don’t act like you’re not excited for Wicker to come out!!!

The end of summer 2026 is for the girls — there’s tons of book-to-movie adaptions coming out and some raunchy, freaked-out films too!!

Let us know what you’re most excited for media-wise as summer comes to a close!!

Xoxo

One Night Only (in theaters now)

Ashley: Alexa and I were so excited to watch this because of Callum Turner and we felt like it had the potential to be really funny but woof. It was mostly really weird with so many plot holes and I felt like the ending kinda said the fascists were right? What the fuck was that?

Alexa: Yea…. This script was not it. Almost every conversation was so boring and pointless. I’m honestly surprised Monica Barbaro and Callum Turner signed on to do it. They could’ve made it so weird and funny (some parts were semi successful at that) but for the most part it fell very flat for me. I just don’t know why it was made??

Spider-Man: Brand New Day (in theaters now)

Alexa: I loved this new iteration of the Spider-Man franchise. Tom Holland is so good as Peter Parker and this screenplay had so much heart. Maybe I just really loved it too because sister love was mentioned. You can read my full Letterboxd review here.

Wild Inside (in theaters now)

Ashley: WOW! I did not expect a documentary about an owl to be one of my favorite movies of the year! This was surprisingly funny and joyous despite having a very sad ending that we all knew about. If you watch one documentary this year, please let it be this one!

Alexa: Flaco’s story is truly such a universal one that I feel like everyone could see themselves in. This film is hilarious, heartbreaking, and all the things! It was perfectly made and it’s beautiful that Flaco was memorialized in this way. The conversations that flowed for us after this movie are important and I hope it imparts the same questions to all of you!! We love you Flaco!

The Invite (on demand)

Ashley: I have always been obsessed with Olivia Wilde (I had a girl crush on her ever since The OC) and I’ve absolutely hated all of the hate she’s gotten in recent years whether it’s her split from Sudekis, her relationship with Harry Styles, or the constant discussion of her body. I’ve loved every single movie she has directed and The Invite is now my favorite.

I’m not sure if this movie will hit as hard unless you have been married and/or divorced but I hope that everyone will go see it and report back on what you think. It’s so smart and funny and sad and I think that the acting is superb. Should I cut my hair like Penelope Cruz’s in the movie?

The Agency S2 (Paramount +)

Ashley: Season 1 was one of the best tv shows I’ve ever watched so I’m very excited to watch this season! We are only on episode 3 but I’ve already had anxiety from both episodes lol.

Furious (Hulu)

Ashley: If it pisses you off that this administration continues to cover up and refuse to release the Epstein Files - Furious will be a slight salve to your soul. Emmy Rossum is spectacular in this role and I’m genuinely upset that I have to wait a week to see every episode. This show isn’t scary but it is very triggering if you have experienced domestic abuse or sexual assault so please be gentle with yourself when watching and maybe throw in an episode of Let’s Marry Harry after each watch.

Alexa: I’m obsessed with Emmy Rossum in this role. She KILLS IT. Also Lola Petticrew is transcendent as Catherine. AND Quincy Tyler Bernstine!!! Honestly all the women deserve Emmy noms. This show is addictive and I need a new episode NOW … I can’t wait to see how this story ends.

Let’s Marry Harry (Netflix)

Ashley: Alexa and I recorded an unedited pod with our thoughts on the show!

Alexa: Yes!!! Listen right there^^ to hear our thoughts hehehehehe

The Five-Star Weekend (Peacock)

Ashley: Sadly I have not watched this but every time we pass the promo Steve reminds me that it looks like something he would love lol.

Alexa: I didn’t read the book, but I LOVED this. Gemma Chan and Chloë Sevigny are the stand outs for me! I binged it in like 24 hours. A fun summer show for women of all generations!

Ted Lasso S4 (Apple TV+)

Ashley: The first episode was not funny at all and I’m honestly very worried to watch the second. Everyone seemed like a characature of themselves and it honestly just made me sad. I will be so angry if this reboot makes me think of the show in a different way.

Alexa: Yea idk the first episode was a big miss for me. And you could just tell it was sponsored by the city of Kansas City?? It was so random and definitely a different start than the original seasons. Interested to see how it progresses.

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High: Honestly July was a sort of boring month that truly had the highest highs and the lowest lows! Two highs were meeting my bestie’s new baby. This can always be a sad and happy thing for me but I just love snuggling a new baby and feeling them fall asleep in my arms! Nothing makes me happier! Secondly, I legitimately thought it was a scam when someone reached out from the Obama Foundation and asked me if I wanted to be a part of a book discussion roundtable where we would talk about Obama’s Summer reading list! I in no way felt worthy but I did feel like it was the culmination of everything that I’ve been doing online for so long!

Low: Missing the biggest opportunity of my life. The event came together very quickly so my flight was booked two days before I had to be there. Even when we were booking the flight, flights were being canceled before we could finish the purchase. This should have been my first inclination that shit wasn’t going to go down like I thought. Even sitting on the plane for two hours, I still had so much hope that nothing could keep me from doing this. I am still crying about it.

Funniest moment: Penny screaming, “I ask my Mom if I can touch her nipples!” on a very crowded bus. What is wrong with this child?!?

Biggest cry: Definitely crying about missing the Obama event but I also sobbed pretty hard watching the live action Moana, TWICE. Even Steve got teary!

Proudest moment: I did a really fun podcast with my perimenopause doctor - Dr. Alicia Robbins and I typically do not lead the conversation when on a podcast so I was very proud of myself for doing it for almost an hour and not sounding like a complete idiot! I’ll link for y’all when it comes out!

Biggest seller: It was the Grow a Pair lash serum by far!!!! If you for some reason haven’t purchased it yet - use my code Ashley for 15% off and remember to apply it twice a day! This doesn’t have any proglastins in it so it will not change your eyelid color or eye color and it won’t get rid of the fat under your eyes! My eyelashes are currently so long that I’m going to have to stop using it!

Best purchases: I got a new vanity and storage closet from Wayfair and I’m actually obsessed with both!

