We’re less agentic than we think. An enormous amount of the “decisions” we make every day aren’t decisions at all. They’re simply actions that spring from habits and choices that we made long ago… and have since become “what we do” everyday.

In other words, we spend more time than we think running on autopilot.

That’s going to make manifesting your goals a little tricky.

Manifesting requires conscious choice, conscious action, and a hell of a lot of conscious alignment to make it work. And you just can’t do that on autopilot.

However, autopilot is endemic these days for almost everybody, even high achievers.

Wake up and reach for your phone, same as yesterday. Answer whatever looks urgent, same as yesterday. Do your work in the order you usually do it, same as yesterday. Eat the things you normally eat, open the apps you normally open, spend the evening doing whatever your brain has learned comes next.

Yes, you’re moving. Yes, you’re completing tasks, you’re getting things done, you’re charging forward. Surely that means you’re agentic, right?

Sorry, but no.

You can accomplish a mind-blowing amount on autopilot. You can be productive, responsible, busy building whatever you’re building, and still spend most of your day reacting to what’s in front of you or re-enacting your own personal Groundhog Day of “choices”.

Agency begins when you interrupt that process and think before you choose your actions.

It begins when you start asking yourself the conscious question: What do I really, truly choose to do here? What’s best for me?

To accelerate your manifesting by boosting your agency, you’re going to have swim upstream, against the habit of just doing what’s familiar or habitual for you. You’re going to need to start replacing your default “choices” and patterns with real, honest-to-god consideration.

And it starts with learning to think in options.

Agency is primarily about “considered choosing”.

Agency begins with choosing what you’re going to do. It’s conscious as hell. It’s the opposite of habit or autopilot.

Choosing something means being able to see multiple options, and then selecting the one that you like the best, or that serves your goals best, or seems the wisest thing to do given your current circumstances.

Choosing is a calculated decision. You have to think. You have to consider factors that are outside of what automatically comes to mind. You have to account for the downline effects of any given decision in your life.

Sometimes that’s a medium-to-big thinking job.

Deciding to create my first list incentive for this Substack, developing a workout routine that maximizes health benefits in my 50s, and embarking on a drastic diet change to drop my cortisol and repair brain issues took a lot of thinking and consideration. There was a lot of comparing upsides and downsides of different options, and then making my final decision.

Other times, agency is a split-second choice.

Years ago, when I was running (very) late to catch a plane out of Venice and the public waterbus didn’t show up, I raced to the nearest locals docking their speedboat and asked how much they wanted to take my family to the airport right now.

They laughed and one of them shouted “100 Euros!”, more than twice the rate of a private watertaxi at the time.

“SOLD,” I said, and pulled out my wallet.

It only took a split second to consider my options, weigh the risks and costs of missing the plane, and make a call.

But first…

You have to train yourself to see options outside of what automatically comes to mind.

How to train yourself to see options

Modern culture has slowly conditioned us to think less and less, and just operate on defaults (or prompts from outside sources). It has done this by leveraging our brain’s cue-response shortcuts.

Your brain has two systems that can fire off when it’s time to “decide what to do”.

First, there’s the goal-directed systems, which consider what you want and which action is likely to get it. (This is where agency happens.)

Second, there are habit systems that learn cue-response shortcuts and just run them without reconsidering your whole situation every time.

This is why a lack of careful consideration is so dangerous to your goals. If you’re not thinking in options, if you’re not considering if you have better things to do, or better ways to achieve what you want to achieve, your brain will just default to choosing something easy or familiar. It sees no downside.

If your phone dings with a notification, it costs next to nothing neurologically to react to it. That’s why we’re so good at it, and it comes so easily. We get in the habit, and we stop asking questions like “Is this even worth my time right now?” or “Is what I’m doing now more important” or “Do I have anything better to do?”

The brain is happy, because it’s spending very little energy using this cognitive shortcut to suggest what should happen next. But it hoses your future.

That’s the first hurdle in seeing options - you have to get away from the siren song of your defaults. Create a little cognitive space, a brief mental pause where you can start considering a few different ways to spend your next few minutes. Or hours. Or days.

We’re either responding to the dings and the imagined urgencies around us, or we’re just running the same routines we do every day. Whether they serve us or not. Whether we enjoy them or not. That’s delicious, disassociated autopilot.

Stress makes this worse, which is why everyone is impacted by this right now.

When your system is under pressure, your brain is much more likely to hand control to whatever habits are most familiar instead of carefully considering outcomes.

To break out of that normalized autopilot, you need to normalize manual control.

The process is simple.

You begin this simply by asking yourself one of these three magic questions.

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1. “What are three other options that would be actively good for me and my goals?”

Use this when you have unstructured free time that’s not already spoken for.

Instead of watching a show like you always do, could you read a book instead? Take a walk? Call a friend? Take a nap? Give someone a hug and tell them that you miss them, and spend time with them? Make yourself a plate of nachos with all the stuff you really like on them?

You don’t have to pick virtuous things. You could decide to eat a box of cookies or bust a move on your partner if you think that’s just the ticket right now. This is just considering options that would make you legitimately happier as a human.

You don’t have to choose any of these options at this point. The goal is to just start training your brain that other options exist, and those options have some benefit that you care about.

When you’re manifesting, you want to ask this question as often as possible. It sets you up for more aligned action, which is the first of The 4 Levels of Manifesting.

Now, here’s the second magic question:

2. “What are three options that might give better results than this one?”

Use this when you’re doing something outcome-oriented, like choosing where to go for dinner, choosing what product/course/offer to make next, or planning out what you’re doing today.

Your mind is going to gravitate towards the default, or the option that’s most similar to what you have done most recently. That’s not the same as thinking, so it doesn’t count as choosing.

When you ask this question, keep your outcome in mind - the thing that you want to happen.

• “Where to go for dinner” outcomes could include: saving money, saving time, being able to relax and enjoy yourself, or eating truly delicious food
  

• “What to sell next” outcomes could include: making the most money, making something you enjoy, maximizing sales, or minimizing effort / time spent in creation
  

• “What to do today” outcomes could include: getting important stuff done, clearing backlog, finishing work early, or making time for things you enjoy that have nothing to do with work

All of these outcomes are different from each other, so you have to know what outcome is important to you to truly use agency as a selection tool. Because you’re going to approach “saving money on dinner” and eating “truly delicious food” differently.

Our defaults will draw us to the first thing that comes to mind that has a shot at achieving that outcome. If I was going to eat delicious food tonight, my default would be street-style pad thai, hands down. Generally, that’s what I do.

But there are other options.

Options that might be even more delicious, but I don’t consider them automatically because brains like cheap, familiar options. But if I were to think of three other places to eat, and give two minutes of thought to it, I might blow my fucking mind tonight.

That’s why you look for other options - there can be something right in front of you that does a much better job of getting you what you want. Train your brain to consider these other options, and you’ll make more agentic choices.

One of my favorite expressions is “Your first idea is your worst idea.” Come up with other options to see if you can find a better execution. You’re not required to commit from those options, you just have to practice thinking about them.

Now, for the final magic question:

3. “What are three things that would achieve the same outcome?”

Here, you’re not looking for anything better, you’re just looking for something different that accomplishes the same thing.

You don’t have to try hard with this one - just practice switching it up.

If you always watch a few shows to unwind, consider watching a movie instead. Or a documentary. Or some stand-up comedy. You’re still spending the same time in front of the same screen, but you’re now considering different options - different choices - that you can make.

Same with work. Take the tasks you normally do, just consider doing them in a completely different order. Or ask yourself if it would be just as easy to dictate instead of type, or answer your emails outside on a lawn chair instead of sitting at a desk. Break your patterns and routines even if it isn’t in the service of productivity or self-improvement.

This is building basic cognitive flexibility - and training your brain that there are always, always, always more choices than you automatically see.

Agency is the most conscious of acts. And the most powerful.

If you want to have more agency, you must begin training yourself to do more “considered choosing”.

Most people confuse agency with simply doing, and they wonder why they’re not experiencing agentic growth even though they are “doing more”.

“Doing more” on autopilot just reinforces autopilot mode.

“Doing more “of the first idea that comes to mind just reinforces acting from the path of least resistance.

Even if you end up choosing your default as the best option for you now… considering your options trains you that thinking is valuable.

The more you consider your options, the more you reinforce that you can actively decide to do things based on what you think is best for you.

Once you start, it’s addictive. Being awake and associated with your life is fucking ace.

And when you’re awake (and agentic), you start manifesting much, much faster.

Questions, as always, are welcome in the comments. I answer every one.

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The collapse is changing the game for manifestors.

The targets we used to aim for (career titles, dream houses, polished identities, “five-year plans”) are losing their relevance by the month. Some are already obsolete. The systems that rewarded those goals are breaking apart - as are the conditions that made those goals realistically attainable.

Your manifesting priorities have to change, and you must begin doing that now so you’re not playing an outdated version of the game of life.

Anyone chasing outcomes designed for the pre-collapse world, will be building on a disappearing foundation.

To be one of the winners, you need to increase your agency and pivot.

Your most valuable goals now are the ones that increase your life satisfaction.

Life satisfaction is the most stable, collapse-resistant metric you can build around. It aligns with your intrinsic needs, such as love, support, connection, security of food and shelter, recreation, rest, meaning and purpose.

When these needs are met, you keep your shit together, and you feel powerful and happy.

Other manifesting goals are often based on markers of extrinsic approval. Popularity on social media to shore up your self-worth. Expensive lifestyles to prove that you are not “failing” at life. Achievements and possessions that prove you are not "ordinary".

Those goals were achievable enough pre-collapse, but the systems that support them are failing rapidly. Social changes are also trickling down as people have less money and less security, so achievements and possessions that made you look like a success in the past are losing their power to do so.

