I think that interruption is the difference between looking good, and having personal style.

Over time I’ve realized that juxtaposition is often the element that makes me feel the most myself in an outfit. A bit of edge or contrast that makes each piece shine brighter.

Something feminine needs a little masculinity. Something polished feels better with something undone. I love beautiful things, but apparently I don’t like them behaving too beautifully.

This theory of juxtaposition has been on my mind for months. It began with Courtney Grow’s edit with Reformation. As I scrolled the drop, I saw a lot of beautiful things, but what struck me most was the styling. I kept noticing the unexpected pairings. Purple satin with baggy, low-slung denim. Lace with a pop of a sporty primary color. Things worn imperfectly, giving them a sense of real life and movement. By the end, I had no desire to buy anything. I just wanted to go play in my own closet. It’s exactly what I love so much about Courtney in general. Yes, she has beautiful clothes. I’d kill for her closet! But it’s how she wears them that draws me in.

It’s the reason we all prefer a pinch of salt in our iced honey lattes.

It’s what Stevie Nicks was singing about in “Leather and Lace”.

It’s not the fact of opposites, it’s what they do for each other.

One of my favorite and most repeated outfits from summer was my beloved Carhartt overalls (alt) with these jelly sandals and little green Bottega bag. Nothing had felt more me in a long time.

Once you recognize this idea, you start seeing it everything. And I’d bet if you were to look back on outfits that have inspired you most, you might find juxtaposition there too.

Sometimes what feels like boredom with your wardrobe is just boredom with the way you’ve been wearing it.

Next time you’re getting dressed and an outfit feels a little flat, don’t ask yourself what’s missing, ask what’s too expected. If everything is ultra feminine, add something masculine. If it’s all polished, undo something. Wear the jewelry with the vintage t-shirt. Pair the heel with the baggy jeans. Reach for the item that feels like it doesn’t belong and see what happens.

Maybe what makes a wardrobe feel exciting isn’t a new purchase, it’s the relationship between the items you choose to put together. You’ve spent years assembling a wardrobe, so at some point the interesting thing becomes what you decide to do with it.

Until next week,

Natalie

PS, now I’m curious, whats the unexpected combination in your wardrobe that always works?

Survival? Find it in silk.

I’ve gotten into the habit of saving things I love, even when they aren’t right for me. I’ll come across a piece and immediately know it belongs to someone. Rather than letting it linger in my tabs, I’m sending it your way to consider. This ether of vintage and second-hand options is, in my opinion, the archive. The other side of fashion that is often forgotten.

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I went down a vintage and second-hand rabbit hole for the perfect effortless, throw-it-on-with-flop-flops-and-massive-sunglasses-and-run-out-the-door vibe. Fortunately for us there’s so much out there. Find my picks below.

loose, not body con is the idea

My styling guidelines to avoid looking like you’ve stepped out in your nightie:

-Have clean hair. Does not have to be styled any specific way, but hair that is looking too tousled will have people thinking you’ve just rolled out of bed.

-Style with ballet flats or thin flip flops and a great bag, whatever your interpretation of that is. It helps the look feel intentional.

-Pair with oversized sunnies. This is primarily functional for a heatwave and also a personal preference, but I find it helps balance the daintiness of the dress. I’m lusting after these by Jimmy Fairly.

-Almost always size up. Vintage and second-hand pieces often run small due to washing and size measurements changing over the years. A slightly oversized slippy silky dress is always more flattering and cooling than one that is too fitted.

add a flat shoe and giant bag, you’re good to go

Until next week,

Natalie

August update: though I never sent this out when I meant to, these thoughts and things still ring true. It’s the best feeling looking back on a few purchases, decisions, and memories and still being so happy with them. A testament to the fact that if I call something a favorite, it’s not a flash in the pan.

1. Alex Mill weekday tote - this bag arrived at the perfect time and I am so glad I chose this above other totes I was eyeing (Toteme, as always). That fact that it can stand up on its own thrills me. No more blindly digging around in collapsed canvas hoping I’ll find what I need. This bag replaced my beloved Carhartt tote- still gives me that cool workwear feel but is actually functional.

   

2. Kindle Paperwhite - I read four books in the two weeks we spent in Big Bear. Four more than I’ve read in months. Broken Country (10/10), Hotel Nantucket (6/10), First Lie Wins (6/10), Wild Dark Shore (10/10). Would love any and all book recommendations to keep this streak going. Unwinding at the end of the day with a good book calms me like no TV show can. It’s a way to check out of my brain in way that is actually healthy and often teaches me something.

   

   August update: I’ve since read Carley Fortune’s Every Summer After and One Golden Summer, both 10/10 for brain candy books.

3. Peanut Butter Cold Brew - while in Big Bear I found an all organic cafe and quickly got addicted to their functional coffees and matchas. Think Erewhon’s hippie cousin. I’ve since been making it at home and it is SO good. They kindly shared the recipe:

   2 tbsp organic peanut butter

   1 tbsp maple syrup

   1 tbsp half & half

   cold brew

   optional: scoop of collagen

   blend and pour over ice

   This has been the perfect early afternoon treat that keeps me super productive and satiated until the evening.

4. These three for the perfect summer blowout: UNITE detangling spray, ROZ hair milk, blow dry, and then style with the bondi boost thermal round brush. Spending 30 minutes twice a week blowing out my hair does wonders for my mental health. Good hair = good mood.

   

   August update: this photo is from after I woke up from anesthesia, truly should be a paid ad for this hair routine. Wishful thinking!

5. This RÔHE pointelle cardigan is on its way to me and I’m so excited about it, I’ve already envisioned several ways of styling it, which has increasingly become the lens which I shop through. If I can’t get excited about a several ways to wear something, I don’t buy it. The mother of pearl buttons and full length sleeves is so good. I got it via the RÔHE sale which is now sold out, but it is still available on MyTheresa.

   

   August update: possibly my best purchase all summer. I wore it with these leset shorts already, and plan to style it with various fits of denim, white and black linen pants, and trousers come Fall.

6. Some recent finds from Zara Home, all on sale. It’s finally time to furnish and decorate our home now that it feels like a cleaner slate (bye bye 30 year old carpet and stone). It’s a big project that will take time, but one I’m so excited to dive into.

   Massive candle for the center of our dining table. The scent is incredibly inviting.

   This cordless table lamp to move around as needed. And two linen lamp shades for above the dining table and in the master. I love a soft linen shade paired with some stronger pieces and you can’t beat Zara Home’s prices for lighting.

7. And lastly, scrolling on Pinterest instead of social media.

Until next week,

Natalie

Years in aesthetics taught me how to evaluate skincare, and bore a genuine curiosity in product and formulation. Since then, brands have kindly sent me more product that I could ever realistically use- yet my routine has become pretty edited.

It’s not twenty steps long, it’s a handful of very specific products I will never go without. Some of the products are expensive, while some luckily cost less than lunch. I learned long ago that expensive does not mean inherently better, and so price stopped being the defining factor for whether or not I’d give something a try, let alone repurchase. It’s far deeper than that.

While I’m still frequently testing new things, (some habits never die!) my tried-and-true products never leave my vanity. These are the products I’ve returned to for years, as well as a few I recently added that have earned their rightful place.