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The Spivey Sisters are wishing you a summer of sun, sand, and can’t-put-them-down beach reads

Xoxo

The Odyssey (in theaters now)

Ashley: I’m not sure why I went into watching this movie expecting to hate it but wow I really loved it. I think this is Matt Damon’s strongest role in years and the whole time I kept thinking what a waste it is to make high schoolers read this. I’m not even sure if I would have appreciated it in college. How fucking wild is it that this book is still so relevant today? Much like Odysseus, we have truly learned nothing. I’m not sure I loved Robert Pattinson in this role, he was the weakest link of the movie for me but I highly recommend watching! What an epic Summer movie! Literally.

Alexa: I need to put my full thoughts together in a thorough review, but just know … I LOVED IT. I thought the casting was absolutely perfect — no notes. And the Göransson score was epic in itself! Can’t wait to watch it again.

Toy Story 5 (in theaters now)

Ashley: Admittedly, I had never watched the Toy Story series because I was older when it came out and I was never much of a Disney person. So when I knew Toy Story 5 was about to come out, me and Penny started watching them! Y’all when I tell you that I cried so hard during TS3 I thought I was going to throw up. Why don’t more people talk about how fucking sad this movie is? Similarly, TS5 is also very sad but it’s also a horror story for parents. I absolutely loved it and so did Penny! I have to note that it was so weird to watch boy moms bemoan that Buzz and Woody were emasculated or weren’t featured enough? Ok weirdos.

Moana (Live Action) (in theaters now)

Alexa: I’m gonna say it — I think this may be the best live action adaptation of a Disney movie. From the acting, to the really good CGI, to the Pacific Islander/Polynesian representation, I thought it was all pulled off really successfully. For some reason this version made me cry more than the original (I think because we get to see the emotion of the actors’ faces). Go see it and tell me what you think! Here’s my full Letterboxd review.

Little Miss Sunshine (Netflix)

Alexa: It’s the 20th anniversary of Little Miss Sunshine (wtf…) and I saw it was streaming on Netflix. It used to be one of my favorite movies when I was younger but I haven’t seen it in probably 15+ years. This movie is everything and so humble and honest and perfect. If you’ve never seen it please go watch! It’ll make you laugh and cry in equal measure.

The Bear (Hulu)

Ashley: The Bear is always such a wild ride but Jesus Christ this season really gave me anxiety and I cried every single episode!

Every Year After (Prime Video)

Ashley: I talked about this on instagram but I actually liked this show! Was it fully faithful to the book - no! Did I still enjoy it - yes! But whew I did get the ick during that ice cream cone scene.

The Four Seasons (Netflix)

Ashley: This show is extremely corny and I’m not sure that they would all be friends in real life but this show is truly like Xanax to me. Steve and I also laugh so much when we watch. What is wrong with us?

Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Unhappiness (HBO Max)

Ashley: I actually do not like this show at all. I only laughed once during the skit with Lin-Manuel. We keep watching it though.

Love Island USA S8 (Peacock)

Alexa: I can now say that I’m a full blown lover of Love Island USA … last year was my first time watching it and although it was an addicting train wreck to watch, in hindsight all the islanders were pretty unlikeable. This year I fell in love with everyone and I’m a certified die hard Brynity fan club member. For people who have watched it since day 1, what did you think?

Not Suitable for Work (Hulu)

Alexa: I love Mindy Kaling and anything she does, especially when it’s set in NYC. I loved this! It’s a low stakes, low expectation show that was fun to have on throughout the day. I think I binged it in two days! Jack Martin, Avantika Vandanapu, Ella Hunt, and Nicholas Duvernay are all so good in it, but Will Angus steals the show. He’s to this show was Morgan was to The Mindy Project. Excited to watch Season 2 in the future.

Project Runway S22 (Hulu)

Alexa: Just started watching tonight!!! I didn’t realize a new season was out. The first episode was already jam packed with egos, personalities, divas, and some really impressive pieces. Plus, Tyra Banks has joined as a guest judge!!!

Fleabag (Prime Video)

Alexa: I rewatched this the other night while manic cleaning by bathroom for 5 hours and man … this show should truly be in the Louvre. It’s perfect beyond measure and I will never EVER recover from the Hot Priest. Please watch ASAP if you’ve never seen it — especially if you’re a woman in your 30’s.

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High: Meeting Kamala and just my whole trip to LA to be honest! How will I ever top such a soul-affirming and joyous experience!!!!! It weirdly felt like a culmination of so many things and I just truly cannot get over it. I also joined an organization called the Juno Fund and it was so nice to be in an organization where women come together and discuss politics and what we can do about it! POWERFUL WOMEN JUNE!!!!!!!

Low: People online asking me if I was prepping for an embryo transfer when I was in fact just doing HRT and having big feelings about maybe not having another baby. I talk a lot about this on the podcast from this week (embedded below) and I really hope y’all will listen to it.

Funniest moment: The awkward elevator encounter that I detailed in the podcast as well.

Biggest cry: While I did sob so hard while meeting Madam Vice President - nothing can compare to the tears that I shed during Voicemails for Isabelle. That movie absolutely destroyed me.

Proudest moment: Penny’s end of year activities at her school had me reflecting so much on how she has grown and become such an independent diva (NOT DEROGATORY)!

Best purchases: This dress from ALIGNE - I got SO many compliments on it.

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High: 100% surprising our Mom for Mother’s Day. Mom is literally one of those people that never treats herself or travels or can be surprised so I love to make it happen whenever I can. I’m sure y’all have heard me talk about this before but my Mom has always worked so hard - she had three jobs at one point when I was in high school and then she put herself thru college in her 40s so she could pursue a career in radiology tech. She was the selfless mom that would stay up with me all night to finish a project or paper and never complain about it the next day even though she had to work, feed us, and a million other things. There is no one better than our Mom and I will spend the rest of my life paying her back for being the absolute best. If you want to ever recreate our Momathon in NYC, this is the schedule:

Friday:

• Surprise flight to NYC

• A weekend stay at the Warren St. Hotel

• Pizza from Seppe Pizza Bar

Saturday (we wanted to do more here but it was very rainy):

• Room service breakfast

• Lunch at the bar in the Warren St. Hotel

• Visit the Frick Museum

• Walk down towards midtown and bar hop the hotels - we had tea and drinks at The Whitby

• Dinner at Golden Hof

• Broadway show - Beaches (sadly it already closed)

Sunday:

• brunch at Frenchette

• Head to Battery Park City to enjoy the parks

• Fly Out

Low: I got off of Threads this month because I realized that every time I opened the app it made me angry and I’ve typed and deleted so many things that I definitely should have never shared. I truly think my mental health got better when I left Twitter (never calling it X) and I think the same is true for Threads. After watching people criticize Dr. Beachgem for taking a picture with a senator, I truly couldn’t take it anymore.

