Wardrobe Notes by Olivia Ivey

The Wednesday Wishlist: Destination Weddings & Dress Codes

Wed, 26 Aug 2026 20:09:03 GMT

We’re entering Q4 of wedding season, and already starting to look ahead to 2027. Destination weddings aren’t going anywhere, but I’ve noticed a real return to getting married closer to home. Or, at least, within your home state.

Although in America, you could argue nearly every wedding is a destination wedding. The country is vast, and each state brings its own culture, landscape and point of view. Mountains might lend themselves to something Western, but they don’t have to. And what exactly does one wear to a garden party in Seattle? I explored that this week.

Ironically, we’re starting just across the border in Cabo. I’ve had several requests, and I’m simply here to support and give the people what they want.

So I’m curious: are we embracing our own backyards again for upcoming weddings? Or are we still puddle-jumping to somewhere farther afield?

Scroll to check out this week’s edits for Cabo, Beaver Creek, and Seattle.

The Wednesday Wishlist Takeover: From International Fashion Buyer Stephanie Quinn

Wed, 19 Aug 2026 15:31:14 GMT

I’m handing over the Wishlist this week to someone whose eye I trust implicitly: my sister, Stephanie Quinn Bannock. Stephanie is currently the Buying Manager across Bloomingdale’s in the Middle East and Harvey Nichols Dubai, following roles at Browns Fashion in London and SSENSE. Her career has taken her across e-commerce, luxury multi-brand retail and different global markets, so she has that rare ability to look at fashion beyond her own personal taste and understand what actually makes a piece, brand or collection resonate.

Her own wardrobe is simple with an edge: monochromatic, elevated staples, vintage Levi’s and a white tee, usually finished with great jewellery or something a little unexpected. She’s far less interested in chasing the relentless trend cycle and much more drawn to pieces with staying power, personality and a reason to be in your wardrobe.

Steph and I are 18 months apart. I’m not ashamed to admit she has always been cooler (and younger) than me. When it came to fashion, she was early to everything. In our 90’s era tweens, I was very committed to my Spice Girls-era flares. “They will never go out of style,” I told my mom (lol). One afternoon, Steph walked into the house wearing dark denim J Brand skinnies. I immediately felt envious, and suddenly my flared jeans looked prehistoric.

We’ve ended up on different sides of the planet, in different corners of the same industry. I’m probably the more colourful and experimental dresser, while Steph has always had a much more edited point of view. Whenever I’m with her, I inevitably find myself dressing a little more like her, mostly in an effort to match the vibes and keep up.

Steph has built an incredible career, with a very strong point of view that I have huge respect for. Which is exactly why I wanted her to take over the Wishlist. Every single pick is hers, so I’ll be shopping right alongside you this week.

Stephanie in Bodrum, Turkey

Stephanie in Los Angeles

The Wednesday Wishlist: International Travel

Wed, 12 Aug 2026 15:30:21 GMT

Some trips are just more fun to dress for than others. London, Japan, and a safari all have such a distinct sense of place, and each one gives you an excuse to approach your wardrobe a little differently.

A trip to London in the fall calls for polished classics and great outerwear, Japan feels like the place to play with interesting shapes, textures, and unexpected accessories, while safari is all about finding that balance between practical and IG-worthy (don’t eye roll, we are who we are).

I love when a destination pushes you slightly outside of your usual style. Half the fun of planning a trip is imagining who you’re going to be when you get there and, more importantly, what she’s going to wear.

London in the fall is one of my favorite places to visit. Even when it’s grey and drizzly, everyone somehow looks incredibly chic. There’s a very specific London take on classic dressing that I love: a little preppy, very polished, but never too precious.

It’s great jeans with a beautifully tailored jacket, sleek but functional accessories, and, obviously, a really chic raincoat.

Safari dressing is one of those rare occasions where the setting really gets to dictate the wardrobe, and I think that’s part of the fun. I love leaning into the earthy palette and practical fabrics.

Think easy trousers, layered pieces for cooler mornings, and items that can handle a little dust without sacrificing the look. The accessories are where you can have some fun: a great hat, practical bag, and sunglasses complete the look.

I have never been to Japan, but imagining my hypothetical looks is truly so fun. I think most people would go more minimal with an odd or edgy accessory, like the first look, but there is definitely room to play. Mixed patterns, textures, prints, interesting shapes, and unexpected accessories all feel right. A little quirkiness is almost encouraged.

The Wednesday Wishlist: The Curated Bride

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Wed, 05 Aug 2026 15:31:18 GMT

There are brides who pick a dress, and then there are brides who curate a wardrobe. My favorite wedding weekends are the ones where every look feels considered, from the pajamas in the bridal suite to the after-party outfit that somehow makes feathers feel practical. The magic isn’t in having more outfits. It’s in creating a story, where each look has its own moment but still feels unmistakably you.

That’s where styling becomes so much more than getting dressed. Accessories, textures, and those unexpected finishing touches are what transform a beautiful outfit into a memorable one. This week’s Wishlist is for the bride who isn’t afraid of a little sparkle, believes a statement earring can change everything, and knows that wearing all white doesn’t have to mean playing it safe.

A curated bride thinks about every moment. From the second your wedding day begins, what you’re wearing in the bridal suite helps set the tone. It’s less about the photos and more about getting into character.

Think of it like an actor preparing for a role. You want to embody the feeling of being a bride before you ever step into your dress. Overly dramatic? Maybe. But you’re the leading lady this weekend, so you might as well commit to the part.

Accessories are where a bridal look becomes personal. What I love about these three outfits is that the dresses are sleek and modern, leaving plenty of room for playful, unexpected accessories to make each look feel distinctly your own.

The best accessories tell a story. Maybe they reference your destination, nod to your wedding weekend aesthetic, or simply reflect your personality. Choose them with intention, and your personal style will come through in every moment of the celebration.

If making a statement is your thing, consider this your permission slip. Beading, sequins, and feathers all have a place in a well curated wedding wardrobe. Who knew an all white look could make so much noise?

These outfits are designed to turn heads, so don’t be afraid to pair them with accessories that are just as bold. When you embrace the drama, all eyes will be exactly where they should be.

The Wednesday Wishlist: Endless Invites

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Wed, 22 Jul 2026 20:14:42 GMT

The request box was filled with wedding destinations this week, mostly across the US. Rather than my usual three-location edit, I decided to cast a wider net and curate looks for as many destinations as possible.

Western weddings continue to be on the rise, and with Wyoming, Montana, and Colorado appearing again and again in your requests (along with plenty of “Western” callouts), I thought it only made sense to dedicate the first three looks to the trend.

One of my favorite outfits in the edit is the final look: a stunning fish-print Altuzarra gown that feels destined for a coastal celebration. I placed it in Nantucket, should you find yourself with a wedding there before the end of summer.

Scroll to view three western-vibed looks, plus Greenwich, Normandy, Bermuda, Upstate NY, Miami, and Nantucket.

The Wednesday Wishlist: Summer Season

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Wed, 15 Jul 2026 15:30:09 GMT

Hello, from Canada!

We are in full-on summer mode up here, filled with lake showers and perpetually damp hair.

My approach to summer style is a bit like throwing your suitcase on the bed and wearing whatever you happen to grab first. That’s the beauty of this season. It can be a hodgepodge of textures, prints, and colors, and somehow it all just works.

Pre-fall fashion may be creeping onto the horizon, but it’s far too humid for me to even consider buying a jacket. So let’s stay focused on the season at hand. Grab yourself a dock-tail, and let’s get into this week’s Wishlist.

—What I love about this look: The effortless chaos of summer dressing. Stripes, beads, and a lots of color.