AM

Cleanser

La Roche Posay daily, and Medicube SA cleanser around my period. Though I hardly ever breakout anymore, I am prone to congestion so I still deeply cleanse first thing in the morning.

Toner

Toning Pads I by Barefaced - the most well rounded product on the market. I really should check how many times I’ve re-purchased these. Nothing keeps my pores clear and skin soft like these do. It’s the perfect blend of several acids, so you’re checking several boxes at once while never overstripping your skin.

Targeted Serum

Of all the peptide and growth factor products out there, I am loyal to P-tiox by Skinceuticals. I discovered this serum mid pregnancy when I was sans dysport and really unhappy with my crows feet - no product has smoothed my fine lines and wrinkles quite like this has! It’s been a staple in my routine ever since and has allowed me to go longer in between dysport appointments. I apply it everywhere I get dysport then all around my eyes, and at each corner of my mouth to prevent smile lines. This is one of the few categories where I haven’t found a less expensive alternative that performs the same for me.

Antioxidant serum

I’ve been using this by Mother Science since the start of the year. Between this and one Clear & Brilliant treatment in May, my melasma is nearly gone.

Moisturizer

Vanicream facial moisturizer, the one with the blue and green stripes only! I’ve purchased 29 times via Amazon. If I ever finish a bottle and immediately order another without considering alternatives, that’s usually my sign that I’ve found something worth keeping. You will have to pry this from my cold dead hands.

U Beauty Super Hydrator, the ultimate lux moisturizer that makes my skin look and feel perfect. A great prep for under makeup as well. I’m typically unimpressed by nicer moisturizers, this is the only one important to me. Code NATALIEEITEL will get you 20% off.

SPF

I’ve tried them all, and while there’s a lot I like, nothing has wowed me like Good Weather Skin’s All Over Sun Milk. It’s your face and body sunscreen in one, so you don’t have to carry two bottles around. I find I actually apply body sunscreen more frequently now, since it’s genuinely an enjoyable experience. Code NATALIEEITEL will get you 15% off.

PM

Cleanser

Again, La Roche Posay or Medicube.

Bonus Step

I’ll apply La Roche Posay’s hyaluronic acid serum immediately after cleansing. My skin thrives with layers of hydration, instead of thick heavy creams and I find this little step makes a huge difference come morning. I’ve tried all of the hyaluronic acid serums out there, and LRP is still my favorite.

Serums / Retinol

Dr. Diamond Metacine kindly sent me their Instafacial trio and as much as I didn’t want to like it, I love it. I used it religiously post microneedling and Clear & Brilliant treatments and my skin has never recovered quicker. A high price point, but this trio really can take the place of nearly a full skincare routine. If you are someone partaking in skincare treatments or looking to significantly uplevel the health of your skin, these three are worth it.

Moisturizer

I always finish with a healthy amount of Vanicream all over my face, neck, and décolletage.

My routine isn’t built around a particular brand, a particular price point, or whatever happens to be new, though that temptation is always there. It’s my collection of trusted products I know I can rely on whatever may come my way. I can promise you I’m always testing something new, but just like good style, good skin comes from discernment,

Until next week,

Natalie

Mention a long white skirt and most people picture the same thing: tiered cotton, flat sandals, perhaps a woven tote carried through the farmers market. It becomes a uniform. It’s beautiful. Every June my Dôen pieces circle back as the season’s favorites, and I find myself looking for any excuse to stop by the Brentwood Country Mart storefront.

But it’s not the only interpretation.

We’ve collectively reduced the long white skirt to a single archetype, when it’s actually one of the most versatile canvases in a summer wardrobe.

A symbol of longer days, impromptu dinners, and loose plans that become the memories you remember most. The long white skirt is summer’s poster child, but what I love most about it is how little it dictates. The same piece can feel romantic or restrained, sculptural or effortless, polished or undone, depending entirely on its fabrication, silhouette, and what you pair with it.

I’ve realized I’m happiest when there’s a bit of tension in an outfit. Even the most feminine pieces benefit from a touch of structure or tomboy feel. A tailored waistband instead of tiers. A ribbed tank where another person might reach for lace. I don’t necessarily want to soften a look—I want to give it contrast. That’s what keeps the long white skirt interesting to me. It doesn’t ask to be styled one way. It simply asks for an opinion.

So while the romantic, breezy versions will always have a place in my summer wardrobe, this year I’ve found myself equally drawn to cleaner columns, sculptural silhouettes, and pieces with a little more architecture.

To celebrate long white skirt season, here are the interpretations I’m reaching for, along with a few beautiful finds in each category.

The Romantic

I. Piexoto II. Doên III. DISSH IV. Madewell V. Doên VI. All Saints

The Sculptural

I. Paris Georgia II. La Pointe III. DISSH IV. DISSH

The Tailored

I. STAUD II. KHAITE III. Rue Sophie IV. RÔHE V. Almina Concept VI. St. Agni

The Unexpected

I. Tibi II. SNDYS III. Totême IV. Leset

How will you be partaking?

Until next week,

Natalie

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My recent newsletter on the return of Bermuda shorts sent me down a rabbit hole. While putting together my contemporary edit, I couldn’t help wondering what might be hiding in the vintage and secondhand market.

As it turns out, quite a bit and at really great prices.

Below are twelve finds worth seeing.

gateway denim Bermudas by Citizens

another gateway Bermuda by Totême

the waist of these remind me of the Chan Luu taffeta shorts, but are <$50

the lace hem is so summery

beautiful Carolina Herrera for the office, or al fresco dining - Bermudas do both

perfectly tailored Totême

relaxed Bermuda with a drawstring

excellent length by TWP - even if you’re not typically a L, sizing up in denim Bermudas leaves them hanging perfectly on the hip

a steal and so cute with the double button

Rôhe Bermudas, I’m so incredibly tempted

another perfectly tailored and full length Bermuda by Totême

vintage Celine!

I’ll be back in two weeks with another collection of finds worth seeing.

Until next week,

Natalie

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Below, I’ve rounded up the pairs worth considering, from polished tailoring to relaxed everyday options, along with a few thoughts on how I’d style each one.

THE GATEWAY BERMUDAS

If a below-the-knee hemline feels scary, this is the pair I recommend. Excellent tailoring and a flattering fit on any body. Hitting lower than most “long” shorts so it teases the idea of true Bermuda, gives the illusion of a beautifully long leg, but won’t drown you. Black or ivory, you can’t go wrong. I love these styled with a fitted bodysuit, tucked in blouse as styled by BOA, or a great tee and belt. Sleek and elevated is the goal.

SLVRLAKE has great denim all around, and these shorts are a perfect step away from daisy dukes and toward a true Bermuda.

THE TAILORED ONES

The perfect classic black pair via Banana Republic. Great for the vertically blessed or those fully committed. I personally think hitting just at the knee, or slightly below, and plenty loose is the most flattering. Fitted and above the knee is reminiscent of the 2000’s suburban mom Bermuda short era which, kindly, this is not.

Potentially my favorite pair of all are these by Reformation. The slight sheen adds texture and interest, especially if your wardrobe is a lot of neutrals as mine is. Instead of reaching for patterns or a lot of color, I find myself switching up fabrics and textures to take an outfit from boring to something that speaks for itself.