Funniest moment: By far, the funniest moment was watching how uncomfortable Steve was while we watched the new horror movie, Obsession. He practically lept out of his seat when it was over.

Biggest cry: I cried a lot this month thinking of Jackson. I cried very hard when I was making the video of the evolution of his hall runs. I have to thank y’all so much for sending me your favorite memories of him. How lucky am I that y’all loved and remember him too?

Proudest moment: Penny just decided that she wanted to wear underwear and she was done with diapers. My little independent lady! I knew she would do it on her own time and damn if she didn’t make us all proud!

Best purchases: The clothes for our Mom and the necklaces I got us all from mejuri. A close second is purchasing Mario Run for the iPad because Penny loves to watch me play it and I’ve had so much fun with her!

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The Devil Wears Prada 2 (in theaters now)

Ashley: A lot of people had very high expectations for this movie - I did not. I loved it! I don’t think it’s going to win any Oscars but that’s ok! Sometimes my brain just wants joy from all the awful everything! Sure there were a couple of questionable parts and they all involved Andi’s Australian boyfriend but that’s ok! I laughed, I cried (mostly at the last shot), I temporarily could imagine a world in which art and fashion won over the billionaires. It’s not that deep and that’s ok.

Alexa:

Obsession (in theaters now)

Ashley: Full disclosure that I was offered free tickets to this for an early showing and I brought Steve despite knowing that he hates horror and really hates gory scenes. We were also in a movie theater full of horror fans and movie buffs so that really added to the atmosphere! I personally thought this was fun. Again, not going to win any Oscars but it’s reviewed very highly and I thought it was a fun twist on the whole 1 wish concept. I was genuinely so scared at one point that I scratched my eye while trying to hide my face and I thought it was super funny too. This would be a fun date night movie - just make sure you watch with someone else, I don’t think it would be as fun watching by yourself.

How to Make a Killing (On Demand)

Alexa: I feel like Glen Powell’s movies have been flops as of lately, but I actually kind of liked this one. Entertaining and a unique storyline. Kind of cheesy at parts but still a fun watch!

Incendies (On Demand)

Alexa: Ok this has been on my to watch list for years and I randomly decided to watch it last night. It’s be reveled as one of Denis Villeneuve’s best films with one of the most brutal twists in film making history and let’s just say … it delivered. You’d never guess the twist from a mile away and it’s definitely one of the most disturbing in any movie I’ve ever seen. Yet somehow, it’s handled with such tenderness. Definitely a must watch for anyone that loves Villeneuve’s movies.

Hacks (HBO Max)

Ashley: Every episode of this last season is pure perfection! I don’t want it to be over! The lesbian weekend in Monticito? Steve and I were laughing so hard we woke Penny up!

Off Campus (Prime Video)

Ashley: I’ve only watched two episodes of this so far but I am LOCKED IN! The music, the chemistry, the cheesiness - I love it all.

Beef S2 (Netflix)

Ashley: I am genuinely surprised more people aren’t talking about this show because it’s so good! Oscar Issac and Carey Mulligan are so fantastic in the show - I would say I typically love them in everything and they are so evil in this! Charles Melton is also a rising star! There are so many issues this show touches on whether it’s class divides, marriage, identity - but I particularly loved that while the first season centered on very aggressive behavior - this season was more passive aggressive conflict that we tend to see in the workplace. This season felt way more insidious to me.

Alexa: I’m only on episode 3 but I’ve been really loving it so far!! Oscar Isaac is so zaddy.

Your Friends and Neighbors (Apple TV+)

Ashley: Steve and I absolutely love this show and how is it possible that Jon Hamm keeps getting better as he ages?!? Did y’all see his interview with Amy Poehler? I had no idea that his parents died so young - I feel like it explains a lot in terms of how well he played Don Draper and Andy Cooper. Mostly I am relating so hard to Mel this season because we are both sweating our balls off while sleeping and wanting to murder everyone! Perimenopause is so fun! But seriously, is James Marsden ever bad in anything? Have y’all been loving this season too?

Top Chef: Carolinas (Bravo/Peacock)

Ashley: The only thing I’m going to say about this season is that Sieger never should have been allowed back and his attitude is horrendous and I’m so mad he is still on the show.

Alexa: I’ve loved this season cause it’s based in the Carolinas but man these chefs are inconsistent. I only want Anthony, Sherry, or Laurence to win!

Euphoria (HBO Max)

Ashley: I fear that I just haven’t given a shit about this show since the wedding. Anyone else feel like this season is so bad?

Alexa: I’m trying to hold onto this season, but the obsession Sam Levinson has with Sydney Sweeney has been so obvious the last couple of episodes that it’s turning me off.

The Other Bennett Sister (Britbox)

Ashley: Alexa and I got to watch the first two episodes of this recently and they were so good! Everyone was telling me that I have to read the books as well. If you love Pride and Prejudice but you’ve watched the Keira Knightly version too many times - this will be right up your alley.

Alexa: This show is so needed because it focuses on the people/characters that aren’t traditionally “the most beautiful” or wouldn’t be picked first as a leading character. It’s heart warming and gives the underdogs a stage for once!