Staud Striped Skirt - If I wasn’t on an island with no mailing address I would purchase this immediately.
Sara Cristina Bikini
Staud Beaded Bag
Chloe Sandals - I have these in blue
Jimmy Fairly Sunglasses

—What I love about this look: Proof that a great cover-up can carry an entire vacation wardrobe. Just add jewelry and sandals and you're ready for lunch, even if you just came straight from the dock.

Johanna Ortiz Cover Up - wearing this in my cover photo
Eres Bikini Top
Bikini Bottom
Jennifer Behr Necklace
Rixo Bag
Christopher Esber Shoes

—What I love about this look: I'm always looking for swimwear that can convincingly pass as an outfit. Layering a sheer skirt over swim shorts feels unexpected, and an airy button-up is one of the hardest-working pieces you can pack for humid weather.

—What I love about this look: The striped polo is having a major moment, but pairing it with feminine separates keeps it from looking too collegiate.

—What I love about this look: This is what I mean when I say accessories finish a look. Without them it's lovely. With them it has personality.

—What I love about this look: Matching sets always feel pulled together with almost no effort. The Eliou necklace is the styling detail that makes this one memorable.

—What I love about this look: The most interesting outfits usually come from unexpected pairings. Crochet, sporty trousers, sculptural earrings - it shouldn't work on paper, but it absolutely does.

—What I love about this look: Texture is what makes bold color combinations feel intentional instead of loud.

Christopher Esber Dress
Loewe Bag
Jimmy Choo Heels - these also come in blue. I think they are so cool.
Lie Studio Earrings
Bottega Sunglasses

—What I love about this look: Soft color, strong accessories. Metallics are the styling trick that gives this palette a sharper edge.

The Wednesday Wishlist: Summer Invitation

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Wed, 01 Jul 2026 15:31:40 GMT

My clients have had some incredibly chic invitations lately, which has meant I’ve been busy curating looks for Hamptons weekends, Wimbledon, and some very good Fourth of July plans. I have been busy.

I’ve never actually been to Wimbledon, but one day. Destinations that come with an established “look” are always my favorite to dress for. Before I start pulling outfits, I usually do a quick refresher on the dress code. What’s actually expected? What’s technically allowed? From avoiding crop tops to bag-size restrictions, knowing the rules makes it much easier (and more fun) to put together something that feels appropriate without looking predictable.

The Fourth of July is entirely invitation dependent. There’s a very different dress code for flipping burgers in your backyard than there is for an invite-only house party in the Hamptons. Wherever you’re celebrating, I hope these red, white, and blue looks offer a little inspiration.

Scroll ahead for outfit ideas for Wimbledon & July 4th

—What I love about this look: This look is incredibly chic and sophisticated, with a subtle open back that adds an unexpected element. Wimbledon whites are often the default, so opting for blush pink feels fresh, considered, and just different enough to stand out.

—What I love about this look: Cotton feels particularly fitting for a day at Wimbledon, where the sun can make for a long, warm afternoon. It’s also a somewhat unexpected fabric choice for a Vivienne Westwood midi dress, making it all the more appealing. I recently added this dress to my own wardrobe and can’t wait for an opportunity to wear it.

—What I love about this look: This dress has some incredibly interesting cut-outs (worth clicking through to see), but what I love most is how a white maxi dress creates the perfect canvas for great accessories.

—What I love about this look: I dropped this dress into my IG broadcast channel this week because I love this dress so much! That print, mixed with a classic Christopher Esber shape is my dream July 4th outfit!

—What I love about this look: I actually love red and blue together, patriotism aside. This navy print paired with bold red sandals is proof that an unexpected color combination can be even better than an obvious one.

—What I love about this look: Me, this outfit, and a spicy margarita.

The Wednesday Wishlist: Bridal Edit

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Wed, 24 Jun 2026 17:38:29 GMT

I’ve officially been styling brides for four years now, and if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that the answer is never in scrolling through another hundred white dresses. Whenever I feel in a styling rut, I go back to the beginning: the bride’s mood board and the way she wants to feel on her wedding day. Glamorous. Sophisticated. Sexy. Classic. Effortless.

The dress matters, of course, but the feeling matters more.

“I want to look like myself, but the most glamorous version of myself,” said one of my brides.

That philosophy guides every styling decision I make. The right earring can transform a gown. The perfect shoe can shift the entire mood of a look. Sometimes the most important choice is what to leave out entirely. A dramatic dress may not need a necklace. A statement earring may be the only accessory required. Styling is rarely about adding more. It’s about creating balance, refining the details, and letting each piece work together to tell a story.

Glamorous Rehearsal Looks

Maybe it’s just my algorithm, but lately I’ve noticed an influx of European château weddings, the kind that feel as though they require special permission just to take place there. They’re grand, glamorous, and undeniably over the top, but in the most refined way possible. Think string quartets and candlelit dinners, not surprise performers and choreographed dance numbers.

For a rehearsal dinner, these looks set the tone for the weekend and offer a glimpse of what’s to come. Likely a cathedral veil, the church ceremony, and the sweeping estate backdrop. For these rehearsal looks, the accessories are thoughtful and intentionally chosen. And while the finishing touches matter, the dresses are remarkable enough to stand beautifully on their own.

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Clean Modern Sets

I love a set. First, for its ability to be reworn and restyled long after the wedding weekend, and second, because there’s something inherently chic about one. These three looks, in particular, feel modern, clean, and sophisticated while still leaving plenty of room for personality to shine through.

Like the dresses above, these looks are strong enough to stand on their own. For a more minimalist approach, you could easily scale back the accessories. But since I rarely shy away from a statement piece, we went in the opposite direction. Bold earrings serve as the defining element of each look, while carefully chosen handbags reinforce the mood and personality of the outfit. The result feels polished, intentional, and anything but predictable.

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Bridal Looks with Splashes of Color

I love an unexpected moment, and color is often where it happens. While many brides gravitate toward white throughout their wedding weekend, there’s something incredibly chic about a look that breaks from tradition.

Color brings a different energy. It feels celebratory, confident, and a little more fashion-minded. It's where a bride can indulge her personal style a bit more, while the ceremony look often follows a more established script.

Whether it’s an ice-blue embellished dress inspired by “something-blue”, an embroidered white and yellow dress for an al fresco dinner, or a bold floral for a welcome party, these looks create a memorable moment while still feeling elevated. And unlike many bridal pieces, they’ll likely earn a second life long after the wedding weekend is over.

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Wednesday Wishlist: Best Guest Dressed Energy

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Thu, 18 Jun 2026 00:27:01 GMT

Let’s be honest, we all thrive off a compliment. You walk into a sea of wedding guests, everyone looking fabulous, but a few extra glances and compliments from complete strangers? It makes you feel a little extra special.

That said, you should never attend a wedding trying to be the best-dressed guest. Let the bride do all the shining. But putting in the effort to look and feel your best brings a kind of energy to a celebration that everyone can appreciate.

If you’re a fashion girl and a girl’s girl, there is nothing better than showing up to a wedding where your entire squad absolutely understood the assignment. Most brides appreciate the friends who embrace the vibe, respect the dress code, and help create the atmosphere they’ve envisioned.

So let’s just say Best Guest Dressed isn’t a title. It’s a mindset. It’s not about outshining anyone. It’s about stepping into the best version of yourself in an outfit so good you feel completely invincible.

Let’s explore this week’s looks.

What To Wear For: Tropical Black Tie

There’s no better time to embrace bold, vibrant color than at a tropical destination wedding. These shades look incredible against a backdrop of palm leaves and lush foliage, and absolutely come alive at golden hour.

While these dresses make a statement on their own, don’t be afraid to have fun with the accessories. Mix textures, layer in metallics, and lean into a little shine. These looks can handle it. In fact, the right accessories only make them feel even more striking.