THE RELAXED ONES

These easy shorts by Enza Costa are the perfect laid back option if a tailored look isn’t quite your style. Excellent over a bikini, a great vintage tee, or ribbed tank. Truly, styling Bermuda shorts isn’t as hard as you’d think, you just need to strike the right balance of proportion, skin, and lack thereof. I also have the pants version of these shorts and wear them multiple times a week.

These shorts by Venroy are a bit less expensive and have a little more interest with the addition of the drawstring. They look incredibly comfortable and have been hanging out in my shopping cart.

And if you’re as captivated as I am by Margot Robbie’s paparazzi shot, style with this Beare Park tee and mesh flats (original, and similar) to fully send it. I have this exact long sleeve and love it. Will definitely be purchasing more.

Side note; the reason this seemingly basic outfit photo has taken all our breath away is because of the juxtaposition. Darker drapey fabrics balanced with unexpected skin exposure, an androgynous outfit paired with a feminine hair style and bag, no prints but texture, texture, texture. It scratches the itch in our brain before our words can even describe it. Food for thought when getting dressed this summer.

THE FASHION PERSON ONES

The Techno Taffeta shorts by Chan Luu are so incredibly fun I can’t stop thinking about them. Coming in multiple color ways, you can take these shorts in so many different directions. I suggest styling with either a bit of midrift as shown, or a sleek bodysuit/tucked in tank to give the pleat detailing of these shorts the attention they deserve. This sweater, the sheer cerulean, and this body suit are top of mind.

The Khaite Poppy Cotton Short is the perfect mix of relaxed and tailored. The tiny pleats add a fun feminine detail white the looseness and shape provide a lot of comfort and ease. A high price point, but one of those pieces you’ll have forever.

These by The Row feel like the perfect summer short. Bright white and crisp cotton with a playful drawstring and length. I’m certain the Olsen twins will be sporting these in the Hamptons all summer long.

THE DENIM ONES

These Róhe Bermudas are the perfect shade of ecru and on sale. Style just as you would any pair of white denim shorts, just make sure you have a good tan.

I have these Zara shorts and love them. Not a true Bermuda, but I recommend sizing up for a looser fit and extra length. 77

I think these by Frame are incredibly cool. Nearly sold out, so if you see yourself sporting these I’d jump on it.

I have a feeling this is only the beginning of a much larger shift toward longer hemlines and easier silhouettes. For now, I’ll happily take a Bermuda short over a denim cutoff.

If there’s one takeaway, it’s that Bermuda shorts are far more versatile than their reputation suggests. The right pair can feel polished, relaxed, or fashion-forward depending on how you style them.

I’d love to know which pair is your favorite.

Until next time,

Natalie

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This week’s drop is inspired by early summer energy - easy, slightly sporty, and best paired with a tan.

Prada tessuto nylon totes are an incredible bang for your buck. Washing and wearing well, and tolerant to being thrown around town. They bring a sporty edge that feels ultra summery yet practical. I found three that are so good.

A gorgeous blue-green

To pair with summer whites

Might snag this one myself for mornings at the park

This knit Róhe dress would be incredible thrown over a black bikini and paired with…

…these sandals

Sleek dresses are essential for summer dressing and this vintage Ralph Lauren has the perfect cut and sillhouette.

The delicate open lacework and floral motifs in this one, also by Ralph, is so subtly sexy and demands to be worn to a farmers market and afternoon drinks.

For your farmers market goods, book, sunglasses, loonen water and anything your heart desires. Dragon Diffusion makes the most incredible bags.

Another find by Róhe, this mini check and crisp white collar feels so summery.

This sheer Maison Margiela tunic would be so incredibly cool over a white tank and vintage Levi’s. The perfect elevation to a basic outfit.

Speaking of Levi’s - take your own measurements and compare to the listings below.

501’s

RE/DONE x Levis

This cord bracelet feels very summer camp chic

As does this Miu Miu

Until next week,

Natalie

To my European and San Francisco-based friends reading this: I know I sound insufferable. I’m sorry! My Southern California-born-and-raised self cannot help it.

The truth is, I’ve historically always felt frustrated by spring. Months of prolonged gloom after the holidays felt like wasted time. I was always itching for summer and a tan that didn’t come from a bottle. This year’s weather flip-flop was supposedly everything I’d always wanted, yet I found myself resisting it. I became convinced we’d started summer too soon and that by July I’d be burnt to a crisp, begging for a trip to Antarctica. Yes, I can occasionally be wildly dramatic…

But when the gloom finally set in this month, it felt like a deep exhale. An opportunity. Dare I say, a gift from above? Jackets and knits made sense again, and somehow the grey itself started to feel beautiful. It was still spring, and the creams and ivories I always reach for still had their place, but a different color story had emerged. May Grey.

Pulling inspiration from something I typically despise somehow felt natural. A color often reserved for sweat-sets or boring basics, but actually has a tonal reverence and embodies elegant simplicity. May Grey speaks for itself. It seemed to resonate with quite a few of you too.

Here’s my edit, inspired by the gloom and finding beauty in it.

DOEN TOP AND SKIRT | ZARA TOP | ZARA DRESS | VENROY MAXI

ST. AGNI TROUSER | ST. AGNI BLAZER | INSANE CHANEL FLATS | CLUB BAG | EARRINGS

J. CREW POLO | POLO OPTION TWO | POLO OPTION THREE | GREY TROUSERS | COS TROUSERS | GLASSES ONE | AND TWO

ST. AGNI TEE | GREY SUIT | SLIP SKIRT ONE | AND TWO | LACE SKIRT | BLACK AND CREAM BALLET FLATS

SHEER SKIRT ONE | AND TWO | THE ROW VIA TRR | SANDAL OF SUMMER

POLO KNIT | LONG SLEEVE TEE | LOAFERS | EXCELLENT SOCKS | BERMUDAS | MAXI SKIRT | SUIT SKIRT | SUNGLASSES

Cozy, silky, sexy, we covered a lot of ground. Hope you found something to help you embrace this foreseeable gloom.

Until next week,

Natalie

I know that sounds dramatic, it’s just a movie. But let me take you back in time a bit.

All throughout my childhood I had two passions; reading novels and drawing clothing. I’m not sure where it came from, but a fashion fantasy was always there. I filled notebooks with sketches of dresses, tops, purses, and coats and often drew outfits for the characters I was reading about. Locked away in my room, utterly immersed in my own world. Our school required uniforms, so I didn’t have all that much clothing to play with- but what I did have got reworked and reimagined a trillion times. I dreamed of being a clothing designer, and Christmas after Christmas I dog-eared the ad for a dress mannequin in PB Teen feeling in my bones that was all I needed to make this dream a reality.

I’m eleven, my older sister returns from her 8th grade D.C. trip and tosses me a Vogue magazine our mom bought her at the airport that she’s now over.

Cue KT Tunstall’s “Suddenly I See”…

I read and re-read that magazine cover to cover for years. And I mean years. Pouring over the articles, trying to decipher what it all meant, dog-earing pages, completely mystified by the models and wondering how Hermes and Loewe were pronounced. I knew nothing, yet everything all at once. And I knew I needed more of what this was.

I remember one feature in particular, a cheeky write up centered on packing the perfect carry-on purse for summer vacations. My first introduction to the what’s-in-my-bag phenomenon and newest obsession. We were heading to Hawaii in a month to visit my grandparents who retired to Kona, it was the perfect opportunity to exercise my new expertise. I snagged an old tote from my mom - likely a free-with-purchase gift from the department store, and prepped the bag for weeks. Sourcing the perfect lip gloss, hair ties, and God knows what else, all in pursuit of the perfect chic carry-on to carry my eleven year old self through the arduous travel day.

