

It is “what do you do with the freedom of not having to do anything.”

That second question changes the answer quite a bit.

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Every time a headline makes me sit up straight, I go looking for the number underneath it.

And most of the time the number is right there. Calm. Saying something else.

Not the opposite, usually. Just something else, something with a lot less drama in it, which is probably why nobody bothers sharing it.

Three subjects caught me that way recently. It took me longer than it should have to notice they all had the same shape.

A confident story on top. A quiet number below, telling a different version.

Remote Work Is Dying, Except It Never Moved

Open any professional feed and you would think the last flexible company on earth just called everyone back to a desk.

Then Fortune published a piece using data from the US Census Bureau, and the number is almost boring.

Combined hybrid and remote work sat at 22.3% in January 2026 and 22% in February.

Basically flat, and flat for two years, going all the way back to January 2024.

No collapse. No death spiral. Just a line that refuses to move.

There is more. Leesman, a research firm tracking somewhere between 100 and 130 large American companies, found that only around 3% of them require full presence five days a week.

Three percent.

The big banks that went all the way back are real, and they are the ones you keep reading about (which is sort of the point, they made news precisely because they were unusual). And even inside those companies, what actually came back was usually a set of specific functions. The rest carried on, quietly, no headline, because nobody writes an article about the department that stayed exactly the same.

One honest caveat before anyone quotes this in a meeting. It is American data. Your country and your industry may look nothing like it, and the only way to know is to check.

While I am here, let me wander off for a second.

Have you ever asked yourself why you see so much content about this specific fight? It is not random. The algorithm rewards whatever produces arguments, comments, and that “I strongly disagree” thread with thirty replies underneath. A strong opinion about returning to the office is perfect fuel for that. So you are not watching the market. You are watching the content that performs well about the market.

Two very different things. Anyway, different conversation.

Back to the numbers, because this is the part that made me stop.

You look at 22% holding steady for two years and you think flexibility won. The worker took the arm wrestle.

Not quite.

Willingness to quit over a return to office mandate dropped from 91% to roughly 40%.

People are complying more. Not because they changed their minds about where they work best. Because the market cooled and the alternative disappeared.

Flexibility did not win. What changed is who holds the lever in the negotiation.

For the professional, that cuts both ways. The 3% number is a genuinely good argument, and it is true. What stopped working is the threat.

Saying you will leave is like slapping the table with an open hand. Loud, and nobody gets hurt.

So bring data instead. Numbers from your industry, evidence that your specific function delivers more in a hybrid or remote setup, whatever your company actually measures rather than what you happen to prefer.

For the person who leads, it is less comfortable. There is research suggesting close to half of remote workers read return to office pushes as managerial control rather than business need.

Mandating presence in that climate buys compliance, not conviction. People come back, sure. They come back resentful, with one foot out the door, which is worse than not coming back at all.

So before pulling everyone in, name the real reason. Collaboration, culture, a function that genuinely needs the room. Any of those is legitimate, and a team can accept a hard decision when it is explained.

What a team does not forgive is a personal preference wearing a productivity costume. People spot that fast.

Every business exists to make money, serve customers, and ship something. That is not cynicism, that is how the thing works. If a function performs better in person, bring it in. If it performs better remote, same logic, other direction.

And no data fixes the last piece. Bargaining power moves with the economic cycle and always has. Today the lever sits with the employer. Next year it might flip, and nobody controls that.

What you control is how dependent you are on one employer when the wind changes. Which is slow, boring, years long work. Not one difficult Friday conversation.

Your AI Is Making You Better and Your Team Duller

The second one starts as good news and ends as a warning.

MIT Sloan Management Review published an article called “The Hidden Cost of AI-Assisted Creativity” that pulled together four very different studies. Short story writing. Circular economy solutions. A humor contest. Group storytelling.

Nothing in common, except that all of them need creativity to work.

In every single one, the person using AI produced a better individual result. Cleaner, more finished, faster.

Good news for the tool, right? Wrong.

Zoom out from the individual to the whole group and the effect flips. Idea diversity fell. Outputs started resembling each other, everyone converging on the same place, including people working alone and people in completely separate groups with no contact at all.

The underlying research comes from Doshi and Hauser, published in Science Advances in 2024. And the cruelest detail is this one: the biggest individual gain went to the people with the lowest baseline creativity, and the group’s pool of ideas still shrank.

The tool raises everyone’s floor and, in the same motion, pulls everyone’s ceiling toward the middle.

It is a bit like a whole street cooking with the same stock cube. Each dish gets a little better. And they all end up tasting the same.

That matters more when you remember what creating actually requires. Schumpeter spent a career describing innovation as destruction before construction. You break the obvious answer, the accepted process, the comfortable consensus in the room, and only then build something that was not there.

If it stays obvious, if it is what everyone already thought, it is not creative. It is just well written.