Mixed Floral Gown by Brandon Maxwell
Raffia Mules by Aquazzura
Gold Plated Earrings by Cano
Hot Pink Mini Bag by Merlette
Piercing Gold Cuff by Sylvia Toledano
Hot Pink Tiered Gown by Aje
Gold Platform Sandal by Aquazzura
Gold Drop Earrings by Juju Vera
Jacquard Shoulder Bag by Valentino
Blossom Ring by Aliita
Garden Crepe Dress by La Fuori
Tulle Embroidered Cape by La Fuori
Embellished Thong Sandals by Amina Muaddi
Silver Plated Cuff by Ysso
Cluster Crystal Earrings by Jennifer Behr
Embellished Clutch by Jimmy Choo

Wedding Guest Sets & Color Blocking

Another round of golden hour looks. This edit explores a bit of color-blocking.

If it’s a styling approach you haven’t experimented with before, I recommend choosing one accessory color to complement the outfit and relying on metallics for the rest. For example, if you chose the orange De La Valli set and paired it with pink shoes, a pink bag, and pink earrings, the look can start to feel a bit too literal. Breaking it up with metallic accessories creates more balance and allows each color to shine.

When it comes to color, I like combinations that feel harmonious rather than competitive. The pale yellow dress and seafoam green bag, for example, feel like they’re operating at the same volume. Neither overpowers the other. To keep the look feeling fresh and balanced, I paired them with white accessories. Had I added a hot pink shoe here, the outfit still would have worked, but my eye would immediately be drawn to the boldest color in the look: the shoe. I wanted the focus to remain on the overall styling rather than a single statement piece.

Bias Cut Top by Rodarte
Bias Cut Skirt by Rodarte
Butter Yellow Slingbacks by Jimmy Choo
Shell And Crystal Earrings b by Jennifer Behr
Chain Flower Shoulder Bag by Rabanne
Chiffon Cape Top by De La Valli
Beaded Knit Maxi Skirt by De La Valli
Fuschia Patent Sandals by Christian Louboutin
Palm Tree Earrings by Oscar de la Renta
Frog Ring by Cano
Woven Fan Clutch by Bambien
Gathered Jersey Top by Christopher Esber
Gathered Jersey Skirt by Christopher Esber
White Ankle Strap Sandals by Aquazzura
Bubble Earrings by Alaia
Butterfly Ring by Chan Luu
Beaded Fringed Bag by Reformation

Black is not boring…

I don’t often source black dresses for clients, mostly because I personally gravitate toward color. But black is not boring. It’s sleek, sophisticated, and yes, sometimes it’s the safe choice. And that’s okay.

If you’re shopping for a black gown, look for pieces that play with texture, ornamentation, shape, and structure. These looks aren’t about hiding in the background. They’re about expressing yourself, even in the darkest color.

Jewelry is hugely important here. If you’re wearing all black, like the first look on the left, silver or gold accessories add some much-needed brightness. You could also bring in a metallic shoe or bag to break it up. Another option is to introduce a bit of color, but keep it equally rich, like the velvet merlot clutch in the look on the far right.

Rachel Gilbert Gown
Patent Pumps by Valentino
Embellished Satin Clutch by Roger Vivier
Lab White Sapphire Tennis Necklace - Dorsey (Lab Grown)
Moissanite Drop Earrings by Dorsey
Maticevski Gown - if this is too edgy, this gown by Rachel Gilbert feels a bit softer
Silver Embellished Sandals by Victoria Beckham
Sleek Black Clutch by Amina Muaddi
Silver Crystal Studs by Givenchy
Ornament Ring Dries Van Noten
Solace London Gown - a true black tie alternative from Solace London
Black Suede Pumps by Jimmy Choo
Velvet Merlot Clutch by Erdem
Floral Drop Earrings by Erdem

Wednesday Wishlist: My Summer Selects

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Wed, 10 Jun 2026 16:44:01 GMT

This week’s wishlist looks a little different. Again.

I’m ten weeks postpartum and, truthfully, my plate feels full. Possibly a little overfilled. So are my arms for that matter. Lily is snoring away on one shoulder.

Instead of my usual fully curated looks, I thought I’d peel back the layers and keep things a bit simpler this week by giving you a look into my true summer wardrobe. I keep forgetting that I make the rules around here.

So let’s dive in.

Lily’s passport just arrived, which means we’re heading to Canada for most of July, followed by Connecticut and a few other destinations. Because nothing says “taking it easy” quite like international travel with an infant.

Here’s what my summer wardrobe is shaping up to look like.

Travel and downtime

LEFT OUTFIT: Toteme Top and Pants | Prada Sunglasses | Alaia Flats RIGHT OUTFIT: Norma Kamali Track Top and Bottoms | Jimmy Fairly Sunglasses | Khaite Cross Body | Dries Van Noten Sneakers | Dorsey Earrings | Alex Mill Perfect Weekend Tote

The above Toteme set will be arriving at my door next week (I also have it in green), along with the Norma Kamali tracksuit. I love that it doesn’t feel like a typical sweatsuit. The structured shoulders and exaggerated proportions are a bit extra, which is exactly why I love it.

The idea for both is simple: easy lounge sets for travel days, morning stroller-and-coffee walks, or an incredibly casual backyard drink with friends.

I bought the Alaïa flats in dark green last summer and still wear them weekly. Dollar for wear, they’ve absolutely been worth it, and I’m seriously considering adding a second pair in white.

If we’re making this an airport ‘fit, I would probably do a chic sneaker, like these satin ones from Dries Van Noten.

Big sunglasses have been my favorite accessory of the summer, especially for my early morning #HotMomWalks. Splurge on the Pradas, or check out Jimmy Fairly. I never forget jewelry, even for casual looks. These Dorsey earrings are one of those pieces I wear weekly.

My Khaite crossbody is currently on sale. It’s small, but somehow fits a phone, lipstick, and a credit card. I’ll toss it into my chic new Alex Mill diaper bag, which I proudly monogrammed Lily’s initials onto.

Summering in the City

TOP ROW: Dehanche Belt | SLVRLAKE t-shirt | Bottega Veneta Sunglasses | Joe’s Jeans Button Down | Magda Butrym Sunglasses | Shannon Bond Earrings | With Nothing Underneath Button Down

BOTTOM ROW: Pistola Yellow Denim | Eliou Shell Necklace | Pink Agolde Jeans | Alaia Metallic Sandals | Loewe Raffia Shoulder Bag | Mint Agolde Jeans | Balenciaga Bag | Reformation Jeans

In my postpartum era, a lot of my closet isn’t exactly serving me at the moment. We’ll be saving the crop tops and backless tops for summer 2027.

Right now, I’m reaching for easy button-downs, especially from With Nothing Underneath. I also have my eye on this striped one from Joe’s Jeans.

As someone whose wardrobe philosophy has always been “more options, not fewer,” I’ve been loving colored denim lately. The yellow Pistola pair is already in my closet (I loveeee yellow), and the tan Reformation jeans are currently en route. I’m also tempted by the pink and mint Agolde pairs, which are sitting in my cart awaiting a moment of weakness.

Simple outfits really need the right accessories. Add a Déhanche belt, an Elio shell necklace, and a great pair of sunglasses, and suddenly a white tee and jeans feels intentional.

I am truly obsessed with these Alaïa sandals and may treat myself to a pair for my July birthday. That, or the raffia Loewe shoulder bag. As I was putting this wishlist together, I realized I’ve purchased a raffia Loewe bag every summer for the past four years. Can’t break tradition now!

A few final accessories: the Shannon Bond earrings are available for pre-order and come in several colors. The Magda Butrym sunglasses are very coded. She has completely sold me on this shape. And this Balenciaga bag has me returning to the link time and time again. It’s a great shoulder bag and looks large enough for my laptop when I decide to take my occasional coffee shop office hours seriously.