I still remember the bag itself, cream linen with a zippered top, fairly similar to today’s cult classic boat and tote.

Of course, the magazine came with. What else would a high-fashion girl read on an airplane?

The original Devil Wears Prada debuted shortly after and opened my eyes to the world behind this magazine. It was the era of 13 going on 30, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, and catching episodes of Sex and The City while my mother wasn’t paying attention. And like any impressionable young girl, I suddenly had a new dream. Instead of designing my own clothes, I wanted to write about them, and be folded into this glossy fashion magazine world I was obsessed with.

The years gave way to practicality. Fiction novels got traded in for textbooks and the magazine eventually got tossed. As I grew up, security and safety took precedence, and a commendable school with an excellent nursing program was chosen.

I was on a fast track from clinicals, in-patient externships, a surgical training program, trauma surgery, a move to LA and private practice plastic surgery, out-patient dermatology, to finally my new dream of seeing my own patients and providing aesthetic treatments (botox, fillers, lasers, you name it). Combining my love and knack for the sciences, with art and beauty. A way to enrich the lives of my patients through confidence and a proper skincare routine.

Then, I had a baby and everything changed. What I thought I wanted, I no longer cared for. And if I didn’t have to do it, I wasn’t going to.

I started this substack while still treating patients in office as a creative outlet for skincare education, plus anything and everything that fell under the umbrella of aesthetics and self-care.

Sort of an amalgamation of my mental archive.

Fragments of fashion, skincare, beauty, memory, womanhood, aspiration, taste, rituals, references, observations. All the things I couldn’t stop collecting in my mind over the years. Throughout it all, there was the constant hum of fashion. And if you know me, you know I’ve always been clothing obsessed - though my sense of style has not always been great (though, lets not cringe at our past selves, but smile lovingly).

Since leaving the practice, Skin Etc. has naturally evolved into much more of the etcetera than skin, which feels right. Though I’ve stepped away from traditional work, I’ve continued writing with a fervor I didn’t expect. I’m having so much fun here, and have more ideas for this space than I know what to do with. Motherhood changes a lot, and you often hear of the tough parts. But one thing it clarified for me was how important it is to feel good about yourself. For me, a large part of that is through fashion as art and the moments of self care snuck in throughout the week that fill your cup to the brim.

Somewhere along the way, Skin Etc. stopped feeling like the full picture. Because while skincare will always be part of my world, it was never the only thing I wanted to talk about. The constant thread, underneath all of it, was always fashion. Taste. Beauty. Storytelling. The small rituals and aesthetic details that shape how we move through the world.

What started as a creative outlet slowly became something much more personal. An archive of everything I love, notice, collect, obsess over, and want to share.

Which is why Skin Etc. is becoming The Archive.

You’ll still get product recommendations and skincare science here, of course, and when given the chance, I will talk your ear off about chemical exfoliation and what products you should switch out asap for your skin type. Returning to what started this in the first place: the amalgamation of my mental archive.

Here you’ll find more shopping diaries, what’s on my mind, products I’m testing, vintage finds I think you should see, etc. Notes on dressing up for the big moments, and the in-between. A place for fashion, beauty, womanhood, inspiration, and the art of pouring back into yourself.

It’s funny to look back, and wonder what 11 year old fashion-magazine-obsessed Natalie would think of these newsletters. I hope she’d think it was cool.

I don’t know where The Archive will take me. But after seeing Devil Wears Prada 2 I do know a few things;

• I’m overdue for a trip to New York. Paris wouldn’t hurt either.

• I’d love a writing desk. It’s time to curate a little space dedicated The Archive.

• I’m endlessly grateful to all of you reading, following, and subscribing. It lights me up in so many ways, and I truly hope you’ve gained something from my writing whether it be a shared obsession with Totême or a skincare hack, that’s what I’m doing it for.

Maybe 11-year-old me knew all along.

Until next week,

Natalie

Their outfits and images captivate me because they tell a story.

One of being deep in the throes of child-rearing, honing in on identity as it shifts rapidly, yet continuing to dress with intention despite the chaotic moments that come.

These four embody what Skin Etc. is all about: the small rituals and stylistic choices that elevate the everyday. The belief that pouring into ourselves allows us to show up more fully for everyone around us. You cannot separate style from personhood, and certainly not from motherhood, though it often takes on a new shape in this season.

Comfort becomes increasingly important, but practicality does not always have to overpower personality. Getting dressed may look different than it once did, but personal style still has the ability to ground us in ourselves and remind us who we are outside of motherhood.

Personal style is just that, personal. Below, you’ll see how each of these women has rediscovered it, redefined it, and continues to cultivate it in motherhood.

Cydni Whittington

NE: How would you describe your personal style right now, in this season of motherhood?

CW: My style in this exact season of motherhood is basically “how can I spice up this this workout set”. We are in a (exciting) season of moving boxes, house projects, & Arizona heat. So realistically, I’m in a pair baggy vintage Levi’s, a white Hanes tank, and some flip flops. But hey, thats why it’s called a “season” right? I’ll be back to my usual shenanigans in no time. I’ve never really subscribed to the whole “mom style” thing. If I like it, I’m wearing it. Period.

NE: In what ways has motherhood sharpened or changed your sense of personal style?

CW: What has changed is that I’ve grown up a little (a little!!!) with my shopping habits. I’m way more into investing in staple, classic pieces that can be layered, dressed up, dressed down, and worn a hundred different ways. I love a good capsule wardrobe moment because realistically, life right now is chaos and I need clothes that work hard without making me think too hard.

NE: What are the pieces or details that make an outfit feel the most like you?

CW: An outfit feels the most me when it looks a little undone but still intentional. Im a sucker for texture and layers. Mixing fabrics like silk, leather, cashmere, lace, anything that gives an outfit some dimension and makes it feel less flat or overly polished. I’m definitely a “it needs something” type of person, usually that’s an oversized blazer, a belt, or sunglasses. Oh and probably a ballet flat.

I also fully believe mixed metals make an outfit better. Gold, silver… rules are boring. I like outfits that look like I didn’t try too hard even though I absolutely thought about the details.

Connect with Cydni on instagram and TikTok for incredible styling and behind the scenes of a home renovation, and shop her looks here.

Rhiley Lamb

NE: How would you describe your personal style right now, in this season of motherhood?

RL: I’m entering a different era as my children are getting older and more independent, I am gaining a bit more freedom in dressing. I no longer have to think twice about my mini dresses being too short for picking littles up or squatting down. As much as I love a mini, I do miss packing around a baby, but it’s a little perk! My children require a lot of physical activity, so I need my style to be ready for whatever ideas they throw my way. I need clothes that can take me from the beach to a restaurant, or a family walk to the park. And not too delicate to check on chickens and take the dog out in the in-betweens of the day.

NE: In what ways has motherhood sharpened or changed your sense of personal style?