Margo’s Got Money Troubles (Apple TV+)

Ashley: Okay I need to talk about Margo’s Got Money Troubles on Apple TV+ because I genuinely did not expect to love it this much. The premise sounds unhinged on paper. A college dropout gets pregnant by her married professor and starts an OnlyFans to pay her bills. But it works so beautifully because the writing respects Margo’s choices without romanticizing them or judging her for them. Elle Fanning is incredible in the lead role, fully committed in a way that makes you root for Margo even when she’s making questionable decisions, but honestly Michelle Pfeiffer as her Hooters-waitress-turned-Bloomingdale’s-manager mom almost steals the whole show. And Nick Offerman as the estranged ex-wrestler dad who swoops back in with surprisingly wise life advice? Perfect casting. The whole thing is warm and funny and occasionally gutting in the way that only good storytelling about women trying to figure it out can be.

The Testaments (Hulu)

Alexa: I’ve been obsessed with this new spinoff of Handmaids Tale. Chase Infiniti is phenomenal as Agnes and I feel like I can’t stop watching because the US is only one step away from being the same thing as Gilead.

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This is your one stop shop Mother’s Day Edit gift guide for 2026! Everything is Seester-approved and loved!

If Mother’s Day isn’t an easy day for you, please feel free to skip this one! We’re sending you love xx

Alexa and I are putting the Aura Frame as our #1 rec because I have gifted this frame over ten times and I will never stop. It is genuinely one of those gifts that makes people cry from happiness and nostalgia, and I mean that in the best way possible.

Here’s why it works for literally every mom on your list: it’s beautiful enough to sit on any shelf without looking like a tech device, and it’s actually easy to use even for the people in your life who are not exactly phone savvy. You can pre-load photos before you give it, so they open it and it’s already full of memories. Zero setup stress for them.

But the best part? You can invite the whole family to the frame and everyone can upload photos throughout the year. She’s just sitting there watching TV one night and a photo pops up from a birthday she forgot was even photographed. Or a candid from a random Tuesday. It turns into this ongoing gift that keeps surprising her long after Mother’s Day is over.

It’s chic, thoughtful, and genuinely useful. It’s the rare tech gift that doesn’t feel like a tech gift at all. You or your mom will love! Use code ASHLEY for $35 off the Aspen frame.

» grab it here in time for Mother’s Day

I’m not a mom, but some of my favorite people and I feel like I can vicariously understand their wants and needs: rest, quiet time, self care, and making things easy.

1. I rented a Marine Layer dress in Paris for our 2024 birthday trip and I think about that dress all the time. Marine Layer excels at comfortable, chic, and effortless summer dresses. I think this one will be perfect for summer this year and any mom would love this dress!

2. My sister and I started using Caraway pans a few years ago, and last Christmas Sissy bought our mom a full set. They are truly the best nonstick pans out there — I reach for them every single time over my stainless steel pans. This set is over $200 off right now!

3. You all know Lake & Skye is our favorite fragrance brand and the Lake & Skye discovery fragrance set has six scents that anyone is bound to love. It also includes 11 11 Vanilla, which is one of me and Sissy’s signature go-to’s! Use code ALEXAVIP for 31% off!

4. If you’ve followed me for a while, you know that Loop earplugs (or earplugs in general) are something I think everyone should own. Hearing loss is so serious and, with time, results in cognitive decline. Whether I’m going to a sporting event, concert, IMAX movie, Broadway show, etc., I always try to protect my hearing. What I love about the Loop Switch earplugs is that they can toggle for different sound settings (sleep, concerts, focus, travel, etc.). They always filter out the harmful decibels without interfering with sound clarity — unlike traditional foam earplugs, which simply block the ear canal and muffle sound.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ I could talk about Loop earplugs for days.

5. Ballet flats are very in right now, but none are built like the ones Margaux makes. These Margaux Roma pointy-toed flats are adorable and so comfortable. They will go with any outfit and get it that effortlessly chic finishing touch. They also comes in tons of colors and are great for elongating the legs of those that are vertically challenged.

6. I’m consistently including the Aire 360 by T3 in our guides because it’s the best hair dryer/styler I’ve found in a while. Technically …. it’s my sister’s and I steal it every time I come into town. The large, oval-shaped brush attachment dries my hair in record time — trust me, as someone who has very thick hair — and gives me unbeatable volume. I need to get one for myself ASAP, but I’m trying to wear out my Dyson Airwrap first. You can get $50 off for Mother’s Day (automatically added).

7. I have 10 pairs of pajamas that I love for lots of reasons, but I always find myself going back to this pajama set from Eberjey. It is that quintessential two piece pajama set. The modal fabric is buttery soft and super breathable — flattering and comfortable for any body size. Right now Eberjey is offering complimentary monogramming on their pajamas for Mother’s Day.

8. Last year I was sent a Thanksgiving meat and cheese board from Boarderie and my friends and I thought it was the yummiest charcuterie board we’d ever eaten. Boarderie’s Mother Day boards look just as cute and delicious — they have charcuterie boards, dessert boards with a chocolate box you break open, and Brie boards! They’re family-owned, ship really quickly, and everything is freshly handmade at their facilities in Florida. It’s like a new-age edible arrangement that people will actually want to eat.

9. Everyone seemed to enjoy my gallery wall post and a large part of that is because the art was very personal. Our mom loves flowers and plants, so I think she would love this personalized birth month flower bouquet painting. Each flower in the artwork represents a family member’s birth month — so it’s completely unique to your family. I love supporting small businesses and Etsy artists, so this artwork checks both boxes. It also has the option to come pre-matted and pre-framed. Plus, the Etsy shop is running a sale right now!

10. I never had a sleep mask until two years ago and wow … what was I doing??? It’s great for planes and bright apartments (like mine). On my Oura ring, I can tell the difference between when I sleep in too bright of a setting vs full darkness. This Drowsy silk sleep mask is my favorite because it completely covers your eyes, has silk padding which is great for skincare lovers, and has an adjustable strap to fit different head sizes.

I really tried to pull from inspiration here that I would either give my Mom (a lot of these I have) or things I own or would want myself!

1. I probably get at least 3-5 DMs a month asking me for the lemon tree I got my Mom! It’s the gift that keeps on giving!

2. This necklace is one I actually did buy for my Mom this year (and me and my sis)! Mejuri is one of my favorite brands and they have a ton of good sales right now!