Relaxing Cottage Summer

Polo Sport Hat | Simon Miller Sandals | Prada Striped T-Shirt | Christopher Esber Jelly Sandals | Simon Miller Striped Tee | Lack of Color Polka Dot Hat | Made Some Shorts | Jimmy Choo Sneakers | Mother Denim Graphic Tee | Suzi Kondi Shorts | Eterne Terry Cloth Shorts | Staud Striped Polo

If you’re thinking this board is giving camp counselor, which, for the record, I was until I was 22, you’re not wrong. Fun fact: the most Canadian thing about me is that I’m a certified canoe instructor.

My summer in Canada will be spent on an island in the archipelago landscape of Georgian Bay with one nearby restaurant and very little need for shoes. Camp counselor energy it is.

Let’s start with those vintage-inspired blue shorts from Made Some. I’m obsessed. Pair them with the Simon Miller sandals, which remind me of my beloved Jil Sanders that have unfortunately seen better days.

Yes, that is a Prada striped T-shirt. Remember, this is a wishlist. It doesn’t mean it’s coming home with me. A girl can dream.

I also couldn’t resist including the Mother Denim tee. As a certified waterski and wakeboard instructor, it felt oddly specific to my life.

I know I’ve said I wasn’t a sneaker girl, but I do own these Jimmy Choo’s in yellow. Alternatively, the pink pair is just as chic.

Jelly shoes and sandals are everywhere, but I keep hearing the Christopher Esber versions are the best and most comfortable.

Suzi Kondi and Eterne are making some of the cutest summer-camp shorts right now. Perfect with a swimsuit, an oversized tee, or something cheekier, like this striped Simon Miller top.

As for sun protection, Gen Z may have decided tanning is cool again, but my melasma remains unconvinced. I’ll be under either the Polo Ralph Lauren cap or the polka-dot Lack of Color hat all summer.

And finally, to satisfy my apparent need for striped tops, the Staud polo.

If you’ve made it this far, would love to know what you think of a simpler format? Are my usual edits more enticing or is simpler better?

The Wednesday Wishlist: Weekend Escapes

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Wed, 03 Jun 2026 15:30:58 GMT

Sincerest apologies for missing last week’s Wishlist. Since its inception, I have never missed one, unless it was planned around a holiday or the birth of my baby, which feels like a reasonable excuse.

The reality of working for yourself is that when life gets busy, something has to give. Between client work, motherhood, and trying to fit an entire workday into a much smaller window of time, I got a bit overwhelmed and needed to prioritize my clients for a week. Thank you for the grace.

Scroll ahead for your weekend escapes to Muskoka Lakes, Charleston, and Napa Valley.

Summer is officially here, which means weekends spent escaping with friends. This week, I built outfits inspired by three destinations people return to year after year.

If you’ve never been to Muskoka, think of it as the Hamptons of the North. Nestled in Ontario cottage country, it’s equal parts beautiful, social, and impossibly chic. Charleston offers a different kind of charm. Historic homes, cobblestone streets, and enough window shopping to fill an entire weekend. And then there’s Napa Valley, where the itinerary is simple: wine, sunshine, and pretending you’re Meredith Blake.

—What I love about this look: it feels like a modern version of nostalgia. I spent many summers as a camp counselor wearing some variation of this uniform, though admittedly without the Versace label or the Miu Miu fisherman sandals. As always, these looks are meant to inspire. You absolutely do not need a designer striped tee to capture the appeal of the outfit. That said, this one exists, I happen to like it, and so it made the cut.

—What I love about this look: it’s cottagecore, but make it chic. Relaxed without feeling frumpy, and polished without trying too hard. I picture this as the kind of outfit you wear when you're boating over for a picnic lunch at a friend's dock.

—What I love about this look: this, and an Aperol spritz. Summer is all about mixing colors and textures, and this combination gets it exactly right. Easy, playful, and just polished enough.

—What I love about this look: stripes are the backbone of a good preppy wardrobe, and this feels like Charleston at its best.

—What I love about this look: Charleston has a way of making you want to dress like a lady. Maybe it's the historic homes, maybe it's the humidity, but suddenly a full skirt and a great necklace feel completely reasonable.

—What I love about this look: Charleston is not the place for playing it safe. Between the printed dress, the colorful accessories, and those woven sandals, it somehow all works. The best outfits here have a little personality and a lot of confidence.

—What I love about this look: Meredith Blake may have been the villain, but her wardrobe was not. If The Parent Trap were filmed today, I'd like to think she'd wear this for a day of wine tasting in Napa. The dress is understated, the accessories are impeccable, and the bag is one I actually own.

—What I love about this look: Napa isn't just sundresses and sandals. There's something so chic about a neutral set that looks expensive without trying to. Add a woven tote, a great watch, and a glass of wine, and you're basically the woman everyone assumes owns a vineyard.

—What I love about this outfit: there are two types of people in this world: those who avoid white while wine tasting and those who wear it head to toe. I aspire to be the latter. The mix of textures keeps it interesting, while the silhouette stays clean and effortless.

The Wednesday Wishlist: A Wedding Guest Edit

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Wed, 20 May 2026 18:30:51 GMT

As you’re scrolling, you might recognize the dress in the header image. Yes, it’s the Emilia Wickstead dress and Olympia Le-Tan clutch from my curated outfit. And no, I did not suddenly discover someone else wearing my exact fantasy look.

Truthfully, I was curious to see how the outfit would actually come to life, so I dropped it into ChatGPT, asked for a slight blur to make it feel a touch less too real, and placed her in Montana to see how the look would fare.

I’ve got to say… I think I may be onto something here. Unfortunately, I currently have too many mental tabs open to fully unpack the implications of AI-generated outfit visualization, but for now, we move forward.

You may have read my Substack earlier this morning about redesigning my tennis bracelet with Henri Noël. Working on that piece sent me down a bit of a fine jewelry rabbit hole, and naturally, a few wishlist-worthy pieces made their way into this week’s newsletter.

So, let’s prep your wedding attire, shall we?

Scroll ahead for destination wedding looks to Cartagena, Lake Como, and Montana.

Cartagena may quietly be one of the chicest wedding destinations on the planet. The architecture, the late dinners, the tropical air. Everything there feels slightly more cinematic, especially getting dressed.

For Cartagena, I’m drawn to pieces that feel romantic but effortless: textured fabrics, polished accessories, undone glamour, and dresses that move beautifully in the heat.

—What I love about this look: the dress could easily stand on its own, but leaning into texture makes the entire look feel editorial while still completely wearable. The girl who wears this is a total IT girl.

—What I love about this look: the accessories really tell the story. Each piece shares a common thread that ties the look together while complementing the dress. Green and gold always work.

—What I love about this look: she understood the assignment. The dress feels perfect for the location and occasion while still taking some fun fashion risks. A wedge thong heel isn’t exactly a classic wedding shoe, but somehow it completely works.

Striped Gown

Gold Wedges

Black and Gold Earrings

Raffia Black Clutch

Gold Bangle

Lake Como has a way of making everyone want to dress like the most elegant version of themselves. Maybe it’s the villas, the aperitivos at sunset, or the fact that the entire place feels like it exists in soft focus. Everything there calls for romance, but with a little personality.

For Lake Como, I’m always drawn to looks that feel polished and feminine with something slightly unexpected mixed in. A bold accessory, an unusual shoe, a color combination that catches you off guard. The overall mood is timeless, but never boring.

—What I love about this look: emerald green is such a luxe color, so naturally the accessories follow suit. But the unexpected zebra heel adds some unexpected personality and makes the whole look feel a little more fashion-forward, and fun.

