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Less tolerance.

Less explaining.

Less interest in carrying what isn’t yours.

When things that are supposed to add to your life start to feel like something you have to carry, something is off.

Partnership. Work. Family. Even how you see yourself.

At some point, you stop arguing.

You start doing the math.

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