You need a way out, and that way will be by re-tooling your intentions towards life satisfaction. Towards “enoughness”, abundance, and easily accessible opportunities for additional satisfaction.

When you have access to enough life satisfaction, that “enoughness” keeps your nervous system steady enough to think clearly, act decisively, and seize opportunities when other people freeze. It trains the three core manifesting skills - agency, magnetism, and reality selection - on a daily basis, without waiting for ideal conditions.

If you’ve read my field notes on manifesting money using neuroscience, you already know that your internal worldview and state of mind is what drives your manifesting success.

When your satisfaction levels rise, your brain chemistry shifts toward clarity and decisiveness. Your executive function improves. Your Reticular Activating System (RAS) tunes to opportunities instead of threats. You move faster and you manifest faster.

When you focus on manifesting life satisfaction as your #1 manifesting priority, you will train the three core skills of manifesting automatically.

Here’s how collapse is changing the landscape of goals.

In the pre-collapse world, prioritizing “life satisfaction” was considered a personal preference. In the collapse era, it will be your functional survival metric. The degree to which you feel steady, resourced, and capable will directly influence how well you can adapt when conditions change without warning.

The collapse is creating a permanent environment of shifting constraints. Food, housing, energy, and income streams are going to fluctuate in both availability and stability. New limitations are going to emerge with little notice. The people who fare best will be those who can re-prioritize without losing their internal stability.

Old-world goals are built on the assumptions of steady markets, predictable supply chains, and the ongoing economic expansion. There were no real “wildcards” in that model other than accidents or acts of god.

That model doesn't account for the decision-making environment you are in now. Manifesting toward old-world goals is incredibly energy-intensive (which leads to the burnout epidemic you’re seeing everywhere). Those goals exhaust your energy and attention without increasing your actual resilience.

Your new goals are things like strong relationships, reliable shelter, dependable access to food and resources, meaningful use of time, expanding your “life skills”, and restorative rest.

These will create stability in your autonomic nervous system by consistently reducing threat signals and increasing safety cues. This directly improves the performance of your prefrontal cortex (PFC), the brain region that controls your judgment, problem-solving, and planning.

From a manifesting perspective, the advantage is massive. When your nervous system is regulated and your decision-making circuits are engaged:

• You will respond to reality in real time.

• You will act while others hesitate.

• You will recognize viable opportunities before they fade.

• You will make moves that preserve and expand your options.

• You will naturally learn to disarm your limiting beliefs through creating expansive experiences for yourself.

When you start shifting toward manifesting life satisfaction you will consistently feel better than you do now. And you will maintain and protect the cognitive and emotional conditions that allow you to keep winning when the rules of the game change mid-play.

Now, let’s look deeper at exactly how that plays out for you so you know what to expect as you retrain your neural networks.

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How life satisfaction goals will skyrocket your manifesting skills

When you set intentions for life satisfaction, you will activate all three of the core manifesting skills every single day. Your neurological training happens naturally and automatically because the actions that create satisfaction are the same actions that sharpen your manifesting capacity.

How you will improve your agency every day:

Agency is the capacity to initiate and sustain actions that align with your chosen outcomes. Life satisfaction goals create a clear, real-time positive feedback loop: you act, you see measurable improvements in your lived experience, and that proof strengthens your drive to act again.

In most cases, you will get instant gratification in a very, very healthy way.

Choosing to deepen a relationship, prepare better food, or improve your living space requires decisions and follow-through. Those are key agency functions that are strengthened with every action you take, no matter how small.

This is also aligned action, or Level 1 Manifesting. (Read more about this in Blackwolf’s 4 Levels of Manifesting.)

Every time you “do a rep” of aligned action, your action suppresses the Default Mode Network (DMN). Your conscious action takes you out of autopilot mode and engages the executive function circuits that keep you in active creation mode instead of passive reaction mode.

How you will improve your magnetism every day:

Life satisfaction shifts your emotional and cognitive states toward internal congruence. Your nervous system signals that you are resourced and steady, which is immediately detectable by others at a nonverbal level. You become the person opportunities gravitate toward.

This is social neuroscience in action. Humans, like other primates, pick up on microexpressions, voice tone, and posture that indicate safety and capability.

When you consistently invest in satisfaction-driven behaviors (like improving your health, increasing your social connection, or securing your living environment) you broadcast behavioral signals of stability and competence. These draw supportive people, resources, and opportunities into your sphere without having to chase them.

These actions also rewire your self-concept. Each satisfaction-driven choice creates alignment between your self-image and behavior, and reinforces it through your dopaminergic reward circuits. This internal congruence strengthens self-directed magnetism: you register as capable to yourself, making you faster to act and more confident in influencing outcomes.

How you will improve your reality selection every day.

Life satisfaction goals continually tune your Reticular Activating System (RAS) to filter for seeing conditions and opportunities that enhance your measurable quality of life.

• If your intention is to feel safe and supported, your brain learns to notice safe environments, helpful people, and pathways to security more quickly.

• If your intention is to build a stronger social network, your brain learns to notice compatible people, connection opportunities, and contexts that can expand and strengthen your relationships more quickly.

This selective attention is what turns abstract intentions into concrete results. The more you practice aligning your perception with satisfying outcomes, the faster your brain suppresses irrelevant threat signals and irrelevant distractions.

Your life satisfaction goals will create a constant, low-friction training ground for all three core manifesting skills. Your practice of these skills compounds because each skill reinforces the others:

• greater agency creates stronger magnetism,

• stronger magnetism increases the quality of your opportunities, and

• sharper reality selection makes your agency more effective.

The result is a system that keeps you moving forward even under unstable conditions. And the more self-awareness skills you practice, the faster this will happen.

Manifesting life satisfaction also protects your brain from collapse-induced stress.

High life satisfaction will create a neurological performance boost for you. When your core needs are met and your daily experience includes enough safety, connection, and meaning, your nervous system shifts into a regulated state. This regulation reduces baseline activation of the amygdala, lowers cortisol output through the HPA axis, and frees up the prefrontal cortex for higher-order thinking.

That shift accelerates manifesting. In a regulated state, your working memory, planning ability, and decision speed all improve. You spot relevant opportunities, evaluate them accurately, and act while they are still viable. You gain more access to the executive functions that translate intention into action without delay.

Life satisfaction also reshapes how your brain encodes relevance. In a steady and resourced state, your RAS favors signals that align with your current intentions. People with a high satisfaction baseline appear “lucky” because their perception is tuned to spot and act on opportunities early, before they fade from view.

This combination (executive function engagement + relevance filtering) creates a “compound interest” effect. You recognize openings faster, make decisions faster, and act faster.

The faster you manifest, the more energy you direct toward results that will compound. Each successful move reinforces your self-concept as someone who can create outcomes on demand, further increasing both self-directed and other-directed magnetism. This feedback loop turns life satisfaction from a personal preference into a core survival skill.

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How to shift towards “life satisfaction manifesting” today

Life satisfaction goals are easy to define in theory, but you need a deliberate process to install them into your manifesting practice.

This sequence will align your daily actions with the outcomes that keep you steady, resourced, and effective.

Step 1: Convert your current goals into collapse-relevant goals.

List your active intentions and objectives.

For each one, identify whether it increases stability, connection, and resilience, or whether it depends on external systems and approval.

Keep the first category. Reframe or discard the second. (I’ll talk more about reframing them in an upcoming post, but you can ask your questions in the comments in the meantime.)

Step 2: Translate your core needs into concrete intentions.

Anchor each of your life satisfaction goals to an intrinsic need via a clearly defined intention statement.

Examples:

• Stronger social network: “I intend to connect with compatible people who expand my sense of support and belonging.”

• Reliable shelter: “I intend to maintain a living environment that is secure, comfortable, and within my control.”

• Recreation and rest: “I intend to have regular time for activities that restore my energy and focus.”

Step 3: Get early wins with low-resistance actions.

To quickly build your agency in this arena, start practicing with actions that produce visible gains in satisfaction with minimal friction.

Examples:

• Strengthen your relationships through consistent, small gestures (check-ins, shared meals, useful exchanges instead of bullshit small talk).

• Create more enjoyable meals for yourself in simple ways. Learn how to get creative and flexible and watch the payoff.

• Improve your physical environment through repairs, upgrades, or removal of irritants. You have NO IDEA how much of a difference this makes to your sense of empowerment and agency.

Step 4: Replace dead activities and exchanges.

As you go through your day, look for where your time, energy, or attention is going into interactions, habits, or environments that leave you feeling depleted or disengaged. Replace them with alternatives that produce higher satisfaction and align with your intrinsic needs.

• Swap draining social contact for connection with people who are supportive, competent, and trustworthy. If you can’t do that easily, replace the type of connection you currently have with them with something better for you.

• Drop media / information channels that increase your stress without increasing your capability. If it’s not a net win for you now, dropping it won’t lose you anything. Replace that time with something you actually like.

• Shift repetitive, low-value tasks you don’t enjoy into systems, tools, or routines that free up time for restorative or constructive actions. Batch errands into one trip, use automated bill payments, or set up a weekly meal prep session so daily cooking requires minimal effort.

Each replacement increases your net satisfaction and trains your brain to prioritize what strengthens your stability, resilience, and magnetism.

Step 5: Reinforce your success through positive feedback loops.

Capture and document each action and the resulting gain in satisfaction. (Written is better, but digital will do.)

When you do this, you close the loop in your reward circuitry, making the behavior easier to repeat. Over time, your brain will prioritize satisfaction-building actions automatically, freeing up your mental bandwidth to manifest higher-value opportunities.

You’ll manifest faster and easier once you switch up your intentions.

Life satisfaction will be the stabilizing force that keeps you functional, resourceful, and agile when external conditions are volatile.