Emerald Green Gown
Zebra Striped Pumps
Fan Earrings - Available at Henri Noel
Jacquard Bag
Scarab Ring

—What I love about this look: this feels elegant, soft, and fresh. It’s simple in theory, but the colors in the print paired with the accessories bring so much vibrancy to the overall look. This is the kind of look people remember because it feels effortless.

—What I love about this look: an outfit that feels perfect for the Maid of Honor. The silhouette is classic, timeless, and ultra feminine, while the coral color makes it feel striking and unexpected enough to stand out from the rest.

Montana wedding dressing is really its own category. The backdrop is rugged and cinematic, so the best looks are the ones that lean into that contrast: soft femininity against the landscape, polished pieces with a little western energy, and colors that somehow look even better surrounded by mountains.

For Montana, I’m drawn to outfits that feel romantic but grounded. Nothing too formal or overly styled. Think beautiful textures, earthy accessories, unexpected stones, and pieces that look right at home from golden hour cocktails to a late night dance floor in the middle of nowhere.

—What I love about this look: you don’t normally associate Missoni with a mountainside wedding, but somehow it completely works here. The suede clutch and turquoise jewelry pull out the earthy tones in the print and make the whole look feel perfectly suited to Montana.

—What I love about this look: let’s start with the dress because she really doesn’t need much. The silhouette feels timeless, but the checked print gives it that subtle countryside energy that works perfectly for Montana. And the cheeky rodeo clutch seals the deal.

—What I love about this look: the floral print feels reminiscent of wildflowers, making this perfect for a Montana wedding. The shoes don’t necessarily read western on their own, but somehow they bring that energy to the overall look.

Floral Halter Dress
Embellished Satin Heels
Diamond Hoops - available at Henri Noel
Chartreuse Suede Bag
Labradorite Ring

Why I redesidgned and reset and my mom's tennis bracelet

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Wed, 20 May 2026 15:30:43 GMT

A few months ago, with my mom’s blessing, I reset a sapphire and diamond bracelet her parents had given her.

On my wedding day, my mom passed down a sapphire and diamond tennis bracelet her parents had given her, and I wore it as my something old and blue.

Sadly, after the wedding, it mostly sat in my jewelry box. The bracelet was beautiful, but it felt a bit too formal and heavy for my everyday style. I tend to wear gold jewelry, like my engagement ring and wedding band, and I’ve always gravitated toward pieces that feel lighter and easier to wear daily.

The original tennis bracelet. Although very pretty and classic, I never felt compelled to wear it beyond my wedding day.

I loved the sentiment behind it, but I wanted it to feel more like something I would actually reach for every day. I’ve always believed diamonds are meant to be worn, not saved for special occasions.

Since my mom was completely on board with the idea of redesigning it, I decided to reset the bracelet with Henri Noël into something I’d genuinely wear every day.

The process itself was incredibly easy. I sent over a flood of inspiration images and references. I knew I loved bezel settings and wanted darker rhodium-plated details paired with gold so it would still feel cohesive with my engagement ring and wedding band. I wanted the overall look to feel modern and a bit less traditional than a classic tennis bracelet.

I overnighted the original bracelet for them to review, and after our initial conversation, they came back with four different design options to choose from. Which I loved because I am very much an “I need to see every option” person.

After we landed on a direction, they sent over 3D renderings for final approval before production began.

The final bracelet is exactly what I had hoped for. We separated the diamonds and sapphires so each could have its own moment, creating something cleaner, lighter, and much more wearable for me personally. You can learn even more about the jewelry refresh in this video, shared by Henri Noel

It still carries the sentiment of the original piece, but now it feels fully integrated into my everyday jewelry instead of something reserved for special occasions.

I genuinely haven’t taken it off since.

My mom even joked that she might want it back now.

My newly redesigned tennis bracelet, thanks to Henri Noel!

Working with the Henri Noël team made the entire experience feel effortless. They were incredibly knowledgeable and thoughtful throughout the process, and every detail felt carefully considered.

A close up of the details.Henri Noel

There’s something really special about updating a piece so it fits into your life more naturally. Jewelry is meant to be worn, and I love that this still carries the sentiment of the original bracelet while feeling much more like me.

So if you’ve inherited or been gifted a piece that feels a little disconnected from your personal style, I highly recommend considering a reset or redesign, with the blessing of the person who gave it to you, of course. Sometimes giving a piece new life is exactly what makes you wear it again.

And if you’d like to hear a little more, watch my reel.

The Wednesday Wishlist: A Bridal Edit

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Wed, 13 May 2026 15:30:35 GMT

We are officially in the swing of wedding season, with spring weddings well underway. Brides everywhere are checking off endless to-do lists while simultaneously scrolling for the perfect looks for their upcoming marathon of events.

My love for bridal styling is deeply tied to how I first got my footing in fashion. While living in New York and studying at Parsons School of Design, I worked for the incredible stylist Solange Franklin, whose focus was editorial and red carpet. I could probably write an entire Substack on everything I learned from Solange and how I still use an editorial approach when styling my clients, but in short, I love bridal because it requires a true 360-degree approach.

It’s never just about the dress. It’s about how the dress looks from the front, the back, the side. It’s about how the accessories tell the story. Every detail matters. A shoe isn’t just a shoe added for height, it adds dimension.

Like I said, perhaps a future Substack. But for now, here are a few curated looks for the bride-to-be and every event currently filling her calendar.

Scroll ahead for bridal shower looks, reception looks, and a beach bachelorette.

A bridal shower look often leans sweeter in aesthetic, especially when hosted by extended family or family friends. The overall vibe tends to feel softer, prettier, and undeniably feminine.

While perusing my usual sources for fabulous finds, I accidentally curated an entire collection of “something blue” looks for the occasion.

Each look has a distinctly feminine detail: oversized bows, lace trim, soft ruffles. Rather than keeping the styling minimal, the accessories lean fully into the romance and charm of each ensemble.

A personal favorite is the Lein Studio dress. Recognize it, perhaps?

—the outfit for the bridal shower hosted by your future MIL.

Printed Dress by Shusu/Tong
Heart Pumps by Valentino
Blue Suede Clutch by Savette
White Raffia Earrings by Oscar de la Renta
Gold Framed Sunglasses by Luv Lou

—the outfit for the bride who loves a bit of bohemia.

Chiffon and Lace Mini Dress by Lein Studio - I recently wore this in yellow to my baby shower!
Silver Wedges by Aquazzura
Bow Tie Mini Clutch by Aquazzura
Crystal and Pearl Earrings by Jennifer Behr
Jewel Encrusted Sunglasses by Gentle Monster - My favorite find of the week

—the outfit for a chic summer shower.

Ruffled Linen Midi Dress by ShuShu/Tong
Floral Embroidered Kitten Heels by Manolo Blahnik
Raffia Bag by Jimmy Choo - currently crushing so hard on this bag!
Magnolia Pearl Earrings by Chan Luu
Rectangular Sunglasses by Bvlgari

As a bridal stylist, I love an outfit change. One thing my brides often tell me is that they’re almost more excited about their reception or after-party look than their actual wedding dress. Perhaps a slightly bizarre statement to some, especially considering we all know wedding dresses are no small investment.

But honestly, I don’t think it’s a bad thing. We don’t wear wedding gowns in our everyday lives, so a reception dress often feels more reflective of a bride’s personal style. It’s where personality really gets to come through.

Here are three impossibly cool reception looks I would have loved to wear myself.

—the outfit for the well curated and cool bride.

Corseted Lace Dress by Acne Studios - my favorite dress of the week
Satin Lace Trimmed Pumps by Neous
Chrome Clutch by Simkhai
Silver Plated Floral Earrings by Completed Works
Serpenti Watch by Bvlgari

—the outfit for the bride who loves romance and drama.