Guess which step the shortcut eats first.

We have seen this movie in another format, by the way. Innovation labs. Startups built inside large corporations. The Brazilian digital banks that were born in structures deliberately separated from the parent company.

The phrase “innovation team” always bothered me a little (as if innovation were a department, with a room and a budget). But the reasoning behind those structures was honest enough. Pull people out of the gravitational field of a strong culture, because strong culture makes everyone think alike, and people thinking alike do not break anything.

Companies spent years and serious money building those separate structures to escape homogenization.

Then installed a tool that homogenizes at scale, on every laptop, for a monthly fee. And we call it a bargain.

I use these tools daily, including to find sources I did not know and to hunt for the argument against my own position. So I am not writing this from the outside.

What I try to protect, and do not always manage, is that the thinking still starts with me.

If it is a piece of writing, the original idea has to be mine. If it is a video, same rule. The machine comes in after, to refine, to test, to push back.

There is a small habit that helps more than it should. Instead of asking the tool to improve your idea, ask it to show you what you are leaving out. Which perspectives you did not consider. Where the reasoning has a hole. What the strongest case against you would be.

Being challenged moves me forward. Being agreed with keeps me exactly where I was, feeling productive about it. And being agreed with is very comfortable, which is the whole danger.

The order matters more than the tool. Think first, refine second. Reverse that and you bought speed and sold difference.

And the responsibility stays entirely yours either way. It does not matter that the email was drafted by a model. It is still your email.

When “We Are Aligned” Means “We Are Not Blocking Each Other”

The third subject was the Harvard Business Review cover story, written by Julia Dhar, Kristy Ellmer, and Philip Jameson from BCG, called “The False Alignment Trap”.

The thesis: most large organizational transformations do not fail from poor execution. They fail well before that, from silent misalignment.

The numbers are heavy. More than 70% of companies fail to outperform their sector peers after a performance decline.

And none of this is new, which is the depressing part. Back in 1993, Michael Hammer concluded that 50% to 70% of reengineering efforts did not deliver what they promised.

Three decades. The entire economy digitized in the meantime, new methodologies, new frameworks, new certifications. And we still cannot get a group of people to change together.

Now, you probably picture misalignment as conflict. People arguing, pulling in opposite directions.

It is the reverse. The problem is people agreeing.

Fake alignment grows out of vague conversation, the rush to leave a meeting with something written down, and mostly the discomfort of raising your hand to disagree in front of everyone. Everyone nods. Each person walks out with a slightly different understanding. Six months later the project is stuck.

And nobody was wrong on purpose. That is what makes it so hard to fix. There is no villain in this story.

Before the blame lands on the employee who saw the problem and stayed quiet, notice that this is systemic. It shows up in large, medium, and small organizations. We live in a moment where every opinion is a fight waiting to happen, and people have learned to run a fast calculation before speaking. What do I gain by saying this, and what do I risk.

That calculation does not stay outside the office door. It walks in, takes a chair, and sits quietly through the alignment meeting.

Patrick Lencioni wrote extensively about teams that need productive conflict to function. Not destructive fighting, the opposite of it. An environment where people are comfortable enough to disagree with a colleague and with the boss, and where the conclusion gets built by the team instead of being the loudest voice in the room repeated back by everyone else.

If you lead, the risk is mistaking the absence of conflict for the presence of agreement. Silence in a meeting is not consensus. It is often the cost of the change being pushed forward, to surface at delivery, when it already got expensive.

The fix is unglamorous. Specificity.

Being aligned has to mean everyone knows who does what, why this is happening now instead of later, what exactly gets dropped so this can fit, and who holds the pen on each decision. While those questions are still turning in people’s heads after the meeting, there was no alignment. There was a meeting.

That last one, the pen, is the most neglected of all. Without a clear decision owner the agreement evaporates at the first obstacle, because nobody has the authority to unblock and everyone has the authority to wait.

Then there is the harder half, the one with no template. If someone raises a problem and gets silence from leadership, or a flat no, that person does not raise anything again. Ever.

You just bought agreement and sold ownership. You do not have to agree with everyone, that is not the point. You do have to make it visible that what was raised was taken seriously.

One Thread Through All Three

In the first story, the headline says remote work is over and the census says it is not. In the second, the dashboard says you innovated and the data says the team converged. In the third, the room says it agrees and the change stalls because it never did.

Same shape three times. A confident story on top, quieter numbers underneath.

The reason the story usually wins is annoying to admit. It is cheaper. It arrives finished, with the opinion already installed, and it does not ask anyone to open a spreadsheet. Looking underneath takes work, takes time, and usually ends with an answer far less exciting than the headline promised.

I include myself here without any hypocrisy. I have repeated a number I never checked. I have walked out of meetings certain we were aligned. I have taken the ready made version because I was in a hurry and wanted the thing closed.