In collapse conditions, stability in your nervous system, and clarity in your decision-making, are not optional. They determine how effectively you can manifest what you need, and whether or not you’ll keep your shit together as the world changes..

As you train your manifesting practice around life satisfaction, you will strengthen your agency through consistent action, build your magnetism through internal congruence and external signaling, and sharpen your reality selection by keeping your attention tuned to what sustains and expands your quality of life.

Month after month…

• You will secure resources faster, recognize opportunities earlier, and act decisively before they disappear.

• You will expand your network with people who increase your resilience.

• You will create a self-concept rooted in capability, which reinforces both self-directed and other-directed magnetism.

The old goals are losing value, and the systems that rewarded them are disappearing.

Align your intentions with the life you can sustain and grow in the world you are actually living in now. Make life satisfaction your #1 manifesting priority, and every other outcome you want - money, resources, opportunities, satisfying experiences - will arrive faster and with less resistance.

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The worldwide changes that are unfolding as we move into collapse are going to require shifting the way that you need to look at manifesting moving forward.

You can’t simply rely on the old concepts and techniques because they were designed for the old world: a relatively stable global reality with a relatively stable mental health baseline. Life may not have been predictable, but LIFE was predictable.

Today is nothing like that. Post-capitalism has ushered us into the era where most people find it difficult-to-impossible to keep their thinking straight. And you can’t make manifesting-friendly decisions with compromised cognition and an increasingly traumatized nervous system.

So… we’re going to need to pull the big guns out here.

In this training, I’ll walk you through how to build the level of self-awareness you need to protect your manifesting power, and the 9 core techniques that will boost your skills in the next 24 hours.

Why you need to prioritize self-awareness

At its core, self-awareness is what allows you to understand what you’re doing and why you’re doing it, as well as what feelings and thoughts are influencing your way of looking at the world.

It is conscious, it is awake, and it is how you keep your eyes on the road as you drive through your days.

When you have self-awareness, you can instantly tell when you’re on track, and quickly troubleshoot problems when you’ve veered off-course.

It’s the opposite of the Default Mode Network, the neural network which allows you do things on autopilot and unconscious habit. (Which is the opposite of what you need to do when manifesting.)

As you use the techniques I’ll give you to increase your self-awareness, you will feel more confident in your ability to handle life, more empowered to move in the directions you want, and more capable of retaining the vibe and worldview you need to thrive in whatever circumstances the collapse brings your way.

Now, let’s break it down.

We’ll address the 3 core skills of manifesting, and how to use self-awareness to stay on top of all three of them so you can manifest powerfully and consistently.

Let’s start with what you need to protect first: agency.

How to protect your agency with self-awareness

Agency is what you use to apply directed behavior to your manifesting intentions, whether that’s the action of doing something, deliberately thinking something, or responding to something we experience. It’s pure Level 1 manifesting.

You execute agency with your executive function. (It’s in the name.)

Self-awareness is the prerequisite for agency because it activates the observation layer required to interrupt default behaviors and initiate directed action.

Agency is what allows you to do things on purpose, based on an internally generated model of cause and effect. Without awareness of your current mental state, emotional signals, and behavior loops, your brain cannot detect when you’re in reactive mode or running autopilot scripts.

This internal detection is what allows you to override impulses and habits, so you can choose to act in alignment with manifesting outcomes rather than habit-based inertia.

Repetitive anchoring to your intentions will strengthen your task initiation and goal maintenance circuits, allowing you to override limbic impulses and reactive loops with conscious direction via executive function.

Short version: Self-awareness allows you to check if you’re using your agency correctly, and how to course-correct when you’re not.

Use these 3 techniques (in sequence) to increase your self-awareness in relation to agency:

• Intention anchoring: In the morning, write down one sentence that captures 1 to 3 concrete outcomes you want to make happen today. These could be accomplishments (write a post, make an ask) or commitments to alignment (engage in your day with openness or trust.). These are your “today” intentions. Setting them consciously - in writing - primes your brain to treat them as a priority.
  

• Flight check: At least 5 times a day (you can set an alarm for it), pause and ask yourself, “Am I acting on those ‘today’ intentions right now, or am I caught up in autopilot behaviors?" This will strengthen your live detection circuits and help you spot passive and reactive patterns before they go too far.
  

• After-action report: At the end of the day, look back and identify one repeated behavior that was in opposition to your manifesting goals or intentions. Map it to this sequence: Trigger → Emotion → Action → Result. Assess whether it was reactive (autopilot) or intentionally chosen via agency. This builds your self-awareness of your patterned responses and opens the window for future impulse overrides.

As you practice this sequence of self-awareness techniques, you will train your prefrontal cortex to take over from the Default Mode Network. You’ll shift out of passive, stimulus-driven behavior and into intentional control.

What you’re doing here is repeatedly observing your actions, anchoring to desired outcomes, and mapping reactive loops. This will strengthen the neural circuits responsible for self-regulation, goal maintenance, and behavioral override.

Over time, you’ll develop strong, real-time metacognitive access, so your brain starts flagging “drift states” and misalignments automatically.

This is how you increase your cognitive agency. You build a brain that knows what it’s doing, why it’s doing it, and how to redirect when it’s not.

Now let’s address how you attract resources, opportunities and support from the world: magnetism.

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How to protect your magnetism with self-awareness

Your level of magnetism depends on internal alignment between what you want, how you feel, where your attention is directed, and how you behave.

Self-awareness exposes the gaps between those systems. Without it, your Reticular Activating System - the part of your brain that filters what’s relevant to your manifesting goals - can’t tune salience properly. (Salience = what you notice and care about vs. what you unconsciously ignore.)

Self-awareness allows you to sense what emotional state you’re transmitting, where your focus is misaligned with your stated goals, and how your posture, tone, and presence are affecting others.

This is what makes your magnetism coherent. When you become aware of your inner state and its outward expression, you can consciously shape it into a consistent signal that draws the right people, responses, and opportunities toward you. You need magnetism to make Level 3 manifesting work.

Use these 3 techniques (in sequence) to increase your self-awareness in relation to magnetism:

• Name that emotion: At least 5 times a day (you can set an alarm for it), pause and name your current emotional state in one word. Then ask: “Is this emotion aligned with what I’m trying to attract or achieve right now?” Do this to sharpen your brain’s internal-state recognition and begin training it to check for emotional congruence.
  

• Attention alignment check: At one fixed time each afternoon, write down what has occupied most of your mental attention that day. Then compare it to your “today” intentions. If they are not in alignment, note the drift. This will strengthen your awareness of salience distortion and help realign your focus with your manifesting outcomes.
  

• Signal coherence scan: After any meaningful social interaction, ask yourself: “What did I probably signal emotionally through my tone, posture, and energy?” Then compare it to what you wanted to project. This builds real-time feedback awareness of how your internal state translates into social impact.

As you practice this sequence of self-awareness techniques, you will boost your magnetism by training the salience network and your brain’s limbic-prefrontal circuits to increase alignment between your internal state, your attention, and your outward expressions.

By labeling your emotions, tracking attentional drift, and reflecting on social signaling, you activate your brain’s interoceptive and social cognition systems. This improves your ability to detect and regulate mismatches between what you want and what you’re broadcasting.

Over time, your nervous system will become more coherent and responsive, making your magnetism neurologically consistent. The more you get emotionally attuned, the more externally compelling you will be.

Finally, let’s protect the lens that governs everything: reality selection.

How to protect your reality selection with self-awareness

Reality selection requires self-awareness because it depends on your ability to observe, deconstruct, and replace the cognitive models through which you interpret the world.

What you’re up against: Your brain will always want to take the most energy-efficient path, and fall back on previously reinforced beliefs and worldviews. It will default to prior beliefs and perceptual shortcuts unless you deliberately interrupt it.

This will be especially true under stress or novel changes in the world. This is why we doomscroll or react negatively to news or setbacks instead of filtering through a more empowered, expansive, manifesting-oriented neural framework.

Self-awareness lets you catch your interpretive filters in action: beliefs about what’s possible, assumptions about who you are, and emotional tones that bias your perception.

That observational window is what will enable you to disrupt your current mental frame and install a new one. When you observe and assess, you can then select the version of reality that supports your desired outcome. Otherwise you’ll be stuck with the one that reflexively replicates the past.

Use these 3 techniques (in sequence) to increase your self-awareness in relation to reality selection:

• Catch and question: Any time you face a challenge, notice yourself saying or thinking “I can’t,” “It won’t work,” or “I can’t change anything about this,” pause and write down the exact belief. Then ask: “Where did this come from, and does this help me?” This is how you notice your default cognitive models (limiting beliefs) and prep for upgrading them.
  

• Give yourself 3 options: Take the limiting belief from your Catch and Question and write three interpretations of it: one negative, one neutral, one empowering. Label how each version changes your perceived options. This trains your brain to recognize interpretive flexibility and interrupts habitual narratives.
  

• Locate the source: At the end of the day, identify one dominant belief or mood you experienced and trace back to find its origin. Was it shaped by media, conversation, memory, or environment? This builds your awareness of external reality-shaping inputs so you can begin filtering and curating them deliberately.

As you practice this sequence of self-awareness techniques, you will engage the medial prefrontal cortex to notice and interrupt unconscious narrative processing.

By identifying your limiting beliefs, generating contrasting interpretations, and tracing the origin of your mental inputs, you will activate metacognitive awareness and weaken the automatic perceptual loops that trap you in scarcity, lack, and limitation.

You’ll increase your neural flexibility at the same time you’re reducing your bias rigidity, allowing your brain to explore and encode more empowered, manifesting-friendly cognitive models.

This rewiring will weaken any unhelpful default narratives while reinforcing new associations. As you work on consistency of attention and emotional reinforcement, you’ll make the new mental model neurologically “cheaper” to run.

Short version: Over time, your perception will no longer be hijacked by threat signals, ambient panic, or culturally installed limitations.