Lace Tulle Gown by De La Vali
Cream Slingback Pumps by Saint Laurent
Gold Drop Necklace by Stone and Strand
Evening Pouch by Saint Laurent
Gold Swivel Bracelet by Stone and Strand

—the outfit that gives ‘iconic’ status.

Embellished Gown by Costarellos
Embellished Satin Clutch by Roger Vivier
Diamond Drop Earrings by Stone & Strand
White Slingbacks by Manolo Blahnik
Layered Ring by Spinelli

Picture this: you’re at lunch with your girlfriends and a second round of margaritas has just hit the table when that unmistakable ABBA intro suddenly starts blasting through the speakers. Table napkins are flying through the air, your lunch table has officially turned into a dance floor, and “Gimme! Gimme! Gimme!” is echoing across the beach club while half your friends come sprinting back from an impromptu ocean swim.

Need I say more? Here are the looks.

-the outfit for the daytime beach club and table dancing

Crochet Dress by Self Portrait
Crochet Beach Bag by Jacquemus
Coral Shoes by Gianvito Rossi
Shell Drop Earrings by Chan Luu
White Cat Eye Sunglasses by Loewe

-the outfit for afternoon spritz and seaside swimming

Asymmetric Cotton Dress by Jacquemus
Espadrilles by Jacquemus
Raffia Beach Bag by Alaia
Oval Sunglasses by Dior
Crochet Head Scarf by For Love & Lemons
Mother of Pearl Drop Earrings by Jennifer Behr

-the outfit for the sunset beach party

White Eyelet Mini Dress by Magda Butrym

White Enamel Earrings by Jacquemus

White Lace Up Sandals by Proenza

Raffia Clutch by Farm Rio

Raffia Bangle by Johanna Ortiz

Entering My Hot Mom Walk Era

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Thu, 07 May 2026 21:22:05 GMT

“Welcome to week 5 postpartum, you’ve survived.”

This is my morning pep talk as I put on my Bottega Veneta Osservatorio flat-top sunglasses, a key ingredient to a successful Hot Mom Walk.

Bottega Sunglasses, Form Activewear Top and Shorts, Postpartum Belly Band, and a Zimmermann jacket found on TRR (similar vibe).

I don’t think I realized how proud I would feel upgrading from the Hot Girl Walk to the Hot Mom Walk. There’s a sense of pride, joy, and chaos to it all. Can I successfully achieve 10K steps before a necessary diaper change or hunger strikes? It’s a fun little game that adds longer strides and a bit of extra sweat to the mission.

I don’t normally see that many people on my walk besides a few elderly neighbors or other parents doing school drop-off nearby. This walk is really about feeling like myself for what may be my only outing of the day.

Eaves Funnel Neck Jacket, Beyond Yoga Pedal Pushers, Shevoke Sunglasses, and a weighted vest.

I’m not putting on a full look here. It’s usually a coordinating workout set, perhaps my favorite funnel neck jacket from Eaves, a positive pep talk (highly encouraged), and unnecessary (but very necessary) statement sunglasses. This is not a morning stroll. It’s my Hot Mom Walk, and I am strutting the streets of my mini suburbia to get those morning endorphins and vitamin D.

There are a few additional ingredients that support the walk. Either my husband has brought me my favorite almond milk latte with cinnamon infused espresso from Menotti’s Coffee (a very important callout), or I’m carrying a coconut water for electrolytes. I also bring Nunona bites as a morning snack before hopefully eating an actual breakfast once I get home.

Top Left: White Sunglasses (similar here), Zip Up Sweater (similar here), Daily Drills Shorts, Friday Beers Dad Hat

Center: Bottega Sunglasses, Pink Funnel Neck Jacket, Artipoppe Carrier

Top Right: Bru Eyewear, Frankie Shop Bomber Jacket (similar here), Eterne Top and Pants

Bottom Left: Shevoke Sunglasses, Gap Cotton Big Shirt, Bibb Pacifier Clip

Bottom Right: Bottega Sunglasses, Form Activewear Top and Shorts, Zimmerann Jacket from TRR (similar version)

I’ve come to realize I do need some new workout tops that fit well… after all, I am now The Milk Lady, and right now she’s overflowing. I’ve added THIS, THIS, and THIS to my cart.

Have you heard of the brand Deering? The founder came up on my feed, Erin Deering Keane, who has the chicest style. I’m obsessed with THESE SHORTS and THIS TOP by her brand. They’re more daily wear than workout wear, but may become the inspiration for building out my Hot-Mom-Walk wardrobe. Do not question my desire to wear shoulder pads before 9 am. I did say I was strutting, after all.

For the rest of the day, I’m getting dressed via my Postpartum Capsule Wardrobe. Perhaps you’ll notice a pattern here, but getting dressed, even if it’s just a dramatic pair of sunglasses, serves a purpose. It’s about giving myself a small boost of confidence, a hit of endorphins, and an opportunity for a vanity selfie, even if the rest of the day doesn’t go as planned.

The Wednesday Wishlist is back!

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Wed, 06 May 2026 18:58:01 GMT

Welcome to The Wednesday Wishlist, a weekly newsletter I’ve been running from a namesake blog for over four years.

I recently took a six week hiatus (a mini maternity leave) and welcomed my daughter into the world on April 1st. So far, she isn’t a fan of outfit changes or layered “looks,” but here’s hoping she comes around.

After four years of sharing this newsletter through my blog, alongside an “extra” look over on Substack, I’ve decided to move the entire newsletter here, forgo the fourth look, and give everything a much-needed facelift. Feedback is very welcome, by the way. I’m open to tweaking the format until it feels just right.

And for anyone currently panicking, don’t worry: the newsletter will remain free. For those who subscribed for the extra fourth look, do not fret. More exclusive content is coming your way.

If you’re new here, my name is Olivia. I’m a wardrobe stylist specializing in bridal, and this newsletter is very much an extension of my personal taste and brand. It’s a true wishlist of outfits and looks I’d wear to weddings, as a bride, on an epic vacation, or simply in everyday life. Each week rotates between those themes, with nine curated looks total: three looks per sub-theme.

Now then, let’s get into this week’s edit, shall we?

Summer 2026 is just around the corner, and while my own summer plans look a little different this year, I’d still love to help romanticize yours.

Scroll ahead for curated looks inspired by the Monaco Grand Prix, Euro Summer, and Hamptons weekends.

If you happen to be heading to the Monaco Grand Prix this year, well, lucky you. I have the wardrobe edit you need. For the rest of us, consider this manifestation material.

The Miami Grand Prix was only a weekend or two ago, where Alix Earle strutted through the paddock in a skin-tight navy tank, pedal pushers, and an incredible blowout. Monaco, however, is a completely different vibe.

Think elevated. Chic. Quietly sexy. Less “look at me,” more “summering on a yacht.”

Need more inspiration? Scroll on for my take, and if you really want to commit to the mood board, study the WAGs of F1 accordingly, such as Alexandra Leclerc (new bride of driver, Charles Leclrec).

—the outfit for the VIP area at the F1 Monaco Grand Prix

—the outfit you wear hanging in the paddock

Halter Top by Sir
Silk Pants by Sir
Woven Bag by Loewe - I purchased this bag in natural raffia last summer!
Heeled Sandals by Reformation - under $300
Vintage Patek Philippe
Gold Earrings by Bleecker and Prince

—the outfit you wear when you’re watching from the yacht

If your summer plans involve endless Aperol Spritzes, table dancing, or sunning yourself on a pebbled beach somewhere along the Mediterranean, please take me with you!

Vacation wardrobes are my Super Bowl. I love bright colors, mixed patterns, rich textures, and being just a little extra at all times. Statement jewelry at the beach? Absolutely.