Remote work did not die, you lost bargaining power. AI did not make you more creative, it made you faster and more similar. The nod in the meeting was not agreement.

Pick whichever one of the three bothered you most. And next time the finished story arrives ahead of the number, just notice it. Nothing else required for now. Noticing already changes something.

So what was the last thing you accepted at face value, without ever checking what was happening underneath it?

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Everyone nodded. Nobody objected. The decision got recorded, the invite closed four minutes early (which everyone quietly counts as a win), and somebody said the sentence that ends more meetings than any other.

“We are aligned.”

Six months later the project is stuck, three teams are working from different assumptions, and nobody can point to the moment it went wrong.

Because there was no moment. The room agreed, and the agreement was not real.

The question almost nobody asks in that final minute is what “aligned” actually means right there. It can mean there is no real disagreement about the path. Or it can mean that, at this particular moment, nobody is blocking anybody else.

Two very different things. And they produce very different projects.

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The Number That Should Embarrass Management

The July 2026 cover of Harvard Business Review took this apart in an article by Julia Dhar, Kristy Ellmer, and Philip Jameson from BCG, called “The False Alignment Trap”.

The core thesis: most large organizational transformations do not fail from poor execution. They fail well before that, from silent misalignment.

The supporting numbers are heavy. More than 70% of companies fail to outperform their sector peers after a performance decline.

And here is the part that should bother us more than it does. None of this is new.

Back in 1993, Michael Hammer concluded that 50% to 70% of reengineering efforts failed to deliver what they had promised.

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AI made you better at your work this year. Did it make your team better?

Different question. And the answer, according to the research, goes the other way.

MIT Sloan Management Review published an article called “The Hidden Cost of AI-Assisted Creativity” that pulled together four studies with almost nothing in common. Short story writing. Circular economy solutions. A humor contest. Group storytelling. The underlying research comes from Doshi and Hauser, published in Science Advances in 2024.

Four different contexts, four kinds of problem. One shared requirement: all of them need creativity to work.

The findings came in two layers. The first one is genuinely good news.

The second one is the layer nobody is measuring.

The Good Layer, Which Is Real

In all four studies, the person using AI produced a better individual result. Cleaner, more finished, faster.

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When was the last time you checked a number that everyone around you already agreed on?

Most of us do not. Which is fair enough, because checking is slow and the agreement is free.

The problem is that some of these free agreements are the ones people build career decisions on.

Here is one worth checking.

Combined hybrid and remote work in the United States sat at 22.3% in January 2026 and 22% in February, according to Census Bureau data published by Fortune. Two years earlier, in January 2024, the number was in the same neighborhood.

The line did not fall. It did not collapse. It did not quietly fade out.

It just sat there, stubborn, while the conversation around it got louder every single month.

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Three Percent

There is a second number that almost never circulates, and it is even more inconvenient for the dominant story.

Leesman, a research firm tracking somewhere between 100 and 130 large American companies, found that only around 3% of them require full presence five days a week.

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In the first theme, US Census Bureau data published by Fortune in July 2026 shows hybrid and remote work sitting at 22% and basically flat for two years. Research from Leesman found that only around 3% of large companies actually went back five days a week. But there is a turn here, and it is not a comfortable one. The share of people willing to quit over a return to office mandate fell from 91% to about 40% in a single year. Flexibility did not win. What changed is who holds the lever in the negotiation.

In the second, research from the MIT Sloan Management Review brought four different studies together and found the same pattern in all of them. AI improves each person's result and, at the same time, reduces the diversity of ideas across the whole group. Everybody gets better and everybody gets more alike. And no productivity metric shows that happening.

In the third, the July 2026 HBR cover story by Julia Dhar, Kristy Ellmer and Philip Jameson, from BCG. Their thesis is that most big transformations do not fail at execution, they fail before it, when leadership believes it agrees and it does not. More than 70% of companies fail to beat their industry peers after a performance drop. And here is the part that stayed with me. Back in 1993, Michael Hammer already found 50% to 70% of reengineering efforts failing. Decades later, with the entire economy digitized, we still do not know how to make a group of people change together.

All three themes end in the same place. The story is always cheaper than the data, and that is why it wins first. Somebody still has to do the hard work of looking underneath it.

Where are you believing the story instead of looking at what really happens?

Sources for this episode

Fortune, July 5, 2026, with Census Bureau and Leesman datahttps://fortune.com/2026/07/05/remote-work-data-shows-hybrid-and-flexible-work-arrangements-are-here-to-stay-census-data/

MIT Sloan Management Review, The Hidden Cost of AI-Assisted Creativityhttps://sloanreview.mit.edu/article/the-hidden-cost-of-ai-assisted-creativity/

Harvard Business Review, July 2026, The False Alignment Trap, by Julia Dhar, Kristy Ellmer and Philip Jamesonhttps://hbr.org/2026/07/the-false-alignment-trap