RL: Motherhood has sharpened my complete sense of self. With that my style has been able to solidify and help me stay true to me. A few years ago I made a color palette that I felt would be my ideal range to stay within, of course with a rare fun piece. With so much fast fashion and even the amount of incredible outfits we see daily online, I wanted to be sure that I could stay true to my own personal style, and not always be influenced by what I see. This has made all my clothing cohesive, making outfitting easier, which is so nice for busy days with the kids. My kids inspire me to wear my favorites just like do, even if it’s more than once a week. They just wear what they feel best in despite what anyone thinks, and I admire that so much!

NE: What are the pieces or details that make an outfit feel the most like you?

RH: I like to be comfortable, in breathable fabrics, like cotton, linen or silks as of late. My go to combos are a mini short with oversized sweater, or a mini dress baggy coat combo! I almost always pair my outfits, even sweats, with a ballet flat. Suede, mesh, lace, jelly, you name it, I’m here for a girly ballet flat. I pull out the jeans sometimes, I do love a vintage Levi but hard to choose a zipper over a slinky little short or pant. My style is soft and feminine with a touch of stolen from your boyfriend/husband. I like to pair very girly items with men’s linen button downs or lacy dresses with a barn coat, it balances each other and feels authentic to my lifestyle and lush agricultural community.

Find links to Rhiley’s looks here and connect with her on instagram for romantic everyday style, thoughtful motherhood and glimpses of a beautifully lived-in life.

Izzy Vogt

NE: How would you describe your personal style right now, in this season of motherhood?

IV: Oh man, I think it simplified things immensely. I reach for the pieces I know, and I think chasing a toddler makes me prioritize comfort - not athleisure, but simple, tailored tops and pants, and an easy jacket. My style has always been laid back, with a slight 90s flair, and I think that's even more true now. I haven't succumbed to only wearing sneakers yet!

NE: In what ways has motherhood sharpened or changed your sense of personal style?

IV: The time I have to get ready has significantly dropped off, so I think I prioritize the pieces in my closet that I absolutely love and know how to style with my eyes closed. It's made me far more aware of the things I love to see myself in - like an easy black pant, a leather flat sandal, and I end up putting together variations of the same outfit. It's almost sharpened it because I genuinely enjoy putting on a cute outfit, so I just have to do it faster than usual with a toddler screaming at me in the background.

NE: What are the pieces or details that make an outfit feel the most like you?

IV: I think a perfect white or black tee (right now I'm loving the Everlane Box Cut Tee) feels the most me, or a colorful vintage shirt with great Levis. My workhorse closet item is the Enza Costa Twill Everywhere pant, I wear them all the time. And then a vintage suede jacket - I'm addicted to doom scrolling on Poshmark and Depop and love finding a $20 suede jacket in the middle of the night!

Connect with Izzy on Instagram and TikTok for vintage tee inspo and the best cool-mom OOTDs.

MacKenzie Reid

NE: How would you describe your personal style right now, in this season of motherhood?

MR: Right now it’s all about keeping things easy but still feeling like myself. I want to be comfortable and able to move around all day, but still feel put together without trying too hard. I’m definitely reaching for the same kinds of pieces on repeat—things I know I feel good in.

NE: In what ways has motherhood sharpened or changed your sense of personal style?

MR: I think it’s made me a lot more decisive—which is funny because I’m a very indecisive person haha. Getting dressed with a 10 month old around really forces you to not overthink it. If something doesn’t feel good or is even a little high maintenance, I’m just not wearing it. I don’t have the time or energy to fuss with outfits anymore, so I stick to what works. It’s also made me appreciate having a few really good go-to pieces instead of a ton of options.

NE: What are the pieces or details that make an outfit feel the most like you?

I’m almost always in vintage Levi’s and some kind of graphic tee. I love a really good white tee too—my current favorite is from Leset. A white flowy top with vintage Levi’s is kind of my perfect combo. I’ll throw on a strappy sandal or a fun flat, and I usually have a baseball hat on. I’m also very into bags—I’ve collected a few, but lately I keep reaching for my basket bag from Sézane. It’s just easy and feels like me.

Connect with MacKenzie on instagram, and read her substack for quintessential CA coastal living and thoughtful notes on life and travel.

Cheers to the moms in your life. They’re likely doing more than you’d ever realize, and doing it all in style.

Until next week,

Natalie

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Consider this a standing edit of the best pieces I come across.

This week’s finds are inspired by my recent Pinterest saves. Black and cream styled together, silks, satins, and sheer moments that feel ultra feminine and perfectly in-season.

In the throes of Spring, but thinking of Summer.

This week’s finds:

Khaite silk blouse - Soft yellow, 100% silk, an incredibly chic button down for the warmer months.

Missoni skirt - Knee length is the new mini. When you want to show a little leg, but keep it demure. This over a bikini on vacation? Impeccable. Style with a black woven bucket hat and big sunglasses.

ROHÉ alpaca & merino wool sweater - Everyone needs a pullover sweater for cool spring mornings and to throw around your shoulders on evening walks. And finding ROHÉ under $200 is a modern miracle. It’s like the viral J.Crew roll neck sweater except…quality.

Totéme ballet flats - I have these in black and they are my favorite shoe. From a past season and impossible to find now, except this pair of size 11. Never before have I wished I had larger feet!

Ralph Lauren leather trim skirt - Another knee length skirt, this one in a crisp summer white with the coolest leather detailing on the side. Pair this with some brown suede, a denim jacket or a worn-in flannel and you are straight out of a RL summer catalog.

Jenni Kayne alpaca sweater - Another incredible sweater in pristine condition, and far below retail value.

The Frankie Shop skirt - one last sheer piece for you to think about.

If you end up purchasing anything on this list, please let me know! I’d love to see how you make these pieces your own.

Until next week,

Natalie

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1. Chaise lounges and spring garden projects. We’ve yet to fully take advantage of our backyard and outdoor space. I have a balcony off my bedroom that I’ve spent little to no time on. Our first summer in this house was spent acquiring poolside lounges and setting up an outdoor dining area. This spring and summer, I’m turning my attention to raised garden beds, painting the outdoor shed a creamy white, and finding the perfect chaise for slow afternoons spent reading and writing on the balcony.

   

   

2. Silks and satins. Debating the Rue Sophie trench coat or this fun satin number by Reformation. Nothing says Spring to me like a creamy toned, lightweight layer to dress things up a bit. I see these styled with light wash vintage jeans and ballet flats. Or, layered into an all silk moment that feels completely ethereal.

   

   

3. Peptides in skincare. I’ve been testing out an eye cream and moisturizer from One Skin (generously gifted) and realized I am not too young for eye cream. sigh. So far, I am really enjoying them.

4. Totême Belted tote - I remember seeing this bag for the first time at their Melrose store a few years ago and thinking- what a gorgeous, yet practical bag for a mom. Well, a few years later here I am, a mom. And Mother’s Day is conveniently right around the corner. hint hint to Derek, my strong handsome husband who reads and “likes” every single one of my newsletters. Let’s see how closely you read these!

   

5. Katie Casper’s hair. I’m a big fan of Katie and her work in general, she’s one of the inspirations behind finally sending out my bi-weekly series The Archive, and I love the effortlessly cool energy she brings to style, and now motherhood. Her Coachella outfit video stopped me in my tracks and had me immediately sending a screenshot to my hair stylist, making plans for our next appointment.