3. M.Gemi is one of my go-to brands for anything leather whether it’s shoes or a bag and this convertible bag is one of the most convenient ones you can own (it doubles as a purse and a backpack)! I even think it would make a great diaper bag for a stylish mom that doesn’t want a diaper bag. Use code ASHLEY15 for 15% off.

4. These Weezie slippers are adorable and I think they would be extra cute if you monogram a name like Pootie on them!

5. I need to have my phone accessible for pictures a lot and I don’t love keeping in my bag or in my back pocket so I think this crossbody is a cute and convenient way to keep it close!

6. I’ve been testing this lifting massage band out and anytime I have too much salt or too many drinks, it’s a lifesaver! Reminds me of something Kathleen Jennings would love! Use code ASHLEYSPIVEY for 25% off.

7. I found this brand after my friend Hitha sent me bracelets with CJ and Penny’s names on them. The new “To the Moon and Back” collection celebrates the eternal bonds of love between a mother and child and I think they are so beautiful! This is a female founded and mother-led company too!

8. Everyone talks about the Caraway pans (lol Ali ^^) but I am here to tell you that the sheet pans and the bakeware are actually their best items. If you have a mom that loves to bake, she will love this set! Use code ASHLEYSPIVEY10 for 10% off.

9. I think every mom should have a comfy pair of pjs, a sexy pair of pjs, and an absolutely unhinged set of pjs. I have the set that features a pigeon smoking a cigarette and it’s probably my most favorite thing I purchased this year.

10. Bird houses are out and pollinator palaces are in! But seriously, my Mom would love this butterfly house!

11. I stopped getting my nails done after I had Penny and my nails are so much more strong. AND I think nice, natural nails are so chic! Plus, I save so much time and money by using this Dr. Dana kit.

Thank you for shopping our Mother’s Day gift guide edit! We hope you found something perfect for a mom in your life (or yourself)!

Let us know below the BEST Mother’s Day gift you’ve ever given or received.

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👋 If You’re New Here

Ashley: If you’re new here, ZIIP is an at-home facial device that uses advanced electrical currents to lift, sculpt, firm, and brighten the skin.

Alexa: And the app is key. The ZIIP app guides you through targeted treatment programs for things like lifting, contouring, tone, texture, brightness, even breakouts. ZIIP’s founder shows you the exact movements and technique to follow to get the best results!

Ashley: The device is powerful on its own but you can only change the intensity of the device by using the app. The app is what unlocks all the treatments and makes it feel customized instead of overwhelming.

And now the HALO 2.0 just launched.

🔍 What’s Actually Different

Ashley: The biggest upgrade is internal. They partnered with a new supplier who re-engineered the circuit board. The waveforms are now 63% more accurate.

Alexa: Which sounds technical, but what it means is the electrical currents are delivered exactly as designed. More precision. More consistent results. The outcome is what matters: lifting, firming, smoothing, brightening.

We had to test it for a while before putting our stamp of approval on it, and the consistency is noticeable.

🔧 The External Upgrades

Ashley: They clearly listened to customer feedback.

• A charging port cover has been added to protect the device

• The top shell was redesigned to make it more durable

• It feels heavier and more substantial in your hand

Alexa: It feels more luxurious. Not just performance-driven but built to last. That’s important if we are telling you to make a big purchase in this economy.

💧 The Gels Are a Big Deal

Three Premium Gels are now included, which normally retail for $99.

Ashley: This is a huge upgrade in my opinion. Each gel is packed with skincare ingredients, so you’re not just conducting electrical currents. You’re treating the skin at the same time.

Alexa: And it gives you space to figure out your favorite instead of committing to one blindly.

Ashley: I personally love the Golden Gel when I want that extra glow and hydration boost before an event. It gives that hydrated, slightly glassy look that pairs so well with lifting treatments.

Alexa: I love the Silver Gel because it feels like a reset button for my skin. It’s calming, balancing, and when I use it with the lifting treatments, my face looks more sculpted but also clearer and less reactive. It’s the one I reach for when my skin feels off but I still want that definition.

⚡️ If You Already Own the Original HALO

Let’s be very clear:

Ashley: The original HALO is still a great device. It is not suddenly obsolete.

Alexa: ZIIP is not expecting everyone to upgrade. This is more like the next generation of something that was already strong. Think technology updates that refine and enhance based on real user feedback. Like updating your iPhone.

If you:

• Love having the newest version

• Care about improved precision and durability

• Or were considering buying for the first time
  
  Then the HALO 2.0 makes sense.

If your current HALO is working beautifully for you, you are not behind and should not feel pressure to upgrade.

⏰ Why We Still Use ZIIP

Ashley: For me, it’s the all-in-one factor. My main concerns are jawline softness and loss of definition in my lower face. When I consistently use the lifting and contouring treatments in the app, I see a real difference in structure. My cheekbones look more lifted. My jawline looks tighter. It’s the device I reach for before events because the results are visible immediately, but I’ve also noticed long-term firmness when I use it regularly.

My favorite treatments in the app are the Instant Face Lift and the Lymphatic Drainage facials.

Alexa: My concerns are firmness through the lower face, even skin, and breakouts. I want lift, but I also want brightness. The lifting-focused treatments in the app give me visible definition through my jawline, and the glow treatments help when my skin looks tired. It’s the only device where I consistently see immediate results, especially in the lower face.

My favorite treatments in the app are the Everything Facial, Tone Corrector, and Clear Skin facials.

With the improved waveform precision in the HALO 2.0, the results feel even more consistent.

Here are our most recenter before and afters with the ZIIP 2.0:

💭 Last Thoughts

We don’t recommend big-ticket devices lightly.

If you’ve been considering ZIIP, the HALO 2.0 is the version that reflects real customer feedback, improved engineering, and added value with the included gels.

If it’s on your list, this is the version we would recommend! If you purchased it previously and have no issues - it’s still an amazing product!

Use code ASHALO and shop here

High: LA was definitely the high point of the month. February has been so cold and snowy and I think it was definitely driving us all a little crazy so some sunshine was needed. The weather tried to bring us down when it decided to be chilly and rainy for 80% of our trip but lucky the blizzard in NYC canceled our flight and we got a couple of sunny and warm days.