While I’ll personally be swapping bikinis for nursing bras this summer, here are three curated ensembles you should absolutely consider packing in your suitcase.

—the outfit you wear for a post swim afternoon spritz.

—The outfit you wear to a beach club for lunch.

—the outfit you wear for that bond girl moment out of the water.

For those of you spending summer a little closer to home, perhaps a weekend escape to the Hamptons or the Cape is on the agenda. Honestly, any charming little beach town will do.

The Hamptons doesn’t always have to mean a party. Sometimes it’s about gloriously slow weekends filled with farmers market strolls, golden hour cocktails with friends, and a little cup-filling window shopping. That said, slow weekends still deserve great outfits.

Here are a few looks I’d happily pack into my weekend duffle for an escape out east.

—the outfit you wear to pick up flowers.

—the outfit you wear to a girls lunch.

Striped cotton polo dress by The Attico
Purple mary-jane espadrilles by Loewe
Wood beaded tote bag by Saint Laurent
Brown sunhat by Janessa Leone
Sunglasses in deep eggplant by Jimmy Choo - wearing these in the cover photo!

—the outfit you wear while window shopping.

Polka dot dress by Posse
Silk polka dot scarf by Same - I like this styled as a belt
Eyelet leather sandals by Jacquemes
Black raffia belted bag by Balmain - I purchased this last summer in natural
Leather necklace with koi fish by Eliou
Black mini sunglasses by Jimmy Fairly

Postpartum Capsule Wardrobe

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Mon, 27 Apr 2026 00:22:07 GMT

We are three weeks into my postpartum era and I have managed to get dressed every day.

This is not me bragging. It’s just something I need to do. The same way some people can’t focus unless their space is clean, I can’t quite settle into the day unless I get dressed.

Wearing Hill House Home Amal Cardigan (currently sold out), Matteau pants, and The Row flats.

Between breastfeeding, pumping, and a recovering body, these are the pieces that have made kept me feeling like myself while still being comfortable. Consider this my postpartum capsule wardrobe.

Also, a reminder: you absolutely do not need to get dressed every day. But if you have people stopping by, an outing on the calendar, or you just want a bit of routine, here’s what has worked for me.

Undergarments: the real main character

Depending on where you are in your postpartum journey, this category matters more than anything else.

On the daily, I am loyal to Skims for everything. Underwear, bras, all of it. For nursing bras, I randomly went rogue and tried Our Embrace, which I’ve really liked. They’re soft, supportive, and look good under a t-shirt.

If you read my Postpartum Review, you’ll remember this, but it’s worth repeating: wait until your milk comes in before investing in nursing bras. I went up two sizes. Two!!

If you’re pumping, I bought a set of Amazon bras that work with the Spectra and come in a three-pack, along with washable breast pads for leaking. Highly recommend both.

Bottoms: a very specific set of requirements

Postpartum pants need to meet a few non-negotiables:

Must disguise an ‘adult diaper’
Must not apply pressure in the wrong places
Ideally, must pass as “real clothes”

My current rotation:

The Rag & Bone Miramar “jeans.” If you don’t know, they look exactly like denim but are actually sweatpants. The pockets aren’t real, the zipper isn’t real. They’re pull-on, incredibly soft, and borderline genius. I wore them throughout the first three quarters of my pregnancy and they’ve made a strong return postpartum. I just ordered the Miramar shorts version for summer.

Anything drawstring also works. I’ve been wearing these from Citizens of Humanity, but everyone’s favorite by Donni “The Pop Pants” and LeSet’s Kyoto Pants make great versions too.

What I like about all of these is that they’re relaxed everywhere, so if you’re still in your Frida Mom “Boy Shorts” for the first stretch, nothing feels exposed or obvious.

I also found a postpartum corset on Amazon. The Frida Mom one wasn’t quite snug enough for me, but this one actually feels supportive. I’ll wear it for an hour here and there and it gives that slightly held-together, almost snatched feeling that feels encouraging.

Tops that understand the assignment

Anything that opens in the front is ideal.

For me, that’s meant cardigans as tops, especially slightly oversized V-necks, zippered or snap closure sweaters, or oversized button-down shirts. Both are easy for feeding and still feel intentional when paired with something simple like leggings or drawstring pants.

Cardigans I like:
Guest in Residence’s Everywhere Cardigan

LeSet’s James V Neck

Kilte’s The Kay Fullzip

L’Academie Belted Cardigan - snap closure

Oversized button downs I like:
With Nothing Underneath’s The Classic

The Gap’s Big Shirt

J Crew’s Etienne Oversized Shirt

Toteme’s Oversized Summer Shirt

Wearing the L’Academie Belted Cardigan listed above, over some workout clothes on a morning walk.

Tees, tanks, and small experiments

If you’ve been following me on Instagram, you know I lived in Ilouity during pregnancy. I just ordered a few of their nursing tanks and tops and will report back, but initial impressions are promising. Use code olivia15 for 15% off.

Trying things that feel like slight upgrades to your usual basics goes a long way here. Nothing complicated, just pieces that feel considered.

You can, of course, just wear any old t-shirt. I’ve been seeing Instagram ads for these bracelets that double as a shirt holder for nursing, and then realized I already owned one. An old Celine bracelet, Phoebe Philo era, now repurposed as a postpartum utility tool. Chic and practical.

A repurposed Celine bangle to hold up my favorite Gap tee

Things no one really prepares you for

At some point, you will leak through your shirt in public.

My first solo outing was to Erewhon and I was so excited to be out of the house that I leaked straight through my top in the cereal aisle.

Humbling, but also…informative.

At some point I’ll get back into the rest of my wardrobe. I have a few baby showers and dinners with family in town coming up, which I’m genuinely excited to dress up for. Dressing up is, after all, one of my favorite thing to do.

But for now, this is the current rotation, as I lean into a new kind of “Venice Beach mom” uniform.

It’s comfortable, it’s practical, and it still feels like I made an effort, which, at this stage, is really the daily goal.

Postpartum Review: The Guilt of Feeling Good

Olivia Ivey Barrett — Wed, 15 Apr 2026 15:52:40 GMT

On April 1st, we welcomed our punctual princess right on her due date.

Welcome to the world, Lily Quinn Barrett. Becoming a mother, a family of three, and watching my husband step into fatherhood is a feeling I truly can’t put into words.

It’s been 14 days of heavenly bliss, and the number one question I’ve been asked is, “How are you feeling?” The honest answer is one I’ve felt strangely guilty admitting: I feel great.

I did a Sunday AMA on Instagram recently and, of course, that question came up again and again. I’m not annoyed by it at all, quite the opposite. It makes me feel cared for, supported, and surrounded by people checking in. What caught me off guard was the guilt I felt in answering it honestly.

When I finally did, my inbox filled with messages from women who either felt the same way during their own postpartum experience or were relieved to hear that someone actually felt like themselves after birth.

A friend summed it up perfectly: the algorithm tends to feed us one dominant narrative, which is that you won’t feel great at all. There’s solidarity and humor in that shared experience, and rightfully so. But it also means we don’t hear as often from the women who feel okay, or even good.

And I understand that. There are likely fewer of us who feel this way than not. I don’t think my experience is the norm, but it’s also not an anomaly.

By being honest, I was able to meet that strange guilt head-on and realize that sharing this perspective might actually offer some mom’s-to-be a bit of relief.

By day five, I was walking to my coffee shop with Lily in her stroller, and I’ve done it almost every day since. Some days, I’ve even managed two walks, with an afternoon loop through our neighborhood park. I’ve done chores, hosted family, made lunches, cooked dinner, and yes, showered, at least every other day.