Those factors won’t control or influence the way you see your reality anymore because your new, energy-efficient default will be consciously selected, structured, and reinforced in alignment with your manifesting outcomes.

These self-awareness sequences will protect you from the effects of the collapse.

Without the empowerment of self-awareness, most people will contract and withdraw as the systems they depend on shift and crumble. They’ll stay reactive, distracted, and neurologically unprepared to adapt and thrive by manifesting positive outcomes.

If you train self-awareness now, you’ll bypass that collapse entirely, and shape the terrain that you have access to in the future.

By deliberately training your brain to become more self-aware by default, you increase your power over the reality you experience, and the manifesting results you generate.

The world is collapsing. But your brain doesn’t have to.

Leverage self-awareness to retain your agency, become more magnetic and maintain the view of reality you want to select. Then you can keep manifesting anything you want for the rest of your life.

Questions, as always, are welcome in the comments.

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If you’ve read my training on the 3 core skills of manifesting, you’ll already be familiar with agency, magnetism and reality selection - the three areas of focus that will help you stay afloat (and thrive) during the collapse.

Some of you are already seeing the results of focusing on these domains, and how simple attention to detail can begin shifting what you experience and what results you get. (Thanks for all comments & DMs.) What you put into the system comes back to you, every time.

Now, we’re going to delve deeper into the mechanics of manifesting with a framework that shows you how what you put into the system actually comes back to you, in detail.

Saddle up.

Level 1 - Aligned Action

Once you’ve set your manifesting intention (and made it resonant), your next step is to take regular, aligned action that is directly in alignment with bringing it into your life.

Aligned action can take many forms:

• Working towards the thing (execution, building, doing the needful)

• Starting new habits to support the intention

• Quitting old habits that work against the intention

• Saying “no” to things that work against the intention

• Reinforcing new beliefs and mindsets

• Building new skills, mastering existing ones

• Learning (as long as it is being put into practice)

• Separating yourself from things, people and commitments that work against the intention

To test for aligned action, ask yourself this question: “If I had to prove to someone who doubted me that I was truly working towards my intention (and not being performative), would this action / activity prove it?”

The answer doesn’t have to be a big yes or an impressive yes, as long as it’s a legitimate yes. Remember that small, consistent actions gather momentum over time.

Most people delay their manifesting intentions because they’re not taking enough aligned action, or they’re still holding on to unaligned habits and activities - or they’re still holding onto limiting beliefs to keep them playing small & “safe”. (Pro tip: that’s the opposite of safe. Dismantle your limiting beliefs here.)

The neuroscience of Level 1: Each aligned action trains your basal ganglia to encode a new habit loop. With repetition, your brain assigns more dopaminergic weight to actions aligned with your goal, creating a bias toward forward motion.

Level 2 - Aligned Asking

The next level after aligned action is aligned asking. You have your manifesting intention in mind. You’re working towards it and aligning yourself to it. Now you ask for help and support.

It’s essentially using your own agency to connect with other people’s agency.

Aligned asking can take many forms:

• Asking people to help you free up time and resources to pursue more aligned action

• Asking people to give you feedback on your strategies and plans

• Asking people to directly spread the word about what you’re doing

• Asking people for specific resources - time, money, critical thinking

• Asking people for advice (perhaps the one place social media can actually be helpful)

• Asking for emotional or moral support

• Asking someone to be an accountability partner

• Asking someone to buy from you

• Asking someone to promote you

• Asking for engagement for whatever you’re doing that feeds some infernal algorithm

There’s no limit to the things you can ask for. If you want to manifest anything - money, love, health, freedom, whatever - asking is a force multiplier that cannot be underemphasized. If you have limiting beliefs or insecurities around asking, look into them and use publicly known strategies for overcoming them.

Get used to asking. Get over anything standing in the way of asking. It takes your aligned action and multiplies it by 100.

Why? Because people are basically good, and when they see someone who is aligned with their intention, they tend to be willing to help them. (That’s magnetism at work.)

And it’s why you help other people. Now it’s your turn to be one of those “other people”.

The neuroscience of Level 2: Social neuroscience shows that requests made from a congruent internal state will trigger empathic mirroring in others. When your verbal “ask” matches your embodied commitment (alignment), others experience a neurobiological pull to assist. This is often described as charisma or magnetism.

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Level 3 - Universal / System Response

This level has a dual title.

Universal if you’re into the metaphysical and believe in energy fields and similar that connect us all.

System if you’re not and you prefer to focus on social / behavioral engineering mechanisms and how large populations function in an ecosystem.

Either way, this is when the universe / system begins to respond to your aligned actions and aligned asking in a way that’s further removed from your initial actions.

This is essentially magnetism and attraction at work. Examples include:

• Referrals and word-of-mouth publicity

• Social media / posts “taking off”

• Old contacts / prospects getting in touch because something reminded them of you

• People literally seeing you and gravitating towards your energy & vibe

• Direct, favorable responses to your communication based on your confidence & vibe

• Increased odds of being selected for or winning something

• Book deals, job offers, endorsements that “come your way” unsolicited

• People giving you resources (money, objects, concert tickets) because they like you and know you’re “into that kind of thing” (aka “aligned with”)

Universal / System Response happens as a direct result of something you are doing, or something you did. It’s a result of the compound interest of all your agency and magnetism work.

Invest in the first two levels, and increase your magnetism, and you’ll see an S-curve of increase in your Level 3 manifesting wins.

The neuroscience of Level 3: This level emerges from accumulated attentional salience. Your internal signal has now been reinforced enough to penetrate the awareness of others (via social reticular activation). In other words, you’re showing up in their mental models of the world, and you are relevant.

Level 4 - Universal / System Surprises (aka “Miracles”)

While Level 3 is directly tied to something you did, Level 4 is unrelated to your direct actions. In other words, what the universe brings to you is no longer attributable to a behavior chain on your part.

On the lower end of the spectrum, this is the money you find on the street, the synchronicities to your recent intentions, the phone calls and emails from people you were just thinking of.

On the middle of the spectrum are the lucky breaks, the unexpected-but-perfectly-timed windfalls, the chance encounters that change your trajectory.

On the higher end of the spectrum are the Very Big Surprises. The ones that massively change your trajectory and could not have been predicted.

They are often as random and life-changing as Oprah stumbling across your self-pub book at a yard sale and asking a major publisher to sign you. Or someone with a terminal illness having an unexplainable recovery. Or someone you thought was a lost cause turning their life around.

These are the things we call “miracles” or say, “holy hell, how did that happen?”

But they happen often enough to those who manifest to be worth noting. (And they happen more often to those who work Levels 1-3 like they mean it.)

Level 4 miracles can be small, medium, or large. But whatever they are, they make you think that something out there was really looking out for you.

The neuroscience of Level 4: These events often register as cognitive dissonance because they fall outside expected cause-and-effect frameworks. But if you’re coming from a Bayesian brain perspective, you could say these reflect the long-tail effects of unconscious pattern broadcast and receiver resonance across social and informational networks.

The neuroscience “compounding effect” of the 4 levels of manifesting

When you use this framework, you’ll create a feedback escalation between all 4 levels, a feedback loop that amplifies everything you do:

• Aligned action trains your brain to assign increasing motivational salience to your intention. Each action deposits evidence into your executive system that this outcome matters. You’re priming your dopaminergic system to favor further pursuit of your goal.
  

• Aligned asking multiplies the behavioral reinforcement of Level 1 by activating social mirroring and feedback loops. This generates external confirmation of your trajectory, which further amplifies internal motivation and social salience.
  

• Universal / System Response emerges when the feedback from Levels 1 and 2 reaches saturation. Enough signal has been broadcast by you to trigger autonomous returns from your network and environment. The compound effect here is exponential. Your internal and external systems are now reinforcing each other.
  

• Universal / System Surprises (“miracles”) represent nonlinear returns: emergent responses that originate outside your causal chain. The likelihood of these anomalies increases as your cumulative alignment sharpens the probability field around your intention.

If you’re already well-versed in manifesting literature, you can now see the neuroscience for practically everything you’ve ever heard or read on the subject wrapped into these 4 levels.

What you are going to do with these 4 levels of manifesting

To accelerate your manifesting, here’s your plan:

• Work Levels 1 and 2 consistently and relentlessly. This is how you invest the currency of manifesting into the system.
  

• Be opportunistic with Level 3 wins. This is the “interest” on your investment, which you can reinvest into the system. When you get results here, notice them, absorb them, and take full advantage of them. Learn any lessons that can help you reinforce, replicate or compound them. (Gratitude is a multiplier here, too.)
  

• Be ready for Level 4 wins. These miracles - small, medium and large - can happen at any time. Be open to believing in them for your life, be ready to move on them, and even make them part of your intentions if you choose. (Whoever or whatever you believe is out there, it never hurts to ask.)

You are now equipped to be a person who taps into all 4 levels of manifesting, and can reap the rewards of compound interest. The tools are in your hands.

So use them, and accelerate your manifesting from this point onward.

Questions, as always, are welcome in the comments. I answer every one.

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Agency, or personal power, is the first of the three core skills of manifesting that you must develop in order to draw anything into your life. Money, love, acquisitions and lifestyle transformations - all your hopes and dreams, whatever they are - all rely on the foundation of agency.

And to develop the skill of agency, you must train yourself to think with an agency-forward mindset.

This training is how you consciously suppress your brain’s Default Mode Network. The DMN governs self-referential thought, mental time-travel, and habitual rumination. (These functions are incredibly useful for visualizing intentions and doing creative dreaming, but they’re not suited for taking action with agency.)

When your DMN is overactive, it competes with the executive control systems needed for goal-directed behavior, preventing you from initiating meaningful action toward your intentions.