Before the pandemic, we would travel to LA at least 3-4 times a year. So many of our friends live out there as well as family so we tried to go as many times as we could. After CJ died and I had a scare with Penny after flying out there for a weekend, I hadn’t been back since 2022. It truly warmed my heart to spend so much quality time with Kitty and Kenny and have our friends out there finally meet Penny.

Low: The State of the Union Address - y’all I didn’t even watch it. This is the first year I didn’t even seek out clips. I am so embarrassed that this orange turd continues to drive this country into the ground.

Funniest moment: On a recent trip with Penny, we were in an elevator alone and I told her that my neck hurt. I was like “I must have done something to my neck.” She looked at me right in my eyes with a look of disgust and said, “Fuck your neck.” Y’all. The laugh I laughed. I genuinely think I scared her with how hard I laughed. She used it so well I couldn’t even be mad.

Biggest cry: Can y’all please check out the animated shorts and the documentary shorts nominated for Oscars this year? I SOBBED during Forevergreen (might be able to find online) and cried even harder during Armed Only With a Camera: The Life and Death of Brent Renaud (on HBO Max)

Proudest moment: We attended Penny’s first art show at her school and it was truly so beautiful. We really could not have picked a better school for her and I love the way they encourage empathy and communication through art! I cried a lot!

Best purchases: THESE PIGEON PAJAMAS and THIS STEPHEN MILLER SUCKS SWEATSHIRT

Best gifted item(s): The new Olaplex No3 Plus Complete Repair Treatment - y’all this stuff is magic! I’ve been testing it out over the past two months and I swear it has healed my hair! You apply to your hair for 3 minutes before you shower and then rinse it out! Your hair is immediately softer and stronger! Perfect if your hair is damaged and it reduces future breakage! It was finally released on February 24 and I’m so excited for y’all to try it!

Best read: Strangers - truly such a fucked up book but more than that, a warning to make sure you have a good prenup and never share accounts.

Hopescroll: I know we are all in love with Punch the Monkey right now but please take a look at how some wildlife conservationists have helped similar animals.

Social media posts you might have missed:

• Please check your voter registration!

• I created a kit with Dermstore!

• A positive of raising kids in New York.

• I put salmon sperm in my skin!

• New Typology kit I love!

• I forgot my Seed and freaked out.

• LA Pics here and here!

Best things I ate this month: All of the following LA food:

• The fried chicken from Anajak Thai

• The lasagna rolls from Donna’s

• A passion fruit mango smoothie from Oakberry Açaí that I can’t stop thinking about. If you live in Venice please go get this smoothie.

Current obsession: These Shirley temple gummies from oHHo are seriously so good and make me so happy - they are the perfect dosage! They really help me not lose my shit when everything is currently awful.

Peak of the Month: In general having the family in LA was the peak of my month but there were two specific moments that stand out:

One was that our first true ride at Disneyland besides the carousel was “It’s a Small World” and Penny ended up sitting in the front with me and Kendell. Seeing her face light up and her pointing out all the cool things she saw was truly a core memory moment.

Also, after years of wanting her to come to LA and meet my kitties, it finally happened and it was such a sweet moment. Penny is such an animal lover and so respectful of them. My kitties had also never met a child before so it was definitely adorable on both ends.

Also noteworthy mentions include Penny meeting some of my best friends for the first time and finally eating at Donna’s — omg it was so good.

Challenge of the Month: I had a really horrible experience with the dermatologist that I connected with to bring y’all my melasma series. She was so rude that I decided to pay for the $475 treatment in full so that I wasn’t committed to posting nice content for her anymore. I definitely won’t be going back and I’m proud of myself for having integrity for myself and my community.

Funniest Moment: We genuinely laughed so hard at how unhinged the Mr. Toad ride was at Disneyland that we went back and rode it again. Make it make sense.

Little Win: Even though the dermatologist sucks, the treatments I’ve gotten recently (Picosure Laser and VI Peel: Precision + Peptides) seem to be really helping my melasma. I’ll keep tracking my progress over on Instagram!

Best Buy:

• I’m obsessed with these Margaux flats — they’re so comfortable and chic (and the quality is worth the price point)

• This new Lake and Skye perfume — 11 11 Moon — is my current go to fragrance. It’s so sexy and elegant and the perfect winter to spring scent.

• I use and love the Educated Mess Grow-a-Pair serum for my eyebrows, but I’ve been loving the prostaglandin free Grande Lash Sensitive Lash Serum. My lashes have been growing like weeds because of it with no orbital fat loss!

Best Bite: These were my favorite bites of the month (all in LA):

• The breakfast chimichanga from Ship to Shore Marketplace in Disneyland

• The panang curry with Chinese eggplant from Anajak Thai

• The Caesar salad and garlic bread from Donna’s

• The mortadella focaccia sandwich with prosciutto, burrata, basil pesto, arugula, and pickled red onion from Beethoven Market’s

• The single cheeseburger, fries, and strawberry milkshake from For the Win

Best Movie or Show I Watched:

• The series finale of Tell Me Lies — I thought it was wrapped up perfectly and actually really funny

• Almost every single one of the Oscar-nominated documentary shorts as well as the Oscar-nominated feature length documentaries

• The season finale of Traitors had me and Kendell SHOOK. That’s possibly one of the best episodes of TV EVERRRRR!

• Anyone else really into American Love Story?? I love the nostalgic feel and the soundtrack is god tier

Current Obsession:

• These pretzels are ADDICTING

• This song from the Wuthering Heights soundtrack — it won’t get out of my head

• These jeans that I bought from Rent the Runway — great for mid size girlies

• This customizable keychain I bought for my new purse

Feel-Good Finds: happy ending for this doggie and I can’t stop watching Sir Winston videos:

One Last Thing:

Love always,

If you are also in need of a visual lobotomy after this dark week of news, you came to the right place. We are gearing up for the Oscars and have tons of movies to watch.

There’s also been a plethora of great shows on TV (it’s almost like they knew January and February would be a hellscape) so we have plenty of recs.

Sit back and enjoy 15 minutes of peace before entering back into the bad place.