That said, it’s important to acknowledge that we have also hired a care nurse for Lily; which makes a huge difference to be able to accomplish the above list. Having that guidance in real time, someone to answer questions, troubleshoot, and build our confidence, has been invaluable, and I know a point of privilege.

My mom (now affectionately called “Nanny”) came for the first week, followed by both grandfathers, all flying in from the East Coast and contributing to the support system in those early days.

Of course, it’s still been an adjustment. You realize very quickly that you are no longer in charge of your own schedule, and the upgraded title of Mom also comes with the role of Milk Lady. It’s a constant cycle of feed, burp, diaper, repeat. And if you manage to sleep in between, you wake up only to start it all over again.

It’s a lot.

But now that I’m two weeks in, and have been feeling great, I wanted to share a list of things that have brought ease, reassurance, and even a bit of humor to these first 14 days.

We broke every rule the hospital told us to follow on our first night home, and we actually survived because of it.

Our hospital nurse was adamant that co-sleeping is dangerous, and I completely understand and respect why. In the hospital, Lily was fussy and only seemed to settle when she was on me, but the nurse kept putting her back in the bassinet so I could rest. That “rest” came in 20-minute increments before she fussed again.

On our first night home, the same thing started. I had been awake for nearly 48 hours and simply couldn’t do it anymore. So I built a cocoon of pillows, propped myself up, and let her sleep on my chest.

Co-sleeping was never my plan, and still isn’t. But that night, we only woke to feed, and I felt like a new person the next morning. It’s survival mode for everyone, and we survived.

The first morning at home, after co-sleeping that evening.

This may sound slightly contradictory, but reading second-time moms’ perspectives has been incredibly grounding.

I recently read Riley Kim’s Substack on motherhood round two, and it reminded me that I shouldn’t feel guilt around being more Type B at times. Trying to maintain control or chase perfection will only drive you crazy.

The baby is in charge now. Boob now, diaper now, sleep now. If you’re providing those things, you’re doing a great job.

Accept the food deliveries. Say yes to the meals.

I was oddly hesitant about people sending food. I felt guilty, like I didn’t want anyone to “take care of us,” especially being gluten-free, dairy-sensitive, and particular about how I like to eat. But the meals came anyway. So did the Amazon orders.

My friends warned me about the Amazon phase, and they were not wrong. Suddenly, our home started to look like a fulfillment center. More diapers. Gas drops. Pump parts that fit better. That one pacifier she likes. Toilet paper. It adds up quickly, especially during those 3 AM feeds when you’re ordering things half-asleep.

Which is exactly why having meals taken care of is such a gift. Not having to think about groceries, cook, or organize a meal on top of everything else is a huge mental relief.

And honestly, I don’t know why I was so concerned. My friends know how I eat, and they just want to help. It really does take a village, so let them.

Wait to buy the cute nursing bras until after your milk comes in.

I ordered a few really nice, comfortable nursing bras from Embrace while I was still in the hospital. A quick review: they are supportive, flattering, and perfect under a t-shirt. And then my milk came in… and they were immediately two sizes too small.

I ended up ordering a three-pack of hands-free nursing bras from Amazon that work with the Spectra Pump and double as everyday bras. They’re what I wear most now and are comfortable enough to sleep in, although I still prefer to sleep in my Lake maternity pajamas and just throw on a pumping bra at 3 AM.

Now that I actually know my size, I reinvested in a few more Embrace bras, as they certainly feel more feminine and a bit less functional.

The best advice I followed before the baby arrived: unpack everything, read the instructions, and test the gadgets before you need them.

I am the handyman in this household, and I’ve made peace with that. I knew if I asked my husband to “set up X” or “build Y,” when baby arrived it would likely lead to some version of an argument and me finishing it anyway. Let’s just say, looking at her bassinet doesn’t bring back our happiest memories.

About a month before she arrived, I unpacked everything I knew we’d need right away. The Baby Brezza Washer Pro, bottles, warmers, all of it. We sterilized everything and made sure we both knew how to use it. Also, don’t throw away the manuals, you may need a refresher.

I even brought our Spectra pump to the hospital and had Jack film the nurse walking us through it.

Mistakes will still happen. For example, I just realized I haven’t added soap to the bottle washer the last several times I’ve used it...

I’ve had several questions on Instagram from recent AMAs about postpartum dressing. While my social radius has remained to our coffee shop and back, I do have a much better understanding of what women actually need during this phase.

I’m working on a list of everyday postpartum pieces that feel both practical and put-together, and I’ll be sharing that soon.

I hope this new-mom summary offered some positive and helpful insight. If you’re about to become a mom, no matter what your experience looks like, challenging or not, I am so excited for your heart to burst open when you meet your little one (or little ones, for the twin moms out there).

Every day is a learning experience, and my husband and I have made the most of it by finding laughter in all the wild and unexpected moments along the way.

Wishing you nothing but love, and a kind of joy that only comes from meeting your tiny human.

XO,

Olivia (or) Lily’s Mom (or) The Milk Lady

The (extra) Wednesday Wishlist 03.04

Wed, 04 Mar 2026 17:15:25 GMT

This Week’s Wishlist: A Destination Edit

If you got my other newsletter in your inbox, I panicked switched the cover photo when it was too late. This IS the extended wishlist for March 4th!

We are traveling the globe this week. Or rather, you are, and I’m here with sartorial support.

I was never really a “quiet luxury” girl. I love color, prints, and wearing things that bring me joy, especially on a trip. Packing for a vacation is truly my Super Bowl. Monday through Friday I tend to dress a bit more approachable, but travel is when I let my wardrobe get a little more expressive.

This week’s edit uses culture as the foundation for wardrobe building. Some looks come from my own travel experiences, while others are built through research and a deep dive into Pinterest references.

Grab your passport. We have packing to do.

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As the other three looks from this week’s Morocco edit were made with the glamour of Hotel La Mamounia in mind, this one is for exploring the souks and collecting treasures.

If harem pants have not yet made their way into your summer wardrobe plans, they likely will soon and are certainly perfect for a trip to Morocco. These pale blue crepe pants from Yasmin Saleh are gorgeous, with an interesting gathered waistline. I found a perfect pairing in this white sleeveless blouse by Johanna Ortiz, which mirrors the same blouson effect.

Herbert Levine suede slides are an easy pair of sandals to wear throughout your trip, while the Farm Rio scarf shoulder bag brings a needed print element to break up the solid look. I love the tile print of this bag, which reminds me of exploring the palaces of Marrakech. The number of tiles on the floor once signified the level of class allowed in a room. Servants had one or two tiled floors and if they saw a third color or more, they knew not to enter that room. They essentially could only look down at the ground to navigate. A bit of a history lesson for you.

Back to the fashion. These vibrant green beaded earrings from Oscar de la Renta are the final element, adding a touch of texture to the ensemble.

The (extra) Wednesday Wishlist 02.25

Wed, 25 Feb 2026 16:31:17 GMT

This Week’s Wishlist: A Wedding Guest Edit

The header image certainly doesn’t depict my 35 weeks of pregnancy. This was my outfit for a friend’s Palm Springs wedding. It’s very 60s mod coded and was so fun to wear. I really do love dressing for the destination.

I’m sure you’re as excited by spring and summer as I am. Although the Ireland and Los Angeles wedding guest edits lean a bit more dark and moody, Mallorca brings the fun with colorfully printed gowns made for warm weather, palm trees, and Euro summer. If prints aren’t your thing but a dramatic cape is, the floral Là Fuori gown also comes in a solid pink.

I’ve been a little distracted from fashion while unboxing what feels like an endless stream of nursery deliveries, so consider this a personal chic little palate cleanser.

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In all honestly, slip dresses aren’t usually my thing, as they’ve never really suited my figure, but I do think there is something so beautifully simple about a chic slip, like this printed pink gown from Borgo do Nor.