   

   

6. Chanel ballet flats. Lately, when getting dressed, I’ve felt a gap in the shoe department. I reach for my usual loafers and they feel too dark. My Gucci mules feel a bit too loud. I bring back my favorite Totéme summer sandals and they feel barely there—but not in a good way. It suddenly clicked: I don’t have the perfect spring shoe. A versatile, comfortable, closed-toe piece in white or cream that elevates everything. A good friend of mine—also named Natalie, the always chic in that Doên-meets-Chanel way—got a pair a few months back, and it just dawned on me: maybe I’m a Chanel girl, too?

   Derek, if you’re still reading, these would make the ultimate gift.

7. The present moment. Since January, I’ve been working on re-wiring my attention. I became painfully aware of how short my attention span was, and how any moment of solitude left me reaching for a quick hit of dopamine, usually via my phone. I have a boundary with myself to not have my phone out around my son, and that is not hard to uphold. Rather it’s the in-betweens: at a red light, between tasks, that habitual scroll before bed that never quite gives back what it takes. I’m genuinely proud of the progress. If you’re a friend reading this and waiting on a text from me, know it’s all in the name of self-improvement!

But truly, having a sense of detachment from my phone has been incredibly freeing. I’m much more in tune with the present moment, and Springtime has been the perfect moment to lean into this: the scent of jasmine drifting through the air, the sound of my son laughing outside with my husband. The kind of small, ordinary moments that are so easy to miss if you’re not paying attention.

There’s so much to take in, if you let yourself notice it.

I’m curious, what’s on your mind these days?

Until next week,

Natalie

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Grab a cappuccino and find a cozy chair, because we’re getting into the nuance of vitamin C serums; what you may be doing wrong, my favorites, and how to make your skin an integral part of a spring wardrobe.

If you are using a vitamin C serum for antioxidant protection and long-term collagen health, great.

If you are relying on it to correct discoloration or fade pigment, it may be time to reconsider.

This is a conversation I’ve had countless times—first with patients, and now more broadly. Vitamin C has become synonymous with “brightening,” but that framing is incomplete. And often, it’s why people feel frustrated.

Vitamin C’s primary role in the skin is not to suppress pigment. It is to protect and to support skin cells.

It functions as an antioxidant, helping neutralize free radical damage caused by environmental stressors—sun exposure, pollution, the slow accumulation of oxidative stress that quietly breaks down the skin’s structure over time. Just as importantly, it plays a critical role in collagen synthesis. Our fibroblasts require sufficient vitamin C to produce healthy, functional collagen. So if your goal is increased collagen and long term smooth skin, then you must not skip a vitamin C serum.

Think of it less as a brightening treatment, and more as a structural investment.

When collagen is produced efficiently and skin cells are functioning optimally, the skin often appears brighter. Fresher. More even. But that effect is indirect. It’s a reflection of healthier skin, not targeted pigment correction.

This is why I often recommend supporting vitamin C intake internally as well. When the body has adequate levels—both through diet and supplementation—you’re better positioned to support collagen production at every level. It’s foundational, not corrective.

All of this to say: vitamin C is doing important work. Just not the work many people expect it to do.

If you’ve used a vitamin C serum consistently and seen little change in sun spots or melasma, that doesn’t mean it isn’t working. It means it was never designed to address that concern in a meaningful way.

What Actually Targets Pigment

When we’re treating discoloration, the goal is to interrupt melanin production and transfer. There are a handful of ingredients that do this effectively:

- arbutin

- kojic acid

- tranexamic acid

- niacinamide

Each works through a slightly different mechanism, but the outcome is similar: calming overactive melanocytes and reducing the deposition of pigment in the skin. For those seeking a more aggressive approach, hydroquinone remains the gold standard prescription option—highly effective, though not without its considerations.

If pigment is your concern, these are the ingredients that must be at meaningful concentrations in your product in order to see any change in your skin.

My favorite vitamin C serums

Skinceuticals C E Ferulic - tried and true for a reason. Highly effective and a little goes a long way, so the price per use makes sense.

Sunday Riley CEO serum - this is one is especially lovely for sensitive, barrier-impaired skin due to the form of vitamin C used (THD versus L-ascorbic acid).

Glytone Age—Defying C+ Advanced serum - what I am currently using, and truly loving.

My favorite skin brighteners

Mother Science Molecular Hero serum - I wrote about this serum here, and am still blown away by how well my melasma has calmed after back to back trips to Hawaii and Cabo.

Skinceuticals Discoloration Defense - combining Kojic acid, Niacinamide and TXA its a perfectly well rounded product to combat discoloration from all angles.

Barefaced Brightening Serum - a brand I adore, and return to often. Excellent for sensitive skin.

How I Think About Vitamin C in a Routine

Vitamin C has a place. A incredibly valuable one! But I think of it as a morning layer of protection, something that reinforces the skin over time, rather than transforms it overnight. Apply it in the morning, after cleansing and before moisturizer. Let it do its cumulative work.

And if discoloration is part of your concern, pair it with the ingredients that are actually designed to address it!

There’s a tendency to expect one product to do everything. But skin doesn’t work that way. It responds to consistency, to specificity, and to understanding what each step is actually responsible for. For me, taking care of my skin is as foundational as getting dressed. It’s part of feeling put together. And nothing pairs better with a great outfit than glowing skin.

To get the brightest skin of your life, you have to treat it like personal style- intentional, consistent, and entirely your own.

Until next week,

Natalie

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I’ve gotten into the habit of saving items I love, even if they won’t work for me. I’ll come across something and immediately know it belongs to someone. Rather than letting them linger, I’m sending them your way to consider.

Consider this a standing edit of the best pieces I come across. Here’s to hoping they end up exactly where they’re meant to be!

Hunter rain boots in green - perfect for Spring gardening. I’m planting hydrangeas, keeping snails off my lemon tree, and making a case for chic utility.

Totême crewneck sweater - butter yellow, organic cotton, and <$100!

Khaite ballet flat - the perfect Spring shoe, at half price

1992 Loro Piana nylon jacket - the leather collar is incredible. Though summer is around the corner, Spring showers are still on the horizon.

Vintage Oscar De La Renta silk jacket - I see this one paired with low slung, light wash vintage Levi’s, a fun sandal, and Aperol Spritz in hand.

Vintage Levi’s 501 - measurements included

Loewe Aviators - retro aviators are trending, get a pair with Loewe’s twist for <$200

Hermes Fourre-Tout - French for “carry-all” and indeed it will.

1999 Dries Van Noten evening jacket - the floral detailing on the sleeves is so good. Perfect for a date night or to Sunday church with light wash vintage Levi’s.

If you end up purchasing anything on this list, please let me know! I’d love to see how you make them your own.

Until next week,

Natalie

A consistent through-line is what transforms simply getting dressed into personal style.

If I ever feel stuck getting dressed, I’ll grab one of these signatures and an interest piece, then work to connect the two. It always results in an outfit that feels undeniably me. Relying on these pieces, most often made from specific fabrics and of impeccable fit, grounds the outfit in confidence and comfort.

Really, my signature pieces are what feel the most me. Especially when paired with something that has a touch of edge, sport, or sharp tailoring. When cultivating personal style, the signature anchors are arguably more important than the fun accents.

When something works, it works. Here’s what I recommend having multiples of, because they’re just that good.