Movies We Loved:

Is This Thing On? (Prime Video)

Ashley: Steve and I really loved this movie and I think it will 100% resonate with any married couple or children of divorce. Will Arnett and Laura Dern are fantastic in these roles (Bradley Cooper is actually the highlight of this movie). It’s nothing life changing but a beautiful portrayal of the dissolution of a marriage and how we lose our identities in marriage.

Sorry, Baby (HBO Max)

Ashley: I’ve been dying to see this one ever since Alexa’s reviews and it truly didn’t disappoint. I don’t want to ruin the movie for anyone, but as someone who experienced something similar in college, I love how this movie portrayed all the ways in which we fail survivors and how it will forever impact your life. I loved Eva Victor in Billions and they were absolutely fantastic in this role both as a director, writer, and actor.

The Housemaid (Prime Video)

Ashley: Yoooooooooo, I loved this movie!!!!! I feel like I’m a little late to this one because I didn’t read the book but I thought this was so fun, twisty and weirdly poignant? Steve and I weren’t that excited to watch this one and we both left the movie being so happy we watched it! Also, did Brandon Sklenor have a lot of stuff done or something because I didn’t find him hot at all in It End With Us and in this movie he was HOTTTTT.

Sinners (HBO Max)

Ashley: WHY DID I WAIT SO LONG TO WATCH THIS? Well, I know but I should have just watched it without Steve. Steve hates anything with vampires, zombies, etc so I didn’t even tell him this movie had vampires in it because I knew he wouldn’t agree to watch. I still cannot get over how LAYERED this film is!!!! Think you know everything about it - nope! Ryan Coogler is a genius and I actually think Michael B. Jordan should win the Oscar now.

The Perfect Neighbor (Netflix)

Alexa: I’m on a documentary kick right now for the Oscars so I’m going to highlight three of the feature films that are nominated. The Perfect Neighbor is the most easily accessible because it’s on Netflix. This movie made me scream cry at the end. It highlights Florida’s Stand Your Ground law and how white people are using it as justification to commit violence the Black community. Most of this film was captured on police body cameras so you get an intimate look into the situation and how it played out. It’s a hard watch but things like this are important to see.

Cutting Through Rocks (Limited Release In Theaters)

Alexa: I cried so many times watching this. Sara Shahverdi runs for councilor in her village in Iran because she wants better for women and girls in her community. Viewers watch as she fights for change, all while challenging young girls to avoid child marriage and teaching some of them to ride motorcycles. Sara is a true unsung hero that exists is this world. Never asking for flowers, just for a better future for women. I was so beside myself watching this — I hope for a free and equal Iran one day. This may be my favorite documentary of the year.

Mr. Nobody Against Putin (On Demand)

Alexa: Another film that was filmed in secret and then smuggled out of the country. Pasha creates content/programs for a school in his town in Russia. When the Ukrainian attacks start happening, the school’s curriculum is upended and they start force feeding their students propaganda. Although Pasha vehemently disagrees with what’s being taught, he keeps his job in order to secretly film the disturbing reality. Watching documentaries about North Korea and Russia are pure nightmare fuel. Who needs horror films when you can watch these and realize your country is only a stones throw away from being identical?

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Happy 1st Monthly Round Up of 2026!!

Man this month has been a DOOZY! From us losing our Grandma, to huge snowstorms, to Alexa being sick the entire month, to ICE goons ruining this country, to our flights being cancelled … 2026 has definitely been… not good so far.

Let’s recap this month and hope for a better January!

High: I feel like such a sap for saying this but the best moment of this month has to be seeing the success of my IVF doc, Dr. Lucky Sekhon! She released the fertility Bible, The Lucky Egg this month, and I swear that I saw her everywhere! I really am not exaggerating when I say that I would not have Penny today if it wasn’t for Dr. Lucky. When I say that every single thing that could go wrong, went wrong, and Dr. Lucky’s composure and positive attitude coupled with facts and stats were the only thing that kept me going. She even helped me find a different MFM when I was unhappy at the care I was receiving at Columbia! I went to a book release party for her and was just so overjoyed to see a room of people celebrating her. At one point she came over and said that every single person at her table could trace knowing each other back to me and I just sobbed! Life is so crazy - I am just so thankful and happy for her to receive all the success in the world!

Low: Girlfriend’s death by far. Though Alexa and I went to see her recently with Penny - we knew her death was rapidly approaching but it still took me by surprise. We used to joke that nothing could kill her because she was so tough but ultimately MAC was too powerful for her little body. I’m so sad that politics came between us for so long but I’m so happy that I took Penny to meet her and they loved each other so much. This is your reminder to call your grandma.

Funniest moment: Penny got up and talked at Girlfriend’s funeral! Alexa and I decided to give an impromptu speech and Penny decided she would like to say something as well. She said “I’m going to write Girlfriend a letter about a creepy spider” and “I loved hugging Girlfriend and holding her hand.” Ok this is a mix of hilarious and really sweet - now I’m crying even thinking about it.

Biggest cry: Just watching my Mom be really sad. It’s a strange feeling to feel like you are parenting your parent through the death of their parent but that’s kind of how me and Alexa felt this month. I wish that we lived closer so that I could truly be there for her!

Proudest moment: Penny does an afterschool program called Broadway’s Next Step and we really don’t get that many updates on what goes on but we got to see a little performance from them this week and me and Steve were just delighted! The class is basically improv for toddlers and it’s exactly as cute as you are imagining! Penny was such a hoot! She is so dramatic and was such a little leader in the class. I just know she is going to be a broadway star one day!

Best purchases: All of my best purchases recently have been organization things for Penny. This is probably a product of feeling like we have too many things and not enough room for said things in our apartment after Christmas but I digress. Here are my most favorite recent purchases that contain all her art supplies, toys and stuffed animals:

• This rotating art supply organizer makes Penny so happy and helps me keep everything sorted! Having this has made her so into art projects!

• This 10 drawer rolling cart has room for all her coloring books, paper, workbooks, sticker books, etc! I had a smaller version that she quickly outgrew! This was easy to put together and looks chic!