So you need to train your Task-Positive Network neurons to activate instead, giving you access to the executive function skills that will help you make your manifesting intentions a reality.

Modern culture and capitalism have trained us to react, rather than respond almost every waking hour of the day, reinforcing the Default Mode Network in our brains.

That’s why it’s so challenging to get yourself focused on your best interests and working towards them. It’s not you, it’s your brain’s response to your environment.

(Note: If you are operating from survival-mode patterns or symptoms of C-PTSD, the DMN may be overactive as part of dissociative or trauma-loop circuitry. The process I’ll teach you in this post can help retrain your brain to break out of that.)

Thinking from an agency mindset

An agency mindset is a way of thinking about what you are going to do about… whatever.

If you’re standing outside and it begins to rain, when you choose to go inside, that’s agency.

When your phone isn’t charging correctly, and you troubleshoot it or Google for solutions, that’s agency.

When you see someone you want to pursue, and you initiate a conversation with them or invite them to spend time with you, that’s agency.

When you use my process for dismantling limiting beliefs so you can manifest your goals faster, that’s agency.

Agency is driven by “towards motivations” - things you actively want to do, have, or be. The formula for agency is “I want X so I’m going to do Y.”

Avoidance (or inaction) is the opposite of agency - that’s an “away from” motivation. The formula for avoidance is “I don’t want X, so I’m going to do Y instead (or nothing at all)”.

Agency is the neurobehavioral lever that allows you to act on chosen goals. Every time you use it, you strengthen the brain’s top-down regulation systems and alter your dopaminergic reward salience map.

The result for you is a positive feedback loop between intention and action. That’s how you’ll get things done, change your fate your fate, upgrade your brain, and heal many of your issues. It's raw, pure, personal power.

To train for agency, you shift your thinking patterns to towards motivations and actions.

And before too long, the agency mindset will begin becoming your new default mindset.

Your basic training begins with 3 questions.

Use these when you’re moving towards an intention or encountering an obstacle to moving forward.

Ask yourself these 3 questions, in order:

#1 - What do I WANT here?

Generally, what you “want” is going to be your intention - that’s your towards motivation.

• “I want to get a new post out on Substack.”

• “I want to make time for myself in the mornings.”

• “I want to build more intimacy with this person.”

• “I want to remove this limiting belief.”

• “I want to improve my current mood.”

This question can also be used to transform an obstacle (or complaint) into a precision towards motivation:

• “My subscriber growth has stalled” becomes “I want to get more subscribers this week.”

• “I’m getting too distracted by my phone” becomes “I want to sustain focus while I’m doing X.”

• “I’m paralyzed by social anxiety” becomes “I want a set of effective strategies for being comfortable around people.”

• “I’m not manifesting the money I want.” becomes “I want to identify my manifestation blocks and solve them.”

By using the frame of a concrete, specific outcome that you want, you give your brain a target to aim for. You also begin putting out the energy that will attract opportunities and resources to you. (See the “magnetism” section of this post for more details.)

Once you have your core want - the thing you want to do, be, or have - you can then think of how to move that forward using your agency.

Now we progress to the next question.

#2 - Where do I have power?

Personal power is where and how you can execute your agency. This is where you will make meaningful progress on weakening the Default Mode Network and replacing it with taking action.

If you aren’t accessing much of your personal power on a day-to-day basis, this will be difficult because you’re not going to have the brain maps to see how much power you have. This is where the very common “I don’t know what to do” thought patterns come from.

So you’re going to build those brain maps with this step of the process.

I’ll give you some scaffolding you can use to make that work.

Imagine you’re driving home from somewhere, and your car breaks down or runs out of gas. You pull over onto the side of the road.

It’s highly unlikely you’d just sit there for the rest of the day. You have a want (“I want to get home”), so you would instinctively do something about it.

Things you might do: Try and restart the car. Call for a tow truck. Call a friend or family member to pick you up. If your phone battery is dead, you’d walk to somewhere with a phone, or wave down another driver and ask to use their phone.

If you didn’t have money for the repair, you might ask a friend or family member for a loan. Or cut back on expenses to make room for the repair. Or get a ride from someone or take the bus until you had the money to get your car fixed.

But in other arenas, you will not. You will metaphorically sit in the car and be caught up in some form of limiting belief that says you don’t know what to do, or that you don’t have much in the way of options, or that some obstacle is just too big for you to overcome.

And you will sit there with your dreams and goals never moving forward, because no one has trained you to notice all the areas where you have power to act.

That’s what I’m training you to do today. To be aware of your power in every situation and circumstance by default.

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When you deliberately ask the question “Where do I have power?”, sometimes the answer will come to you immediately. In some situations, you don’t see your power because it didn’t occur to you to look, and awareness is curative. (That “cure” is actually a shift from reactive default-mode processing to task-positive activation.)

When it doesn’t immediately click, you’ll need a workaround to get your brain thinking more expansively. A simple way to do this is to imagine someone else in the same situation as you are, saying to you, “I want X, but I’m not sure what to do next”, or “I have this obstacle, and I’m not sure what to do about it.”

Think of what you’d say to them, and notice that you are using the language of telling someone else where they have the power to do or the power to ask for. Then use that as a template for reminding yourself where your own power is.

(Pro tip: If this is particularly difficult, imagine a person you don’t like bitching about how they don’t know what to do with their problem or goal. Notice the voice in your head that says “OMG, why don’t you try ______.” Boom. That’s where you have power.)

If you’re stuck, stalled, or roadblocked on anything, it’s ultimately because you’re not tapping into your personal power. Most people do not have a stable sense of exactly how much power they have - power to think, to research, to change their perspective, to try a different approach, to ask, to communicate, to try, period.

You have to expand your mental map of what is actually in your list of capabilities. This is how.

Now that you know what you want, and you know where you have power, you’ll ask the final question:

#3 - What will I do next?

When you want something, you won’t always intuitively progress to thinking “and so I’m going to…”. Your DMN is not optimized for execution. It loops internally through simulations, evaluations, and retrospection… not action.

So you’ll use this question switch from the DMN to the TPN (Task-Positive Network) and complete your train of thought.

About half the time, this question will give you the immediate answer you need. Decide to write the post now. Wake up 20 minutes earlier tomorrow for some personal time. Read that book on social anxiety and do the exercises. Leave my phone in the other room when I’m working.

The other half of the time, you may find yourself getting fuzzy-headed, or blanking out or locking. That’s normal - it’s pushback from the DMN, which isn’t capable of making those kinds of active decisions. What you’re attempting to do is steer your plane manually, and the DMN is the autopilot.

When that happens, you simply decide to take a next action to break the stalemate. If the stakes are low, you could take any action that occurs to you - the purpose here is to reinforce action and agency. Just do something to get you moving forward on your intention or moving forward on solving your problem.

If the stakes are higher, then you’re going to want to look at 2 or 3 potential next actions and consider which one is the best choice from that bunch. Then do it.

That’s how you re-train yourself to have and use more agency.

The process is simple:

• identify what you want

• identify where you have power to do or ask, and

• take a next action.

Even a small amount of practice on this will create neuroplastic changes in your prefrontal cortex and increase your cognitive flexibility. And that will unlock your ability to see more options for using your power in every situation you find yourself in.

That will also create a dopaminergic reaction - the anticipation of succeeding in what you choose to do - making it even more likely you’ll repeat agency-driven thinking in the future.

Once that starts kicking in, you’ll experience what it’s like to break away from autopilot mode and begin automatically using your personal power until it’s your everyday default.

And when you achieve that, there’s nothing you can’t manifest.

Questions, as always, are welcome in the comments. I answer every one.

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I recently posted how to accelerate your manifesting wins by targeting the limiting beliefs that stop you from taking expansive action, and a subscriber DM’d me about their difficulties doing it.

I talked them through a shortcut (and it worked for them), so I’ll teach it to you today.

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We’ll start with an absolutely ridiculous scenario to set context.

Let’s say I had a limiting belief about Substack.

Imagine you and I know each other. I hear about your adventures on Substack, and I’m pretty interested in what you’re doing there. At some point you say to me, “Blackwolf, dude, you should start your own Substack!”

I look at you blankly for a beat, and sheepishly look down at the floor.

“Yeah, I wish I could…”, says I, “but I just don’t have the $1,000 application fee… and I’m not a member of the SWG (Substack Writer’s Guild)... and if they find out I’m over 30, they’ll throttle me in the algorithm. They only want younger writers, anyway.”

You stare at me.

You question my sanity.

You ever so imperceptibly back away from me, just a half-step, so that I don’t notice what you’re doing.

“Um… Blackwolf”, says you, “None of that… none of that is true. You can start your Substack tonight. They don’t make you pay a fee, there’s no age restrictions, and that Guild you’re talking about… dude, that isn’t even real.”

I look up at you, shrug my shoulders, and give you my best beleaguered frown.

“Yeah, I know,” says I. “But it just feels that way.”

You have just met every type of limiting belief under the sun.

The phrase “limiting belief” is a misnomer. What we call limiting beliefs are not the same thing as genuine beliefs, like your belief in gravity or your belief that after you take money out of an ATM, you have less money in your bank account.

When we have a real belief, it’s generally pretty emotionless. Our true beliefs about how the world works are so grounded in reality that there’s not much reason to invest emotion in them. We just operate according to them, and if we find out we’re wrong, we generally adapt pretty quickly.

If I truly believed you had to pay a grand to get on Substack and I was wrong, I’d be thrilled to be wrong.

But “limiting beliefs” are different. We have a strong, willful, emotional attachment to them being “true”. And we resist changing them even in the face of evidence to the contrary.

Which means they aren’t limiting beliefs at all. They’re factual errors or opinions, masquerading as fact.