I. St. Agni Trousers II. Eaves Silk Pant III. Enza Costa Everywhere Pant

I. LESET Margo tank II. St. Agni Organic Cotton 90’s Top III. St. Agni Organic Cotton Baby Tee IV. Toteme Button Down one and two

The accents I love

And how I put it all together

I. sunglasses II. suede clutch III. silk coat one and two IV. tassel belt one and two

I. jacket II. pants in ivory II. ballet flats III. red clutch IV. sunglasses

I. paracord necklace one and two II. belted tote III. baby blue bag

Over time, the repetition becomes the style.

Until next week,

Natalie

After years of treating patients and building routines in real time, I’ve found most people don’t need more products, they need a better approach.

It’s not in doing more, or doing less, but in doing the right things. In a world saturated with marketing that has become increasingly hard to discern. Skincare has never been more accessible, or more confusing. Every product promises transformation. Every routine feels essential. And somewhere along the way, taking care of your skin became less about consistency and more about accumulation.

With anything worth building, consistency matters. Healthy relationships, thriving businesses, loyal friendships are the result of steady effort over time. Skin is no different. There is no overnight transformation, no single facial that replaces consistency. And anyone selling you that idea is selling something else.

Consider this your framework for building a routine that actually works.

Morning: Protect & Refine

1. Pick your cleanser

   If your skin leans normal - combination - acneic - oily, opt for a gel cleanser. If your skin is drier than the Sahara desert, either use a very small amount of gel cleanser or a cream cleanser. Just be aware that cream cleansers leave behind a film of moisturizing ingredients which can clog pores or block other ingredients from penetrating deeper layers of skin.

2. Swipe on a toning pad

   This is your gentle exfoliation step. Nothing crazy, just make it effective.

3. Apply an antioxidant serum

   This step acts as your environmental defense. Antioxidants help protect your skin from daily stressors while supporting collagen growth. Vitamin C is the most common, but not the only option.

4. Layer on hydration

   This is where nuance matters. I prefer multiple layers of lightweight moisturizers versus one thick cream. Water-based formulas allow product to travel deeper into the skin whereas richer ingredients smooth and soften the top layer. Both have merit and a place within a routine, but need to be applied with intention - always apply product from thinnest to thickest.

5. Protect with SPF

   A non-negotiable. Opt for mineral sunscreens with SPF 30 or higher. I always say, the best sunscreen is the one you will commit to wearing daily. This can take trial and error, finding the right consistency to layer with your preferred makeup, or when going bare faced.

Evening: Correct & Restore

1. Always double cleanse

   The first cleanse removes makeup and/or sunscreen and environmental debris. Second cleanse deeply cleans the pores to prevent sebum buildup and allow products to fully absorb.

2. Apply your retinoid

   Here is where consistency is key. Similar to SPF, the best retinol is the one your skin can tolerate regularly. The most common mistake I saw in patients was jumping to a strength their skin couldn’t sustain—then quitting entirely. Studies show that frequency is far more effective than pure potency. Meaning if you can only tolerate your retinol a few nights a week, it’s likely too strong for you. Start low, go slow, and build over time up to a nearly nightly regimen.

3. Layer on hydration

   Again, layer layer layer.

4. Seal it in

   I like to apply a thicker cream or squalane-based oil at night to seal things in. This prevents trans-epidermal water loss and is an extra step that keeps skin plump and youthful.

Once your foundation is in place, this is where you tailor based on skin concern.

Melasma - add in a targeted skin brightening product either AM or PM, or both. This is different from your antioxidant product!

Aging skin - in addition to consistent retinol use, add in a studied growth- factor/peptide product.

Fine lines - add in a targeted serum for bolstering skin against creasing.

Redness - prioritize calming, barrier-supporting ingredients that reduce inflammation and strengthen the skin like this or this.

A good routine isn’t built on how much you use. It’s built on what you return to, consistently. When your foundation is strong, everything else becomes an enhancement, not a solution. The treatments, the tools, the rituals—they work better when they have a something solid to build upon.

How I take my skin to the next level is where we’ll go next.

If you’re looking for specifics, I’ve shared my full current routine—including exact products—here.

And if you’re building something more tailored and need specific recommendations, feel free to leave a comment or message me. I’ve spent years helping patients refine their routines, and I’m always happy to point you in the right direction.

Until next week,

Natalie

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Which is why I was hesitant about Vivrelle.

I had been seeing it all over social media for quite some time and was intrigued, but not convinced. The concept itself- paying a membership fee to gain access to a vast wardrobe of luxury bags and jewelry, to borrow at your leisure, and send back once you were ready for something new- was appealing. I tend to think long and hard, imagining exactly how something fits into my day-to-day uniform before I bring it in. The mindset serves me well, but sometimes it needs loosening.

Fashion culture loves to talk about investment pieces. Buy well, buy once.

And I agree—up to a point.

But not everything worth wearing needs to be owned. Some pieces are more fleeting. A bag you only want on vacation. Something with a bit more personality than your everyday uniform allows. Or simply something you’re not ready to commit to—financially or otherwise. Style, at its best, should feel intentional. But it should also feel a little light!

So I decided to try it, on my terms.

What I’ve Borrowed

Denim CC Mini Flap Bag from Chanel

This felt like the right first choice, and an exciting one. Rare, difficult to source, and in perfect condition. The denim and silver hardware combination felt very me. It was also my first time wearing Chanel, which felt significant.

I borrowed this in the winter, and had a lot of fun styling it casually with layers of denim and elevated basics. However, it reads more Spring/Summer so after a month I sent it back. I’ve already favorited it to revisit when the season feels right again.

Questioning why I sent it back now…

Medium Drawstring Bag from Bottega

This one felt promising. I had tried on something similar months back and loved it, but wasn’t ready to commit. I envisioned this being my effortlessly cool mommy-on-the-go bag.

Before it shipped, Vivrelle reached out to note the condition wasn’t perfect and included detailed photos, offering me the option to choose something else along with a credit. I appreciated the transparency and decided to try it anyway.

It ended up not working. But what stood out was how quickly and kindly it was handled. After a brief email, they let me select a replacement before the return had even been processed.

It was a small moment, but one that made the experience feel trustworthy.

Woven Classic Pouch from Bottega

I chose this pouch from Bottega in anticipation of a trip to Oahu. I lean toward a neutral palette even on vacation and this bag worked seamlessly styled with everything I wore, yet still felt very fun for the occasion. Read all about how I style myself for Hawaii and my packing strategy here.

The size and functionality of this bag far supersedes any other clutch currently on the market. I considered adding this to my closet permanently. Notice a trend here?

Large N/S Park Tote Bag from The Row

This was the one I was most curious about. Not because it’s loud or trend-driven, but because it’s the opposite. A very simple silhouette, no hardware to speak of, nothing to distract from the material itself, and everyone raves about it. If I’m being so honest, I was hoping it would be a let down.

The leather is what makes it. Smooth, and structured in a way that holds its shape without feeling rigid. It’s the kind of bag you don’t fully understand until it’s in your hands. And now I get it. I’m learning that might be the case with everything from The Row.

I borrowed this with my everyday uniform in mind—the pieces I reach for without thinking twice. Gym, errands, coffee, all the in-between moments that make up most of my days. This bag fits seamlessly into that rhythm, but elevates it perfectly.