• I added this door organizer on the back of her bedroom door along with these clear toy bags and it’s so easy to keep everything grouped together now and she can see what is in each bag!

• Penny has SO MANY STUFFED ANIMALS and we truly do not have room for them so I really wanted to get one of these animal cages but I really don’t like the look of the ones that say zoo and/or most of them are giant! This one has wheels and a drawer at the bottom!

Best gifted item(s): Lake and Skye’s new 11:11 Moon is the most heavenly scent! I really cannot describe the smell except I love the notes of coconut and lemon! It’s truly ethereal and I brought it on a trip with me to Cabo and every single person asked me what I was wearing!

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Welcome to 2026!! *Psycho movie music plays*

No, but really though.. how have so many horrible things already happened this year?

Well, you’ve come to the right place. Here we will talk about movies and books and tv shows that you can binge watch this month (because there are PLENTY) and take your mind off of the hellscape surrounding us.

Movies We Loved:

Marty Supreme (In Theaters)

Ashley: I’m not sure if I’ve mentioned this or not but every Wednesday, Steve and I go to couple’s therapy and then we go see a movie immediately after so we don’t talk about whatever we just did in therapy. This is truly a dream scenario for me because we can quickly check off all the movies I need to watch! I was semi-excited for this one because of Alexa’s rave reviews but I have to be honest, I am not the biggest Safdie brothers fan. Their movies give me so much anxiety and I don’t even enjoy the experience! However, Marty Supreme was so fun. Timmy C definitely deserves the Oscar and I honestly really loved Gwyneth and Mr. Wonderful in this as well!

Alexa: Y’all know as of this moment, I think Chalamet gave the best lead male performance of the movies I’ve seen so far. He has yet to be unseated from any other movies I’ve seen (as much as I hate giving him the crown). You can read my full review over on Letterboxd.

No Other Choice (In Theaters)

Ashley: Truth be told, we were supposed to go see Is This Thing On? but I messed up the tickets so we decided to check this out - best decision ever. Steve turned to me at one point of the movie and said he thought this was the best movie of the year and he loved it more than Parasite. If you are a Park Chan-wook fan, put this at the top of your list. No Other Choice was a smart, funny, and heartbreaking commentary on Capitalism and how men derive their identities from their jobs. Lee Byung-Hun is so fantastic in this role - I honestly am feeling a little torn about my Oscar choice now - it could easily go to Lee.

Zootopia 2 (In Theaters)

Ashley: I think that Steve and I may have loved this more than Penny but this was such a great kids movie! So relevant to today’s society and the push to other communities. I loved the first Zootopia but I think I loved this one more!

People We Meet on Vacation (Netflix)

Ashley: I am in the acknowledgements of this book and I consider myself to be one of the first people who was screaming about Emily Henry from the rooftops when I first encountered her YA books. I am a true Emily Henry Stan. I feel like there are two camps of her books. You either love Beach Read and Book Lovers or you love PWMOV, Happy Place, Funny Story and Great Big Beautiful Life. While I am in the BR & BL camp, I was so excited for this movie because I knew Yulin Kuang (who wrote How to End a Love Story) was writing the screenplay and I knew she would be able to evoke the feeling of an EH book.

My Mom, Alexa, and I watched this after a particularly hard weekend and we all thought it was so delightful and funny! I am now in love with Tom Blyth and Emily Bader. The music, the outfits, the chemistry - finally a great rom-com!!!!! I truly did not get all the negativity surrounding the movie. As someone who is routinely disappointed in book to movie adaptations, I learned a long time ago that I had to view them as two completely separate projects. I will forever be so angry at what they did to The Storied Life of AJ Fikry - but also, I want studios to keep making these adaptations for my fav authors! I saw so many people say they didn’t love the book so they didn’t want to watch the movie - if that’s you, reconsider please!

Alexa: I am obsessed with this movie and I’ve watched it 5+ times already…. Tom Blyth is officially my new white boy of the month. He’s so hot and charming and a wonderful dancer. Also Emily Bader, the woman that you are!!! I hope you get a million more roles. Full review coming soon.

Train Dreams (Netflix)

Alexa: If y’all follow me on IG, you already know that this film is my #1 so far of 2025. I’ve yet to see something else that made me feel what this movie did (Hamnet came in a close second). The cinematography is STUNNING — you will be stunned. And I love the score and the humbleness of this film. What a beautiful love letter to grief and the American frontier. You can read my full review over on Letterboxd.

The Housemaid (In Theaters)

Alexa: Not an Oscar-worthy film, but I still had a great time with it. I’d rewatch!! You can read my full review over on Letterboxd.

Roofman (Paramount +)

Alexa: Watched this on a plane ride back from NYC and I thought it was cute. Definitely a unique story — added points because it’s set in North Carolina!! You can read my full review over on Letterboxd.

If I Had Legs I’d Kick You (Rentable On Demand)

Alexa: Rose Byrne would be my top pick for lead female actor this year if Jessie Buckley’s performance in Hamnet existed any other year. This movie is confusing and anxiety inducing and hard to watch at some points. It elicits feelings of claustrophobia and isolation and loss of agency that demanding caretaker roles often entail. I thought it was an important watch. This is the year of mothers’ stories being told and I’m not mad at it. Full review coming soon.

Come See Me in the Good Light (Apple TV+)

Alexa: This documentary will rip you in half. I’m warning you. I called my mom crying after watching it and asked Kendell a million times if he knows how much I love him. Life is so fragile and short and living it through poetry is such a badass way to do it. I’m in awe of Andrea Gibson and their talent and resilience as they battled cancer. Please watch!! Full review coming soon.

Beyond Utopia (Rentable On Demand)

Alexa: I’m really freaked out by the concept of North Korea and my sister knows that, thus she convinced me to watch this after a documentary influencer she follows recommend this one. If you don’t know much about what day to day life looks like in North Korea, or the process of escaping, this movie will shock you. I can’t believe a place like that exists in 2026. Full review coming soon.

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Dr. Lucky’s book The Lucky Egg comes out on Tuesday, January 13th. You can preorder or purchase her book on audiobook, hardcover, or e-book here.

You can follow her on Instagram here.

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