Let’s look at the list of examples from my previous post:

• This won’t work for me

• My work isn’t good enough

• It’s too late for me / I missed the window

• Someone already did this better

• Nobody / Not enough people will pay for this

• I’m not the kind of person who succeeds at this

• If I put myself out there, I’ll be judged / rejected

• Making money requires burnout / overwhelm

Look at them. Notice they are all opinions or emotionally charged stories.

But they aren’t facts, or truths. They are essentially feeling statements.

And all of them are designed to protect us from feeling any emotion or sensation we don’t want to feel - risk, uncertainty, vulnerability, exposure, discomfort.

They are the things we say, think, or feel in order to not take the risk of doing the thing.

Which means calling them “limiting beliefs” is B.S.

These “beliefs” exist to prevent us from using our brains to think about what we’re saying and considering whether it’s factually true. They are self-brainwashing propaganda that our psyches created to protect us from pain when we were younger than we are now, and we are so used to “believing” them, that we never fact-check them.

On a neuroscience level, this is a predictive error minimization loop in the brain. Your brain wants to reduce uncertainty and risk, so it creates a loop that will keep you from doing anything that might even kinda sorta maybe somehow lead you into threat territory.

This becomes increasingly entrenched when we’ve suffered any kind of trauma, abuse, or neglect. Trauma distorts our perception of reality, and changes our views on what should be considered threatening (and how much personal power we have over that perceived danger).

We develop these self-hypnotizing statements to keep us away of what our subconscious views as threatening - either physically or existentially. That coping mechanism served us well when we didn’t have as much personal power as we do now, or when certain threats were more dangerous.

But the work of healing from trauma involves resetting those distorted perceptions, which allows us to operate from a more expansive reality.

Ultimately, what we need to do in order to interrupt these predictive error minimization loops is to challenge them ruthlessly with basic, six-grade-level debate skills.

In which I take a brief aside to talk about therapy

In Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) there is a core premise that goes something like this:

An enormous number of life problems (and manifesting blocks) get solved by coming back to this core premise: feelings do not equal facts.

Say it with me 3 times, like we’re summoning Beetlejuice:

Feelings are not facts.

Feelings are not facts.

Feelings are not facts.

This is your magical mantra to break out of the Default Mode Network and take back your agency.

The DMN is the set of brain regions that run internal stories about ourselves.

Those stories and narratives get encoded through repetition, and “feel” accurate because they’re so frequent and familiar. Our brain brainwashes itself.

So let’s take this out of deep psychology, and make it really, really basic.

“Limiting beliefs” are just emotional reasoning trying to pass itself off as logical reasoning. That emotional reasoning strips us of our agency (personal power) and the potential to use all our adult skills and resources to expand our lives.

These emotionally-charged beliefs are often reinforced by the amygdala, which tags them with threat or shame valence. We have to intentionally use our prefrontal cortex to override or reconsider those thoughts. Otherwise, they’ll continue to dominate our behavior, because they’re coded (inaccurately) as protective.

To break a limiting belief, all you need to do is three things:

1. Acknowledge that it’s a emotional reasoning / feeling statement, not a fact.

2. Discredit it.

3. Repeat step 2 until you don’t even kind of take it seriously anymore.

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Option 1 for discrediting: attempt to prove it to a jury.

This option helps you quickly realize the gaping plot holes in the “belief”. You imagine you’re in front of a jury, trying to prove how absolutely true your statement is.

(The goal of this exercise is to rapidly help you realize you don’t have much of a case, so you can be freed of this maladaptive belief. It’s to get you to hear yourself and wake up out of the haze of emotional reasoning and then be awesome for the rest of your life.)

A quick caveat: If you’re deeply traumatized or entrenched in survival mode, don’t go to this option first. It can be destabilizing unless you have a decent foundation of using self-awareness to break out of trauma. Water test: if you can easily laugh at yourself, you can use this option. Otherwise, jump to Option Two.

Now, let’s work this through.

Let’s say your limiting belief is of the “someone already did this better, so I can’t compete” variety. You want to put your work out there, but someone else is (in your opinion), already doing it better than you could. So there’s no point in you trying it, or feeling confident in your potential to succeed.

So now you’re going to prove it to the jury.

But there’s just one catch - you have to prove it within a shadow of a doubt, so you are going to have to make it universally true. The entire jury will have to take your side.

You’re going to need to tell the jury that you can prove to them that other people’s work is objectively superior to yours.

You’ll have to show them the very best of your work - what you put your best effort into - and compare it to specific pieces of other people’s work. This way you take them through point by point, and prove that it is a verifiable fact that their work is superior. You’ll win them over when they realize you’ve done your homework on this.

(At this stage, you’ll begin to realize you don’t have as much of a case as you thought, and the emotional reasoning will start to lose it’s grip.)

And you’ll also need to make an airtight case on what “better” means. This will probably mean breaking it down to what “better” means in business works so that they can truly understand that the only way you could succeed is if you were objectively better in every single arena. Anything less means you’ll fail.

(At this stage, you’ll begin remembering that’s not how business works, and the emotional reasoning will lose its grip further.)

Finally, you’ll need to establish this as a precedent for the rest of the world. You’ll need to convince the jury that no one, ever, no matter who they are, should ever attempt to compete in that space unless they are better on every front than the people you’re comparing yourself to. It’s a public service really. To keep other people from failing, you must warn them of the dangers so they don’t suffer needlessly.

(At this stage, you’ll begin to realize that doing this would make you an asshole.)

As you work through Option 1, you’ll dissolve that emotional reasoning a little more in each stage, until you realize that the “limiting belief” is simply an ill-thought-out opinion. And then you can move forward.

(Of course, it’s going to come back. It’s a thought pattern you’ve lived with for years. So when it does come back, you just remind yourself that you’ve presented this to the jury before, and it will begin losing it’s neural traction.)

Now, let’s look at the other option.

Option 2 for discrediting: attempt to disprove it to a jury.

This one is much more of an expansive approach, and well suited to those with trauma or entrenched belief. I’m goddamn steeped in C-PTSD, so I use this option as my go-to.

Here’s how to do it:

Start with a hypothesis that is the opposite of the limiting belief. That is what you’re working to prove.

So if your limiting belief is “someone already did this better, so I can’t compete”, then you turn that into “even if someone is doing this better, I can still compete.”

Then you look for arguments to support that case. An easy entry here, if you have resistance, is to imagine you’re trying to disprove someone else’s limiting belief. (We’re generally more supportive of others than ourselves, so you can leverage that.)

Samples to support “even if someone is doing this better, I can still compete”:

• “If someone is better at X, I could compete on Y instead.”

• “Better is a matter of opinion, and there could be a lot of people out there who might like what I create more than those people I’m comparing myself to.”

• “If I’m truly not as good as I want to be in a specific area, I could train to improve that.”

• “Many, many people succeed even though they’re not the best at what they do.”

• “Now that I think of it, a lot of people who are definitively worse than I am at X are actually successful. So being “better” can’t be the only factor.”

• “I’ve succeeded at many things before even though I wasn’t the best.”

• “There are some things I’m actively better at than my competition. If I focus on those things, I could potentially be seen as better than them.”

• “Most people aren’t obsessing about who is ‘better’ - they like who they like.”

As you work through the steps to prove your hypothesis (for the goal of discrediting the limiting belief), you’ll expand your view of the world, and reality, back to it’s natural dimensions.

This kind of thinking directly combats the contracted thinking that leads to limiting beliefs, and as long as you repeat the process when the limiting beliefs come back into your head, you’ll weaken the old patterns and strengthen the new ones.

Note: Option 2 is not the same as “positive thinking”.

If you’ve been around the block a few times, you may have noticed that a number of the examples I just gave are the things people tell you to say when you are trying to use “positive self-talk” or create “a more positive attitude.”

I’m not advocating positivity. There’s nothing wrong with positive self talk, or a positive attitude, but with my approach, you don’t need to be positive, or feel anything.

My examples above are either facts, or they are based in the realities of cause and effect.

In CBT, this is called “reality testing”, and it’s how you evaluate the accuracy of your thoughts, beliefs or perceptions against objective evidence and external reality.

You check to see if something is true, or if there are other interpretations, or you consider how other people could view your situation. It breaks you out of inaccurate thinking.

And that’s how you destroy a limiting belief in one sitting.

Both Option 1 and Option 2 leverage metacognition - thinking about how you are thinking. This activates your dorsolateral prefrontal cortex and anterior cingulate cortex, the regions of your brain that handle error detection and executive override.

This is how we question old neural models and install better, more powerful ones.

Treat limiting beliefs like fake news, disinformation or propaganda, and you can solve them overnight.

This process works so quickly because disproving obvious lies isn’t that hard to do.

But the one thing, above all, is you have to decide to disprove them, which means you have to resist the temptation to “make your case” for why the limiting belief is worth keeping.

Defending a limiting belief is acting in bad faith - saying you’re trying to discredit it and then coming back to support it. Act in good faith and discredit those lies like your future depends on it. Because it does.

It takes deliberate, intentional practice.

But not a lot.

Once you’re willing to do the practice, you’ll start getting results you can see almost immediately.

And then you’ll unlock manifesting like a pro.

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Whenever I ask people what they want to manifest, money is either at the top of the list or comes up within three minutes or so. But when I ask them how it’s going for them, that’s when they start getting sheepish and coy.

They don’t like to talk about the specifics of what they’re doing, thinking and feeling. They don’t want to look at where they might be going wrong. But that’s going to slam the brakes on getting results.

You have to look at the mechanics of manifesting to leverage them properly. You have to know how to do it right to pinpoint anywhere you’re doing it wrong, so you can correct it. This is as true in golf as it is in manifesting.

Most people’s roadblocks to manifesting money are going to be cognitive and behavioral issues: easy to identify, and easy to fix. And once they’re fixed, the money starts flowing.