This is a bag I would typically research, revisit, and debate for months before purchasing. Being able to live with it first has shifted that entirely. And I may not be sending it back…

With tiered access, you’re able to find something that aligns with your personal style—whether you gravitate toward Prada, Loewe, Bottega, or The Row. The range is wide and with enough time, it’s almost inevitable you’ll come across something you genuinely love.

What I’ll be borrowing next

This isn’t for someone building a forever collection just yet. It’s for someone who enjoys the process of getting dressed—who likes to experiment a bit, to rotate, to see what actually fits before committing to it.

If you tend to think carefully before you buy, but still appreciate a little variety, this kind of access makes sense.

If you’ve been curious, this is one of the few memberships I’ve tried that feels worthwhile. Vivrelle offers your first month complimentary with the code NATALIEEITEL, which makes it an easy way to see if it fits into your own style.

Curious if any of you have given it a go? Let me know your thoughts, please.

Until next week,

Natalie

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Trying new products is part of what I do, but only a small number ever earn a place on my shelf long term. These are the ones I kept reaching for—the formulas that fit seamlessly into my routine, did what they promised, and the ones I’d consider repurchasing.

What I look for before adding a product to my routine

1. Does it replace something I already use?

2. Does it fill a category I am missing?

3. Is the formula elegant enough to use daily, and enjoy?

4. Will my skin notice if I stop using it?

Glytone Age Defying C+ Antioxidant Serum

When paired with gentle exfoliation, vitamin C can really elevate the skin and this one does. It’s replaced my previous go-to with zero sensitivity, and one bottle goes a long way (which I appreciate, because nothing bothers me more than a vitamin C that’s gone in a month).It’s replaced my previous go-to with zero sensitivity, and one bottle goes a long way (which I appreciate, because nothing bothers me more than a vitamin C that’s gone in a month).

Repurchase? Yes / No / Maybe

Glytone Age Defying Pha Renewing Eye Cream

I find most eye creams leave a film on the eye area in an attempt the deeply hydrate and smooth - this one didn’t which I appreciated. That said, I didn’t notice a meaningful difference so I wouldn’t repurchase. I am also not the best candidate for eye creams right now as I currently treat the area with routine Dysport, and this serum. If you are someone who has neglected the eye area up until now, you may notice more of a change than I did.

Repurchase? Yes / No / Maybe

Sonsie Skin Multi-Moisture Cream

I love to keep a rich cream in my bedside drawer at all times. A little bit applied to my eyes, lips, neck and hands right before bed keeps makes a noticeable difference come morning. For years Summer Friday’s Jet Lag Mask was my cream of choice, and now Sonsie has taken its place. It’s rich but still hydrating in a way that doesn’t feel heavy and is made with the cleanest of ingredients and chic branding. Plus, Pamela Anderson is so cool. It being her brand makes me like it all the more. Honorable mention for their lip balm which I plan on purchasing once this one is done.

Repurchase? Yes / No / Maybe

Susanne Kaufmann Advanced Anti-Ageing Rich Cream

This lovely night and day cream is the perfect last layer for anyone with combo to dry, or mature skin. formulated with three peptides to truly do deep work. While a bit thick for my skin type that errs on the side of acne prone, I passed this along to a friend and she’s been using it non-stop. If your skin runs dry or you live in a drier climate, this is one I’d consider.

Repurchase? Yes / No / Maybe

Susanne Kauffman Nutrient Serum

This one was a really nice addition to my routine. Lightweight and hydrating, one of those products you see an immediate glow from. To me it seems like a multi-vitamin for your skin, boosting its health and checking all the little boxes you may be missing within your routine in a refined, botanical way. It supports the production of naturally occurring retinoic acid in your skin, so is considered a natural alternative to retinol.

Repurchase? Yes / No / Maybe

Mother Science Molecular Hero Serum

This product arrived at exactly the right time and has quickly become my go-to for brightening. I have some residual pregnancy melasma that tends to flare with any bit of heat or sun exposure. Despite my diligence to healthy skin habits, my recent trip to Hawaii was no exception. Within a week of using this serum I noticed my skin beginning to return to its baseline. Typically, that shift takes closer to a month.

Repurchase? Yes / No / Maybe

YSE Beauty Skin Glow SPF primer

This has become a really nice base layer under either a thicker SPF, a sheer skin tint, or full makeup. I tend to layer SPF but that when things start to pill this gives all the flow and none of that. If you are acne prone this may not be the best choice due to a few ingredients. That said, after 3 months of consistent use I have yet to have any breakouts. This has earned a rightful place in my daily routine.

Repurchase? Yes / No / Maybe

YSE Beauty Your Favorite Ex Exfoliating Pads

I received these pads last year and fell in love with the large size and unique blend of acids. Glycolic acid is one of those jack of all trades that any skin type will experience great even exfoliation from. I’m working through jars of other exfoliating pads I currently have, and am keeping this jar for a rainy day. I wanted to still include these, and they are a product I often recommend to friends.

Repurchase? Yes / No / Maybe

What I’ve realized is that good skincare isn’t about having more, it’s about knowing what actually earns a place on your shelf, and keeping it there.

If you’re looking to simplify your routine, these are the ones I’ve kept in rotation lately.

Until next Friday,

Natalie

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Private school taught me several things. Potentially the most impactful lesson of all was the utility of a uniform. You won’t see me sporting maroon polos and plaid skirts and running late to class anymore. But if you catch me somewhere between the grocery store and dry cleaners, toddler in tow, you will see me in uniform.

If you read “Rebuilding My Closet Post-Partum” then you’re familiar with my wardrobe mindset. I’m pleased to report my overhaul created the perfect foundational wardrobe I’m still happy with months later. On any given day I’m rotating through my favorite pieces. Ones that can be mixed and matched in a mathematical ritual that produces endless outfit variations that still feel effortlessly me, and rake in compliments. Monday-Friday, just like a school girl, I don my uniform. (On the weekends is where I play dress up in my closet until my husband yells up the stairs that we are in fact, now very late for wherever we’re headed.)

This is far more strategic and playful than the “capsule wardrobe” we hear about too often. I’m not suggesting you go out and buy a black tank top and black trousers and black ballet flat for the sake of having them, or to fit some fashion rule that we all must abide by. Far from it! That sort of soulless methodical shopping leaves you with a wardrobe that lacks a personality entirely. Or, even worse, having one black tank top that must go with everything when it really doesn’t. If I’m being honest, I think you need several of the go-to pieces to keep things fresh and functional.

This is about having pieces you know and love, that fit you perfectly, and can be donned in a pinch if need be. Not everyone needs to get dressed in a flash but if this mindset resonates, then you may love what I love. Or, at the very least, I hope this helps you discern what stays in your closet, what goes, and makes getting dressed in the morning a moment of ease and confidence.

To Bristol Farms for more blueberries

To the Dry Cleaners

To the Gym + a cappuccino on the way home

Over time I’ve realized that personal style rarely lives in the special occasions. It’s built in the ordinary ones. The outfits you pull together quickly on a Tuesday morning, the pieces you instinctively reach for when there’s no time to overthink it.

This is my version of a uniform now; simple, comfortable, quietly polished. The kind of clothes that move easily between errands, coffee, and whatever the day holds. Because style, at least in this season, isn’t about reinvention every morning. It’s about knowing what works, and wearing it often.

Until next Friday,

Natalie

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