If you want to manifest money faster, here’s how you can give yourself an instant tune-up.

Make your intentions epically resonant.

Intentions get their strength and power from resonance.

Resonance in this context means emotional salience: the alignment between your goal and your neurophysiological arousal. When you pair up your intention with vivid mental imagery, emotional satisfaction, and behavioral linkage, it becomes a high-salience target for the brain’s attentional and motivational networks.

The more resonance you create, the more powerful your energy and vibration get, and that’s where you get truly magnetic.

Think of the way your body reacts when a favorite song hits its emotional peak: epic builds, 3-part harmony, the “boomy” part. You’re flooded with goosebumps, alertness, energy. That’s the neurochemical signal of salience.

Like that. You want to create your own epic build, a 3-note chord that energizes you, attracts other people’s attention and makes the universe put you on its playlist.

Here’s how you create your 3 musical notes:

• Have a concrete plan for the money. If you’re manifesting $100K in income, know specifically how you are going to use that money. Don’t pad your intentions with abstract round numbers, it won’t energize you (and the universe ignores lazy thinking).

• Pre-connect with the satisfaction having that money will give you. If you’re going to pay off debt, upgrade your stuff, or buy an RV, make sure you can envision the satisfaction of that. You don’t have to experience nirvana, you just have to legitimately look forward to it like you would look forward to getting a bonus check. You need to be able to feel something.

• Link your actions to the moneyflow. Whatever you’re going to do to attract that money needs to be imbued with the end result. Whether it’s starting a business, opening yourself up to receiving gifts, or trusting that the impossible might just be possible, link the time you spend taking action or reinforcing beliefs to that money coming in.
  
  This is called priming. Priming activates associative networks in your brain that prioritize congruent cues in your environment. It also biases your prefrontal cortex toward behavioral persistence, even when (and especially when) you’re facing uncertainty.

These 3 notes activate dopamine, build motivation-through-anticipation and get the reticular activating system in your brain primed to keep you at your best, most alert self. You’ll do more, enjoy it more, and put out the kind of energy that makes people buy tickets to your show.

Target limiting beliefs that gate execution.

If resonance is the accelerator pedal, limiting beliefs are the brakes. Any belief you have that limits you will work in opposition to your goals and slow you down (or stop you dead in your tracks).

Most of what’s written on limiting beliefs about money falls into beliefs about money itself. But there’s a hidden set of beliefs no one talks about - beliefs that are about the effectiveness or worth of the actions that lead to money.

These are execution-gating beliefs, and they are neurologically and behaviorally more relevant to manifesting than abstract “money will make you evil” narratives.

Here’s a batch of them I hear about the most:

• This won’t work for me

• My work isn’t good enough

• It’s too late for me / I missed the window

• Someone already did this better

• Nobody / Not enough people will pay for this

• I’m not the kind of person who succeeds at this

• If I put myself out there, I’ll be judged / rejected

• Making money requires burnout / overwhelm

These execution-gating beliefs fall into three basic domains:

• Self-efficacy (belief that you can do this)

• Task worth (belief this action will pay off for you)

• Social cost (fear of judgment or rejection)

These are maladaptive beliefs that kill your agency in a thousand little ways. They’ll interfere with your ability to act effectively in the direction of your intentions. They’ll reinforce approach-avoidance behavior and directly hamper dopamine release, effort allocation, and memory encoding.

These beliefs fragment your behavioral chain, and you end up with a disconnect between your intention and the required execution. You won’t be able to manifest money well while they’re in play.

You need to look inside and discover how these kinds of beliefs show up for you, and intentionally, systematically target them for reversal. Replace them with adaptive beliefs that are going to help you navigate reality successfully.

Question them ruthlessly. Challenge them until they cave. Become a lawyer who is out to destroy them, and prove them wrong at every turn.

These are the beliefs that hold you back from developing the three core skills of manifesting - agency, magnetism, and reality selection. Every limiting belief you dismantle will be an unlock for getting money flowing to you.

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Build a deliberate reinforcement system for agency wins.

Your nervous system needs a reward loop to manifest money. It’s how you stay motivated, focused, and consistent on doing the things that lead to money.

Unreinforced behaviors die out in a phenomenon called behavioral extinction. You try something, don’t feel good or get feedback, and then you stop doing it. Even if it was working or had long-term payoff.

So you need to intentionally reinforce your active behaviors. You need to make sure your actions towards making or attracting money trigger a reward, internally or externally. This makes your brain see them as worth devoting energy towards repeating.

Dopamine is going to be your key neuromodulator here. It spikes when there’s a perceived reward for action, especially if the action is uncertain or novel (aka, trying new things, taking a small risk, moving outside your comfort zone). That’s where you can leverage it to greate breakthroughs.

Reward yourself for doing new / challenging things, and your basal ganglia (which helps encode habit loops) will use those positive feedback signals to reinforce the habits. But without a reward marker - emotional, social, or material - these loops are tagged for pruning instead of consolidation. That’s behavioral extinction.

Here are a few ways you can start building your own deliberate reinforcement systems:

• Track what you accomplish. Visually seeing how often you’re completing an action that leads to or attracts money reinforces that you’re doing what you need to do. That’s going to give you dopamine rewards for self-efficacy, self-esteem, and self-trust. Track agency-driven effort, not just results.

• Also track what leads to results. If you send an email and make money, post a message and get engagement, make a proposal and get a “yes”, track it. Be pleased by it. Notice it and let the dopamine do its job, even if you have to talk yourself up with congratulations. You deserve it.

• Reflect on what specifically worked. Consider what it is that you did that led to a positive result and focus on it for a while. Reinforce the relevance and link it to the results. That’s how we transition from “lucky break” to repeatable cues.

• Keep results cumulative and visual. Have something you can physically see that shows your progress - a chart, a success journal, a place where you track habit streaks. Reinforce progress and connect some level of satisfaction to it.

• Anchor progress with a behavioral or emotional reward. Buy yourself something token. Do do something intensely physical, like a victory dance. Look yourself in the mirror and say “You fucking did it.” Take yourself out for a drink. Don’t let some maladaptive limiting belief hold you back from rewarding yourself.

This is how you train yourself to use your agency.

With even a rudimentary, prototype version of a reinforcement system, you’ll start seeing results and feeling that dopamine*. So don’t overthink it, just start doing something to get that train moving.

(*A note about dopamine: Dopamine doesn’t reward success. Instead, it flags actions and stimuli that might lead to future reward. It builds wanting, not liking.)

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What are you going to do right now to manifest money faster?

These three angles of approach are going to start unlocking money manifesting for you - all you need to do is exercise your agency and do something from what I’ve taught you so far.

Pick one thing. Decide to do it now. Tell me in the comments and I’ll give you some of that positive feedback that will help reinforce your action feedback loop.

I’ll see you there.

Questions, as always, are welcome in the comments. I answer every one.

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Yours in training,
Blackwolf

The world is changing, harder and faster than any other time in living memory. Global systems and cultural models we relied on for the last 40 years are collapsing, and the next 40 are going to be…

Well, that’s the thing about a global meta-crisis. No one knows.

At the same time most people have been on a decades-long downward slide of becoming progressively more passive, fragile, and avoidant. So they’re not adapting to the changes that have happened, and they won’t be prepared for the changes that are coming.

Hot take: A whole lot of the 8 billion are not going to make it through the changes.

But if you’re smart, you can.

Manifesting will get you through the global crisis.

When massive change is in play, the only ones to thrive are those who are flexible, have agency, and an established growth mindset. This describes people who manifest. People who act and pivot and move and choose based on the reality they want, not on what other people tell them is possible. That’s why those who manifest, win.

As the systems that make up our current “life as we know it” continue to change (and collapse), you are going to have to find new ways to get what you need and want, and you’re going to have to do things differently than you do now.

You’ll need to break old beliefs and paradigms and stretch past the prison of your current comfort zones. You’ll need to see the true possibilities for getting what you want - and intentionally draw it into your reality.

Which is exactly what manifesting does.

A core principle of manifesting is creating a new reality by surrendering your old, limited, constrained beliefs about life, and replacing them with expansion, activity, and personal power.

You will need to attract new channels of earning money, new ways of securing and maintaining resources, and new ways of becoming powerful enough to come out on top.

If you want to thrive, expand, and have what you want while the rest of the world shrinks and worries and collapses, you need to use (and improve) the three core skills at the heart of manifesting and attraction.

First, you need to develop agency.

Agency is your capacity to intentionally initiate, direct, and regulate behavior toward a specific outcome, based on internal models of causality and consequence (cause and effect).

Or, in layman’s terms, you need to be able to decide to do shit and then reliably go do it.

(Note: my 3-step process to build agency is available in this post.)

Your average person spends their days in the Default Mode Network, the neuroscience term for “checked out, can’t even, just going through the default motions of habit”. They’re in a constant state of drift and passivity.

Instead of being proactive (deciding/choosing what they want and going for it), they react to what’s in front of them. Infinite scrolling, getting sucked into news feeds or Netflix autoplays or just running the same every day patterns that aren’t getting them closer to what they want.

This used to be a minor to medium problem 20 years ago. Once the internet and social media came into play, the Default Mode Network “autopilot mode” gradually became endemic. Constant use of both of those channels have created 20 years of passivity-building bicep curls for the DMN, and it has become far stronger than agency in most of the population.

So to win at manifesting, and secure your future, you need to get your agency back.

To develop your agency, you have to build new defaults that are the opposite of autopilot mode. These are simple, but powerful, actions like:

• Thoughtfully considering what you truly want (outside of the defaults of media and culture influences)

• Committing to specific, aligned intentions

• Taking action in the direction of your intentions

• Initiating new behaviors, choices, patterns without being prompted by others

• Increasing your risk tolerance for discomfort, failures or unpleasant experiences

Agency is essentially doing what you want, because it serves your important outcomes. As opposed to reacting to what’s in front of you or operating based on moods or impulses.

Those who have agency (and continually develop their agency) get everything in life because they are in motion, in a specific direction. You already know people like that; now you must become more like them.

When you repeatedly act with a clear intention in mind, you signal your brain that your intention is important, and it will begin to suppress the Default Mode Network and its competing, oppositional impulses.

Without agency, intentions stall at the level of fantasy. Intentions have no built-in, reliable execution mechanism. So we use agency to stimulate the dopaminergic circuits in your brain that drive motivational salience. This is what makes you feel like acting towards your intentions is something worth doing each day.

As you build your agency, you build positive, goal-directed feedback loops that create an upward spiral.

Agency, as a skill, is something that you can build and engineer, and I’ll write extensively on that in the future. Subscribe to get notified.

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When you commit to increasing your agency, you do the things that will send the signals out to the universe (and anyone who comes into contact with you) that accelerate the manifesting process. And you begin to cross over into the next of the three core skills…

Next, you need to build your magnetism / attraction.

From a manifesting perspective, magnetism / attraction (I’ll use the words interchangeably) operates on two different levels.

There’s self-directed magnetism, which covers things like changing your inner state, sculpting your attentional filters, and directing your behavior so that relevant information, opportunities, and ideas register and become accessible.

This is where the phrase “when the student is ready, the teacher appears” comes from. The teacher was always there. The teacher just didn’t register with the person in pre-student mode.

When you increase your internal alignment with your intentions and combine that with agency, you will “attract” more of what you need from whatever you encounter in the world.

You’ll see more of what will help you and contribute to your goals, and you will generate more ideas and spontaneous insights that are synchronized with your intentions.

Inside your brain, your reticular activating system (RAS) will re-filter the world’s inputs so that it picks up more of what you want and need. You’ll prime it to help you stumble across “lucky” encounters and “lucky” trains of thought. Your actual neurology will alter to create neurophysiological and behavioral coherence, so that it becomes a magnet for sensory inputs that benefit you.

(I’ll cover a number of ways in future posts to engineer your own luck by ramping up your internal coherence.)

Then there’s other-directed magnetism, which involves intentionally altering how others perceive and respond to you. You do this by using your agency to sculpt and refine your energetic, emotional and cognitive states, in the same way you would sculpt your upper body at the gym.

These three states are otherwise known by manifesting terms like vibration and frequency and alignment. When you take control of them and consciously develop them, you send out energetic and behavioral cues as well as social signaling patterns that draw other people to you through the elements of social neuroscience.

Other-directed magnetism is incredibly powerful because it alters how people engage with you. We’re just primates, and primates are deeply attuned to nonverbal cues that indicate confidence, status, safety, desirability, etc..

All those times when you met someone, and you can just feel the vibe coming off of them, and you’re drawn to them and whatever they’re interested in. It lights up your own dopaminergic circuits. You want to help them, do things for them, support them. It’s a compulsion, almost.

That’s because your neurobiology is picking up on their embodiment. Their microexpressions, their posture, their voice tone, their goal-oriented alignment, their emotions are all visibly internally congruent, and you start resonating with them.

This triggers other primates’ to prioritize their attention and approach the visibly congruent primates.

We’re all primates, so you can do the same thing when you increase your agency and self-directed magnetism.

When you're holding a strong internal belief in your own personal capacity to cause change, your behavior shifts toward proactivity, risk tolerance, and persistence. (That's well-developed agency.)

Others interpret this as “attractive” or “magnetic,” because it generates a predictive certainty that feels neurologically compelling. Your internal magnetism literally creates an attractive behavioral signature that generates an environmental response we call magnetic.

So boost the hell out of your agency, and you'll naturally build the foundations of magnetism and attraction. Your agency will create a state of internal confidence (which is really dopamine-modulated self-belief), and your brain will begin regulating your goal pursuit and reward salience circuits.

I’ll write more on how to do that and link to it when it’s ready.

Finally, you need to get good at reality selection.

Reality selection is possibly the most important of these three core skills, because it literally changes the world you live in and is the gating factor for how much you’ll receive with your manifesting efforts.

The concept of reality selection isn’t a formal term in manifesting (it’s my own term) so I’ll have to take it from the top. I’ll use a metaphor to bridge it.

Let’s say you’re moving to a very large city. There’s a wide range of neighborhoods: affluent to impoverished. There’s a wide range of zones: Downtown, industrial, residential, outskirts. There’s varying levels of proximity to places you want to be: parks, shopping centers, bars, theaters.

Each of the different neighborhoods has a different personality or vibe. There are some parts of the city that are particularly safe… or particularly dangerous. There are some areas that are more suitable for boring middle-class families, and others more suitable for single people looking to have some fun after dark.

So picture a huge city: New York, Tokyo, London, Toronto, Los Angeles. Take your pick.

In any one of these cities of millions of people, imagine ten different houses or apartments that are scattered across different areas of the city.

Let’s say there’s one person in each of those locations. Each of those ten people is going to have a very different experience of what that city is like.

In other words, a person living in a dangerous, run down part of Manhattan is going to have a very different “reality” than the person living in an uptown penthouse. What they believe life and reality are in New York have little crossover.

That’s why when people move to a big city, they’re very selective about where they choose to live, because “New York” isn’t one homogenized thing. They select the New York reality they’re moving into.

The same thing happens when they furnish and decorate their apartment, develop their social circles, and the habits of what they do for work and fun. They’re selecting one “reality” after another. It’s either consciously chosen, or they just fall into it and find themselves somewhere with the friends they fell in together with. And they start thinking that’s life, not the place and culture they’re in.

But their reality would have been very, very different if they had made different choices. Taken this job instead of that one. Met this friend instead of another one. Chose a minimalist style in their home instead of a shabby chic one. Took up reading instead of hiking with a local group.

Whoever we think we are, whatever we think life and reality are… it’s either what we consciously thought to believe, or what we fell into. (Or picked up from other people.)

That’s why we have all these limiting beliefs, biases, attitudes, and prejudices. It’s also why we have all the positive aspects of our mindset, too.

And it can all change whenever we decide to change it. It’s a cliché when someone moves to a new city, or gets divorced, or gets laid off, and they become an entirely different person with a completely new trajectory in life.

That’s because reality is almost entirely subjective.

Gravity? That’s immutable reality. That’s objective. You can’t really have an opinion about it, and it’s never affected by your mood, attitude, or upbringing.

But our beliefs? Whether there are still any good jobs, or good partners, or good opportunities left? Whether it’s too late for something, or whether something’s difficult or impossible or easy or satisfying? Or whether we’re skilled, talented, worthy or intelligent?

That’s all entirely subjective. As the Dude said, “It’s just your opinion, man.” Our opinions have nothing to do with actual reality.

But it has everything to do with how our brains prioritize perceiving reality.

Our brains will prioritize (and defend) whatever reality we currently believe in. It’s already efficiently encoded in our neurons, and the brain does not want to invest electrical energy in anything to the contrary.

So even if your beliefs are limiting you and harming you in the long term, if it doesn’t affect your survival in this calendar day, your brain doesn’t care.

So we have to force the change by retraining it. We have to intentionally select the opinion of reality we want to install, and override the current neural model in the same way we’d learn a foreign language if we were moving to another country. It doesn’t matter what language you currently speak – you’re learning a new one if you want to thrive.

That’s reality selection. In order to manifest all of your intentions and desires, you consciously choose which signals, stimuli, meanings, and interpretations you will prioritize. Instead of a “positive mindset”, you select the facets of reality that you want to use as a lens.

You intentionally install abundant mindsets and growth mindsets. You intentionally construct cognitive biases to serve specific outcomes. You intentionally engage in input curation and change what media, conversations, and environments you are exposed to.

• On the strategic level, reality selection is going to change your baseline perceptual environment. These changes compound over time so your network, your opportunities, your ideation, your optimism bias will all become skewed toward fertile ground.

• On the tactical level, in real-time on a rolling day to day basis, reality selection is going to increase your brain’s responsiveness to weak signals of opportunity or alignment, and reduce your tendencies to react to irrelevant noise (threats that are not actually threats, dead-end distractions, emotional traps, counterproductive impulses).

That’s how reality selection works at the top-level. When you intentionally select your reality, you direct the trajectory of your life. And it starts taking effect the moment you decide to consciously do it. It just takes practice and dedication to install the new reality so that the new one becomes the cognitively efficient path, and you don’t have to think about it anymore.

That’s why the future belongs to those willing to manifest.

The truth is, throughout history the future has always belonged to the people who consciously direct their destiny through manifesting principles.

Some people have taken the metaphysical path, and viewed it as pure mysticism or quantum mechanics. “You bring about what you think about.”

Some people have taken the pragmatic, pre-neuroscience path, and operated on the principles of visible cause and effect. “The harder I work, the luckier I get.”

Others, like me, take a hybrid approach. I’ll give you the neuroscience and the social science and behavioral engineering, but I’ll throw in some mysticism too. Because I’ve found the more I believe in the universe, the luckier I get.

You do whatever you want.

But know this: As the world changes, some things are going to get far better and expansive, and some things are going to get far worse and collapse.

What that means to you, and the trajectory your life takes, will be entirely dependent on how much you commit to developing the three core skills I talked about.

• Agency, to always be proactively moving in the direction of what you want.

• Magnetism, to draw ideas, options, opportunities and resources to you.

• Reality selection, to make sure you live in the reality-neighborhood that will best serve your goals and intentions.

Most people won’t develop any of these skills. Their Default Mode Networks will keep their heads in the sand as the world will become increasingly hard for them to thrive in. Until they’re all out of options and can’t access their personal power because it’s atrophied.

Don’t be one of them. Wake up and manifest. Ramp up your personal power.

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